Transcript
[0:00] have you ever felt that in your life
[0:03] there might have been so many things
[0:05] that you've achieved so many things that
[0:07] you've done and still something feels
[0:12] empty there's a part of your life that
[0:14] you think by now it should feel better
[0:17] and in this series I'm gonna be looking
[0:20] at how do we resolve that how do we come
[0:22] to a state in our life where life
[0:26] actually starts feeling better how do we
[0:28] feel more joy more bliss more happiness
[0:32] we're going to be taking a journey a
[0:34] journey of soul searching a journey of
[0:37] examining our lives by looking at the
[0:41] verses of a composition by the third
[0:44] guru guru madoski called a nun side and
[0:47] I want you to think about this as an
[0:50] opportunity to reflect on some of the
[0:55] bigger questions in life reflect on what
[0:58] is my life really about
[1:00] [Music]
[1:09] an anti begins with the name and the
[1:13] title rogram Kelly Mahalo tiga the third
[1:18] guru or the Guru in the third house and
[1:20] the title Ananda and it begins with ik
[1:24] Onkar satgur prasad oneness vibrating
[1:28] infinitely known by the true guru's
[1:31] grace bliss has emerged oh my mother
[1:36] I have obtained the true guru the true
[1:40] guru was obtained with tranquility and
[1:42] songs of celebrations resound within the
[1:46] mind melodies and harmonies have come to
[1:50] sing the divine word sing the words of
[1:53] hurry those who have embedded this in
[1:57] their mind nanak says bliss has occurred
[2:01] I have found the true guru now a nun
[2:06] type is a verse I'm sure that you're all
[2:08] familiar with with certainly within the
[2:11] Sikh tradition it is sung on every
[2:15] single occasion at the end of every
[2:17] single ceremony whether it is a ceremony
[2:21] of joy or a ceremony of loss the anon
[2:25] side whether you're getting married
[2:27] whether a baby has been born or whether
[2:29] it's just your regular service that you
[2:32] go to a nun type is the one thing that
[2:34] is always being son so it's such an
[2:36] important composition that we need to
[2:38] understand and the opening line is a
[2:42] line of celebration it's a statement to
[2:45] mankind by the third guru guru amethyst
[2:49] you who's written this it's a statement
[2:51] to mankind that says hey listen up I've
[2:55] found true bliss so he starts by saying
[2:59] bliss has emerged and how has he found
[3:03] this true bliss he says I found the
[3:06] Bliss because I found the guru the true
[3:09] guru and it's a statement to mankind
[3:12] because we are always searching no
[3:16] matter what if you notice when you wake
[3:19] up in the morning that sir
[3:22] begins were always hunting for happiness
[3:25] were always on the lookout for the next
[3:29] thing that can give us this feeling of
[3:31] true bliss and it's because somewhere
[3:34] deep rooted within us we know that true
[3:37] bliss is actually possible there's a
[3:39] part of us that actually believes true
[3:42] bliss the experience of it is there it's
[3:46] it's it's achievable it's attainable we
[3:48] should be able to find it and we do so
[3:51] many things in our lives just to try and
[3:53] achieve that bliss and guru is saying
[3:55] that joy excitement pleasures that we
[4:00] experience in the world these things are
[4:03] temporary and he says I found something
[4:05] else I found bliss he uses this word
[4:08] Ananda and the word Anand almost means
[4:12] euphoria but not just because of
[4:17] something good that's happened in my
[4:19] life he's talking about something from a
[4:21] far deeper place within him or us at the
[4:23] core of his being he's saying I'm now
[4:27] euphoric right at the deep of who I am
[4:30] and it's not dependent on something
[4:32] external it's not dependent on our
[4:35] senses I'm not happy because I'm in a
[4:39] good mood today or I've got everything
[4:42] that I need or I've just listened to a
[4:44] great piece of music or read a great
[4:46] book that's not the reason why I'm in
[4:48] this euphoria there's another reason
[4:50] something else has given me this
[4:52] deep-rooted sense of bliss what is the
[4:55] experience of that he says when I'm in
[4:58] this bliss it feels like my mind is
[5:01] celebrating there are songs and melodies
[5:04] it feels like the whole world is now
[5:06] singing because I found something that
[5:09] gives me this experience so what is it
[5:14] that he's found what is the answer that
[5:18] gives you this true bliss that we all
[5:20] seem to be looking for and the answer is
[5:22] something called the true guru well
[5:26] what's the true guru and we'll notice as
[5:29] we go throughout the announcer that the
[5:31] entire message is about how something
[5:34] called the true
[5:35] is giving us this really deep-rooted
[5:38] sense of happiness and stillness and
[5:41] pleasure and peace that's unlike
[5:45] anything else that we've ever
[5:46] experienced so how do we get this
[5:49] what is this true guru that seems to be
[5:52] able to deliver something almost magical
[5:56] when we talk about a guru it's often
[5:59] something that puts people off the idea
[6:01] of having a spiritual guide and
[6:07] straightaway people feel concerned that
[6:10] we're being indoctrinated there seems to
[6:13] be some religion that you have to join
[6:15] or a cult and we worry when we hear some
[6:19] of this terminology because we haven't
[6:21] really understood what does it mean to
[6:23] have a guru in your life
[6:24] now the most important thing to
[6:26] understand is the Guru is not limited to
[6:30] a person the Guru isn't just one
[6:34] individual when we look at the writings
[6:39] of Guru Nanak Dev ji even he says I have
[6:43] a guru in my life so really we need to
[6:46] unpack this understanding look the most
[6:49] important spiritual passage within the
[6:54] Sikh tradition is the moon monther
[6:57] written by guru nanak dev ji and at the
[6:59] end of the movement their guru nanak
[7:01] says all of this wisdom and this oneness
[7:05] that I'm connected with is because of
[7:07] good Prasad and same again we see at the
[7:11] beginning of this an unsub verse equal
[7:13] car start the god Prasad there is this
[7:16] one vibration all throughout the
[7:19] universe but you only know it by the
[7:22] blessing of the true guru and throughout
[7:24] this announcer we're going to be looking
[7:25] at how do we understand this guru how do
[7:28] we get this guru in our life what does
[7:30] it mean so the first thing I want us to
[7:32] understand is guru nanak had a guru guru
[7:37] nanak has a guru in his life
[7:39] so guru is not limited to a person the
[7:43] guru is an idea that predates guru nanak
[7:46] dev ji it's an idea that's been around
[7:48] for tens of thousands of years so it's
[7:51] really important that we understand the
[7:53] deeper meaning of what it is the way I
[7:55] like to think about a guru is the Guru
[7:58] is like the essence of enlightenment
[8:01] it's like the spirit of enlightenment
[8:05] the Guru is a catalyst to waken us up
[8:10] and let's look at this word guru itself
[8:14] what does it actually mean the word guru
[8:16] can be split into two syllables gu
[8:20] andrew GU being darkness ruh being light
[8:24] so the Guru is someone or something that
[8:30] can take us away from our darkness into
[8:34] light and very often when we try and
[8:40] translate the word guru we translate it
[8:42] to something like a teacher but I like
[8:46] to think that a more accurate word for
[8:48] guru is the enlightener someone that
[8:51] transforms us something that awakens us
[8:54] so enlightener is a word that I think is
[8:57] the most closest thing that we can use
[8:59] to translate the word guru now what do
[9:03] we mean what is this darkness what is
[9:05] this light a lot of the time in
[9:08] spiritual language we use terminology
[9:11] like oneness the universal force and
[9:15] what that means is that the whole
[9:17] universe has an essence to it it has a
[9:21] spirit to it it has an aliveness to it
[9:24] and that aliveness belongs to all of us
[9:28] that aliveness is equally within you as
[9:31] it is within me whether you're religious
[9:34] or not whether you're spiritual or not
[9:35] it's equally inside a plant as it is
[9:38] inside a fish or a bird it's it's
[9:40] everywhere and it's everything it's not
[9:42] limited to one thing it's just the
[9:45] essence of the entire universe and
[9:47] that's been called a oneness and so many
[9:50] times in various spiritual traditions
[9:52] this oneness has been referred to as
[9:55] having the quality of light it's light
[9:58] it's bright it's radiant and the Guru
[10:02] is trying to get us to that light get us
[10:05] to that experience where we're also
[10:08] connected with this spirit of the
[10:10] universe and sometimes this has been
[10:13] used as the terminology God and I think
[10:16] for me personally I think the word God
[10:18] is a little bit limiting which is why
[10:20] the word oneness seems to encapsulate
[10:23] what we're trying to talk about a little
[10:25] bit better now guru is trying to bring
[10:27] us out of darkness into this light the
[10:30] Guru is the transformer from darkness to
[10:32] light now if this oneness is the light
[10:35] and this oneness is everywhere and is
[10:38] all around us as an inside of us at an
[10:40] inside you and me and everything else
[10:42] this oneness was there before time
[10:45] before the universe was created this
[10:47] oneness will always exist then if that's
[10:51] the light then what's the darkness
[10:53] what's the darkness that the Guru is
[10:54] trying to get us out of well the
[10:57] darkness is our mind the darkness is not
[11:01] knowing being in a unconscious state
[11:04] unawakened state unrealized mentality
[11:07] where we are completely ignorant of the
[11:11] light of the oneness so think about
[11:15] darkness to light being the difference
[11:19] between being asleep and being awake now
[11:23] they are very clearly two different
[11:24] states of being
[11:27] but the Guru has constantly reminded us
[11:30] that we are asleep without even knowing
[11:34] that we're asleep we are right now
[11:37] asleep because we are unaware of this
[11:42] oneness that we're connected with we
[11:44] don't really know about it we don't
[11:45] connect with it we don't know how to
[11:48] engage with it so the Guru is trying to
[11:51] get us to change our experience of life
[11:53] itself our mind on the other hand is
[11:56] completely oblivious to it so we are
[11:58] asleep and we are blind to what is
[12:04] really going on in the universe the
[12:06] universe is essentially this living
[12:10] breathing organism and again when I talk
[12:13] about the universe I'm talking about
[12:16] some
[12:16] that's even beyond the physical universe
[12:18] itself it doesn't matter that we are
[12:21] talking about it doesn't mean that we're
[12:23] talking about just the physical stars
[12:26] and planets of course that's the big
[12:28] part of the universe but when I talk
[12:29] about universe I talk about the wider
[12:31] sense of the word almost as though we're
[12:34] talking about the spirit of the universe
[12:36] itself the the essence of life itself
[12:39] our minds are completely unaware of this
[12:43] we don't spend any time engaging with it
[12:45] and so we don't realize that we are also
[12:49] part of that essence of the universe we
[12:51] are also part of that oneness and when
[12:55] we don't realize this we walk through
[12:58] life on our day to day basis always in
[13:01] our sense of me we are completely only
[13:05] focused on albro our bodies our families
[13:09] our careers our circumstances our
[13:13] worries all the things that are related
[13:16] to this individual body this is the only
[13:18] thing that we think is the most
[13:20] important thing in life and that's the
[13:22] ignorance that the goony is trying to
[13:23] get us away from that's the experience
[13:25] of life that the Guru is trying to say
[13:28] hey there's a better way of living life
[13:30] where you're not always just thinking
[13:32] about the me now a really important
[13:35] question that you might ask yourself is
[13:37] well what's wrong with just thinking
[13:39] about the me all the time
[13:40] this is where I live I live in this body
[13:43] when I wake up every day this is what I
[13:45] have to deal with my body my family my
[13:48] circumstances my job my career my
[13:50] finances my relationships these are the
[13:52] things that I have to worry about why do
[13:54] I need to think about this oneness well
[13:57] remember how we started this whole thing
[13:59] we talked about how we spend most of our
[14:03] life trying to fill our life with
[14:06] happiness we try to find happiness and
[14:08] the way we try and do it is we try and
[14:11] get lots of different things in our
[14:14] lives to work we try and fix so many
[14:16] different things so our finances are all
[14:18] just right and we have a good job that
[14:21] means that we have enough income coming
[14:22] in and we're not spending too much and
[14:24] we have the right people around us and
[14:26] we look after our health and we look
[14:29] after
[14:29] mental well-being so we are constantly
[14:33] spending all of our energy trying to
[14:36] find bliss because we are locked in this
[14:38] body of me this understanding of me and
[14:41] we use this me to go out there and find
[14:44] bliss because the me is looking for
[14:46] bliss the Guru is saying well if we
[14:49] address this understanding of the me
[14:51] itself the myself the me the I if we
[14:55] address this understanding so that
[14:57] you're spending less time worrying about
[14:59] the me and more time and awareness of
[15:03] the oneness that you're a part of then
[15:06] you will naturally feel the Bliss that
[15:09] you spend so much effort trying to get
[15:11] into so with the Guru the mind starts to
[15:17] realize that this me is not the ultimate
[15:20] reality now we're not saying it's not
[15:23] there of course it's there but it's not
[15:25] the ultimate reality it's not it's the
[15:28] perceived reality it's the way it's the
[15:31] thing that we use to try and look out
[15:33] with it's that we look at the world
[15:36] through this lens of the me or the
[15:38] myself and the Guru will point out
[15:41] throughout all the guru spiritual
[15:43] teachings is what we use to find
[15:47] happiness is actually the thing that's
[15:49] suffering the me itself is the cause of
[15:52] suffering not the cause of happiness the
[15:55] cause of happiness is to transcend the
[15:57] me is to go beyond the sense of me
[15:59] itself so the Guru is an essence it's a
[16:04] quality it's a principle that tries to
[16:08] bring us wisdom in our life tries to get
[16:11] us to change the way that we think about
[16:13] our life and not think about the me but
[16:17] think about this our body and
[16:19] circumstances and relationships are all
[16:22] part of this game or this song of
[16:25] oneness so that's what the good is
[16:27] trying to do in our life now what is the
[16:30] Guru itself let's talk a little bit
[16:31] deeper about what is the good where is
[16:34] it how do we find it how do we engage
[16:36] with it in the six virtual tradition the
[16:39] Guru has been described as having three
[16:41] different shapes three
[16:42] different forms and I'll quickly go
[16:45] through what those three different forms
[16:47] are because it's important to understand
[16:49] how we engage with this guru
[16:51] the first one is described as being near
[16:55] good formless the Guru is not a physical
[16:58] being it's not limited to just a
[17:01] particular person or a particular text
[17:04] or a particular wisdom the Guru is not
[17:07] limited to that the Guru is a near good
[17:09] being it's a formless being with no
[17:12] physical and essence to it and what we
[17:15] mean by that is that begins to sound
[17:18] very much like the oneness that we
[17:20] talked about earlier the oneness is
[17:22] there before time it is in the world
[17:25] it's in creation but it's also outside
[17:28] of creation if the universe was to
[17:30] disappear tomorrow the oneness would
[17:32] still be there now when we talk about
[17:34] the Guru in the exact same way we
[17:35] realize that the Guru and the oneness
[17:38] are actually the same thing
[17:40] so the oneness is everywhere but the
[17:44] oneness does many different things and
[17:46] the way to think about the Guru is to
[17:50] think about the oneness as having many
[17:52] different jobs part of what the oneness
[17:54] does is that it creates so it has a
[17:57] creator function and part of what it
[18:00] does is that it sustains it looks after
[18:03] things that keep things going just the
[18:04] way we're breathing right now have you
[18:07] ever thought about this we're not
[18:08] actually breathing but breathing just
[18:10] happens naturally you never have to
[18:13] remind yourself to breathe it's just
[18:15] there all the time even when you're
[18:17] asleep you're breathing all throughout
[18:19] the day it's happening so that's what we
[18:21] mean by the oneness being a sustainer
[18:23] it's constantly just keeping the
[18:25] system's going it's keeping things
[18:27] flowing at all times and the oneness is
[18:29] also the destroyer because you can't
[18:31] have life without life ending without
[18:33] death so it's constantly destroying
[18:36] things putting things back into the
[18:38] universe recycling things and everything
[18:41] in reality is something that's been
[18:43] recycle even our bodies are made up of
[18:45] of cells and atoms that have have been
[18:48] used for other things before so the
[18:51] oneness is this creation force it's this
[18:54] sustaining force it's this destroyer
[18:56] force and one of the things that the the
[18:58] oneness can do is that it also has the
[19:01] ability or the job or the role to awaken
[19:05] us it has the ability to make us think
[19:08] differently and that ability of oneness
[19:11] is called the Guru the Guru has the
[19:13] ability to make us think differently so
[19:18] the oneness is here we are the one is
[19:21] the universe and everything that you see
[19:23] all around you is really just another
[19:26] form of that oneness and one of those
[19:29] forms one of those functions is to help
[19:31] us change and guide us and this has been
[19:34] called this this ability of the oneness
[19:39] to delude us and to awaken us has been
[19:43] called grace and I use this word delude
[19:45] because I want to pique your interest
[19:47] here the you know this everything that
[19:51] we're talking about this oneness and the
[19:54] mind not being realized and not knowing
[19:57] it how does all of this happen the
[20:00] oneness has created all of us you me and
[20:03] everything that you see around us but it
[20:06] also created the illusion that we are
[20:09] not part of the oneness it also created
[20:12] this idea within our minds that we are
[20:15] just me myself so it deluded us it gave
[20:20] us it gave itself a idea that you are an
[20:25] individual being and then it also
[20:27] creates a guru and enlightener to awaken
[20:31] you away from that way of thinking so it
[20:33] creates the problem it creates the
[20:35] solution and it is the solution itself
[20:37] and when we start thinking like this a
[20:40] lot of people might be thinking well
[20:42] that just sounds really strange it
[20:43] sounds really weird what's the point of
[20:45] it all and this has been described by
[20:47] spiritual masters throughout so many
[20:49] different traditions as being almost the
[20:52] game of oneness the game of God the play
[20:55] the music the melody the song this is
[20:58] the oneness playing with itself so as
[21:01] part of that process it has the ability
[21:05] to change the way we think as well
[21:07] and so what you need in order to
[21:11] understand if you believe that you are
[21:14] this physical form you need another
[21:17] physical form to awaken you and so we
[21:21] now move to the second form or shape of
[21:24] the guru the first remember being the
[21:25] near Gong shape the formless shape the
[21:28] second being a guru
[21:31] that's called a circle form a formed
[21:33] guru guru which has a physical form and
[21:36] this is typically what we what we think
[21:39] about when we talk about a guru you
[21:41] might think about a an old man with a
[21:45] white beard in spiritual robes asaru of
[21:50] some sort that is a teacher someone who
[21:55] you go to to learn your lessons so the
[21:58] Guru can take many forms it starts with
[22:01] this formless entity it is the oneness
[22:02] itself but in order for us to understand
[22:05] it we need someone or something to
[22:08] actually engage with and that's called
[22:10] the sargan form and that usually takes
[22:12] the form of an enlightened master and
[22:15] what we mean by an enlightened master is
[22:17] someone who they themselves have
[22:19] awakened their minds they themselves
[22:21] used to think one way about themselves
[22:25] the way you and me do about I am the me
[22:27] and this is this is me and my problems
[22:30] and they themselves have been awakened
[22:32] they themselves have transformed their
[22:35] thinking so now they're connected with
[22:36] this oneness so they are enlightened and
[22:39] have the ability to enlighten us
[22:42] remember enlightenment means just to
[22:44] move from the ignorance that we are here
[22:47] these limited individual beings and it
[22:50] moves us into understanding and
[22:53] appreciating that we are part of
[22:54] something much bigger
[22:56] so that's your nail-gun form your
[22:58] formless guru your form guru which is
[23:01] this enlightened master that can
[23:02] transform us but how does the Guru
[23:05] transform us the sargan guru the form
[23:08] the physical guru changes us through the
[23:12] third version of the guru which is the
[23:14] wisdom of the guru and this has been
[23:16] called shabad guru the word or the
[23:19] message
[23:20] and by shabath what we mean is that the
[23:24] guru has a message for you and for me to
[23:29] put into our mind to understand that we
[23:32] need to think a little bit differently
[23:34] the Guru comes with a message comes with
[23:38] a wisdom comes with a guidance so we
[23:43] need to understand that the Guru has
[23:45] many different forms that all of these
[23:47] forms have a function in our life and in
[23:50] the good much spiritual tradition more
[23:52] often than not the word guru has only
[23:55] ever been used to describe one of the
[23:58] three forms of the Guru which is the
[24:00] sargan guru now in the Sikh tradition
[24:02] whenever somebody mentions the Guru you
[24:04] pretty much always think that they're
[24:06] talking about Guru Nanak or one of the
[24:10] gurus or you're talking about the
[24:12] scripture Guru Granth Sahib ji and this
[24:14] is the sargan form this is the saga the
[24:16] the form the physical form or the
[24:20] message form which is the shabath guru
[24:22] but we need to understand that when we
[24:24] talk about Guru Nanak what makes Nanak a
[24:28] Guru Nanak what makes Nanak so special
[24:31] well remember what we talked about how
[24:34] the Guru has the ability to transform
[24:36] you but first they need to transform
[24:38] themselves well Nanak is somebody who
[24:41] has become enlightened to this a new way
[24:44] of thinking to this authentic original
[24:47] way of thinking where they understand
[24:49] who their authentic true self is they've
[24:52] understood that but when guru nanak dev
[24:55] ji passed on to the second guru and we
[24:59] had a guru angad dev ji and the third
[25:01] guru guru amar das ji that guru was
[25:05] essentially the same we don't actually
[25:07] see the second third fourth fifth guru
[25:11] all the way up to Guru Granth Sahib ji
[25:13] in the form of the scripture we don't
[25:15] see them as any different why not
[25:17] because it's not the person Nanak it's
[25:21] not the body of Guru Nanak that we are
[25:23] interested in it's the Enlightenment of
[25:25] Guru Nanak and that enlightenment moves
[25:28] from one to another that ability to
[25:30] awaken a person and then awaken another
[25:33] and
[25:33] wakin another that awakened nests is
[25:35] what we're calling the Guru itself and
[25:38] the way we demonstrate this certainly
[25:40] within the sea spiritual tradition if
[25:42] you notice at the beginning of an unsub
[25:44] it says Mahalo teacher now I don't know
[25:49] if you've ever thought about this but
[25:51] the word mel mala is always used to say
[25:55] which of guru has written this Barney
[25:57] but it never says guru teacher it never
[26:01] says written by the third guru
[26:03] it says written in the third house now
[26:06] let's think about what that means now
[26:10] imagine that you have moved house from
[26:15] your old apartment or your old home into
[26:18] your new home everything has changed but
[26:22] you are essentially the same you haven't
[26:26] changed the things around you have
[26:28] changed where you live might have
[26:31] changed but you have just moved from one
[26:34] to another when you buy a new house you
[26:35] don't say I'm a different person you
[26:38] just live in a different place and in
[26:40] the same way guru nanak dev ji moving
[26:43] into guru angad efg is not a different
[26:45] person it's the same message that has
[26:48] moved from me he'll the word mail
[26:49] actually means house or mansion so the
[26:52] Guru moved from one mansion to another
[26:55] mansion to another mansion so when we
[26:57] say Mahalo pedia what we actually mean
[26:59] is that one enlightenment message that's
[27:03] always been there throughout time from
[27:05] the beginning of time the wisdom of
[27:07] oneness has always been there that
[27:09] wisdom of oneness was in nanak and now
[27:12] in guru angad and then in guru amar das
[27:14] tree and now that wisdom within the seat
[27:17] spiritual tradition is in good grunts ah
[27:19] gee but that doesn't mean that the
[27:22] entire wisdom of that oneness of the
[27:24] Guru is only in Guru Granth Sahib ji now
[27:28] who knows how many other planets that
[27:30] are out there and where else the Guru
[27:32] has been and what other beings in in
[27:35] multiple universes the Guru is also
[27:38] transforming so we don't have this idea
[27:40] that the Guru Granth or the Shabet is
[27:43] the only space where the Guru exists the
[27:45] good
[27:46] doesn't exist anywhere else because if
[27:48] you think like that then you've
[27:49] forgotten that the Guru has three
[27:51] different shapes the Guru is formless
[27:53] the Guru has form and the Guru is in the
[27:55] shape of wisdom so wisdom can be
[27:59] transferred even if you're not standing
[28:01] physically in front of a book or the
[28:04] Holy Scripture or the word or the person
[28:07] or the man or the woman whoever it is
[28:09] that you think is your guru you don't
[28:12] have to be standing there in front of
[28:14] them to say that I am in the presence of
[28:16] the Guru you're always in the presence
[28:18] of the Guru itself so when we're bowing
[28:22] to the Guru you should always be very
[28:24] clear in your mind that you are bowing
[28:25] to this universal wisdom that is there
[28:29] to transform you the Guru has one
[28:32] function to transform the way you think
[28:35] in the descibe a verse that has an
[28:40] ending line that's repeated a few times
[28:42] is guru it could be huge I Sabina D acha
[28:46] acha da da
[28:47] so Mary said no Jai guru give me this
[28:51] one understanding give me this wisdom
[28:53] that everything belongs to oneness
[28:57] everything comes from oneness subnautica
[28:59] eka data and don't let me forget it
[29:02] the Guru really has a one job and that's
[29:04] to make you realize that you are part of
[29:08] a oneness and to help you keep that
[29:10] realization so it's very important that
[29:13] we understand what this guru is now the
[29:16] other thing that's really important is
[29:18] to not externalize the Guru and what I
[29:22] mean by that is let's not always think
[29:25] about the goo as something different or
[29:28] outside of us now think about these
[29:30] three different shapes of the guru that
[29:32] I talked about it's very easy to think
[29:34] that the Guru is something that's far
[29:36] away the Guru is nothing to do with you
[29:39] it's something bigger and greater than
[29:41] you remember what I said that guru is
[29:44] the darkness to light transformation and
[29:47] that darkness is within your mind when
[29:50] your mind
[29:51] transforms from your own ignorance to
[29:55] your own enlightenment that is also
[29:58] called guru
[29:59] that means the Guru is not just a person
[30:02] who does that change the Guru is the
[30:05] actual transformation that's happening
[30:07] inside you and that's where the Guru
[30:09] starts becomes something that is within
[30:11] you and we here in gurbani as well so
[30:15] satgur pereira marin allah hi my true
[30:19] guru is with me all the time
[30:21] jeté katha menu let you die wherever I
[30:24] may be it saves me it rescues me it it
[30:28] frees me from the things that bind me
[30:31] down so the Guru is always with you
[30:34] whether you've ever heard any spiritual
[30:37] wisdom in you in your entire life
[30:39] whether you you've been brought up and
[30:41] you thought you're an atheist or whether
[30:42] you are religious or spiritual whatever
[30:45] you think you are remember the ability
[30:48] to change from darkness to light is
[30:50] already sitting there dormant resting
[30:52] within all of us and so the Guru is
[30:55] something that is a process of
[30:56] transformation within us as well so
[30:59] think about the external guru as a
[31:02] catalyst to awaken the internal guru to
[31:05] to have that internal transformation
[31:07] itself we have to now understand that
[31:11] this whole verse of an unsub is a
[31:14] transformation process that's going to
[31:16] be happening inside of us so what is
[31:18] happening within within us we see in the
[31:21] next lines of an unsub satgur Tobias
[31:24] edge say p manova d'Ivoire Danya the
[31:27] true guru was obtained with tranquility
[31:30] and songs of celebration resound within
[31:34] the mind so now we're starting to
[31:37] understand what is the Guru delivering
[31:39] the Guru comes with stillness with ch
[31:44] with tranquility with steadiness I
[31:47] remember when I was a child and there
[31:52] was someone's house that I used to go to
[31:53] who had this huge grandfather clock and
[31:57] I remember seeing the grandfather clock
[31:59] having this pendulum that would just
[32:01] swing from side to side and as a child I
[32:04] could look at it for such a long time
[32:06] and be completely hypnotized by this
[32:10] thing that was just moving from
[32:12] scientist
[32:13] and I would only snap out of it
[32:17] when the clock would strike at a
[32:20] particular hour and then the the bells
[32:23] or the chimes would ring and that would
[32:25] make me kind of wake up and realize oh
[32:27] I've just been looking at this thing for
[32:29] far too long
[32:30] and what that reminds me of is in life
[32:35] we're kind of thinking like that in the
[32:36] same way we're completely hypnotized by
[32:39] our emotions we're hypnotized by all the
[32:44] circumstances and the the changes that
[32:46] are happening in our life on a
[32:47] day-to-day basis we are hypnotized by
[32:50] our thoughts that are always swinging
[32:53] from left to right from making one
[32:56] decision or another from happy decide
[32:58] and all this change that's happening in
[33:00] our life we've become completely
[33:03] hypnotized by it we don't know how to
[33:05] snap out of it we think this is the
[33:07] ultimate reality and the Guru is like
[33:10] the gong that once the Guru says
[33:13] something it makes you step back it
[33:15] makes you realize and breaks that trance
[33:18] that you're in and you start to see
[33:20] things for what they really are how does
[33:23] the Guru do that we're told here that
[33:25] the Guru brings stillness brings a
[33:27] tranquility to our life and now we're
[33:30] not talking about some Zen like silence
[33:33] experience that's not what the Guru
[33:35] means by tranquility it means that when
[33:39] your mind is swinging from left to right
[33:41] moving this way and that way when you're
[33:44] always waking up and worrying about the
[33:46] next thing that you have to do the Guru
[33:48] gives you the ability to step back and
[33:51] as soon as you step back you're not
[33:53] swinging from left to right you're not
[33:55] swinging from from distress to pleasure
[33:58] you are having a moment of peace and
[34:02] tranquility and the more you're able to
[34:05] take on the wisdom of the Guru the more
[34:08] of that steadiness and tranquility you
[34:10] can have within your life and that
[34:13] steadiness takes on the qualities of
[34:17] having acceptance for the rat-race aware
[34:21] of life you're not being tied down by it
[34:24] you're not you
[34:25] you're not letting it weigh you down you
[34:28] know that it's there but you're
[34:31] accepting of it so you become an
[34:34] observer of life you are less resistant
[34:39] you're not constantly worried about the
[34:41] things that are happening you are
[34:43] participating in life but you're also
[34:45] taking a step back at the same time so
[34:48] you're able to with the guru's wisdom
[34:52] start to lead a life of no questioning
[34:57] and always worrying about am i doing the
[34:59] right thing in life is this right is
[35:01] this wrong you start to reduce your
[35:03] desires you start to reduce the amount
[35:06] of complaining that you're doing things
[35:08] don't always have to be given a label of
[35:11] being good or bad of should and
[35:14] shouldn't should not have had and must
[35:17] not these things don't necessarily have
[35:19] to be labels that you put on life you're
[35:22] just participating in life but you're
[35:24] taking a step back and you are observing
[35:26] life as something that is happening with
[35:29] lots of different changes but you don't
[35:32] necessarily need to get trapped or
[35:35] hypnotized by those things that are
[35:37] going on in life so this is the state of
[35:41] having this quality of tranquility in
[35:44] your life having virtues having
[35:47] compassion it's from this stillness that
[35:49] all of these new good qualities come out
[35:52] compassion peace patience humility all
[35:56] of these good qualities start to emerge
[35:58] in your life when you use the wisdom of
[36:01] the Guru to step back so when we start
[36:05] to look at an unsub we need to use this
[36:09] as an opportunity for us to also reflect
[36:12] on our life for us to awaken from our
[36:16] old ways of thinking to new ways of
[36:18] thinking for us to move from a state of
[36:22] being agitated all the time to being
[36:25] karma to being less resistant to the
[36:28] unpredictability of life and to be
[36:31] always in awareness that we have this
[36:37] guru in our life
[36:39] the very fact that you are right now
[36:42] present here listening to this message
[36:47] of the Guru it means that you are so
[36:50] lucky to have the opportunity to step
[36:53] back you've been given an opportunity to
[36:56] just take a moment to reflect on your
[36:58] life and that is a huge blessing in
[37:01] itself not everybody gets that I always
[37:03] like to think that there are almost 8
[37:06] billion people on the planet at any one
[37:09] time and out of those how many are
[37:11] completely hypnotized by their own lives
[37:14] and don't have the ability to just take
[37:17] a step back and think what is my life
[37:20] about should I really be so lost in
[37:24] attachment to myself my body my life my
[37:27] family my job my career my finances do I
[37:30] need to be so stuck with all these
[37:32] things or is there a way to have all
[37:34] those things to engage with all those
[37:36] things but also take a step back so this
[37:40] is what the Guru allows you to do we're
[37:41] so lucky to have that in our life now
[37:44] how do you find this glue how do you
[37:47] find this wisdom that does this for you
[37:50] and as we go along the verses of the
[37:53] announcing how the Guru enters our life
[37:56] how do we actually make sure that we
[37:59] retain this relationship with this guru
[38:01] as well so we're going to be looking at
[38:03] very practical processes about how we
[38:05] can achieve not just the Guru but the
[38:08] tranquility the Bliss the euphoria that
[38:11] the Guru gives in our life and in the
[38:13] upcoming verses we're gonna be hearing a
[38:14] lot about how this actually has very
[38:17] little to do with us this actually is
[38:20] something called grace so we're gonna be
[38:22] hearing a lot about grace of the Guru
[38:24] and how Guru is a grace in our life the
[38:27] very interesting thing that you'll
[38:28] notice in this as we go through the
[38:31] verses of an unsub is that this
[38:34] composition actually has many audiences
[38:37] it talks to many different people in
[38:39] many different perspectives so this
[38:42] opening verse we can hear is talking to
[38:44] mankind saying hey I found the Guru in
[38:47] my life and in other verses it's talking
[38:50] to the mind in other
[38:52] versus it's talking to the body in other
[38:55] verses it's talking to meditators and
[38:57] spiritual seekers so we will see how
[38:59] this beautifully is able to talk to so
[39:02] many different audiences and almost
[39:04] different stages of our life and so
[39:07] we'll be reflecting on this wisdom and
[39:09] we'll see how does this wisdom impact
[39:13] our life how are we gonna use this to
[39:15] reflect and make sure that the Guru is
[39:18] actually having this impact in our life
[39:20] itself think about this as almost the
[39:24] Guru not trying to sell you anything and
[39:26] I know whenever when it comes to
[39:28] spirituality is it's very often the case
[39:31] that people think this guy's trying to
[39:33] convince me of something he's trying to
[39:35] sell me something he's trying to make me
[39:38] do something that I don't want to do and
[39:40] I don't want you to think about an unsub
[39:42] in this way I want you to think about it
[39:44] as almost a song of celebration that you
[39:47] happen to be listening to you there's
[39:49] this person called guru amar das Qi and
[39:52] he's just singing with his real joy that
[39:56] look look what my life is like look at
[39:58] what I've been able to achieve with this
[40:01] bliss look what my mind feels like I
[40:04] wish you could also feel like this and
[40:07] this guru guru amar das ji is just
[40:11] singing and look at the words that he
[40:13] sees he's talking but look how much he
[40:14] talks about melodyinmusic he says mana
[40:17] Vijaya vadhana songs of celebration are
[40:19] resounding within the mind melodies and
[40:22] harmonies have come to sing the divine
[40:25] word and he says sing the words of Hari
[40:27] he tells us everybody if you want to
[40:30] feel like this you need to sing like me
[40:32] if you want to feel what I'm feeling you
[40:34] need to be do what you need to be doing
[40:36] what I'm doing and what he says is you
[40:38] need to make your life into a song of
[40:41] bliss he says that my life has
[40:44] completely changed my mind is now
[40:46] constantly singing it feels like the
[40:48] whole world is singing and he's
[40:51] describing his euphoria he's describing
[40:54] his state of bliss and he says that the
[40:57] whole world is singing and my mind is
[41:00] singing so now that what the Guru is
[41:03] trying to do is trying to get you to
[41:04] understand the importance
[41:06] of another idea called keaston and a lot
[41:10] of the times again in spiritual
[41:11] practices we use this word prayer that
[41:14] you great you wake up in the morning and
[41:17] you pray or you wake up and throughout
[41:20] your day your life is a prayer to God
[41:22] and I think this word prayer really
[41:25] doesn't encapsulate what the good is
[41:27] trying to say here I think what the good
[41:29] is trying to say is we need to stop
[41:32] praying and start praising we need to
[41:36] start changing our mindset from always
[41:38] wanting to receive more which is what a
[41:40] prayer feels like most of the time
[41:42] sometimes we put our hands together and
[41:44] we'll look to the skies and we're saying
[41:46] oh Lord oh God
[41:47] my life is like this if I only you could
[41:49] add this to my life so you're making
[41:51] your life always you're always calling
[41:54] from a feeling of lack that my life
[41:57] needs to have more there's something
[41:59] missing in my life and that's what the
[42:01] the desperation of prayer feels like but
[42:04] the Guru is saying how about we move
[42:06] away from always asking to now praising
[42:09] make an attitude of gratitude make a
[42:13] mindset that I'm gonna sing about the
[42:17] things that I do have and not always
[42:19] worry about what I don't have and it's
[42:21] so easy for us to fall into the trap of
[42:23] worrying about what we don't have in our
[42:25] life so let's start bringing gratitude
[42:28] into our life let's start bringing joy
[42:31] let's start bringing peace and grace
[42:34] into our life and the Guru is training
[42:37] us that says everyday you need to do
[42:39] more of this you need to spend more time
[42:41] being in peace coming from a place of
[42:46] joy coming from a space of tranquility
[42:49] come from a space that your life already
[42:53] has quite a lot and it's so easy to
[42:56] think that you don't have so much in
[42:58] your life but really if you spend some
[43:00] time thinking about what do I have in my
[43:03] life
[43:03] what is going well in my life then you
[43:07] start to focus on those things instead
[43:09] so the Guru is training us that we need
[43:12] to interact with life in a different way
[43:15] so take every opportunity to
[43:20] celebrate life take every opportunity to
[43:23] sing about the great things that are
[43:25] happening in that day of yours rather
[43:28] than all the things that are not
[43:29] happening and worrying about those
[43:31] things the other thing that that the
[43:34] Guru is doing here is that he's not
[43:36] bringing this joy as something that's
[43:40] been brought to his life he's not
[43:41] thinking thinking about this joy is
[43:43] something that's coming he says that I
[43:45] am in bliss like the joy has come out of
[43:49] me and and it's so so easy and far too
[43:52] often for us to think about God and
[43:54] oneness as something that's far away but
[43:57] really do we even celebrate what we have
[44:01] just inside of us even if there's
[44:02] nothing outside of us that we can think
[44:04] about what about what's inside of us
[44:06] what about the joy of health what about
[44:09] the joy of having the opportunity to be
[44:13] alive right here right now how many
[44:17] times have you just been thankful to
[44:20] just be alive to be awake to see the
[44:24] sunrise or to be awake to enjoy the
[44:27] sound of the rain you know we don't
[44:29] really think about life in these ways so
[44:31] we're always resisting we're always
[44:34] fighting with life we're always
[44:35] complaining and guru is saying I'm in a
[44:38] different state of mind I'm not in this
[44:40] constant agitation I'm coming from a
[44:43] place of joy and bliss and your life can
[44:47] also be like that if you make your life
[44:49] more like a song so what we're being
[44:53] taught here in this first verse is start
[44:57] enjoying what is present in life and not
[45:00] always worrying about what is absent
[45:03] celebrate what you have celebrate the
[45:06] aliveness that's within you and all
[45:08] around you and start enjoying life as
[45:12] though it's a song like the birds are
[45:14] singing and the trees are swaying and
[45:16] the sun is shining or the rain is
[45:18] falling all these things are almost like
[45:20] the whole universe is singing all the
[45:23] time look at in jeopardy sight for those
[45:26] of you who are familiar
[45:27] it says gather power and paribas enter
[45:32] the
[45:33] air is singing water is singing fire is
[45:36] singing the whole universe is singing
[45:38] what if you were to start seeing life as
[45:41] though it's this great symphony this
[45:44] Orchestra that's happening all around
[45:45] you and then you realize hey I am also
[45:48] part of the band I'm also part of the
[45:50] orchestra
[45:51] I'm also an instrument that that has the
[45:53] ability to sing out loud and so when you
[45:55] start to change your life away from
[45:57] what's missing into what is there and
[45:59] celebrating what's there in life you'll
[46:02] start to experience what the Guru says
[46:05] Minova jihad anya my mind is celebrating
[46:09] and it says at the end the guru ends
[46:12] with these lines managin iva saya gihan
[46:15] nanak anand hawa those who start to
[46:19] think in this way those who make this
[46:21] their mindset nanak says their minds
[46:25] have become fruitful they've become
[46:28] joyful they've become blissful Anand has
[46:32] happened to them bliss has occurred in
[46:35] their life nanak says when Satguru
[46:38] papaya when you find that guru within
[46:40] your life so I hope that this first
[46:43] verse is something that you have found
[46:45] useful I hope that this helps you in
[46:48] your life and encourages you to start
[46:50] making those changes and reflecting on
[46:52] how you're living your life and gives
[46:55] you the practical steps that you need to
[46:57] try and move into a space of greater joy
[47:02] and greater bliss in your life I'm
[47:03] really looking forward to joining you on
[47:06] this journey so I hope you'll join me in
[47:08] the next episode and until then I've
[47:10] written a couple of questions that I
[47:12] want you to think about so as we're
[47:14] coming to the end of this have a go at
[47:16] these questions and either answer them
[47:18] by yourself write them down or talk
[47:20] about them with your friends or in a
[47:23] meetup group where you can discuss these
[47:25] ideas further discuss your understanding
[47:29] of the Guru's various forms
[47:32] the physical form the formless Universal
[47:36] essence and the mind transforming
[47:39] message how can we have a personal
[47:43] relationship with each of these forms
[47:46] and what daily practices can you adopt
[47:50] to increase gratitude and to reduce your
[47:54] mental resistance and expectations of
[47:56] life
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