Negative Emotion as Guidance: Reading Your Inner Signal

Oct 21, 2026

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Two hours and some minutes into a long session, a questioner wants to understand something that sounds almost like a contradiction. Being selfish, looking after your own life first, is wonderful, the questioner says, yet doing so also gives something to others. Is that a form of love? The Hay House video of a recent session, in which Esther Hicks channels the teaching known as Abraham, does not answer with a tidy formula. It turns the question over and examines the ground beneath it. The core claim is that negative emotion is not evidence that you have failed. It is the felt sense of a new desire arriving, running into a belief you are still carrying, and it is a signal pointing toward what comes next. Across the session, which covers family relationships, healing, fear, loneliness, love, and manifestation, that single idea keeps resurfacing in new clothes.

The most striking passage in the video is also the most compact. "Whenever you feel negative emotion, it always means your grid started to fill in with something you want and you blocked it with a belief," the teaching says. "And in doing so, you felt fear." In this reading, the discomfort is not a malfunction. It is what happens at the moment of friction: a desire has begun to take shape, and an older habit of thought is standing in its path. The fear is the sensation of that collision.

That reframing changes what you do with the feeling. Most people, the teaching suggests, respond to negative emotion by judging themselves for having it. They become angry at themselves or at someone else because things are not unfolding the way they want. The session asks listeners to stop doing that and to make peace with the emotion instead, because at that moment it is doing its job. "At this red hot minute, negative emotion is your guidance," the teaching says. The video's own description puts it in the same spirit: your emotions reflect the relationship between where you are and what your inner being already knows.

If the teaching is right, the obvious next question is why the friction is built into life in the first place. The answer runs through the idea of contrast, which the session calls "this wonderful inevitability that you are all born into." Contrast is the presence of what you do not want, set against what you do. The teaching puts the logic plainly: "Without knowing what you don't want, you could not know what you do want. Without darkness, there could not be awareness of light." Contrast is not an obstacle that sits outside the creative process. It is how the new desire becomes visible at all.

The session ties this to a metaphor of shaping. "It's all part of the molding of the clay," the teaching says, describing the cycle of identifying, focusing, allowing, and aligning as one continuous act of forming. The unpleasant stage is part of the same motion as the pleasant one. Contrast is what makes expansion possible, and the teaching asks listeners to see the negative feeling as an essential part of that expansion rather than a verdict on their worth.

There is also a quieter argument about love itself. The teaching proposes that love may be best defined through its relationship to its absence: "if there were not love, you could not feel the absence of it. If there were not the absence of it, you could not feel love." The paradox the questioner noticed, that self-care and care for others can be the same act, is treated here as a consequence of that deeper structure. You can only feel the pinch of disconnection because connection is the underlying condition.

One of the most personal exchanges in the session turns on a single word. The questioner says that willingness stands out for them, because it seems to be where love for oneself meets a connection with Source. There are moments, they admit, when they feel less willing than at others, and they come back to it only after a struggle. Their own phrasing is candid: "sometimes I'm my own worst enemy. It would seem."

The teaching responds by gently reframing the word. "We'd like to soften the word willingness and call it inevitability," it says. The point is that the new desire does not wait for your permission. "Step one just happens whether you're willing or not," the teaching says. "You can't go through a small part of a day without a new desire being born. And so that doesn't require willingness. It just requires beingness." The session also recalls that the questioner came into this life with eagerness rather than reluctant resignation, and it presents that eagerness as the original stance worth returning to.

The sharpest line of the exchange lands on the question of self-resistance. "You are your only enemy," the teaching says. It is not meant as a scolding. It is a reminder that the obstacle to alignment is an internal habit of thought, not a set of external forces that have to be defeated. That is why the teaching keeps returning to allowing as the active skill: you cannot force the feeling of relief, but you can stop standing in the way of it.

Much of the session deals with relationships, and the teaching is consistent on one point: other people cannot be controlled, and trying to control them is a form of creating by default. The video description says the session shows "why you cannot control other people" and "how to stop creating by default," and it promises a shift toward relief, worthiness, and deliberate creation. The idea is that when you are reactive, you are running an old pattern automatically, usually shaped by what you have been told to expect. Deliberate creation means choosing the thought that is closer to what you actually want, even when the current situation has not yet caught up.

This is where the teaching becomes practical rather than merely philosophical. It asks you to notice the emotion, to recognize what it is pointing toward, and to move your focus toward something that feels better. That movement is what the session calls alignment, and the teaching is careful to say that alignment is not instant. There is always a period before it has been accomplished, when you are feeling the negative emotion and looking for relief. The teaching treats that interval not as a failure but as "a large part of what makes up life experience."

The session's most ambitious claim concerns how Source regards you. The teaching argues that the fact you can feel negative emotion at all implies that Source feels about you in a particular way. "Source feels that rightness even when your feel feels the rightness of you even when you feel the wrongness of you," the teaching says, and it goes on to ask: "isn't negative emotion the greatest affirmation that has ever been said about the way source feels about you?" The logic is that without a deeper, unbroken affirmation of who you are, the contrast you feel would have nothing to measure against.

The teaching uses a suite of words to describe that process: alignment, allowing, and what it calls its "recently favorite" word, revealed. The idea is that a conscious person can tune their frequency so that the rightness of who they are becomes perceptible: realization, revelation, confirmation, acknowledgment. Whether or not a listener accepts the cosmology, the practical instruction is clear. Stop treating the negative feeling as proof of unworthiness and treat it as a reading of where your attention currently sits.

The session closes, as many long teaching conversations do, on the problem of frustration with one's own progress. The teaching does not promise that you will always get it on the first attempt. It asks you to accept that you will sometimes forget, lose your footing, and feel the old pattern rise again. The point is not perfection but a changed relationship to the feeling: the moment you notice the friction is the moment the guidance becomes usable.

The final stretch of the session returns to the idea that you are a creator, and it encourages patience with the process. "You are the creators of your reality," the teaching says, and the art it names is allowing. Read against the whole session, that statement is less a slogan than a summary. Negative emotion marks the edge of a new desire. Contrast makes that edge visible. Willingness, or the inevitability the teaching prefers to call it, is the ground you return to again and again. And Source, the teaching insists, is not withholding its regard while you struggle.

The full session runs about two hours and twenty-four minutes, and its chapters move from the purpose of negative emotion, through relationships and healing, to what Source energy is and why fear can point to a powerful desire. If you want to go deeper, watch the original Hay House video with the timestamps in its description open beside you. The most useful practice the teaching offers is small and repeatable: the next time a negative emotion arrives, pause long enough to ask what new desire it might be pointing toward, and what belief you are holding that stands in its way. Then, rather than judging the feeling, let it be guidance.

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[0:00] Whenever you feel negative emotion, it

[0:04] always means your grid started to fill

[0:07] in with something you want and you

[0:09] blocked it with a belief. And in doing

[0:11] so, you felt fear. Blessed fear, thanks

[0:15] for pointing out that I just blocked

[0:17] something that I want with a bogus habit

[0:20] of thought that doesn't apply and has no

[0:22] relevance to where I am now and where

[0:24] I'm going. That's the taking thought

[0:26] beyond that which it has been before.

[0:28] That's what you want to know. That's why

[0:29] we want you to make peace with your

[0:31] negative emotion. That's why we want you

[0:33] to understand what it is. That's why we

[0:35] want you to stop standing in a place of

[0:37] feeling mad at yourself or at someone

[0:39] else when you feel negative emotion just

[0:41] because everything's not going exactly

[0:43] the way you think you want. At this red

[0:44] hot minute, negative emotion is your

[0:46] guidance.

[0:50] I wanted to talk to you about love.

[0:54] It's meant a lot to me the way Esther's

[0:57] given permission for you to share with

[0:59] us her story

[1:02] and particularly the details and the

[1:05] depth of her being pushed in her vortex

[1:08] as it would seem to me. And

[1:10] >> the way Esther tells it is Abraham blabs

[1:13] everything.

[1:15] >> Well, Esther gives permission as well

[1:18] and I'd like to pay tribute to that. And

[1:21] in times when I felt pushed,

[1:28] in times where I felt that my vortex is

[1:31] calling me at an edge I didn't expect,

[1:34] I've remembered the stories Esther's

[1:37] told of how she has allowed herself to

[1:40] be more.

[1:42] And I experience that as a form of love

[1:45] on Esther's part. So what I'm really

[1:48] interested in is how love works in the

[1:51] sense of there seems to be a paradox.

[1:55] Being selfish is wonderful,

[1:58] but also whilst being selfish in looking

[2:00] after ourselves, we are also being

[2:03] something for others as Esther is for

[2:06] us. And that's a form of love. And I

[2:08] just would like you to talk about this

[2:10] please.

[2:11] Well, we're happy to approach it in the

[2:14] direction that you are uh presenting it,

[2:17] but there's something more that we want

[2:19] to say first about all of that because

[2:23] what you say is accurate, but there's a

[2:26] piece that underlies the reason for it.

[2:30] That's

[2:32] very big and maybe you have not thought

[2:35] about it. And that is

[2:39] as we talk about this contrast which is

[2:42] this wonderful inevitability that you

[2:45] are all born into and how the contrast

[2:48] is necessary for the identification of

[2:51] the new desire. And so the contrast is

[2:54] essential to expansion.

[2:56] And yet even in the way that we talk

[2:59] with you about it, there is a sort of

[3:01] perception of wrongdoing when there is

[3:05] negative emotion experienced.

[3:08] And we would like all of you to not only

[3:14] accept the negative emotion as part of

[3:17] the process, but embrace it. Because

[3:19] without knowing what you don't want, you

[3:21] could not know what you do want. Without

[3:23] darkness, there could not be awareness

[3:25] of light. In other words, it's all part

[3:28] of the molding of the clay. It's all

[3:30] part of the experience of

[3:34] identifying and focusing and allowing

[3:37] and aligning. And so the most important

[3:41] thing that we want to say in response to

[3:43] that is that in someone said earlier

[3:47] uh brilliantly and accurately that he

[3:51] believes that he is seeing the world

[3:53] much of the time through the eyes of

[3:54] source and that's what we wish for

[3:59] everyone and it really is at the heart

[4:02] of the question that you're asking here

[4:04] because when you understand the

[4:06] perfection of the contrast and the

[4:11] brilliance of the new idea being born

[4:13] out of it. And then there's conscious

[4:16] willingness and

[4:18] accomplishment of alignment. Of course,

[4:21] that's the most delicious way to

[4:23] experience motion forward. But there is

[4:27] always that time before the alignment

[4:30] has been accomplished when you are

[4:32] actually feeling the negative emotion

[4:35] and seeking uh something that feels

[4:37] better than it. That is a large part of

[4:40] what makes up life experience. And

[4:43] that's where that abiding understanding

[4:48] from source really enters in. And we

[4:51] think that may be the best definition of

[4:53] what love is because the the the fact

[4:56] that you can even feel negative emotion

[5:00] means that

[5:04] there is a pinching off. In other words,

[5:08] if there were not love, you could not

[5:10] feel the absence of it. If there were

[5:12] not the absence of it, you could not

[5:14] feel love.

[5:16] And so the word love is really a

[5:18] wonderful word. We we like the word

[5:21] alignment. We like the word allowing.

[5:24] And recently, our favorite word is

[5:27] revealed. We'd like you to be standing

[5:30] in a conscious place where you're

[5:32] deliberately tuning your frequency so

[5:34] that you can experience the realization,

[5:37] the revelation, the manifestation, the

[5:40] actualization, the confirmation,

[5:43] the the affirmation,

[5:46] the acknowledgment of the rightness of

[5:48] that which is you. And of course you

[5:52] know that source feels that rightness

[5:55] even when your feel feels the rightness

[5:57] of you even when you feel the wrongness

[6:00] of you. And if that were not true you

[6:03] could not feel the wrongness of you. You

[6:05] follow that

[6:06] >> if if source were not feeling about you

[6:09] the way source feels about you would

[6:11] never experience negative emotion. So,

[6:13] isn't negative emotion the greatest

[6:15] affirmation that has ever been said

[6:17] about the way source feels about you?

[6:20] Did you follow all of that?

[6:22] It's big

[6:25] in what you said. The word that jumped

[6:27] out for me was willingness

[6:30] because isn't the willingness an act of

[6:32] love? A love for myself and ultimately a

[6:36] love that goes back to join me in source

[6:39] which then is joined to everybody else.

[6:42] So, and that's that's the that's the

[6:44] quality that sometimes I find difficult.

[6:47] I feel less willing sometimes than

[6:48] others. Always I come round to

[6:50] willingness and sometimes it takes

[6:52] longer. But that willingness is a very

[6:54] special quality.

[6:57] >> Well, we'd like to soften the word

[6:59] willingness and call it inevitability.

[7:02] >> Okay.

[7:03] >> Yeah. But you want to do it before you

[7:04] crow. Well, you made the decision to you

[7:07] made the decision to come forth into

[7:08] this body not with willingness, but with

[7:10] eagerness. Okay?

[7:12] >> Not just, okay, I'll go.

[7:15] I'll make the best of it. You came with

[7:17] incredible enthusiasm because you

[7:20] understood what was about to happen. You

[7:23] understood that you would be inspired to

[7:25] new heights and not new heights that

[7:29] were unachievable, but new heights that

[7:32] were everyone achievable. In other

[7:34] words, there was no sacrifice or no

[7:37] sense of willingness.

[7:40] You see,

[7:41] >> but now there is given well in my case

[7:44] there has it's certainly an issue for me

[7:46] sometimes to find my willingness

[7:50] that it's it's as if sometimes I'm my

[7:52] own worst enemy. It would seem.

[7:53] >> Well, you always are. Not sometimes. In

[7:56] other words, and and not only are you

[7:58] your own worst enemy, we're not just

[8:00] talking about you. We're talking about

[8:01] all of you. You are your only enemy.

[8:04] >> Yeah.

[8:04] >> Not just the worst one. The onlyest one.

[8:08] >> Sometimes I practice it more than

[8:10] others. That's the point.

[8:13] >> Well, what is it about the word willing

[8:15] that you like so much?

[8:17] >> Because

[8:17] >> Well, because in those moments where I

[8:20] felt I've given up my own resistance to

[8:22] become willing. It's like I'm loving

[8:25] myself again. I'm allowing myself to be

[8:28] loved by myself through my connection

[8:31] with source. So for me, it's a very

[8:34] special experience when I felt like I'm

[8:36] I'm battling a bit and then I become

[8:38] willing. And so for me it's it's

[8:40] >> Esther remembers in those months that

[8:42] she was meditating and

[8:45] realizing that she was finding us, not

[8:49] really knowing how to define us. But she

[8:52] remembers formulating the word I'm

[8:55] willing because there was a certain

[8:56] reluctance because she did not have any

[8:58] idea where this might lead. She had not

[9:01] received enough from us to really

[9:03] understand who we were or what it would

[9:05] mean in her life experience. But she

[9:08] came across that word willing and felt

[9:11] great relief in it. The reason that we

[9:13] are stubbornly playing with you a little

[9:16] bit about it is because the truth of it

[9:19] is you come into this physical

[9:21] experience where contrast just is. And

[9:24] whether you're willing to acknowledge it

[9:26] or not, it is all around you. And so

[9:29] step one just happens whether you're

[9:32] willing or not. you know, you just can't

[9:35] help but produce new desires. It's just

[9:38] going to happen. You can't go through a

[9:40] small part of a day without a new desire

[9:44] uh being born. And so that doesn't

[9:48] require willingness. It just requires

[9:50] beingness.

[9:53] >> You you you you be here and and it it

[9:57] happens. And then step two isn't it

[10:02] doesn't require any willingness on your

[10:03] part either. It just happens. It it it's

[10:06] it's momentum that has been set in

[10:09] motion and you knew it. And so is there

[10:13] willingness that is necessary in step

[10:15] three? Let's think about it. Do I have

[10:17] to be willing? Well, what are the what

[10:21] what what makes one want to reach for

[10:25] alignment?

[10:27] Is it is it some willingness that has

[10:29] been assigned or is it an innate

[10:33] desire to feel good?

[10:35] >> Yes.

[10:35] >> And so you're saying to us that

[10:38] sometimes you struggle to find the

[10:40] willingness to feel good.

[10:44] Really?

[10:45] >> Yes.

[10:46] >> Sometimes people will say, "Okay, Ram,

[10:48] I'll listen to your silly laws and I'll

[10:52] apply them.

[10:57] if it'll if it'll get me what I want,

[11:01] if if it'll give if it'll bring the

[11:03] manifestation.

[11:05] And and then sometimes they reluctantly

[11:07] say, "All right, I guess I'm willing to

[11:12] feel good if I have to in order to get

[11:15] what I want." And we say there's a

[11:17] misunderstanding in there because

[11:19] feeling good is what you want. You see?

[11:22] So we think maybe with willingness

[11:25] you're talking about focus. We we would

[11:28] like to replace the word willingness

[11:30] with its. You see this is the reason

[11:32] that we're

[11:34] poking at this a little bit harshly with

[11:37] you. Not not really willing to accept

[11:40] the premise that you've laid out here.

[11:42] We know for sure that not one of you

[11:46] would have to ever know anything about

[11:49] who you were prior to coming into this

[11:51] experience. We know that this experience

[11:54] would provoke from you expansion.

[11:57] And we know that you are so innately

[12:01] wired with this resolve to feel good.

[12:05] You have this selfish nature that has

[12:08] been part of your makeup. And by selfish

[12:11] we mean you care about the way you feel.

[12:14] If you're not selfish enough to care

[12:16] about the way you feel, then you have no

[12:18] reasonable measure or ability to move

[12:22] deliberately toward anything. So that

[12:24] selfish nature is just innately within

[12:27] you. You see? And so we just are going

[12:30] to tease you a little bit, a lot

[12:34] for a little while, forever

[12:38] about this uh reluctance that you are

[12:42] pretending to have about being willing

[12:45] to feel good because nothing short of

[12:47] that uh will ever do. We will

[12:50] acknowledge that many of you have

[12:52] developed some patterns of thought that

[12:54] make feeling good more difficult. But it

[12:57] isn't because you're not willing. It's

[12:59] it's because you don't understand law of

[13:01] attraction and because you don't really

[13:03] understand your relationship between you

[13:04] and you. This is the thing that the

[13:07] conversations that we have with you

[13:11] lays

[13:13] in your experience in a way that you can

[13:16] finally understand how you fit into the

[13:19] whole of things. If you if you are not

[13:22] understanding that your emotions are

[13:24] your indicator between the two

[13:26] vibrational aspects of you, then you

[13:28] have no way of measuring anything.

[13:30] You're sort of like quirks bobbing about

[13:32] on the ocean, you see.

[13:34] So if we were standing in your physical

[13:37] shoes, we would say not I'm willing to

[13:41] find alignment, but it is the only thing

[13:45] that is natural and it is inevitable.

[13:49] The only thing that is questionable is

[13:52] about how long it will take me to figure

[13:54] it out. And for some, they will make

[13:57] their reemergence in non-physical before

[13:59] they release the thoughts that are

[14:02] keeping them from it. You say, "What

[14:05] else?"

[14:07] >> Thank you.

[14:10] >> We've enjoyed beating up on you.

[14:13] >> It doesn't feel like that.

[14:15] >> That's because

[14:18] That's because

[14:20] in every thing that we present to you,

[14:25] there is an understanding of who you

[14:26] are. And that must surely be the

[14:30] definition of what love is. You see, we

[14:33] see you as you are in your flawless

[14:37] quirkiness.

[14:42] You can't get it wrong and you never get

[14:45] it done. And so where you are must be

[14:48] perfect. Yes.

[14:49] >> Yes.

[14:50] >> And so if where you are is always in the

[14:53] right place at the right time, then

[14:58] how does deliberate creation fit in with

[15:00] that? We're asking you

[15:04] >> for me it would be to be conscious

[15:07] of

[15:10] what I'm where I am and and how

[15:12] >> so you acknowledge that there is

[15:15] a law that is responding to you

[15:18] >> and you acknowledge that you can't cease

[15:21] sending a signal.

[15:22] >> So you're having an experience that

[15:27] >> is one of creation whether you know that

[15:30] you are or not. So there is creation by

[15:34] default which just means observing offer

[15:36] a vibration law of attraction responds

[15:38] to it and then things happen around that

[15:40] and then there is deliberate creation.

[15:43] So can you define

[15:46] >> the difference between creating by

[15:48] default and deliberate creation? When I

[15:50] create, by default, I'm not aware of

[15:53] choices that I might be making or I

[15:56] might be able to make

[15:57] >> because

[15:59] >> because I'm not aware of the

[16:00] relationship between my feelings being

[16:03] the um relationship between

[16:05] >> you're brilliant and and therefore

[16:07] you're not so you're not aware of what

[16:09] your emotions are telling you.

[16:11] >> Yes. About my relationships with myself

[16:13] >> and so so in creating by default there

[16:17] is this uh

[16:20] response to life. Yes. And then law of

[16:22] attraction responding to your response.

[16:24] And in deliberate creation, what is

[16:26] there?

[16:27] >> I'm able to be aware of my emotions. I'm

[16:29] being I'm able to be aware of what they

[16:31] mean in terms of the relationship

[16:33] between me and me. From that I can

[16:37] understand where I've misunderstood.

[16:40] >> And so what is the true willingness that

[16:43] is taking place there? What's the in

[16:46] other words there's focus there's focus

[16:48] that we would like to use maybe even

[16:50] instead of the word willingness but what

[16:53] within the focus what is the willingness

[16:55] that you're actually accomplishing

[16:57] >> what comes to mind

[16:58] >> deliberate creation what is the

[17:00] willingness

[17:01] >> what comes to my mind as you say that is

[17:03] my willingness is to be responsible

[17:06] >> is to accept responsibility as a creator

[17:09] >> that's where we're that's the thing that

[17:13] we're wanting to help you to sue

[17:14] >> okay Okay.

[17:15] >> It's your willingness to feel good.

[17:19] >> Yes. Thank you. Thank you.

[17:20] >> It's your willingness to accept the

[17:22] perfection of that which you are. It's

[17:24] your willingness to feel that love that

[17:26] you were talking about regardless of

[17:28] where you stand. It's your willingness

[17:30] to stand in a worthy place. It's your

[17:33] willingness to find some way where you

[17:35] stand to make it all right. It's your

[17:38] willing because you see that's the only

[17:39] thing you have control over. You cannot

[17:41] control the circumstances, but you can

[17:43] control your response to them. You can't

[17:46] control what's happening in the world,

[17:47] but you can control your response to it.

[17:50] You can't control this red-hot minute,

[17:53] your relationship between you and you,

[17:54] because you've practiced yourself into

[17:56] this, and law of attraction is yielding

[17:58] more and more of it. You see what we're

[18:00] getting at? And so it's the willingness

[18:04] for it to be all right where you stand

[18:08] that equals

[18:10] your conscious

[18:14] allowing

[18:16] of the alignment between you and you

[18:19] which is the only definition that love

[18:23] is.

[18:25] Sometimes people don't you like how you

[18:27] figured all of that out?

[18:29] >> I I'm just thinking I created this. You

[18:31] did. And and you took thought where it

[18:34] had never been before.

[18:37] You've redefined love. You've redefined

[18:39] willingness. You've redefined where you

[18:41] stand in this vibrational universe

[18:43] >> and made my life a lot easier.

[18:47] >> We're glad you were willing.

[18:50] >> Thank you.

[19:02] Um I've had a relationship

[19:05] with my mother that's bit difficult

[19:07] since I was a teenager and um I think

[19:11] about the whole idea of contrast and

[19:14] rockets of desire and and think

[19:18] well naturally from a place of contrast

[19:21] I'd want to be saying you know I desire

[19:23] to have that better relationship but I

[19:26] get stuck when I'm halfway there

[19:29] thinking about that desire and then

[19:32] suddenly just go into some sort of fear

[19:33] about being in that place, that nicer

[19:37] place.

[19:37] >> Well, the most important thing to

[19:39] understand about your relationship with

[19:42] your mother is that

[19:45] it's completely about what you think and

[19:49] not anything about what she thinks about

[19:51] what you think.

[19:54] And if you can work that around, then

[19:57] you're then you're there.

[20:00] when you when you think

[20:06] why do you think you care about what she

[20:08] thinks?

[20:11] Because she made it pretty important

[20:12] early on.

[20:13] >> Y

[20:15] >> and so and you've never come to the

[20:19] awareness of transferring the alignment

[20:22] that you're reaching for to be the

[20:24] alignment with your source. In other

[20:27] words, how do you think the source

[20:29] within you sees your mother

[20:33] >> struggling

[20:36] um lost herself? Well, that's how you

[20:39] see her. But that's not how the source

[20:41] within you sees her. In other words,

[20:44] that discomfort that you feel when you

[20:46] see her struggling is because there's a

[20:49] contradiction in the way who you really

[20:52] are is seeing her and the way you're

[20:54] you're seeing her. Okay.

[20:58] >> Give us some conversation about it. In

[21:00] other words, do you live with her?

[21:03] >> Very close.

[21:05] >> She makes sure she's very close in

[21:07] proximity. She's not under the same roof

[21:09] at the moment.

[21:11] >> And so,

[21:11] >> but she has been.

[21:12] >> And so, and what's good about that?

[21:16] >> It's not.

[21:18] >> And so, and so, and what's bad about

[21:21] that? I feel claustrophobic

[21:24] >> because you can't control her perception

[21:27] of you.

[21:29] >> I feel suffocated.

[21:31] >> Does she disapprove of you?

[21:33] >> Yes.

[21:34] >> And so, and do you disapprove of her

[21:37] disapproval?

[21:37] >> Yes.

[21:39] >> And so, and

[21:42] so it is our desire to convince you that

[21:45] what's suffocating you is your

[21:47] disapproval of her disapproval, not her

[21:49] disapproval.

[21:51] >> Okay? Because you can't, you see, you

[21:53] can't feel you. You, your point of

[21:55] attraction has nothing to do with what

[21:57] she's feeling, but it has everything to

[21:59] do with what you're feeling about what

[22:01] she's feeling. So why have you got your

[22:03] nose in her business?

[22:08] And isn't that a a tricky way to put it?

[22:11] It's none of your business what she

[22:12] thinks about you.

[22:13] >> I've heard that saying. It's none of

[22:16] their business what none of your

[22:17] business what they think of you. Because

[22:19] can you control what she thinks about

[22:20] you?

[22:21] >> No.

[22:22] >> Can you control I know that.

[22:23] >> Can you control what you think about her

[22:25] thinking about you?

[22:26] >> Yes.

[22:27] >> All right. Now, we've really got to go

[22:28] general on this, don't we? Because So,

[22:31] so does she call you every day and annoy

[22:33] you?

[22:33] >> Yes.

[22:34] >> And and what kinds of things does she

[22:36] say?

[22:38] >> Sometimes it's just petty things and you

[22:40] know it's just an excuse to contact get

[22:42] in touch. Um

[22:43] >> well, that's your speculation. So, so,

[22:46] so, but so what kinds of things did she

[22:48] say?

[22:50] >> Um, I was just wondering, you know, if

[22:53] you had time this afternoon to come and

[22:55] help me do this or do that, or did did

[22:58] you give your boy fruit first? He should

[23:01] have been eating fruit first.

[23:04] It could be anything.

[23:06] >> Well, that's really harsh, isn't it?

[23:12] >> How dare she care about you? What's the

[23:15] matter with her? And she cares about

[23:17] your boy, too.

[23:21] We're having fun with you a little bit.

[23:23] Surely there's more that she's doing

[23:24] that's annoying than that.

[23:29] >> I guess it's just the little attacks

[23:32] these days. I mean, the little um

[23:34] >> Does it feel that she is shining a

[23:36] spotlight on imperfections in you?

[23:39] >> Yes. And

[23:41] and if you knew that there were no

[23:44] imperfections,

[23:45] could she shine a spotlight on them?

[23:49] Wouldn't it sort of just be her felt

[23:51] that her quirkiness? In other words,

[23:52] she's just got that spotlight that she's

[23:55] shining around. It's sort of what she

[23:56] does. But isn't it cute?

[24:00] >> I've never I've never thought of it that

[24:02] way,

[24:04] >> but I could do it again.

[24:14] What we've noticed is that when someone

[24:18] touches a hot spot or a sore spot

[24:21] then you feel the way you do. And so

[24:24] it's as we were talking to our very

[24:26] first friend here today that you see

[24:29] most people when as they come into this

[24:32] physical life experience of course they

[24:35] came from source energy and they have

[24:37] their own perspective of of what they

[24:40] are observing that they are getting

[24:42] feedback from constantly. But most

[24:45] people really early on lose that sense

[24:49] of awareness of how they feel in

[24:52] relationship to who they really are

[24:54] because the humans in their life make it

[24:57] very important to you to care about what

[25:00] they think.

[25:01] >> And so in caring about what they think

[25:04] or in trying to get them to care about

[25:06] what you think, all of you are training

[25:09] one another to disregard your own

[25:12] guidance. And that's really what's at

[25:14] the heart of your discomfort. We really

[25:16] want you to understand that when you

[25:18] look at someone and you say because of

[25:21] the way you behave, I feel such and such

[25:24] that there is such a powerlessness in

[25:26] that because it is not the way that it

[25:29] is. What's really going on is your what

[25:31] what really is happening is and and if

[25:35] we could speak it for you, it would it

[25:37] would go like this. It would say I I am

[25:42] choosing to see you

[25:45] in a way that is entirely different from

[25:48] the way the source within me sees you.

[25:50] And because of the divergence I am

[25:52] making right here and now, I do not feel

[25:55] good. And I blame you because if you

[25:58] were different, I would be able to see

[26:01] you in a way that makes me love you.

[26:03] You're being unlovable.

[26:05] Now the the the important thing about

[26:08] this is that no one is ever unlovable to

[26:12] source because source always loves. And

[26:15] yet we know it's hard when when there

[26:18] are lovable people in your life who are

[26:20] easy to love and then there are un

[26:22] people that are not so easy to love. It

[26:24] makes you just want to shout you need to

[26:26] be different so that I can feel better

[26:28] because I want more than life itself

[26:30] because it is life itself to feel good.

[26:33] But we like it so much when somebody up

[26:36] close to you stubbornly remains

[26:39] unlovable

[26:41] because it causes you

[26:45] to do the only thing that will ever set

[26:47] you free, which is to find your

[26:49] connection with love anyway. And that's

[26:52] what unconditional love is. Most people

[26:55] are running around living very

[26:56] conditional loves. I want to love you,

[26:58] but I can't under these conditions. So

[27:00] be different.

[27:02] And to a certain extent you stand on

[27:05] your head to please one another. But

[27:07] very soon you begin to resent what they

[27:10] are asking of you. You need me to do

[27:13] what? So that you can feel better

[27:15] because it sort of sucks the life out of

[27:17] you. You get a few needy people around

[27:19] you who are dependent upon you doing

[27:21] those things. And we think that's what's

[27:23] happening to you here is that you're

[27:25] you're letting what your mother wants.

[27:28] You see, she trains you that way early

[27:30] on. You all do it to each other. She

[27:32] trained you to respond

[27:36] to respond to her needs and in doing so

[27:40] you're setting aside the biggest one

[27:42] that you have which is your own

[27:43] connection with who you are. So

[27:47] give us a call. We will be you and you

[27:50] be your mother.

[27:53] Call us and make a request. Make a

[27:56] request

[27:58] now.

[28:01] Yeah. And make it similar to something

[28:04] that you are living pretty regularly.

[28:08] Hello.

[28:12] >> Yeah. Um,

[28:17] >> yes.

[28:17] >> I thought that might be you.

[28:20] >> That's right.

[28:21] >> I thought that

[28:25] I was just hoping you'd come around and

[28:27] help me move this furniture. She has a

[28:28] bad back. So, she has finds lots of

[28:30] reasons now to get you.

[28:32] >> Now, you're going in and out of

[28:33] character.

[28:36] >> Okay.

[28:37] >> Who is this? Who is this?

[28:39] >> It's your mother. You

[28:41] >> Who is this?

[28:42] >> Your mother.

[28:44] >> Mother, I'm so glad you called. I was

[28:47] thinking about you before you called and

[28:49] I was feeling such appreciation for you

[28:52] giving birth to me.

[28:55] >> Now, that's a lady.

[28:56] >> You know, if it were not for You know,

[28:58] if it were not for you, I would not be

[29:00] here at all. You provide this wonderful

[29:03] avenue into Well, now we know it's too

[29:05] soon for this conversation.

[29:08] What do you What do you want, mother?

[29:10] What do you want? Well, my back's been

[29:12] playing up a lot. I'm just hoping you

[29:14] can come around before you go to work

[29:15] and help me move some furniture.

[29:23] There's usually a way she'll put it so

[29:25] you can't say no. But I can't remember.

[29:27] >> Well, in that case, yes.

[29:31] >> Okay.

[29:32] >> Is it is it important that it be done

[29:34] today?

[29:37] >> Well, now it could wait.

[29:46] >> Well, you know, I really I you know,

[29:48] Mom, I really do want to help you. And

[29:52] it's just that the timing's a little off

[29:54] for me right now. So, um, uh, if we

[29:59] could put this off for just a little bit

[30:02] because I there's some things I need to

[30:03] do before I come and help you do that.

[30:06] Now, what would she logically say to

[30:08] that? Like what?

[30:10] >> Oh, I guess so.

[30:11] >> Like what what what do you need to do is

[30:15] what her logical question would be. Like

[30:17] what what is it that you need to do?

[30:19] >> Yes. Well,

[30:22] I really want to get in a place where

[30:25] I'm really feeling good about helping

[30:27] you move that.

[30:33] And so, you know, I've been making these

[30:35] list of positive aspects about you

[30:39] and I have about a half a page.

[30:45] And I figured that I need to get up to

[30:47] two or three pages

[30:50] before I can before I can really come

[30:52] and really be there for you in the way

[30:56] that you want me to be there.

[30:58] >> Now, what do you think she would say if

[31:00] you said something like that?

[31:01] >> Oh.

[31:03] Okay.

[31:05] >> She wouldn't know what to say.

[31:06] >> She wouldn't know. She wouldn't know

[31:08] what to say, would she?

[31:09] >> All right. So, now the important thing

[31:11] is that you actually do follow through

[31:13] with that and you make your list of

[31:15] positive aspects. So, let's make a a a

[31:19] short list of positive aspects about

[31:21] your mother.

[31:26] Are you getting a sense of the grid that

[31:28] she has been practicing?

[31:30] Are you getting a sense of what her

[31:32] point of attraction is about her grid?

[31:35] And aren't you starting to feel a little

[31:36] sorry for her mother

[31:40] who is sucked in to the grid that she's

[31:43] got going? In other words, you've been

[31:44] blaming it all on your mother. And we're

[31:46] not saying that you're not responding to

[31:48] what she's doing, but every time you

[31:50] respond to what she's doing, you

[31:51] practice a grid and she can't buck your

[31:54] current. So, she's reaching for you. You

[31:56] see what she wants from you. She wants

[31:58] you to be there for her, not just there

[32:00] moving furniture around. The reason she

[32:02] calls you is because she's hungry for

[32:04] something that she hasn't gotten from

[32:06] you maybe ever. And that is happiness

[32:10] while you're with her. That's eagerness

[32:12] to be with her. That's what she keeps

[32:13] reaching for. So, she keeps conjuring

[32:16] all kinds of things that seem

[32:17] unimportant to you because they're

[32:19] really not the most important thing in

[32:20] order to get you over there. But you

[32:22] keep showing up not tuned in, tapped in,

[32:24] turned on. So, you leave her still

[32:26] hungry. You see, where if you could take

[32:29] the time to align yourself with who you

[32:31] really are, so that all of you shows up.

[32:34] So that all of you shows up. So that you

[32:37] show up in fun and in appreciation for

[32:39] that which she is. So that you show up

[32:41] with energy and vitality and clarity

[32:44] about how to move the furniture. So that

[32:46] you show up with a willingness, with a

[32:49] willingness that comes only from that

[32:51] alignment. You see, that's what she's

[32:53] hungry for. And until you tune into that

[32:56] and show up in her life experience like

[32:58] that, she's just going to keep asking

[33:00] and asking and asking and asking for it

[33:02] because you cannot fill that void that

[33:04] she feels and that she feels unless you

[33:08] are in alignment with the whole of that

[33:09] which you are. So then you go off and

[33:12] you make your list of positive aspects

[33:14] and maybe it's a short list at first,

[33:16] but you say things, you get really

[33:18] general about it. You say things like,

[33:21] "She did provide an avenue for me into

[33:24] this physical time space reality." And

[33:26] she does care about me. That's why she

[33:28] stays close. And she does keep reaching

[33:31] out for something that she's wanting to

[33:33] get. And she is inspiring within me the

[33:36] desire for alignment so that I can

[33:39] satisfy that void within me and maybe

[33:42] inspire a filling of that void within

[33:44] her.

[33:46] the fact that she hasn't given up on us

[33:48] because she innately knows that there's

[33:50] something that she's reaching there for.

[33:52] Not only is she reaching for something

[33:54] that she's wanting to get for her from

[33:56] me, but she's sensing that there's

[33:59] something that she wants to give to me,

[34:01] but we keep getting crossways of it. And

[34:03] so, it feels like we never quite get it

[34:05] said because we're two people out of the

[34:07] vortex just banging around. So, if I can

[34:11] through this list of positive aspects

[34:13] get myself more in alignment with who I

[34:15] am and I show up fully who I am, maybe

[34:19] my mother and I will begin to have the

[34:21] relationship that we were born to have.

[34:23] Maybe we will begin to fulfill our

[34:26] reason for being in one another's lives.

[34:29] >> Yeah.

[34:34] So, she'll call and you'll say, "Hey, I

[34:38] thought that was you." you and she'll

[34:39] say, "Who's this?"

[34:42] And you'll say, "I've been thinking

[34:43] about you all morning. What do you need?

[34:45] I've got some time. I'm eager to come

[34:47] over." And she'll say, "Well, that's

[34:50] nice. That'll set the whole thing off on

[34:52] a whole other footing." You see, you

[34:55] will be amazed at the way she responds

[34:59] to your grid. When your grid is in

[35:02] alignment with the energy that creates

[35:04] worlds, there's a leverage from

[35:06] alignment that is beyond description.

[35:09] There's not enough action in the world

[35:11] to compensate for what you've got going

[35:13] on vibrationally. And when you

[35:15] deliberately align your grid, make your

[35:18] grid, your point of attraction in sync

[35:20] with that source energy that is you, so

[35:23] that you have all of that backup, all of

[35:25] that leverage. This is the energy that

[35:27] creates worlds. Can you imagine how your

[35:29] mother is going to feel when you tuned

[35:32] into the energy that creates worlds with

[35:35] the the love of that which is source

[35:37] energy flowing through you? Hold her as

[35:40] your object of attention.

[35:42] She's going to feast on that in a way

[35:44] that she has not feasted on it before.

[35:48] It's going to be delicious for both of

[35:49] you. You see, we can hardly wait for

[35:52] that phone to ring.

[35:55] >> You mean that, don't you?

[36:00] Okay.

[36:00] >> We can hardly wait for you to hardly

[36:02] wait for that phone to ring.

[36:03] >> Okay. Yeah. Thank you.

[36:05] >> Yeah. Thank you.

[36:22] This is so cool.

[36:26] Three years, three months been waiting

[36:28] for this.

[36:29] >> Oh, was the person to the

[36:37] finally get to talk in front of an

[36:39] audience. Thank you. Thank you. Um,

[36:45] so can I ask when it comes to healers,

[36:47] like you mentioned Jesus in the past and

[36:49] there's other people around who who have

[36:51] walked into a room and had um miraculous

[36:55] effects on people who were um sick or

[36:58] deceased.

[37:00] H how does that then tie in with

[37:03] with it increasing their vibration or

[37:06] thinking about something else that

[37:09] >> Well, what what you're talking about is

[37:11] the power of influence. You you hear us

[37:14] say, we say it often that one who's in

[37:16] alignment is more powerful than millions

[37:19] who are not. It's like the demonstration

[37:21] that we had with our friend on the

[37:23] telephone earlier that when you take the

[37:26] time to tune in to that higher frequency

[37:28] so that you are really in alignment with

[37:30] that and then you hold someone as your

[37:33] object of attention, they benefit by

[37:35] your alignment. But you have to

[37:37] understand that law of attraction cannot

[37:41] put someone there who is not in the

[37:43] vibrational vicinity. That's why Jesus

[37:45] said it is your faith that has made you

[37:47] whole. In other words, if someone is

[37:50] standing in desire of something and not

[37:53] believing that it is possible, then it's

[37:56] not going to be their experience. You

[37:57] see, they've got to be somewhere in the

[37:59] vibrational vicinity in order for that

[38:02] to happen. Now, someone who's tuned in,

[38:05] tapped in, turned on has a very

[38:07] powerful, broad,

[38:10] long reach. When you know the power of

[38:13] alignment and when you know the the love

[38:17] of source and when you hold something as

[38:19] your object of attention, it benefits.

[38:22] But

[38:23] this is the

[38:25] easiest way to

[38:29] really get to the heart of this

[38:32] important question with an answer that

[38:35] that is right on target. You're going to

[38:37] feel this as it reaches you.

[38:41] Do you believe that everyone is an

[38:43] extension of source energy? Yes.

[38:45] >> And do you believe that source energy is

[38:50] looking at some with love and not

[38:53] looking at others? Or do you believe

[38:55] that source is aware of all?

[38:59] So therefore, everyone has access to

[39:02] that energy. Yes.

[39:04] >> Mhm. So you've got a direct connection

[39:07] with source,

[39:09] but you don't believe it. You doubt it.

[39:13] And so even though source is holding you

[39:15] as object of attention, it's bouncing

[39:17] off of you. You're not letting the

[39:19] benefit of it

[39:21] reach you.

[39:23] So

[39:25] then someone else who comes into your

[39:28] experience who is also tuned to that. Do

[39:33] you do you think that

[39:40] if source with all that source is

[39:44] is not able to

[39:46] bring a person from doubt then is there

[39:50] any healer who is in physical form that

[39:53] would be able to do that?

[39:57] In other words, we're we're asking you,

[40:00] do you believe that source has the power

[40:03] to assert?

[40:06] >> Absolutely.

[40:08] Well, it and then there's the belief in

[40:10] that person. If you're saying if you're

[40:11] using as identity like for use Jesus for

[40:14] example if you believe

[40:15] >> the thing is unless the perception of

[40:17] that individual changes and allows

[40:20] unless they let go

[40:22] >> of their resistance then in other words

[40:25] there there is not anyone who is who is

[40:28] not

[40:30] seen by source but there are many who

[40:33] don't allow themselves to know that you

[40:36] see

[40:37] >> and so the reason that we put it to you

[40:39] in that way is because we want you to

[40:40] understand that as the creator of your

[40:43] own experience, all of you are the

[40:45] recipients of this source energy and

[40:47] that every one of you is either allowing

[40:50] it or not allowing it. There is no

[40:52] withholding of source. It's a inside job

[40:55] that each of you must individually find

[40:57] your way to. And sometimes you don't

[41:00] find your way until you reemerge back

[41:01] into non-physical. But it is something

[41:04] that must be individually perceived.

[41:09] That might be a little upsetting to some

[41:11] humans because you want source to be so

[41:13] powerful that source can just zap you

[41:15] with knowledge. And we say that happened

[41:18] when you made the decision to come here.

[41:20] All of you came knowing that you were

[41:22] extensions of that which is source

[41:23] energy. And so source never stops

[41:28] offering. But you've got to find some

[41:30] way to do step three. That's really what

[41:33] we're saying. And so what healers do is

[41:37] that they offer such consistency of

[41:40] vibration that in time it causes those

[41:44] who have been resistant in nature to let

[41:46] go of the resistance and allow what was

[41:49] natural anyway. You follow

[41:52] >> and you feel how the first part of your

[41:54] question answered the last part.

[41:57] >> If I don't take it in now we will not

[41:59] listen to the CDs. It's a bit hard for

[42:00] me to take on here. I'm bit

[42:03] in awe, but I have another couple of

[42:05] questions if I may.

[42:10] Well, this one's a different subject.

[42:12] Um, the more we focus on something, the

[42:14] bigger it gets, and you've mentioned a

[42:16] couple of times, Abraham, about u

[42:18] demonstrations and it doesn't work.

[42:21] I'm wondering how that relates to in

[42:24] I I wonder about that because there's

[42:27] evidence that I've seen that when groups

[42:29] of people get together and shout, "Hey,

[42:32] stop this. We don't like it." It can

[42:34] actually make the thing stop. People

[42:36] actually the other people who've

[42:37] designed something to make it stop will

[42:39] actually stop it. And I wonder how that

[42:42] plays in with two people's um uh desires

[42:46] or manif to manifest. One person might

[42:48] have a manifestation wanting to create

[42:50] more money and they have this great idea

[42:51] and the idea might be to chop down some

[42:53] trees or dig a hole in the ground or get

[42:56] gas or something and they go, "Right,

[42:58] let's do that. That feels really good.

[42:59] We're making some money here.

[43:01] Everything's beautiful." On the other

[43:02] side of the coin, there's some people

[43:04] there whose properties next door is

[43:06] getting poisoned and they're not liking

[43:07] it so much.

[43:10] Um, so

[43:12] how does that work? And then when the

[43:14] other people then other people start

[43:15] complaining about it, then eventually

[43:17] the people who are making money out of

[43:18] it get told, "No, you can't do that

[43:20] anymore because it's actually damaging

[43:22] things for other people and is actually

[43:24] causing more problems to more people

[43:26] than your solution."

[43:28] >> First, there are so many things we want

[43:29] to say to you. Most important, can you

[43:32] feel the grid that you're practicing?

[43:34] >> Yeah. And the grid that you're

[43:36] practicing says that that things are out

[43:39] of my control or that that uh things can

[43:43] be set into motion over which I have no

[43:45] control. And of course that is a flawed

[43:48] premise. We want to start with the first

[43:50] part of your question because

[43:55] there is no denying that in this

[43:58] physical world that you are living in

[44:00] that your action counts for something.

[44:05] And there's no question that if there

[44:07] are two of you pulling on a rope on one

[44:10] end of a rope and there are 10 of you

[44:11] pulling on the other end of the rope

[44:13] that the 10 who are pulling on the other

[44:15] end of the rope are going to to win the

[44:18] tugof war. But in all of that, we are

[44:22] talking about

[44:24] a physical platform that is so mediocre

[44:31] in terms of power in relationship to the

[44:36] this energy that creates worlds. We we

[44:39] want you to think in terms of tapping

[44:42] into this

[44:44] alignment

[44:45] into this um energy that gives you more

[44:50] leverage.

[44:52] In other words,

[44:55] if you

[44:58] engage in the battle,

[45:01] then what you what you become is one who

[45:05] joins the others. In other words, as

[45:07] you're as you're pushing against this

[45:09] and you're pushing against this and

[45:10] you're pushing against this and you're

[45:12] pushing against this, now you are all

[45:14] disconnected from the energy that will

[45:16] make anything important happen or

[45:18] anything big happen. And now you're just

[45:21] graveling about with one another. And

[45:24] yes, we acknowledge that the the biggest

[45:28] and the strongest in physical terms will

[45:30] win that battle, but that's not the

[45:32] arena that you came to play in.

[45:36] If if you can let go of the resistance

[45:41] that is inspired from that sort of thing

[45:43] and step back into the more general

[45:46] place and find your point of alignment,

[45:49] you'll be one who when your grid fills

[45:51] in with inspiration, you will rise so

[45:53] far above it. You see, when you look at

[45:56] much of the world, there is that that

[45:59] sort of squabbbling for resources. And

[46:02] then there are those who are not

[46:04] squabbbling for those resources. And

[46:06] they are always those masters you call

[46:09] them, but they are not remarkable in any

[46:11] way other than that they have figured

[46:13] out how to stop doing that thing to

[46:15] themselves which was depriving

[46:17] themselves of the resources and how to

[46:19] tap into the stream that is that is

[46:21] yielding them more.

[46:24] We do not deny anything that you're

[46:25] saying. There are plenty of things in

[46:27] this world that you are not wanting to

[46:29] participate in. But there is a big

[46:32] difference when you ask these questions

[46:34] from the framework of what's it like for

[46:37] a person who's tuned into the energy and

[46:39] what's it like for one who isn't. And

[46:42] people have been writing endless books

[46:44] and having endless studies about a as

[46:47] they are trying to define the

[46:48] manifestations that people are living.

[46:50] It's such an interesting thing to to

[46:53] listen to to you. It it's sort of like

[46:56] whole groups of you make no effort to

[46:58] tap into the energy of creation. You

[47:01] make no effort to become a vibrational

[47:03] match to what's in your vortex. And then

[47:06] you see yourselves not living the lives

[47:08] that you want to live. And then you

[47:11] compare yourself to others who are doing

[47:12] the same thing. And you make a science

[47:15] out of behavior that has nothing to do

[47:17] with alignment. And then you want to

[47:20] know, well, why is this this way and why

[47:22] is this way and why is this way? And we

[47:23] say it doesn't really matter too much

[47:26] why anyone has created that. The

[47:28] question is do you like it this way? And

[47:30] if you do then give your undivided

[47:32] attention to that and if you don't then

[47:35] let go of it. Step into a vibration that

[47:37] is of a higher vibration and watch your

[47:40] grid fill in in powerful ways.

[47:43] Don't you find it interesting the

[47:45] difference in the way people are living

[47:47] their lives? Don't you find Don't you

[47:50] find tremendous variables in in what

[47:53] people are earning or in the way people

[47:55] are feeling,

[47:58] >> don't you?

[47:58] >> Yeah. It makes it interesting whole

[48:00] life.

[48:01] >> Well, the contrast is all certainly part

[48:03] of what causes you to put things into

[48:06] your vortex. But we just have to come

[48:08] back to do you believe that you are a

[48:10] vibrational being?

[48:11] >> Yes. And if you believe you are a

[48:13] vibrational being, then why would you

[48:16] recount a story of despair like the one

[48:19] that you recounted to us? Why would you

[48:21] keep that active in your vibration? And

[48:23] you would say because it's real. Because

[48:25] I observed it. And we say, but there are

[48:28] a lot of things that are real that you

[48:29] want to live and there are a lot of

[48:31] things that are real that you don't want

[48:32] to live. Why would you use those things

[48:34] that you don't want to live as your

[48:36] reason to practice a grid and practice a

[48:39] point of attraction?

[48:41] And for those like you, usually it's

[48:43] because you're wanting to make a clear

[48:46] point for others or you're you're

[48:48] wanting to you're wanting to teach

[48:50] someone something or you're wanting to

[48:52] bring clarification to something.

[48:55] Do you believe that you are the creator

[48:56] of your own reality?

[48:58] >> Yes.

[48:58] >> And do you believe do you believe that

[49:01] the things that you think about and the

[49:03] things that you talk about cause you to

[49:05] offer a vibration that comes back to

[49:06] you?

[49:07] >> Yes. And do you believe that everything

[49:09] that comes back to you comes back in

[49:11] response to the vibration that you're

[49:12] offering?

[49:13] >> Yes.

[49:13] >> Then why would you ever discuss the

[49:16] basis of the question that you presented

[49:18] to us here if you understand that

[49:21] you say

[49:23] we get it to a point just don't get

[49:26] carried away with it. It's like saying

[49:30] Abraham there are people over there that

[49:31] are not living very good lives and I'd

[49:33] like to talk about them. And we say,

[49:35] "Well, if you talk about them, then what

[49:38] they're living will become active in

[49:40] your vibration, and then you will live

[49:41] like them." And you say, "Yes, but I

[49:44] think it's important that I do have a

[49:46] point of understanding." And we say,

[49:48] "The only thing that comes out of living

[49:50] something less than you want to live is

[49:51] that you put more things in your vortex

[49:53] that you do want to live." And at some

[49:54] point, you have to wake up to the fact

[49:56] that you have a vortex that is full of

[49:58] things that you want that you would be

[50:00] very well to focus upon. It's time to

[50:02] stop asking the questions that hold you

[50:05] back from the solutions that have been

[50:07] waiting for you for a very long time.

[50:10] >> Thank you.

[50:20] >> Took a while getting there, but he

[50:22] represents a large segment of the

[50:24] population.

[50:26] Yes.

[50:33] Yeah, my question is this. I've been

[50:35] reading a book called the Urantia book

[50:36] which has been described as uh the fifth

[50:39] epical revelation. And the reason I ask

[50:41] this question is because you've

[50:42] mentioned previously that um heaven

[50:45] doesn't exist. And so I don't know

[50:47] whether you're familiar with the book or

[50:49] um the teachings of it.

[50:50] >> We can feel the vibration of it as you

[50:52] talk about it.

[50:53] >> Yeah. And I guess it um I just wanted to

[50:55] ask what your um perception of that is

[50:58] because it's really resonated with me

[50:59] but yet it also you know your teachings

[51:02] obviously also resonate. So I'm left a

[51:03] little bit confused about well the

[51:05] existence of heaven I guess I'm asking

[51:06] about. Well, the nice thing is uh our

[51:08] opinion of of your opinion is irrelevant

[51:15] except in the sense that you can fe in

[51:17] other words if you're reading something

[51:19] that feels uncomfortable that discomfort

[51:23] that you feel is your indicator that the

[51:25] source within you is not in agreement

[51:27] not necessarily of what's written but of

[51:30] your perception of what's written. In

[51:32] other words, there are a lot of

[51:34] realities that are being lived in in

[51:37] this physical time space reality and

[51:40] there are not two of you who are

[51:41] perceiving identically. So what humans

[51:45] are commonly doing with each other is

[51:47] that you yearn so much. You do you yearn

[51:51] for someone to understand your

[51:54] perspective.

[51:56] And we want you to cut that out

[52:00] because in your in your trying to

[52:03] explain yourself to each other in a way

[52:05] to get agreement from others, very often

[52:08] you are training yourself away from your

[52:10] own guidance system. You're training

[52:12] yourself away from your own expansion.

[52:15] And the more life causes you to expand.

[52:18] And the more you train yourself away

[52:19] from that expansion, the more

[52:21] uncomfortable you feel. And so we're not

[52:25] going to we let us say this to you. We

[52:28] have never seen any of you pick up

[52:31] anything that has been written, created,

[52:34] produced by any other human that was in

[52:37] every case a perfect vibrational match

[52:39] to you and what's in your vortex. That

[52:41] that isn't the premise that you came

[52:44] forth into this physical body. You

[52:45] didn't say, "I'll go forth and I'll find

[52:47] the right path and I'll I'll get with

[52:49] the right pack and we'll travel in the

[52:51] right circles and we'll say and do the

[52:52] right things." That isn't what you said.

[52:54] You said, "I'll go forth and I'll mix it

[52:56] up and I will come to my individual

[52:58] awarenesses because you've you have

[53:01] become who you've become before you came

[53:03] into this physical body. There was

[53:04] already plenty in your vortex that lets

[53:06] you know who you are. You are a lover.

[53:08] You were when you got here. And the

[53:10] first day that you found a reason to

[53:12] hate someone, you felt the discord of

[53:14] that hate because the source within you,

[53:17] no matter how justified you think you

[53:18] are in the pushing against of that

[53:20] injustice or that thing that you did not

[53:22] want to see, the source within you will

[53:25] not join you in that hatred. You see?

[53:28] And so this is a conversation that could

[53:31] go on for hours and hours and hours

[53:34] because we because

[53:37] there are so many facets to the

[53:40] environment in which you live and so

[53:42] many premises that people are presenting

[53:45] from. And there's a whole lot that

[53:48] people are saying about non-physical

[53:51] that is so far from what it really is.

[53:56] the the basic

[53:59] premise of most religions could not be

[54:03] more off from the way that it is. Most

[54:06] religion has you here being tested. None

[54:09] of that's true. Most religion has you

[54:12] here as inferior to that which is

[54:14] supreme. None of that is true. Most

[54:16] religion has you isolated and separated

[54:19] from that which is source and condemned

[54:21] and punished for actions and behaviors.

[54:24] Source isn't doing any of that. That's

[54:26] why in fact guilt even exists at all.

[54:29] You couldn't feel so bad if source

[54:31] didn't love you so much. What about

[54:33] that? If source wasn't constantly loving

[54:36] you, you wouldn't feel so awful when you

[54:38] find a reason not to feel love. And if

[54:41] source wasn't constantly loving everyone

[54:42] else, you wouldn't feel so awful when

[54:44] you're blaming them either. You see? So

[54:47] once you show yourself actively your own

[54:50] guidance, once you stand in any moment

[54:52] in time and you say here I am and source

[54:55] I know you have an opinion about this

[54:57] child that I'm looking at and you feel

[54:59] yourself welled up with appreciation.

[55:01] You can feel that your opinion your

[55:04] approach your perception right here

[55:05] right now is so in sync with the source

[55:07] within you that you are full of the

[55:10] completion of that which is source.

[55:11] That's what positive emotion is. The

[55:13] better you feel, the more you are

[55:14] completing or allowing the extension of

[55:17] source right here and now in this moment

[55:19] in time. And the worse you feel, the

[55:22] more your desire to be that is, but the

[55:24] more you are disallowing it. You see,

[55:27] so we would graze our way across the

[55:30] libraries of your world and across the

[55:33] data fields of your world. We would look

[55:35] for resonance. We would be constantly

[55:38] looking for resonance. But we would not

[55:40] be doing what most humans do, which is

[55:42] exploring the manifestations. Most

[55:44] humans are running around not even aware

[55:46] that they are vibrational creators,

[55:49] looking at the results of the vibrations

[55:51] that people have been offering and then

[55:53] letting their whole life be based upon

[55:55] those manifestations. So then they sort

[55:57] the manifestations in piles. These are

[55:59] good ones. These are not so good. These

[56:01] are terrible. And and our religion

[56:04] judges those manifestations as

[56:05] completely inappropriate and those

[56:07] manifestations as better. And then we

[56:09] conjure some fictitious heaven that is

[56:12] someplace else. When your heaven or your

[56:15] hell that you are living is your

[56:16] resonance or your lack of it. It's your

[56:18] alignment or your not. It's your

[56:20] allowing of the source within you now or

[56:22] not. You see, source is never departing

[56:26] from you. You didn't lose your

[56:28] connection with source when you came

[56:29] into this physical experience. Source

[56:31] came right here with you. But you can

[56:33] choose thoughts that pinch you pinch you

[56:34] off pretty good from it. And you can

[56:36] choose thoughts that align you with it

[56:38] right away. You see, you can live a life

[56:40] of alignment and you will discover

[56:42] heaven on earth. And from our

[56:44] perspective, what heaven on earth really

[56:46] is is sifting through some contrast and

[56:49] recognizing some negative emotion.

[56:51] That's delicious guidance. I have

[56:53] guidance within me. I know that I'm off

[56:56] the track of something, but I also know

[56:58] I gave birth to something more and that

[57:00] source within me resonated with the more

[57:02] and became it immediately. And that the

[57:04] only reason that I can feel negative

[57:05] emotion right now is because I expanded

[57:07] and didn't go. That's heaven on earth.

[57:10] And now I'm consciously aware of my

[57:12] guidance system. Now I can find thoughts

[57:14] that feel a little better. I can give

[57:16] myself some ease and relief. You call

[57:18] that forgiveness. We call it coming back

[57:20] into alignment. It's the releasing of

[57:22] the resistance and the resonance with

[57:24] the source within me. And now I'm back

[57:26] in resonance. And now my grid's filling

[57:28] in. And now wonderful things are

[57:30] happening everywhere I turn. Sweet

[57:32] people talking to me. Intellectual

[57:34] conversations going on. Physical stamina

[57:37] and vitality and flexibility is mine. A

[57:40] feeling of of well-being. Everywhere I

[57:42] look, it is beautiful. I'm zigging and

[57:44] zagging with the best of life. I'm on

[57:46] that vortex that all good things are

[57:47] mine. And there are people maybe

[57:49] clamoring around saying, "Hey, life

[57:51] isn't good. Life isn't good. Life isn't

[57:53] good. Life isn't good." But I don't hear

[57:54] them. I'm not in the vibrational

[57:56] vicinity of them. I'm living pure

[57:58] positive energy. I'm living life in the

[58:00] way that I came forth to live and

[58:01] standing as example of well-being to

[58:03] others. And when others come into my

[58:05] experience, maybe they were born into my

[58:06] family, maybe I was born to them, maybe

[58:08] I married one of them, maybe I go to

[58:10] school with one of them. Some of this

[58:11] clamoring in a vibration that doesn't

[58:13] feel so good. They're saying, "Hey, you,

[58:15] what have you got your head in the

[58:16] clouds? What are you so happy about? You

[58:18] should be down here with us living life

[58:20] in the reality that we all live. You

[58:22] should be sifting and sorting through

[58:23] the stuff of life, and you should be

[58:24] perceiving life more as we perceive it."

[58:26] And we say you can't perceive other than

[58:30] you perceive. And when you tune yourself

[58:32] to the frequencies of well-being,

[58:34] well-being is what will be revealed to

[58:36] you everywhere you go. If we were

[58:38] standing in your physical shoes, we

[58:40] would no longer sift and sort the piles

[58:42] of manifestation. We would spend all of

[58:44] our conscious awareness in looking for

[58:47] the best feeling thought that we could

[58:49] find. We would tune ourselves constantly

[58:51] to the frequency that allows well-being.

[58:53] And we would stand as an example of

[58:54] that. So that when those who see us see

[58:57] us, they would understand that we are

[58:59] living the well-being that we have been

[59:01] talking about, teaching through the

[59:03] clarity of example as best you can and

[59:07] you never get it done. You never get it

[59:10] done and you cannot get it wrong. And

[59:12] the reason that you cannot get it wrong

[59:13] is because it is never done. So let's

[59:16] say you're standing in a place and you

[59:17] don't feel so good and with good reason.

[59:19] Something happened. You looked at it. It

[59:21] hurt your feelings. You're out of whack.

[59:24] The very fact that you can feel negative

[59:25] emotion means there is a love right now

[59:28] that you are denying. You couldn't feel

[59:30] pain if love were not there.

[59:33] Don't you like knowing that if there

[59:35] were not love that is more right for you

[59:38] and more available to you, you would

[59:40] never feel loneliness.

[59:42] Loneliness only exists because you're

[59:44] denying yourself the alignment with what

[59:46] you want. Are you getting this? You're

[59:49] getting this helpful? We liked it.

[1:00:08] Thank you.

[1:00:10] I guess I've got to that time in my life

[1:00:13] when I realized that my time on this

[1:00:17] planet Earth is not going to extend out

[1:00:19] too much longer. So I've got a an

[1:00:23] interesting question about source energy

[1:00:26] itself. Now I appreciate that we are

[1:00:29] part of source energy but is source

[1:00:32] energy in itself sort of got a sort of a

[1:00:37] a uh a pecking order. Is there higher

[1:00:41] levels of source energy? No.

[1:00:43] >> Or are we?

[1:00:45] >> Nope.

[1:00:50] >> So in the afterlife then or

[1:00:53] >> there is no afterlife. There's only the

[1:00:54] now life. It's all now.

[1:00:58] >> You think it's after this, but it isn't.

[1:00:59] It's the same as it's now. It's now. In

[1:01:02] other words, everyone that you know

[1:01:03] who's made their reemergence is still

[1:01:05] here with you now. There's no afterlife.

[1:01:07] There's just now. Here's where all of

[1:01:09] the power is. It's just now.

[1:01:11] >> So, as we come into this life experience

[1:01:14] and perhaps with previous life

[1:01:16] experiences,

[1:01:20] >> it's all now. It's all now.

[1:01:22] >> Okay.

[1:01:24] >> Do we aspire to sort of increase our

[1:01:28] energy levels? So,

[1:01:37] so

[1:01:41] is it therefore

[1:01:43] part of this life experience

[1:01:46] that we can improve our vibrational

[1:01:50] energy level? I I guess what I'm trying

[1:01:52] to say in oldie worldy terms, I always

[1:01:56] thought for a long time that there was a

[1:01:58] supreme being that we put the word god

[1:02:01] to.

[1:02:01] >> No.

[1:02:03] >> And then under that we had the

[1:02:05] archangels.

[1:02:07] >> No,

[1:02:08] >> you can you interpret vibration

[1:02:10] differently. And oh, the things you

[1:02:13] conjure in your attempt to explain why

[1:02:16] things aren't going better for you

[1:02:18] personally.

[1:02:19] But here would you like to we'll tell

[1:02:21] you how it is.

[1:02:22] >> H please.

[1:02:25] That's the essence of the question. What

[1:02:28] is it like?

[1:02:36] So prior to your focus into this

[1:02:39] physical body, you were consciousness

[1:02:43] aware of this time space reality.

[1:02:46] And we're not going to take a lot of

[1:02:49] time to explain how you came to all of

[1:02:52] that, but it was through all of the

[1:02:54] experiences that you've lived. Now, you

[1:02:57] have to understand that since law of

[1:02:59] attraction is managing all vibrational

[1:03:02] frequencies that when you reemerge back

[1:03:04] into non-physical that you're at that

[1:03:07] high frequency and law of attraction is

[1:03:10] managing that and that's where man gets

[1:03:12] the sense of this supreme being. is

[1:03:14] where you get the sense and it's not off

[1:03:17] but it is not a singular consciousness.

[1:03:20] It is a collective consciousness and it

[1:03:22] is made of all that all that is has

[1:03:25] evolved to. So what man wants to call

[1:03:28] God stands as that supreme consciousness

[1:03:32] that extended consciousness that

[1:03:34] expanded consciousness that became more

[1:03:37] just now with the asking of that

[1:03:39] question. In other words, everything

[1:03:40] that you live causes the expansion of

[1:03:43] that. So that existed and you are a part

[1:03:46] of that. And from that all- knowing

[1:03:50] understanding of your worthiness and

[1:03:52] eagerness to participate in the details

[1:03:55] of that expansion, a part of that

[1:03:57] consciousness came forward into the

[1:04:00] personality that you know as you. So

[1:04:02] here you are a part of that

[1:04:04] consciousness, a unique part of that

[1:04:06] consciousness who has the ability in the

[1:04:09] moment that you are born or any time

[1:04:10] along the way to resonate with the

[1:04:13] fullness of it or to pinch yourself off

[1:04:15] in some sort of of less than fullness of

[1:04:18] it. And in fact, just being physically

[1:04:21] focused naturally makes it logical

[1:04:24] because of the diversity of your time

[1:04:26] space reality that you would not be a

[1:04:29] perfect vibrational match to the pure

[1:04:31] positive energy of source. In fact, with

[1:04:34] very good reason. Source says, "We will

[1:04:37] remain here as the receivers of what you

[1:04:41] have sifted and sorted and concluded. We

[1:04:44] will hold the frequencies in their

[1:04:46] highest form as you deliver them to us.

[1:04:49] And law of attraction will continue to

[1:04:50] respond to the vibrational frequency of

[1:04:52] that. And in doing so, you will be able

[1:04:56] to feel in your human form as you are

[1:04:58] doing what you all wanted to do and what

[1:05:00] we all want for you to do as you're

[1:05:02] exploring the contrast for the purpose

[1:05:04] of finding the new idea in which we can

[1:05:07] all flow. In that contrast that you will

[1:05:10] be living, there will be some departure

[1:05:13] is too strong of word. Disconnection is

[1:05:16] too strong of word, but some possible

[1:05:19] depriving yourself of some of the

[1:05:21] fullness of that which we are as you are

[1:05:23] carving out the yet new idea. So you

[1:05:27] said, I'll go forth and I'll explore and

[1:05:29] I'll come to new conclusions. And source

[1:05:32] said, "And we will remain here as the

[1:05:34] joyful recipient of every wonderful new

[1:05:37] expansion that you discover and we will

[1:05:39] hold steady the frequency of that." And

[1:05:42] then you said, "At some point, I will

[1:05:46] withdraw my attention from this time

[1:05:48] space reality and I will reemerge into

[1:05:50] source energy." And as you reemerge into

[1:05:52] source energy, now how do you fit into

[1:05:55] the hole that is source? Is it just a

[1:05:57] nebulous mist without some any form of

[1:06:00] focus? Not at all. You reemerge in the

[1:06:02] non-physical as the being who came forth

[1:06:05] and as the being who expanded and as a

[1:06:07] being who wanted and as a being who

[1:06:09] understood or didn't. And you reemerge

[1:06:12] back into non-physical. And everything

[1:06:13] that was of interest to you while you

[1:06:16] were here in this physical time space

[1:06:17] reality is more poignantly of interest

[1:06:20] to you now because now you're seeing all

[1:06:22] of those things that you cared about

[1:06:24] through the eyes of source. Now you are

[1:06:26] seeing them in their perfection, in

[1:06:28] their clarity, in their absence of

[1:06:30] resistance. You see, so now all the

[1:06:33] people who have known you, all those who

[1:06:35] have loved you, all those who are now

[1:06:37] thinking about you, they now have access

[1:06:40] to that pure positive energy version of

[1:06:43] you. Unless they're missing you, unless

[1:06:45] they're beating the drum of the absence

[1:06:47] of you, unless they don't understand who

[1:06:49] you are and how you fit into the whole

[1:06:51] of this, you see? And it's really sort

[1:06:54] of splitting hairs to try to from

[1:06:56] physical form if you are one remaining

[1:06:59] as Jerry made his transition to the

[1:07:00] non-physical. For a while Esther was

[1:07:03] annoyed at the idea that he had just

[1:07:05] merged with Abraham.

[1:07:09] Was so annoying. I've always had

[1:07:11] Abraham. I don't want Abraham. I want

[1:07:13] Jerry.

[1:07:15] But what she began to discover is that

[1:07:17] Jerry has keen interest that's more

[1:07:20] specifically focused upon the details of

[1:07:23] the life that Jerry and Esther were

[1:07:24] living and that Esther still is living

[1:07:26] than Abraham has ever been. In other

[1:07:28] words, Jerry's still involved in the

[1:07:30] editing process. He's still interested

[1:07:32] in the temperature of the room in which

[1:07:34] you come in. He wants this format to be

[1:07:36] one that is comfortable for you. In

[1:07:38] other words, Esther can feel him all

[1:07:39] over the place. Her mind is full of his

[1:07:41] prompings. You see what we're getting

[1:07:43] at? So when you reemerge into

[1:07:46] non-physical, you don't you don't stop

[1:07:49] being who you are. You just stop being

[1:07:52] the resistant part of who you were. You

[1:07:55] become the full vibrational being of who

[1:07:58] you are. You live in that. And so anyone

[1:08:02] who is physically focused who then

[1:08:03] understands that now gets where

[1:08:05] inspiration comes from. Now you Esther

[1:08:07] said to Jerry, she's been saying it a

[1:08:09] lot. I'm thinking about you all day

[1:08:12] every day. And Jerry says to her, "How

[1:08:14] do you know it's you thinking about me

[1:08:15] and not me thinking about you?" And when

[1:08:18] Esther thinks about it, how does she

[1:08:20] know that out of the blue comes a

[1:08:21] thought, comes a thought of clarity? She

[1:08:23] had her pool replastered last in the

[1:08:26] last couple of months.

[1:08:29] And she was standing there with the man,

[1:08:31] the men who were making the proposal to

[1:08:33] her. And things began occurring to

[1:08:37] Esther that she had no business knowing.

[1:08:41] Suddenly, she knew how much water the

[1:08:44] pool would hold, and she knew that

[1:08:47] draining it was going to be interesting,

[1:08:49] and that there was a special valve that

[1:08:51] would take it out into the pasture so

[1:08:53] that it didn't have to flood the

[1:08:54] gardens. She didn't know she knew that,

[1:08:56] but she knew that because Jerry knew

[1:08:57] that.

[1:08:59] She knew that the windmill that has been

[1:09:02] pumping the water into the big holding

[1:09:04] tanks

[1:09:06] had some water, enough water, but some

[1:09:08] of it at the bottom may be a bit murky

[1:09:11] because it's been there a while. And so

[1:09:14] she did not want them to try to fill the

[1:09:16] pool all at once because she did not

[1:09:18] want to introduce that murky water from

[1:09:20] the tank into the pool. Where am I

[1:09:22] getting this stuff? Esther is thinking.

[1:09:25] Where? Why do I know these things that I

[1:09:27] have not known before?

[1:09:29] Because you are in alignment with

[1:09:31] source. In this case, the source that is

[1:09:34] your dearly departed mate who knows

[1:09:37] everything about that. You see, how am I

[1:09:40] as a painter painting this masterpiece?

[1:09:43] How do I know about the depth of texture

[1:09:46] and the breadth of color? How do I know

[1:09:48] these things? How can I write this music

[1:09:51] that I have not had access before? Where

[1:09:53] does this inspiration come from? It

[1:09:56] comes from those who have lived and who

[1:09:58] know, who are part of that which you

[1:10:00] are, who are flowing to you all day,

[1:10:03] every day for your surprise and delight.

[1:10:05] You see, as humans, you have quartered

[1:10:08] yourselves off as such individuals that

[1:10:10] you think that your work is to prove

[1:10:12] your worthiness to the point that you're

[1:10:14] wanting to extract yourself from

[1:10:17] anything that is helpful. And we're

[1:10:18] wanting you to begin blending yourself

[1:10:21] with all that is helpful. Because it is

[1:10:24] not as your religions have been teaching

[1:10:25] you. You're not here proving your

[1:10:27] worthiness. You are here being your

[1:10:29] worthiness. And you are the only one who

[1:10:32] can assign unworthiness to you. And when

[1:10:35] you are doing it, you always feel

[1:10:37] negative emotion. You see, so in time

[1:10:41] you will have to make your transition

[1:10:43] maybe in order to really understand the

[1:10:45] whole of this. But if you just

[1:10:50] gather a handful of premises from us

[1:10:53] here today,

[1:10:55] if you can just accept that you were

[1:10:57] before you were in this body and that

[1:10:58] you still are, and that you will be long

[1:11:01] after you are not in this body, but that

[1:11:03] you will have the perspective of that

[1:11:04] which you are, and that everything that

[1:11:06] you've ever lived equals the whole of

[1:11:09] which you are. And that from your source

[1:11:12] perspective, you spend no time defending

[1:11:15] who you are or trying to explain who you

[1:11:18] are. You just be it. Where in your

[1:11:21] physical format, you spend so much time

[1:11:23] trying to explain it that often you

[1:11:25] don't allow yourself to be it. You see,

[1:11:28] you don't remember it, but you were a

[1:11:30] few months old at one time and you were

[1:11:32] one years old and two years old and

[1:11:34] three years old. You've been moving

[1:11:35] along this vibrational trail for a long

[1:11:38] time. And every point of that

[1:11:40] perspective has contributed to the whole

[1:11:42] of who you are. But the whole of who you

[1:11:44] are stands as the culmination of all of

[1:11:46] that knowing. Not going back and trying

[1:11:48] to defend its beingness by explaining

[1:11:50] that that happened and that that

[1:11:51] happened and that that happened and that

[1:11:52] that happened. We would like to zap all

[1:11:55] of you with an understanding of your

[1:11:57] perfection and your worthiness. But in

[1:11:59] some ways we are eager to experience

[1:12:01] your exhilaration once you reemerge back

[1:12:04] into the wholeness of all of that. We

[1:12:06] also enjoy watching you tap into it just

[1:12:09] by finding something to feel good about

[1:12:10] here and now. And it is our promise to

[1:12:13] you that from this point forward when

[1:12:16] you feel that inspiration flowing

[1:12:17] through you that beyond the good idea

[1:12:20] that you're receiving and beyond the

[1:12:21] good idea that will play itself out in a

[1:12:23] very productive way for you. Beyond the

[1:12:25] good idea that'll bring you the money

[1:12:26] that you're looking for or bring you the

[1:12:28] mate that you're looking for or bring

[1:12:29] you the whatever it is that you're

[1:12:30] looking for. Beyond the specifics of

[1:12:32] that manifestation that will come on the

[1:12:34] heels of that really good idea. The most

[1:12:37] important thing that will come when you

[1:12:39] feel that good idea is that you will

[1:12:41] know that in this moment you are in

[1:12:43] perfect concert or resonance with the

[1:12:45] whole of who you are. You cannot be

[1:12:48] physical without being non-physical. You

[1:12:51] could not be more spiritual. There could

[1:12:53] not be more God flowing than that which

[1:12:55] is flowing through you. It's time for

[1:12:57] you to accept the rightness, the

[1:12:59] perfection, the wholeness, the

[1:13:01] worthiness of that which is you and get

[1:13:03] on with enjoying this moment in time

[1:13:05] with others who know it too. You see,

[1:13:14] and in time we will not be having

[1:13:16] conversations about how short or long

[1:13:18] this life is because you will understand

[1:13:20] that you are eternal in your beingness.

[1:13:22] And you will not be dreading the time of

[1:13:24] your departure or lamenting the fact

[1:13:26] that somebody else departed because

[1:13:27] there is no separation between what is

[1:13:29] physical and non-physical. Instead, you

[1:13:31] will be flowing in this moment in time,

[1:13:34] doing your very best to allow the

[1:13:35] wholeness of who you are because it is

[1:13:37] only in the wholeness of who you are

[1:13:39] that this moment in time feels the way

[1:13:41] it is supposed to feel or the way you

[1:13:43] intended for it to feel. You see, you

[1:13:45] came forth with the powerful intention

[1:13:47] of living unconditional love. You came

[1:13:50] forth intending to feel the wholeness of

[1:13:52] who you are and to present that

[1:13:54] wholeness as our last friend was talking

[1:13:56] to us about to present that wholeness in

[1:13:58] this moment in time. So when you do when

[1:14:01] you're talking to a child who feels that

[1:14:03] they have a problem and you know their

[1:14:04] solution, you're looking at them with

[1:14:06] the pure compassion. And compassion is

[1:14:08] nothing like sympathy. Compassion is

[1:14:11] knowing who they are, knowing where they

[1:14:13] are, knowing who they really are, and

[1:14:15] seeing who they really are. No matter

[1:14:17] how they are seeing themselves, seeing

[1:14:19] themselves, seeing them completely

[1:14:21] through the eyes of source. And when you

[1:14:23] do that, when you are tuned in to the

[1:14:26] frequency of that which is source,

[1:14:28] everyone who is in your presence,

[1:14:30] benefits by that which you are, they

[1:14:32] know their worthiness more. They know

[1:14:34] their greatness more. They are smarter.

[1:14:36] They are more intuitive. They are more

[1:14:37] in step with what they want. They

[1:14:39] thrive. When you begin to see people

[1:14:41] around you thriving, you will know

[1:14:43] you're doing your work. You see, and

[1:14:45] that's what we know as well. As you

[1:14:49] thrive, as you are in more ways than you

[1:14:52] are willing to admit at times, that's

[1:14:54] when we know that we are really doing

[1:14:56] our work because we know who you are. It

[1:15:00] just you take a little convincing

[1:15:02] sometimes.

[1:15:04] >> Really good.

[1:15:05] >> And tell me just one thing. Once we

[1:15:08] >> just one tell you just one thing. Once

[1:15:11] we return, do we get the opportunity to

[1:15:14] come back again?

[1:15:15] >> Where to? What's your point of return

[1:15:16] that you're talking about? Returning

[1:15:18] where? Since since you never since

[1:15:20] you've never gone, how do you return?

[1:15:21] >> Okay. Well,

[1:15:22] >> since you've never ceased to so you're

[1:15:24] non-physically focused, maybe holy, but

[1:15:26] still completely aware, have you

[1:15:28] returned or not?

[1:15:29] >> If you're in your physical body, still

[1:15:31] connected to source, what's coming and

[1:15:33] what's going? In other words, return. We

[1:15:36] we're wanting to help you to blur those

[1:15:37] lines just a little bit,

[1:15:39] >> okay? because it's the way you've come

[1:15:41] to separate. Now we'll hear your

[1:15:43] question now we've completely mocked you

[1:15:45] but

[1:15:48] >> I guess the question is

[1:15:50] >> do do we come back again into a future

[1:15:54] body to have new experiences

[1:15:56] >> never ended never ending but the

[1:15:58] question that we want to put to you is

[1:16:00] who comes

[1:16:02] >> who comes

[1:16:02] >> well source energy comes

[1:16:04] >> who the whole of that which you are

[1:16:06] comes all that is source comes every

[1:16:09] single time every single time The only

[1:16:12] question is how much of that hole that

[1:16:14] of source are you allowing to flow

[1:16:16] through? And sometimes your environment

[1:16:18] causes you to pinch it off for a while.

[1:16:20] But the good news about that is the more

[1:16:22] you pinch it off, the more you want it.

[1:16:24] So when you come into alignment, you

[1:16:25] feel it in a stronger way. And it

[1:16:27] doesn't take many like the likes of you

[1:16:30] who are out there living the true

[1:16:32] example of who you really are that those

[1:16:34] who really want to know will make their

[1:16:36] way to you. And as you hold them as your

[1:16:38] object of attention, they will feel the

[1:16:40] wholeness of who they are. You see, life

[1:16:43] just gets better and better and better.

[1:16:45] But even at that, even at what you call

[1:16:48] its physical

[1:16:50] worst, it is still exactly as you

[1:16:53] intended. In other words, nothing is

[1:16:57] ever going wrong. Nothing is ever going

[1:16:59] wrong. You just have to stand back and

[1:17:02] get a bigger picture at it. There was a

[1:17:04] time a year or so ago after Jerry had

[1:17:07] made his transition that when Esther

[1:17:08] heard us say nothing ever goes wrong,

[1:17:10] she said, "Says you, you ghost.

[1:17:15] Says you. Says you."

[1:17:17] >> Yeah.

[1:17:18] >> Because my heart, what I am feeling

[1:17:21] feels awful and that feels wrong. And we

[1:17:25] say, "But you have a misunderstanding of

[1:17:27] what it is. you're just pinching

[1:17:29] yourself off from what you want by

[1:17:31] choosing a perspective that doesn't

[1:17:32] allow you to know what you know. It

[1:17:35] wasn't long before she got back in sync

[1:17:38] and began to experience

[1:17:40] a holer, more vivid, more beautiful,

[1:17:43] more magnificent, more helpful, more

[1:17:46] present Jerry than she had ever known

[1:17:48] while he was in his physical body. In

[1:17:50] other words, you just can't get away

[1:17:53] from us.

[1:17:56] We're focused on you. Thank you.

[1:17:58] >> Yeah.

[1:18:06] >> I want to know why I'm so resistant and

[1:18:08] why I'm so afraid to feel this power.

[1:18:13] Well, you're not afraid of the power.

[1:18:15] Because when you feel, you see, when you

[1:18:17] feel it, it feels wonderful. You're not

[1:18:19] afraid of empowerment. Fear is pinching

[1:18:22] it off.

[1:18:24] So, but it's interesting when you put it

[1:18:26] in a sentence like that. Why am I

[1:18:28] afraid? Well, I'm afraid. Why am I

[1:18:31] afraid of this power?

[1:18:33] Because I'm not in vibrational alignment

[1:18:35] with the power. I've got it pinched off.

[1:18:38] That's why.

[1:18:40] So, now what's the follow-up question?

[1:18:42] Why do I do that? Why do you do that? I

[1:18:46] don't know.

[1:18:48] So can you can you feel that it is a

[1:18:52] matter of focusing in opposition to it?

[1:18:54] So give us an example if you can and you

[1:18:58] can of some kind of thought that you are

[1:19:01] thinking when you feel afraid

[1:19:05] what's the thought like

[1:19:07] >> it feels like I can't have what I want.

[1:19:09] >> Yeah it's scary.

[1:19:10] >> So so well it's not scary to have what

[1:19:12] you want. The scariness is in not

[1:19:15] allowing what you want.

[1:19:17] There's a flawed premise there and we

[1:19:19] see why you would come to that. A lot of

[1:19:21] people make that misunderstanding. You

[1:19:24] say, "I'm feeling this fear because I'm

[1:19:28] afraid to have what I'm asking for."

[1:19:30] That's not why you have the feeling of

[1:19:31] fear. Fear is because you're focused

[1:19:33] upon the absence of what you're asking

[1:19:35] for. But we see how you would come

[1:19:37] around to that conclusion. But doesn't

[1:19:40] this make sense to you that the fear so

[1:19:42] when we say so what kinds of thoughts

[1:19:44] are you thinking when you feel the fear?

[1:19:46] I'm thinking that I can't have what I

[1:19:48] want. You're not thinking about having

[1:19:50] it. When you think about having it, now

[1:19:52] it may be that you can't jump from your

[1:19:54] practice thought of not having it into a

[1:19:58] immediate thought of having it. You have

[1:19:59] to sort of have to warm yourself up to

[1:20:01] it. But

[1:20:03] the nice thing is once you've had a

[1:20:06] discussion like the one that we've had

[1:20:08] today

[1:20:10] and then you feel some negative emotion,

[1:20:13] you're more likely to stop and

[1:20:15] comprehend what that negative emotion

[1:20:19] guidance is actually saying. And if you

[1:20:22] will pay attention every time, no

[1:20:24] exception, you will realize you have

[1:20:27] been focused and not just a little,

[1:20:29] pretty strong and steady on the absence

[1:20:31] of what you want or something has

[1:20:34] stirred up your awareness of what you do

[1:20:36] want and you're just maintaining your

[1:20:38] habitual vibration about it. So, how do

[1:20:42] you So, if and it is if that feeling of

[1:20:46] fear simply means you're vibrationally

[1:20:49] off from what you want, then what's the

[1:20:52] logical conclusion about what to do

[1:20:54] about it? If you're thinking about the

[1:20:56] absence of what you want and that's

[1:20:57] what's producing the fear, what's the

[1:20:59] obvious thing that you might do to make

[1:21:01] the fear go away or to allow the fear to

[1:21:03] dissipate?

[1:21:05] >> Don't focus on it.

[1:21:06] >> Don't focus on it. But what if it's

[1:21:08] something you really want? What what

[1:21:10] what if it's something that you really

[1:21:11] want and you feel like you can't stop

[1:21:13] thinking about it. What might you do?

[1:21:15] What do you what do you do? Well, you

[1:21:17] hold the thought. I want to think about

[1:21:18] this without fear. I want to see I want

[1:21:21] to see this the way source sees it. I

[1:21:23] want to feel my way into complete

[1:21:24] alignment with it. And that's where the

[1:21:26] exercise that we've been offering about

[1:21:28] going general comes in.

[1:21:30] >> Okay.

[1:21:30] >> So, you want to talk about the specifics

[1:21:31] of what you're feeling fear around?

[1:21:33] >> Yeah. Love.

[1:21:36] So give us an example if you can and you

[1:21:38] can um

[1:21:40] >> of a feeling when you're having a

[1:21:42] thought or an awareness or an

[1:21:44] observation and fear comes over you.

[1:21:48] >> Um

[1:21:50] when I'm thinking about finding a

[1:21:52] partner.

[1:21:53] >> All right. But you're not thinking about

[1:21:55] finding a partner when fear comes.

[1:21:56] You're thinking about not having found

[1:21:58] one and not ever finding one.

[1:21:59] >> Yeah, that's right.

[1:22:00] >> Well, isn't that good to know? It's

[1:22:02] really different.

[1:22:04] It's really different. It's really

[1:22:06] different because one is practicing a

[1:22:08] grid that will allow a partner and the

[1:22:10] other is practicing a grid that won't

[1:22:12] allow. And by the time you've got some

[1:22:15] some pretty obvious fear going on, it

[1:22:18] means you've practiced a pretty steady

[1:22:19] grid

[1:22:20] >> and you kind of want to stop doing that.

[1:22:22] Our first friend today, we we we

[1:22:25] appreciated so much his willingness to

[1:22:27] play with us because we really got all

[1:22:29] over that about practicing the grid. So,

[1:22:33] what kinds of things just for fun do you

[1:22:36] sometimes find yourself saying that are

[1:22:39] practicing the grid that is disallowing

[1:22:41] the partner? What things what are the

[1:22:43] things that just come natural to you

[1:22:46] about a partner?

[1:22:47] >> I can't have that.

[1:22:49] >> I can't have that. I don't have that.

[1:22:51] >> Yeah. If I see other people and they

[1:22:54] have what I want, I think I can't have

[1:22:56] that or I don't have that. And and is

[1:22:59] the reason that your conclusion is that

[1:23:01] you can't have it because you don't have

[1:23:02] it?

[1:23:03] >> Yes.

[1:23:08] >> Well, that's true. That would that's an

[1:23:09] accurate act answer, but that's like

[1:23:11] saying I'm going on a journey and

[1:23:14] because I'm not there, I can't get

[1:23:16] there.

[1:23:16] >> Yeah.

[1:23:17] >> Esther and Barbara and Mark and Richard,

[1:23:19] they get on the airplane and they say,

[1:23:20] "We're not there.

[1:23:22] Why bother?

[1:23:28] We're not there. We'd like to go to

[1:23:30] Australia.

[1:23:33] It's far far far

[1:23:37] away, but there's no point in trying to

[1:23:39] get there because we're not there.

[1:23:42] Hello, Leon.

[1:23:44] We can't come.

[1:23:47] Why not? Because we aren't there.

[1:23:55] Good.

[1:23:57] So that's dumb.

[1:23:59] >> Yeah, sure is.

[1:24:02] >> Got any good reasons?

[1:24:04] >> Um,

[1:24:06] I guess it's a sense of not really being

[1:24:08] able to feel, ah, yeah, I think I

[1:24:10] deserve that. So you think you don't

[1:24:12] deserve it because you don't have it.

[1:24:14] >> Well, I guess because I've never had it,

[1:24:16] then maybe that's because I don't.

[1:24:17] >> See, that's the interesting thing. So

[1:24:19] I've been practicing this grid which is

[1:24:21] giving me exactly how I feel. That's

[1:24:24] worth something. You see, if you will

[1:24:26] pay attention to that I'm getting what

[1:24:28] I'm offering. So, so your grid is

[1:24:32] filling in with how you feel. Doesn't

[1:24:34] that make you want to change how you

[1:24:38] feel so that it will fill in with other

[1:24:40] things? Have we appealed to your sense

[1:24:42] of universal law logic at all?

[1:24:46] >> Sure. I think that's where the fear

[1:24:48] comes in and it stops it and then I

[1:24:50] start closing.

[1:24:51] >> But don't use fear. Don't use fear

[1:24:52] against yourself in that way. That's

[1:24:54] bogus.

[1:24:55] >> Okay.

[1:24:56] >> Fear fear isn't you think you think fear

[1:24:58] comes in.

[1:25:01] Why?

[1:25:02] >> Um because I'm not ready or I'm I'm not

[1:25:05] able to hear something or

[1:25:07] >> because I'm not vibrationally in

[1:25:09] alignment with my desire. Period.

[1:25:11] >> No other reason. Why do I feel this way?

[1:25:14] Why do I feel this yucky way?

[1:25:16] >> Because source sees it differently. And

[1:25:18] I'm stubbornly holding to an old

[1:25:20] erroneous nowness that has nothing to do

[1:25:23] with where I'm going. Really?

[1:25:25] >> Yeah.

[1:25:25] >> Really? We really want you to put this

[1:25:27] in terms of any journey. Well, here I

[1:25:29] am. Where do you want to go? Nowhere.

[1:25:35] Why? Because I'm not anywhere else. I'm

[1:25:37] just here.

[1:25:39] How do you like it there? Not so much.

[1:25:43] Would you like to go somewhere else? No.

[1:25:44] It makes me afraid.

[1:25:47] Afraid of what? Of not getting there.

[1:25:54] >> Uhhuh.

[1:25:56] Really?

[1:25:59] So what you've got going on is just a

[1:26:01] habit of perceiving. And because you

[1:26:04] have not understood that your grid is

[1:26:06] always filling in. You see, it's always

[1:26:08] filling in and it's always changing.

[1:26:11] It's just changing to more of the same.

[1:26:13] >> Yeah.

[1:26:14] >> Oh, isn't that worth thinking about? So,

[1:26:17] here's where I stand and this is what

[1:26:18] I'm observing. And I'm observing that I

[1:26:20] don't have a mate. And I'd like one, but

[1:26:22] I'm observing that I don't have one. And

[1:26:24] so, my grid is about not having one, not

[1:26:26] having one. Not having one. So, the law

[1:26:28] of attraction is responding to the grid

[1:26:30] that I'm offering. And so, every day

[1:26:32] it's new. Not having it again, not

[1:26:33] having it again. Not having it again,

[1:26:35] not having it again. Not having it

[1:26:36] again. Not having it again. Not having

[1:26:38] it again. This is going to take a while.

[1:26:39] Not having it again. Not having it

[1:26:41] again. Not having it again. Not having

[1:26:42] it again. Not having it again. Not

[1:26:44] having it again. Do you know in the

[1:26:45] moment that you stop noticing that

[1:26:47] you're not having it again, something

[1:26:48] could change? So, how is it that you all

[1:26:52] get so hung up on offering your

[1:26:54] vibration mostly by what you're

[1:26:56] observing? That's what makes you think

[1:26:58] that life is happening to you rather

[1:27:00] than that you are calling it to you. So,

[1:27:03] we think you know differently now, don't

[1:27:04] you?

[1:27:05] >> I do. Yes,

[1:27:06] >> you really do. And so if your grid is

[1:27:09] filling in based upon what you're what

[1:27:12] you've got going on right now, what

[1:27:14] could you do now that could change that?

[1:27:21] >> Sorry, I'm now getting stage fright.

[1:27:24] I could uh

[1:27:27] believe or feel myself as the creator of

[1:27:30] my reality.

[1:27:31] >> That's easy answer, isn't it? But not so

[1:27:32] easy to do. So what's a belief anyway? A

[1:27:35] belief's just a thought you keep

[1:27:37] thinking. So if you've been thinking a

[1:27:39] different thought, is it logical for us

[1:27:42] to demand an entirely different thought

[1:27:44] right here and right now? It isn't

[1:27:46] logical, is it? That you could all of a

[1:27:48] sudden just conjure a whole different

[1:27:50] way of looking at it. So, but you do

[1:27:53] know that you got to do something

[1:27:55] different than what you've been doing

[1:27:56] because what you've been doing has kept

[1:27:58] you in a holding pattern different from

[1:28:00] what you want. So you must find some way

[1:28:03] of feeling different about that.

[1:28:06] >> So now tell us again some of the things

[1:28:08] you do that keep you feeling that way.

[1:28:10] You see someone else and you say, "Oh,

[1:28:12] they have something that I don't have."

[1:28:14] Could you soften that by saying, "I'll

[1:28:16] bet they weren't born together. They

[1:28:18] don't look like twins."

[1:28:19] >> Okay.

[1:28:22] I bet they didn't come in holding hands.

[1:28:26] I bet they didn't meet in the incubator.

[1:28:29] Okay. They met somewhere along their

[1:28:31] physical trail. They were not always

[1:28:33] together. There was a time when both of

[1:28:35] them were standing in anticipation of

[1:28:38] meeting each other just like I'm

[1:28:40] standing in anticipation. So, I'm right

[1:28:43] on schedule the way I see it.

[1:28:46] Well, that might be a little bit of a

[1:28:47] stretch from where you've been feeling,

[1:28:49] but isn't that logical?

[1:28:52] If they can do it, I can do it. Is that

[1:28:54] logical? Is that logical? How does that

[1:28:56] fly with you? or or are they worthy

[1:29:00] while you're not?

[1:29:02] >> I think that's where I've been going.

[1:29:04] So,

[1:29:06] so you think that's your tripping point?

[1:29:09] I must not be worthy of something more

[1:29:13] than I have because all I've got is what

[1:29:16] I've got. When we put it that way, isn't

[1:29:19] that silly?

[1:29:22] So, how can you how can you alter your

[1:29:25] own perception? What might you do that's

[1:29:27] different? What might you say about

[1:29:28] that?

[1:29:30] >> I might say, "I can have it just like

[1:29:31] anyone else."

[1:29:32] >> Yeah, but you don't believe that. So,

[1:29:33] what else might you say?

[1:29:38] What might you say that you do believe?

[1:29:40] >> Ah, okay.

[1:29:41] >> I've had improvement on many fronts in

[1:29:44] my life experience. There are many

[1:29:46] things that I wanted that I didn't have

[1:29:48] that eventually came about.

[1:29:49] >> Yeah, you're right.

[1:29:50] >> I've not been void of well-being. In

[1:29:53] fact, there's a lot of well-being in my

[1:29:55] life. Yeah.

[1:29:56] >> And maybe because this is something that

[1:29:57] I want so much and I've been focusing on

[1:30:00] it so much, not realizing that I was

[1:30:02] focusing on the absence of it.

[1:30:04] >> So I'm going to distract myself and not

[1:30:06] think about it so much. And when I do

[1:30:07] think about it, I'm going to become as

[1:30:09] general as I can be.

[1:30:10] >> Okay.

[1:30:11] >> So what do you think is the most general

[1:30:15] stance that anyone could take on

[1:30:18] anything that they want? In other words,

[1:30:20] I want this specific. What kinds of

[1:30:22] things have you been looking for? In

[1:30:23] other words, in a relationship, what do

[1:30:25] you want? Just give us a sort of short

[1:30:27] list.

[1:30:28] >> Some are available,

[1:30:31] heterosexual.

[1:30:35] >> Um,

[1:30:36] >> so it's just the mere test.

[1:30:38] >> I'm being general,

[1:30:42] >> available.

[1:30:42] >> I want someone who loves me,

[1:30:43] >> breathing.

[1:30:44] >> Yeah. Someone who's interested in loving

[1:30:46] me.

[1:30:49] So through life experience before you

[1:30:52] were identifying the specifics of a

[1:30:55] partner that you wanted to partner up

[1:30:56] with, do you think that you were

[1:30:59] collecting any data prior to your

[1:31:02] awareness that you wanted to live

[1:31:03] happily ever after with someone? It's a

[1:31:05] trick question, so be careful.

[1:31:08] Can you repeat that? Sorry.

[1:31:12] The point that we're wanting to make is

[1:31:13] that long before you put on your list, I

[1:31:16] want a relationship. You were putting

[1:31:18] the components of a really good

[1:31:20] relationship in your vortex. When

[1:31:22] someone was rude to you, you want people

[1:31:24] to be nice. When you feel unattended to,

[1:31:26] you want someone who pays attention.

[1:31:28] When somebody offers the most boring

[1:31:32] conversation that just goes on and on

[1:31:34] and on and on and on and getting carried

[1:31:37] away about on and on and on about things

[1:31:39] you're not interested in, you want

[1:31:41] someone who has some interest. When when

[1:31:43] when you're with someone who who is not

[1:31:47] attentive to their their appearance, you

[1:31:50] want someone who is when when you're

[1:31:53] with someone who makes a mess everywhere

[1:31:55] they are, you want someone who's tidier.

[1:31:58] In other words, you are making all of

[1:31:59] those decisions. A lot of what you want

[1:32:02] in a relationship, in fact, almost all

[1:32:05] that you care about in a relationship,

[1:32:07] in fact, everything that you want in a

[1:32:10] relationship was in your vortex before

[1:32:12] you came to the conclusion that you want

[1:32:14] something. Now, stay with us because

[1:32:15] we're going to tie something in that you

[1:32:17] felt us come approach earlier on.

[1:32:21] Abraham, you mean so I've been putting

[1:32:23] pieces of this relationship in my whole

[1:32:25] life and even before you came into this

[1:32:28] body?

[1:32:29] pieces into this vortex of what a

[1:32:31] meaningful relationship feels like in

[1:32:34] the vortex spinning cooperative

[1:32:36] components being gathered and then an

[1:32:40] idea flows to you about something that

[1:32:43] you really want and you think the idea

[1:32:46] is being born in that moment. It was

[1:32:49] already in the vortex.

[1:32:51] You are realizing it when it flows to

[1:32:53] you and you think, "Oh, I just developed

[1:32:56] a desire. I just realized how much I

[1:32:59] really, really, really, really want

[1:33:00] something. Well, you've been wanting it

[1:33:02] for a long time. You're just at the

[1:33:04] place now where your grid is beginning

[1:33:06] to fill in with the idea of it. Did you

[1:33:08] hear that? Can you feel the power of

[1:33:10] that? That very often in the Now, what

[1:33:12] happened? The grid filled in. In other

[1:33:14] words, you were just bipping along. You

[1:33:16] weren't beating the drum of not having

[1:33:17] something that you want. You weren't

[1:33:19] even thinking about it. You were tuned

[1:33:20] in, tapped in, turned on without even

[1:33:22] really doing it on purpose. So you were

[1:33:24] up to speed with the contents of your

[1:33:25] vortex and the idea of a relationship

[1:33:28] just wafted into your experience and

[1:33:30] settled into your beingness. And in

[1:33:33] almost the moment that that happened,

[1:33:35] you turned immediately and looked at the

[1:33:37] absence of it and you felt fear.

[1:33:41] Ooh, that's good. What you just heard

[1:33:44] means that you were up to speed with it.

[1:33:46] Otherwise, the idea wouldn't flow to

[1:33:48] you. But as soon as the idea hit you,

[1:33:50] you decided to approach it in that bogus

[1:33:53] way of feeling unready or unworthy or

[1:33:58] and in that moment you felt that fear.

[1:34:01] You were actually feeling the difference

[1:34:03] of opinion between what the source

[1:34:04] within you knows about that subject, the

[1:34:07] source within you who was leading you

[1:34:09] right along the path. And if you'd kept

[1:34:10] following that path, you would have

[1:34:12] rendevoused immediately with what you

[1:34:14] were wanting. But no, not you. You

[1:34:17] decided not to rendevous. You decided to

[1:34:20] take that old familiar drum and beat it

[1:34:23] of I don't have it, therefore I can't

[1:34:25] have it.

[1:34:27] Everything's different now though, isn't

[1:34:28] it?

[1:34:29] >> Yeah.

[1:34:29] >> Didn't you feel the shift? Didn't you

[1:34:31] all feel the shift? This is something

[1:34:33] really important. Something that we have

[1:34:35] not talked about with this kind of

[1:34:36] clarity before that your grid fills in.

[1:34:39] Now, so let's say it even better. So

[1:34:41] often when you feel strong negative

[1:34:44] emotion, let's say it even better.

[1:34:46] Whenever you feel negative emotion, it

[1:34:50] always means your grid started to fill

[1:34:53] in with something you want and you

[1:34:55] blocked it with a belief.

[1:35:00] Oh, that's good. Oh, that's good.

[1:35:05] And in doing so, you felt fear. Blessed

[1:35:09] fear. Thanks for pointing out that I

[1:35:11] just blocked something that I want with

[1:35:14] a bogus habit of thought that doesn't

[1:35:16] apply. and has no relevance to where I

[1:35:18] am now and where I'm going. Oh, well,

[1:35:21] we're done.

[1:35:22] >> Thank you.

[1:35:23] >> That's that's not just with you, with

[1:35:25] all of you.

[1:35:27] That's the nugget that we've been

[1:35:28] reaching for all day. That's the taking

[1:35:30] thought beyond that which it has been

[1:35:31] before. That's what you want to know.

[1:35:33] That's why we want you to make peace

[1:35:35] with your negative emotion. That's why

[1:35:37] we want you to understand what it is.

[1:35:38] That's why we want you to stop standing

[1:35:40] in a place of feeling mad at yourself or

[1:35:43] at someone else when you feel negative

[1:35:45] emotion just because everything's not

[1:35:46] going exactly the way you think you want

[1:35:48] at this red-hot minute. Negative emotion

[1:35:50] is your guidance. When you when Esther

[1:35:54] likes to drive, she drives a lot. And in

[1:35:57] driving the monster bus, there are big

[1:35:59] bumps on the road. Do you have them here

[1:36:01] along the side to let you know that

[1:36:03] you're drifting off, drifting off,

[1:36:05] drifting off? And whenever Esther hears

[1:36:07] those bumps, it just makes her refocus.

[1:36:09] She doesn't say, "Damn bumps, if you

[1:36:12] weren't there, I could drive off the

[1:36:14] road in peace.

[1:36:20] I could go over the embankment and I

[1:36:21] wouldn't have this negative emotion that

[1:36:23] I'm feeling now in your bumpy judgment

[1:36:25] of me."

[1:36:27] You like your guidance system. You like

[1:36:29] your guidance system and we like you

[1:36:31] knowing about it. So next time you feel

[1:36:34] negative emotion and you describe it as

[1:36:36] fear, fear is a strong one.

[1:36:40] That means you have a strong desire that

[1:36:42] you are right now denying with habits of

[1:36:45] thought that you wish to change. So if

[1:36:48] you caught yourself in a moment of

[1:36:49] feeling strong fear, what kinds of

[1:36:52] things might you say that would walk you

[1:36:54] back from it? What do you know now from

[1:36:56] the conversation that we've just had?

[1:36:57] >> I don't need to be afraid.

[1:36:59] >> Yeah. or or

[1:37:01] >> or um I'm ready.

[1:37:03] >> Or fear. Blessed fear.

[1:37:05] >> Oh, thank you, fear.

[1:37:06] >> Yeah.

[1:37:07] >> Bless bless you, fear. You're reminding

[1:37:10] me that I've got some vibrational work

[1:37:12] to do. You're not here to remind me that

[1:37:14] I can't have it.

[1:37:15] >> Yeah.

[1:37:15] >> You're just here to remind me that I'm

[1:37:17] not ready for what I want yet.

[1:37:19] >> Okay.

[1:37:19] >> And you see, we love how picky you are.

[1:37:22] >> We do. You're not just looking for

[1:37:24] someone available. We've seen your

[1:37:25] vortex.

[1:37:29] Okay.

[1:37:30] >> It's not just someone available.

[1:37:32] >> All right. You're right.

[1:37:35] >> So when

[1:37:37] so when you feel negative emotion, thank

[1:37:40] you negative emotion for reminding me

[1:37:42] for amplifying the fact that there is

[1:37:44] something that I keenly want to which I

[1:37:47] am not in the vibrational vicinity but I

[1:37:49] have the ability to close that gap with

[1:37:51] a little bit of effort. Okay. So now

[1:37:54] what's the most general thing that one

[1:37:55] could do?

[1:37:58] Do I believe that I'm a vibrational

[1:37:59] being? That's really general. It's

[1:38:01] really off the topic of the specifics of

[1:38:03] the lover you're looking for. Really off

[1:38:05] the topic. Off the specific topic. On

[1:38:07] the topic, but off the specific topic.

[1:38:09] It goes really deep to that general

[1:38:11] vibrational place. I'm a vibrational

[1:38:13] being. I get to offer a vibration. When

[1:38:16] I offer a vibration, things come back to

[1:38:18] me. I offered a vibration and I was so

[1:38:20] close, my grid was so close to my vortex

[1:38:22] that the idea of the relationship that I

[1:38:24] want came almost into full view. It was

[1:38:26] so good and so sweet that it got my

[1:38:29] hopes up so high

[1:38:32] that when I came to my senses and

[1:38:34] realized when I stood I plummeted hard.

[1:38:37] >> That's why it was such strong negative

[1:38:39] emotion. The good news is I have my

[1:38:42] desire up there in a high place. The

[1:38:44] good news is I couldn't have felt that

[1:38:46] high place for the moment that I felt it

[1:38:47] if I hadn't been grid-wise in the

[1:38:49] vicinity of it. So I'm right on track. I

[1:38:52] just got a little cleaning up to do of

[1:38:53] my habit of thought. I just want to

[1:38:55] start moving my beliefs more in the

[1:38:57] direction of what I want. So I believe

[1:38:59] that I am a vibrational being. I do. I

[1:39:01] believe that I am offering a vibration

[1:39:03] all of the time and the law of

[1:39:04] attraction is responding to it. I

[1:39:06] believe that everything that comes to me

[1:39:07] is coming in response to the vibration

[1:39:09] that I'm offering. I believe that my

[1:39:11] guidance system is letting me know every

[1:39:13] step along the way whether I'm blended

[1:39:15] with my desire in or in opposition of my

[1:39:17] desire. And I love love love knowing

[1:39:19] every single time that I've got a little

[1:39:21] opposition going on because I now know

[1:39:23] what to do. I can cease in the moment of

[1:39:25] the awareness of the negative emotion. I

[1:39:28] can cease the conversation. I can first

[1:39:30] of all stop talking about it. I can stop

[1:39:32] giving lip service to it. I'm going to

[1:39:33] stop giving it air time. I'm going to

[1:39:35] stop talking about what I don't have and

[1:39:37] start talking about what I do have. I'm

[1:39:39] going to start talking stop talking

[1:39:40] about what's not manifested and talk

[1:39:42] about what's in my vortex. I'm going to

[1:39:44] stop talking about where I am and begin

[1:39:46] talking about where I'm going. It's so

[1:39:49] easy.

[1:39:50] It's so easy. You just got some habits

[1:39:53] you have to change a little bit. Really,

[1:39:55] really, really, really good.

[1:39:57] >> Okay.

[1:39:57] >> Yeah.

[1:39:58] >> Thank you so much.

[1:39:59] >> And we've seen what's in your vortex.

[1:40:01] >> We've seen what's in your vortex.

[1:40:03] >> We've seen what's in your vortex.

[1:40:05] >> Okay.

[1:40:06] >> You're really going to like it.

[1:40:07] >> Yes.

[1:40:08] >> All right. Thank you so much.

[1:40:24] I've got three questions.

[1:40:26] >> We have one answer,

[1:40:27] >> but uh

[1:40:31] but I only I only need a quick yes or no

[1:40:34] answer for the first two, so it won't

[1:40:35] take long.

[1:40:35] >> Yes, yes, and no.

[1:40:38] >> Next.

[1:40:41] >> And they're quite strange, so that's

[1:40:42] just a warning. Um my first question is

[1:40:45] in relation to time how humans perceive

[1:40:49] it as past, present and future.

[1:40:51] And what I want to know is does all time

[1:40:54] exist simultaneously?

[1:40:57] Yes, but not in the way you think

[1:40:59] because you your power of perception is

[1:41:01] only about now. So everything other than

[1:41:03] that is truly irrelevant. So when you're

[1:41:07] considering the past, you're still doing

[1:41:08] it now. And when you are considering the

[1:41:11] future, you're still doing it now. So

[1:41:13] now is where this is this is the

[1:41:16] relevance of time and it's the relevance

[1:41:18] of now. Right here and now the only

[1:41:20] thing that matters is your relationship

[1:41:22] with the expanded version of you. That's

[1:41:24] the juncture. That's the juncture.

[1:41:26] That's the only juncture that matters.

[1:41:28] >> It's not something I really dwell on. It

[1:41:29] was just more curiosity.

[1:41:30] >> Well, here's here's an easier way to

[1:41:32] hear it. Rather than thinking about

[1:41:34] time, you're going to like this. So as

[1:41:38] we're having this conversation, this

[1:41:40] combination of beingness has never been

[1:41:43] before in all of the universe. So as a

[1:41:45] result of this conversation, this that's

[1:41:47] happening right here and now. The

[1:41:49] universe is becoming more. So it's more

[1:41:52] now than it just was. That's as close to

[1:41:56] talking about past, present, and future

[1:41:58] as we would be interested in doing. In

[1:42:01] other words, there's just this constant

[1:42:02] becoming. So you're always standing in

[1:42:05] all of your potential power, allowing

[1:42:08] yourself to step forward into more of

[1:42:11] that potential power. But past, present,

[1:42:13] and future are not relevant, alignment

[1:42:16] or not is.

[1:42:19] >> Have humans physically timeraveled?

[1:42:25] >> Well, you have to let's go back to the

[1:42:28] first conversation that we that we were

[1:42:30] talking about. You see what is your what

[1:42:33] is your um perspective of time? In other

[1:42:37] words, what in your second question

[1:42:40] means you're still hung up on the first

[1:42:42] question and that the answer the answer

[1:42:45] from the first question didn't settle in

[1:42:47] or you wouldn't have been able to ask

[1:42:49] the second question.

[1:42:51] >> In other words, time travel, time

[1:42:53] travel, of course you can think about

[1:42:55] the past. Of course you can think about

[1:42:57] the present. Of course you can think

[1:42:58] about the future. And whatever you're

[1:43:00] thinking about is causing you to offer a

[1:43:02] vibration and law of attraction

[1:43:04] therefore is responding to it. But

[1:43:06] remember this is this is something that

[1:43:08] we have to integrate into this

[1:43:10] conversation before any of it makes any

[1:43:11] sense. Everything that you are

[1:43:14] experiencing here and now is a

[1:43:16] perceptual thing. In other words, you

[1:43:18] all made your way to this room and you

[1:43:20] all focused to varying degrees upon

[1:43:22] what's taking place on this platform.

[1:43:25] And so we are rendevousing here. And so

[1:43:29] you are having experiences with each

[1:43:31] other. You're having experiences with

[1:43:33] the presence of Esther. And you're

[1:43:35] having experiences with the energy of

[1:43:37] Abraham. And you're having experiences

[1:43:40] with the energy of your own inner being.

[1:43:42] Whereas there's a whole lot of

[1:43:43] rendevoing that's taking place right

[1:43:45] here and now. But none of it amounts to

[1:43:49] anything except for the perception of

[1:43:52] it.

[1:43:53] It's like it's the old thing. If a tree

[1:43:55] falls in the forest and no one's there

[1:43:57] to hear it, was there really a sound?

[1:43:58] And we said, who cares?

[1:44:00] If there's if there's if there's not a

[1:44:02] translator of the vibration, then did it

[1:44:05] exist? And so here you all are

[1:44:08] translators of vibration. But the piece

[1:44:10] that we want to insert in here and you

[1:44:13] have provided for us the platform, the

[1:44:15] the basis to really do it well, as well

[1:44:18] as we have ever been able to do it. In

[1:44:19] fact, as we move into this place that we

[1:44:21] have not been before, we want you to

[1:44:23] understand that all that you are about,

[1:44:27] we all have been perceiving whether you

[1:44:30] are rendevousing with that which we

[1:44:32] perceive or not. So there is a reality

[1:44:36] that you have set into motion from what

[1:44:38] you would call your past that you

[1:44:40] launched from your past forward into a

[1:44:43] futuristic in terms of manifestation

[1:44:45] vortex which we have called now right

[1:44:47] from the beginning. So in the moment

[1:44:49] that you asked for it, it became now and

[1:44:52] it became complete and we gave it our

[1:44:54] undivided attention. And as far as we

[1:44:56] were always concerned, everything that

[1:44:58] you asked for from your past came became

[1:45:01] immediately present tense. That answers

[1:45:04] my question.

[1:45:05] >> Just as we were visiting with our friend

[1:45:06] just now who is wanting something that

[1:45:09] to her still feels future tense, to us

[1:45:12] it is present tense. So the whole of

[1:45:14] what we've been talking about here today

[1:45:16] is about discarding the old beliefs

[1:45:20] about past, present, and future and

[1:45:22] being cognizant of your active vibration

[1:45:26] which you're offering right now and

[1:45:28] measuring it incessantly against the

[1:45:30] vibration of that which your is your

[1:45:32] source. So that the fullness of you is

[1:45:35] present in this now. And oh, the

[1:45:39] sensation of empowerment that you get

[1:45:41] when you accomplish that, you begin to

[1:45:44] understand that you are indeed the

[1:45:46] center of the universe. And everything

[1:45:48] that has been before has all been about

[1:45:51] this empowering moment that is all

[1:45:53] focused within you right now. And as you

[1:45:56] are wise enough not to worry too much

[1:45:58] about what anybody else is doing with

[1:46:00] the power or what anybody else is doing

[1:46:02] with the energy and instead you are

[1:46:04] letting your singular intent be upon

[1:46:06] your merging with you in this powerful

[1:46:08] now. Then you begin to perceive your

[1:46:11] world through the eyes of source. And

[1:46:14] the eyes of source is perceiving the

[1:46:16] world through your eyes. And there is

[1:46:18] this powerful synergy. In other words,

[1:46:20] when you've got source flowing through

[1:46:22] you, knowing what source knows in large

[1:46:25] part that you put into your vortex and

[1:46:28] you are not contradicting it with cross

[1:46:31] current of resistant vibration. So

[1:46:33] sources flowing powerfully with you

[1:46:36] through your eyes in this moment,

[1:46:38] feeding insight and thoughts,

[1:46:40] orchestrating rendevous, other powerful

[1:46:43] people coming with you on the same

[1:46:45] vibrational wavelength, discovering a

[1:46:48] now that is so different from what the

[1:46:50] majority of people are living because

[1:46:52] you're so in sync with all that you are.

[1:46:55] Not interested in talking about the past

[1:46:58] because it's irrelevant. and not even

[1:47:01] worrying about what's manifesting in the

[1:47:03] future. Why? Because now is so rich with

[1:47:07] the fullness of who you are.

[1:47:10] Don't you want that feeling of the

[1:47:12] richness of now that is so fantastic?

[1:47:15] It's like looking with such contentment

[1:47:18] at the richness of your family or of the

[1:47:21] conversation that you're having with

[1:47:22] someone that you don't yearn for

[1:47:24] anything yet to be realized because it

[1:47:27] feels to you as if everything in the

[1:47:29] universe is being realized by you right

[1:47:31] here and now. All of your senses are

[1:47:34] tuned in. You're turned on at every

[1:47:36] level of your being,

[1:47:38] evaluating, experiencing the

[1:47:41] deliciousness of now. That's what it's

[1:47:43] like for source and that's what you

[1:47:45] intended it to be like for you. You see,

[1:47:49] I got one more.

[1:47:54] I had a dream a year or two ago where at

[1:47:56] the end of the dream I died in not such

[1:47:59] a great way. And as I was dying, I woke

[1:48:03] up in real life in my bed. And when I

[1:48:06] woke up, I sort of slowly opened and

[1:48:08] closed my eyes to check if I was back in

[1:48:11] reality. And I'd never felt in my entire

[1:48:15] life better than when I woke up from

[1:48:18] that dream. And I was so deep like a big

[1:48:21] heavy piece of jelly in my bed. Um, and

[1:48:24] I felt myself going deeper and deeper

[1:48:26] into this feeling. But I'd stopped

[1:48:27] myself cuz I didn't know where it was

[1:48:29] going. And I was a little bit scared of

[1:48:30] it. But I felt so good. And it lasted

[1:48:32] for about half an hour. And I was

[1:48:34] curious what that might have been.

[1:48:36] >> Well,

[1:48:37] >> because I've never been like that ever.

[1:48:39] First of all, we want to explain to you

[1:48:41] that in the same way that what you think

[1:48:44] and what you feel and what manifests

[1:48:48] always vibrationally match.

[1:48:51] In other words, you create your reality.

[1:48:54] You also create your dreamscape. So,

[1:48:57] your dreams are not happening to you.

[1:48:59] You are realizing them, which means you

[1:49:02] you find a vibrational place that allows

[1:49:05] them. Now, let's take advantage of this

[1:49:07] just for a little bit because this is

[1:49:10] another new place that we have not been

[1:49:12] before.

[1:49:14] Speaking in terms of your grid filling

[1:49:16] in. So, and you're you're getting the

[1:49:19] sense of that, aren't you? So, your grid

[1:49:21] fills in in your dreams, too. So, what

[1:49:24] you believe fills in, not the reality as

[1:49:29] known from your broader perspective.

[1:49:31] Your dreams are symbolic or

[1:49:34] representative of the beliefs that you

[1:49:37] hold, of the patterns of thought that

[1:49:39] you've been offering. So most people

[1:49:42] have, as our friend said earlier, a

[1:49:44] recognition that you're not going to be

[1:49:45] in this physical body forever and in

[1:49:48] most cases a reluctance about not being

[1:49:51] there. In fact, the better you feel and

[1:49:54] the more you are enjoying life, the more

[1:49:56] you sort of resist the idea of not

[1:49:58] continuing that.

[1:50:00] So that dream that you had was a

[1:50:04] perception of something that is not

[1:50:07] real. It was a perception of endedness.

[1:50:09] It was a perception of not getting to

[1:50:11] finish out who you are and what you are

[1:50:12] wanting. It was, let us just say, a

[1:50:15] distortion of what's really your

[1:50:18] knowing. But nevertheless, it was

[1:50:21] something that's active in your

[1:50:22] vibration. And when you dreamed it, when

[1:50:25] you realized it in your dreamscape, it

[1:50:28] amplified the offness of it. Now, let's

[1:50:32] back up. We really want you to get this.

[1:50:34] You know how when you've got a vibration

[1:50:37] going and you don't realize it until it

[1:50:40] manifests? And then when it manifests,

[1:50:43] especially if it's something that you

[1:50:44] don't want, then after the fact, it's

[1:50:47] not that difficult to go back and say,

[1:50:49] well, I see how this now it's manifested

[1:50:52] feels like this and this and this, and I

[1:50:55] recognize that I've been having those

[1:50:56] feelings about a lot of things. So, this

[1:50:59] manifestation is not really a surprise

[1:51:01] because if I'm paying attention to the

[1:51:03] way I feel, I sort of saw it coming.

[1:51:06] So after it's manifested, it's more

[1:51:10] difficult for you now to offer a

[1:51:12] vibration that's different from it

[1:51:14] because the manifestation is the

[1:51:16] momentum of the vibration that you had

[1:51:18] going on. Are you following that? You

[1:51:20] had the vibration going on. Now it's

[1:51:22] manifested. You really have the

[1:51:24] vibration going on. In other words,

[1:51:25] there's more momentum after the

[1:51:27] manifestation than there was before.

[1:51:30] Logical, isn't it? Because now you're

[1:51:31] looking at it and offering more

[1:51:33] vibration about it. In other words, it's

[1:51:34] easier to keep something going after

[1:51:36] it's manifested than it is to get

[1:51:38] something going before it's manifested.

[1:51:40] If you are like most humans who are

[1:51:42] offering your vibration mostly upon what

[1:51:44] you are observing, stay with us. Feels a

[1:51:46] little muddy right now, but it's about

[1:51:48] to start clearing up. So, in the same

[1:51:51] way that the manifestation is evidence

[1:51:55] of what you've been doing vibrationally,

[1:51:57] the dream is evidence, too. The dream is

[1:52:00] evidence about what you've been doing

[1:52:02] vibrationally. But it is so much easier

[1:52:06] to shift the vibration of your grid from

[1:52:09] a dream than it is from reality. In

[1:52:12] other words, if you dream, you break

[1:52:13] your leg.

[1:52:15] It's easier to shift out of it than if

[1:52:17] you break your leg and you're hobbling

[1:52:19] around in a wheelchair or on crutches

[1:52:20] for a while. You see what we're getting

[1:52:22] at? So, a dream is a wonderful

[1:52:26] acknowledgment of what you've got going

[1:52:28] on. vibrationally.

[1:52:31] It's not a surprise to us at all that

[1:52:34] when you realized it was a dream, a

[1:52:37] dream about something that you don't

[1:52:39] want, and you realize that it was not

[1:52:41] something that had happened, that you

[1:52:43] felt relief from it, but you didn't feel

[1:52:45] relief from it because death is a bad

[1:52:47] thing. You felt relief from it because

[1:52:50] of your perspective of what you think

[1:52:51] death is.

[1:52:53] >> I wasn't worried about dying in the

[1:52:55] dream. It didn't seem to be a problem.

[1:52:57] was just when I woke up I felt so good

[1:52:58] and that's what I was curious.

[1:53:00] >> Well, it's that contrast. It's that

[1:53:01] contrast. In other words, your dream was

[1:53:03] amplification that you still have places

[1:53:05] to go, people to see, things to do. You

[1:53:07] still you still are viable in this

[1:53:10] experience. You're still attracting.

[1:53:11] You're still sifting through the

[1:53:12] contrast. You're still this is this is

[1:53:14] the framework in which you want to

[1:53:16] create.

[1:53:18] And the comparison of the way you felt

[1:53:20] really was an indicator of how you feel

[1:53:23] in this physical experience.

[1:53:26] something more.

[1:53:27] >> No,

[1:53:28] >> thank you.

[1:53:41] >> Hi.

[1:53:42] Sorry, I'm out of breath.

[1:53:45] Can you help me

[1:53:48] get into a place where I feel tuned in,

[1:53:52] turned on, tapped in?

[1:53:58] Well, we want to begin by saying you

[1:54:00] light it up pretty bright there. That's

[1:54:02] how we are finding you. If you have

[1:54:04] something that you're focused upon, so

[1:54:06] the energy is moving strong and there is

[1:54:08] not resistance that is muting you, then

[1:54:10] you light up in a way that makes it easy

[1:54:13] for us to find you and that just

[1:54:15] happened. So, we would like to start by

[1:54:16] saying if you weren't in the vicinity,

[1:54:19] we would not have found you in the way

[1:54:20] that we did. So, how does that feel?

[1:54:23] >> Really good. And that is in fact the way

[1:54:26] that you increase that is by watching

[1:54:29] for the evidence of the alignment.

[1:54:31] Because if you feel that you need to

[1:54:34] find something that you haven't found,

[1:54:36] now the emphasis is upon what you

[1:54:37] haven't found and you can't get there

[1:54:39] from there. But if you are acknowledging

[1:54:42] the evidence that is evidence of what

[1:54:44] you are wanting and you amplify that,

[1:54:46] that's the way you get there. That was

[1:54:49] easy, wasn't it? kind of

[1:54:54] why why not easy? In other words, wasn't

[1:54:56] that logical on every level? If you

[1:54:59] hadn't been in the vicinity, we wouldn't

[1:55:01] have found you. So, there you are. So,

[1:55:03] now are you going to argue for your

[1:55:05] limitation by saying, "But I'm not there

[1:55:06] very often."

[1:55:08] >> No, I think I was looking for an example

[1:55:11] of when when I've been there or how I'm

[1:55:13] >> just now. Just now.

[1:55:15] >> Okay. Just now.

[1:55:18] >> Cool. Just now.

[1:55:21] See, that's that's the interesting

[1:55:22] thing, isn't it? How how can you miss

[1:55:25] something that's happening now? Well,

[1:55:26] because I was remembering other things.

[1:55:28] My and and here's here's why what just

[1:55:32] happened happened. Your question is

[1:55:36] pulsing within you.

[1:55:37] >> Yeah. And the answer is pulsing within

[1:55:39] us. And the vibration of the question

[1:55:42] and the vibration of the answer are

[1:55:44] different frequencies. And so sometimes

[1:55:48] when you ask the question, even though

[1:55:50] we're giving you a brilliant answer,

[1:55:55] you can't hear it because you're still

[1:55:57] in the question mode. So we'd like to

[1:56:01] throw it back to you. Can you give us

[1:56:03] examples of when you are tuned in,

[1:56:05] tapped in, turned on?

[1:56:09] I think I feel it inside sometimes.

[1:56:13] Well, how would one know?

[1:56:15] What's the evidence of alignment?

[1:56:19] I think now this is really we're going

[1:56:21] to stay here for just a moment. What is

[1:56:24] evidence of alignment?

[1:56:27] I think for me specifically there's been

[1:56:29] times where kind of inside feel like

[1:56:32] yeah I'm on fire. It's all it's all

[1:56:34] going great. And for me it's energy.

[1:56:36] Well it the the evidence is emotion.

[1:56:40] >> Yeah. And of course we would say

[1:56:42] alignment is happening anytime you're

[1:56:45] not feeling negative emotion. In other

[1:56:46] words, contentment is evidence of

[1:56:48] alignment. Passion is evidence of

[1:56:49] alignment. Enthusiasm bouncing off the

[1:56:52] wall. Enthusiasm. Yes. Eagerness is that

[1:56:55] it's that feeling of exuberance. It's

[1:56:57] that feeling of yes. It's that feel that

[1:56:59] feeling of that feeling of well-being.

[1:57:01] All of that those are evidence of

[1:57:04] alignment. Do you ever feel any of those

[1:57:06] things?

[1:57:07] >> Yes. And so is your question.

[1:57:10] What is your question then?

[1:57:13] >> Got it. If you if you feel that and you

[1:57:15] know it when you feel it. So was your

[1:57:17] question more how can I always be there?

[1:57:20] >> Yes.

[1:57:20] >> You can't.

[1:57:23] >> You can't always be there. Is your

[1:57:24] question should I always be there? No.

[1:57:26] If that were the case, you would have

[1:57:28] stayed here with us.

[1:57:31] You said I'll go into contrast and I'll

[1:57:33] know and I'll deal with it. I'll know

[1:57:34] what to do about it. I will manage it. I

[1:57:37] will benefit from it. I will I will

[1:57:38] benefit from knowing what I don't want

[1:57:40] as much as I benefit from knowing what I

[1:57:42] do want. And I will no longer reside as

[1:57:45] most humans do predominantly in a step

[1:57:47] one mode. I'll ask and then I'll expect

[1:57:50] it to be given and I'll watch for the

[1:57:51] evidence of it. And when I see the

[1:57:54] evidence of it, I will acknowledge it. I

[1:57:56] will run it into the ground. I will tell

[1:57:57] my friends, I had the best time. I did

[1:57:59] this and I did this and I felt this way

[1:58:01] and I felt this way and I felt this way

[1:58:02] and it was wonderful and I felt this way

[1:58:04] and I felt with this way until they say

[1:58:05] shut up.

[1:58:07] That kind of happens.

[1:58:10] I feel so good. But do you believe that

[1:58:13] you you see this alignment is not like a

[1:58:15] college degree where once you achieve it

[1:58:17] it's yours forever more. It either is or

[1:58:19] it isn't in the moment. And you can tell

[1:58:21] whether it is or whether it isn't. Now

[1:58:22] you know what to do if it isn't, don't

[1:58:24] you?

[1:58:24] >> And the more you do it, the easier it

[1:58:26] will become. And there will be those

[1:58:28] things that sort of feel like they are

[1:58:31] kind of sneaking up on you and and

[1:58:33] catching you off guard every now and

[1:58:35] again. But all that means is you've got

[1:58:37] some residual beliefs that are not in

[1:58:41] harmony with what you truly know. And so

[1:58:44] it just gives you an opportunity to sort

[1:58:45] of work the bugs out of it yet a little

[1:58:48] more. You see, it's so much fun. This is

[1:58:52] the way you mold the clay. This is the

[1:58:54] creative clay. It's the the thoughts and

[1:58:57] feelings that come in response to the

[1:58:59] thoughts. So you think a thought and you

[1:59:01] feel how it feels. So just play with it

[1:59:03] for a little while. If you want to think

[1:59:05] about your mother and feel appreciation

[1:59:07] for her giving you an avenue into this

[1:59:11] time space reality. Just try to feel a

[1:59:13] little bit of appreciation for that and

[1:59:14] feel how it feels. And then remember

[1:59:16] your teenage years

[1:59:20] and how hard on you she was and how she

[1:59:22] didn't understand. And notice that you

[1:59:24] can look at the same person from

[1:59:27] perspectives of your choosing and you

[1:59:29] can find reasons to align and reasons to

[1:59:32] not align. In other words, you can find

[1:59:34] things that the source within you agrees

[1:59:35] with and things that the source within

[1:59:37] you doesn't agree with.

[1:59:39] >> So, we're not wanting to make your

[1:59:41] questions seem unimportant because it

[1:59:44] is. One day, not long ago, a woman was

[1:59:46] sitting out there and and she had been

[1:59:52] eager about getting into the hot seat.

[1:59:55] We we were actually not that aware of

[1:59:57] her

[1:59:59] and she had by her later description a

[2:00:02] really really powerful question, but she

[2:00:04] was invisible to us because her her

[2:00:08] energy was so disjointed. She just had

[2:00:10] this important thing that she wanted to

[2:00:12] talk about and she was nowhere in the

[2:00:13] vibrational vicinity of it. So as the

[2:00:16] day went on as it has today and she

[2:00:18] listened to more of our rambling and

[2:00:20] listened to more of our logic and and

[2:00:22] began resonating with more of the

[2:00:25] knowledge that is within her and came

[2:00:27] more and more into alignment. All of a

[2:00:29] sudden she lighted up. There she was.

[2:00:31] There she was so easy to see. In fact,

[2:00:33] the only person in the room that we

[2:00:35] could see for just a moment. So I

[2:00:37] pointed in her direction and up she

[2:00:39] came. And when she sat down, her opening

[2:00:41] words were, "I cannot remember what I

[2:00:44] wanted to talk with you about."

[2:00:47] And we said, "Do you know why?" She

[2:00:50] didn't know. We said because the

[2:00:52] question that you had active in your

[2:00:54] vibration when you left home, the

[2:00:56] question that you had written down, the

[2:00:58] question that you wanted to ask from

[2:01:00] your place of not knowing the answer was

[2:01:02] so strong within you that you have been

[2:01:04] flailing about wanting to get into the

[2:01:06] chair. And it wasn't until you got into

[2:01:09] the vibrational vicinity of who you are

[2:01:11] that we even saw you. And in that

[2:01:13] vibration, you can't find that old

[2:01:15] question.

[2:01:16] >> Yeah.

[2:01:16] >> It's no longer relevant. You see, it's

[2:01:19] not active within you. It doesn't

[2:01:21] matter. And so that's why the past,

[2:01:25] present, and future question was so

[2:01:26] meaningful because it does not matter

[2:01:29] where you've been. It only matters how

[2:01:31] you feel right here and now. You have a

[2:01:33] relationship right now with everything

[2:01:35] that you have become. And we're not

[2:01:38] saying you have a relationship with un

[2:01:40] yet unfulfilled desires. That's not what

[2:01:44] we said. You have a relationship with

[2:01:46] all that you have become. That means all

[2:01:49] of those relationships and all of those

[2:01:52] manifestations and all of those

[2:01:54] creations, all of that abundance, all of

[2:01:57] that wealth, all of that sense of

[2:02:00] well-being, all of that sense of

[2:02:02] recognition, all of those future

[2:02:04] projects, all of those relationships,

[2:02:07] all of those families that you feel are

[2:02:10] in your future. All of those things that

[2:02:12] you often feel are unfulfilled

[2:02:16] are not only not yet fulfilled. You have

[2:02:20] already become them vibrationally.

[2:02:23] So how do we say whether you're living

[2:02:26] the past or the present or the future?

[2:02:29] When you're in alignment with what's in

[2:02:31] your vortex, you're living what you

[2:02:34] could call future manifestations.

[2:02:37] But they don't feel like future

[2:02:38] manifestations because in your

[2:02:40] vibrational harmony with them, you feel

[2:02:43] as if you will feel once they have

[2:02:45] manifested. That's the thing that if we

[2:02:48] could zap you with an understanding as

[2:02:50] you walk out of this

[2:02:52] arena today, that's the thing that we

[2:02:54] would most like you to take with you. We

[2:02:56] would like you to take a sense of

[2:02:58] ownership of that which has already

[2:03:01] become so that you could then enjoy the

[2:03:04] surprising and delightful

[2:03:08] ways that what has already become begins

[2:03:11] playing out in your experience. We would

[2:03:13] like you to feel your abundance

[2:03:16] so that you recognize it as it flows to

[2:03:18] you. We would like you to feel your

[2:03:21] intelligence so that you could recognize

[2:03:23] it as the clarity comes. We'd like you

[2:03:26] to know your perfection so that you're

[2:03:28] not shocked when good things happen to

[2:03:30] you. We would like you to feel often the

[2:03:33] love of source that radiates through you

[2:03:36] so that it doesn't feel like you have to

[2:03:38] work to appreciate the beauty of those

[2:03:40] around you or the beauty of your planet.

[2:03:44] You are vibrational beings.

[2:03:47] You are extensions of source energy.

[2:03:51] You have the ability to tune your

[2:03:52] frequency in ways that you have not

[2:03:55] commonly been practicing. But as you

[2:03:57] start practicing it, you're going to

[2:04:00] feel really good.

[2:04:02] So it feels to a lot of you like we're

[2:04:05] having this conversation because your

[2:04:07] questions often are, I want to be over

[2:04:09] there. How I'm over here, but I want to

[2:04:11] be over there. How can I get over there?

[2:04:14] And it probably sounds to you like we're

[2:04:17] saying you already are over there and

[2:04:20] that's so annoying to you because you

[2:04:23] don't feel like you are already over

[2:04:25] there. So your questions are posed to us

[2:04:29] like how can I get from over here to

[2:04:31] over there? And our answers just must

[2:04:34] sound crazy to you when we say you

[2:04:36] already are over there or the larger

[2:04:39] part of you is. So then you want to

[2:04:41] say,"Well, how do I get the rest of me

[2:04:42] over there?"

[2:04:44] And we say, "By caring about how you

[2:04:47] feel and nothing else." By caring so

[2:04:50] much about how you feel that you're

[2:04:52] willing to let go of thoughts that don't

[2:04:54] feel good.

[2:04:56] Esther has said to us, "But Abraham,

[2:04:59] I know you don't want me to think that

[2:05:00] thought

[2:05:02] because I'm complaining about it.

[2:05:05] And I know that you think that I

[2:05:07] shouldn't think that thought. But I just

[2:05:09] want to say just this one last thing,

[2:05:10] Abraham.

[2:05:12] That it's true.

[2:05:14] This thought that I'm thinking is true.

[2:05:17] That did happen and it shouldn't have.

[2:05:20] And we say there are plenty of things

[2:05:23] that are true that you don't want to

[2:05:25] experience and plenty of things that are

[2:05:27] true that you do want to experience. If

[2:05:29] we were standing in your physical shoes,

[2:05:30] we'd sort of sort them out and focus

[2:05:32] upon the things that are true that we do

[2:05:34] want to replicate in our own experience.

[2:05:37] But there's another really big piece of

[2:05:38] this that we are on the verge of

[2:05:40] explaining to you in a way that you just

[2:05:42] can't miss it. And that is

[2:05:46] so much of what you say,

[2:05:48] a lot of what you're feeling that you

[2:05:50] haven't said, but so much of what you

[2:05:52] say is absolutely

[2:05:56] accurate.

[2:05:58] That shouldn't have happened or that is

[2:06:00] a disgrace or that was a scandalous

[2:06:02] thing or that that shouldn't have gone

[2:06:05] that way. In other words, you're right

[2:06:07] about it, but you're vibrationally off.

[2:06:11] And that's the sentence that we would

[2:06:13] like you to sort of play through your

[2:06:14] mind a little bit. I know I'm right. I

[2:06:16] know I'm justified in how I feel. I know

[2:06:19] I am, but I'm vibrationally off because

[2:06:22] this negative emotion that I feel is my

[2:06:24] indicator that I am. And then just say

[2:06:27] to yourself lovingly, "And I just can't

[2:06:29] get there from there. I just can't get

[2:06:31] there feeling like I feel I cannot get

[2:06:34] to where I want to be. There's just not

[2:06:35] enough action in the world. There are

[2:06:37] not enough considerate people in the

[2:06:38] world. There aren't enough people who

[2:06:40] will move things around for me to buck

[2:06:42] my current. Law of attraction is

[2:06:44] responding to my current over which I

[2:06:46] have complete control. And I haven't,

[2:06:48] frankly. We love you very much. We're

[2:06:50] speaking on your behalf. I've not been

[2:06:52] deliberately exercising my vibrational

[2:06:54] control that much. I've been mostly just

[2:06:56] looking at what is and offering a

[2:06:58] vibration about it and then complaining

[2:06:59] about it and then joining together with

[2:07:01] others to talk about it and then

[2:07:02] wondering why I can't get over there to

[2:07:04] that better feeling place. And the only

[2:07:06] reason I can't get over there to that

[2:07:07] better feeling place is because I've got

[2:07:09] a vibration going on about the place

[2:07:10] that I'm standing and so I'm not really

[2:07:12] stuck because things are always in

[2:07:13] motion. Things are always changing but

[2:07:15] it's just changing to more of the same.

[2:07:17] Why won't it change to something

[2:07:18] different? And we say you've got to

[2:07:20] change to something different

[2:07:21] vibrationally. You have to find a

[2:07:23] different vibration. And when you do,

[2:07:25] the evidence is going to be so joyful.

[2:07:28] You know how much fun it is to recognize

[2:07:30] that you've got some negative emotion

[2:07:32] and take ownership of it. I've got

[2:07:34] negative emotion. I do. I've got

[2:07:37] negative emotion. I've worked really

[2:07:38] hard to feel this bad.

[2:07:41] I've talked to a lot of people about it.

[2:07:43] I focused upon this problem. This has

[2:07:44] been an issue for most of my life. I

[2:07:47] have earned this negative emotion. And

[2:07:49] in the process of earning this negative

[2:07:51] emotion, I've launched rockets of desire

[2:07:53] that have taken me vibrationally, the

[2:07:55] whole of me, so far beyond that all of

[2:07:59] this negative emotion that I'm feeling

[2:08:01] is nothing more than an indicator of how

[2:08:03] far the larger part of me has gone while

[2:08:06] the rest of me has lagged behind.

[2:08:09] Oh, don't you like knowing that?

[2:08:12] >> We like you knowing that enough.

[2:08:15] >> That's perfect. Thank you.

[2:08:32] Do you know that you are the creator of

[2:08:33] your own reality?

[2:08:35] >> Do you believe that you can do something

[2:08:37] about the v vibration that you are

[2:08:38] offering? Are you happy about the

[2:08:41] emotions that let you know what you are

[2:08:42] doing with the vibration of your being?

[2:08:44] Do you know that there are two ways to

[2:08:46] know what's manifestationally in your

[2:08:48] future? One is the way you feel. The

[2:08:51] next is what manifests in your future.

[2:08:54] In other words, those are the only two

[2:08:56] ways you can tell as it happens and as

[2:08:59] it happens. And is it not always

[2:09:01] happening? Isn't your grid filling in

[2:09:03] with manifestations constantly? Aren't

[2:09:06] you getting Isn't the absence of what

[2:09:08] you want a manifestation, too?

[2:09:10] Because it's it's a manifestation of

[2:09:12] where you're living, isn't it? So,

[2:09:14] aren't you always getting exactly what

[2:09:16] you're doing vibrationally? And don't

[2:09:18] you love that? And don't you love

[2:09:20] knowing that if you're getting something

[2:09:21] different than what you want, that you

[2:09:22] can do something about it? Do you feel

[2:09:24] sort of empowered to do something about

[2:09:26] it?

[2:09:30] >> We're glad that one guy came. Yeah.

[2:09:35] >> Hello. Um,

[2:09:37] first of all, thanks for your um

[2:09:39] patience with humans. Um, I really

[2:09:41] appreciate it. Oh, you are the reason

[2:09:43] for expansion. We don't have to feel

[2:09:44] patience for you. You are the source of

[2:09:47] the expansion of the universe. It's not

[2:09:48] about patience. You are exploring the

[2:09:51] contrast and honing out of it the

[2:09:53] evolution of all species. It's a

[2:09:55] wonderful thing that's happening here.

[2:09:57] >> I still think you do a good job. So,

[2:09:59] thanks.

[2:10:02] Um my question and I had a heap of them

[2:10:05] but I've only really distilled it down

[2:10:07] to one because of what I've learned

[2:10:08] today is um a lot of people have spoken

[2:10:12] about oh I get it I suddenly get it. How

[2:10:16] do I spend more time in staying in I get

[2:10:21] it?

[2:10:23] If you follow what I mean

[2:10:24] >> we do but how do you know how are you

[2:10:26] going to have an aha moment if you

[2:10:27] haven't had an aha moment? How are you

[2:10:30] going to know you've got it unless you

[2:10:31] didn't have it before you got it?

[2:10:32] >> I can accept that. But what I'm asking

[2:10:34] is how do I spend more time as opposed

[2:10:37] to what I'm currently spending in the

[2:10:40] aha moments

[2:10:41] >> by not talking about the time that

[2:10:42] you're currently spending by talking

[2:10:45] more about what that feels like by reing

[2:10:48] more in that by just tuning yourself

[2:10:50] softly toward that. And here's the

[2:10:52] biggest piece that we want you to hear.

[2:10:54] We so want you to hear this. Stop

[2:10:57] beating up on yourself when you're not

[2:10:59] there. Make peace with negative emotion.

[2:11:02] All of you, we want so much for you to

[2:11:04] make peace with the glorious guidance

[2:11:05] system that you have within you. Make

[2:11:07] peace with negative emotion. Make peace

[2:11:10] with it. Make peace with it. You could

[2:11:13] not know a level of pain if it were not

[2:11:16] for a level of desire. Jerry said that

[2:11:18] to Esther. She's been she talks to him

[2:11:20] nearly every morning. She talks to him

[2:11:22] all day. She was specifically talking,

[2:11:24] reaching for some relief from her

[2:11:27] discomfort right after he made his

[2:11:29] transition. And he said something so

[2:11:31] powerful to her. He said, "You could not

[2:11:33] feel this level of despair if it were

[2:11:35] not for the powerful love that you feel

[2:11:37] for me." That's really something to

[2:11:39] think about, isn't it? If it were not

[2:11:41] for if you did not if that love were not

[2:11:44] there, the pinching off of it wouldn't

[2:11:46] hurt. So that's why we want you to make

[2:11:48] peace with that feeling of the pinching

[2:11:51] off of it because the pinching off of it

[2:11:53] means that there's something that you

[2:11:55] could turn you could turn immediately

[2:11:57] toward if you just would accept that

[2:11:59] you're vibrational beings. We don't see

[2:12:02] you at your radio dial grimacing about

[2:12:07] the broadcast point of view of those

[2:12:10] stations that are out there. You just

[2:12:12] tune your dial to something that is

[2:12:14] pleasing to you. And that's all that

[2:12:17] deliberate creation is. It's tuning your

[2:12:19] dial to something that is pleasing to

[2:12:21] you. But you can't tune your dial to

[2:12:24] something that pleases you if you're

[2:12:26] beating up on yourself for it taking too

[2:12:28] long or if you're beating up on yourself

[2:12:30] for not having tuned it. You say, "So

[2:12:33] ask your question again. How can I what?

[2:12:36] How can I hold myself always in

[2:12:37] alignment?" You can't. How can I never

[2:12:39] feel negative emotion? You can't. We're

[2:12:41] putting words in your mouth based upon

[2:12:43] your vibration. But what what were the

[2:12:44] words of your question? How can I

[2:12:47] >> spend more time in getting it? As in

[2:12:50] people come up on the stage and say,

[2:12:52] "Yeah, I really get it."

[2:12:53] >> You know, that's like saying, "How can I

[2:12:55] get more answers?" And you know what the

[2:12:57] answer to that is? Ask more questions.

[2:13:02] Ooh, didn't see that coming.

[2:13:06] I like the answer part. I don't like the

[2:13:08] question part. And we say that's what

[2:13:11] you signed on for when you decided to

[2:13:13] come into this contrasting environment.

[2:13:15] You knew that without exposure to life

[2:13:18] that would pose the question within you,

[2:13:20] there could not be that expanding

[2:13:22] answer. So here's really this is this is

[2:13:26] specifically for you. You're really

[2:13:28] going to like this. And if you don't, we

[2:13:30] we like it enough for both of us.

[2:13:34] So

[2:13:36] here you are. You were source energy

[2:13:39] part of you came into this body splat

[2:13:41] here you are

[2:13:42] and you are exploring the variety and

[2:13:45] you're knowing what you don't want

[2:13:46] seeing plenty of it which causes you to

[2:13:48] know what you do want seeing plenty of

[2:13:50] that too. So you're launching these

[2:13:51] rockets and you knew what you didn't

[2:13:54] want which caused you to launch a rocket

[2:13:55] but this rocket of what you do want is

[2:13:58] not very vivid for you because it just

[2:14:00] burst out of this contrasting experience

[2:14:02] and it's not your habit of thought. This

[2:14:04] is knowing what you don't want in this

[2:14:07] example is more your habit of thought.

[2:14:09] So this rocket came but it's a freak. It

[2:14:12] was born out of the contrast and as you

[2:14:15] launched it, we saw it coming.

[2:14:18] We rode it immediately and became

[2:14:20] vibrationally part of it and held the

[2:14:24] frequency of it for you for when you

[2:14:26] catch up with it.

[2:14:28] Not just us, but all those like us. In

[2:14:31] other words, we're on that vibrational

[2:14:33] vortex. It's spinning. And immediately

[2:14:36] the cooperative components because of

[2:14:38] law of attraction began to come to it.

[2:14:40] And so the momentum got really going

[2:14:42] good. In fact, it got going so good that

[2:14:45] you couldn't stick with it. Not for very

[2:14:48] long. You launched it, but you haven't

[2:14:49] practiced it. So what are you left with?

[2:14:52] Oh, you gave birth to it, but you're not

[2:14:55] a vibrational match to it. So where does

[2:14:56] that leave you? It leaves you in

[2:14:59] emotional awareness of your separation

[2:15:02] from it. Well, big deal, Abraham. That's

[2:15:04] not too satisfying. So, you're telling

[2:15:06] me, "I launched a desire and all I know

[2:15:08] now is that I'm not a match to the

[2:15:09] desire." Pretty much. But that's worth

[2:15:12] knowing everything. Because if you know

[2:15:14] you launched it, if you know it's yours,

[2:15:17] if you know source energy is focused

[2:15:18] upon it, if you know source energy is

[2:15:20] holding the signal of it, then even

[2:15:22] though you're not a vibrational match to

[2:15:24] it right now, that doesn't matter

[2:15:26] because you have plenty of time. It's

[2:15:27] not going anywhere, you now know that

[2:15:30] you've launched the rocket. And so now

[2:15:31] you say, "All right, I'll buy that. I'll

[2:15:35] I'll focus upon the fact that it does

[2:15:37] exist, even though it hasn't evidenced

[2:15:39] itself. I'll I'll accept that it's in my

[2:15:42] vortex even though my point of

[2:15:44] attraction hasn't allowed me to realize

[2:15:47] it yet. I'll accept that I've done step

[2:15:50] one and that you're doing step two and

[2:15:52] I'll look forward to step three. I'll

[2:15:54] accept all of that. I'm feeling a little

[2:15:55] better about it just thinking about

[2:15:56] that. Feeling better feeling better

[2:15:59] about not having the manifestation of

[2:16:01] it. In fact, maybe even feeling a little

[2:16:03] eager about it. So now you're talking in

[2:16:06] general enough terms that you are no

[2:16:08] longer a vibrational mismatch to it. You

[2:16:11] are in general terms matching it because

[2:16:13] you believe in law of attraction. You

[2:16:15] believe in your own worthiness. You

[2:16:17] believe in in being human and launching

[2:16:21] the desire. And so now you somehow

[2:16:23] someway work yourself into vibrational

[2:16:26] alignment with it. In other words, you

[2:16:28] just stopped doing the stuff that you've

[2:16:29] been doing that kept you from being

[2:16:31] there. You started focusing on laws and

[2:16:33] processes instead of evidence that that

[2:16:35] that was pointing out when you weren't

[2:16:38] doing it. You started focusing upon the

[2:16:39] laws and the processes that meant that

[2:16:41] maybe you could do it. And oh, all of a

[2:16:45] sudden, you click into place with it.

[2:16:47] You close the gap. You don't know really

[2:16:49] how you did it. You just monkey around

[2:16:50] with it until you managed it. But you

[2:16:52] came into alignment with it. And when

[2:16:54] you did, you felt relief. You felt

[2:16:57] relief as you released the resistance.

[2:16:59] And now you are a perfect vibrational

[2:17:01] match to your desire. Your grid and your

[2:17:03] desire equal one another. And now it

[2:17:06] cannot be any other way. It must reveal

[2:17:08] itself to you in full manifested form.

[2:17:11] And it does. And you say yes for a

[2:17:14] minute.

[2:17:16] Because in the moment that it manifests,

[2:17:19] you not only have the confirming

[2:17:20] knowledge that you have managed to find

[2:17:23] alignment with it, but you now have we

[2:17:26] love you so much. another set of

[2:17:28] contrasting experiences which are

[2:17:30] launching another rocket of desire to

[2:17:33] which you are not a vibrational match.

[2:17:36] But now you know what to do. This time

[2:17:38] it's not going to take you so long. This

[2:17:40] time you're not struggling so hard. So

[2:17:41] what if it hasn't manifested? It's

[2:17:43] coming. I know that I'm good at this. I

[2:17:45] can align. All I have to do is clear my

[2:17:47] mind and not focus upon the absence of

[2:17:48] it. Stop beating the drum of what I

[2:17:50] don't want relative to this. stop

[2:17:52] keeping active the opposite of what it

[2:17:53] is and start thinking a little bit more

[2:17:55] about the presence of what it is or

[2:17:57] change the subject all together and look

[2:17:58] at other things that feel good to me and

[2:18:00] now somehow someway you don't really

[2:18:02] know exactly how you did it because you

[2:18:04] did it sort of gradually and

[2:18:04] incrementally maybe someone else walked

[2:18:06] into your room some teacher somebody

[2:18:08] that's holding you as their object of

[2:18:09] attention knowing that you can do

[2:18:11] something that you didn't know you can

[2:18:12] do and suddenly you're in vibrational

[2:18:14] alignment with it you don't really even

[2:18:15] know how you figured it out but oh boy

[2:18:17] did you feel the relief of it as you

[2:18:19] came into vibrational resonance with

[2:18:21] this new desire. And now you are your

[2:18:23] grid. You are in the perfect vibrational

[2:18:25] place of what's in your vortex. There's

[2:18:27] no vibrational separation between where

[2:18:29] you are and where it is. And it flows

[2:18:31] into your grid and you feel the

[2:18:34] exhilaration of the relief of that. And

[2:18:37] then it manifests and this time you say,

[2:18:40] "I did that. I did that. I did that. I

[2:18:42] did that." And you're so happy for about

[2:18:44] that long.

[2:18:46] And as it manifested, now here you stand

[2:18:48] with it, the manifestation of it,

[2:18:51] evidence of your vibrational alignment,

[2:18:53] and we love you so much. Another set of

[2:18:56] contrasting experiences that cause you

[2:18:57] to launch another rocket of desire. So

[2:19:00] after a while, you begin to recognize

[2:19:02] that you're not ever going to get it

[2:19:04] done. And then it starts taking the

[2:19:06] sting out of what's not done because

[2:19:08] there's always going to be plenty that's

[2:19:09] not done. And instead of feeling bad

[2:19:12] about what's not done, you feel eager

[2:19:14] about what's becoming. And then you

[2:19:15] start putting your attention upon what

[2:19:17] really matters, which is how you feel.

[2:19:19] And then you start looking for relief.

[2:19:20] You start letting your cork float. You

[2:19:22] start deliberately raising your

[2:19:23] vibration. You start looking for reasons

[2:19:25] to feel good. Making lists of positive

[2:19:27] aspects. Going to the places that make

[2:19:29] you feel good. Giving yourself the

[2:19:31] right, giving yourself permission to do

[2:19:33] more things that are fun and less things

[2:19:35] that are hard. More things that feel

[2:19:37] good and fewer things that are that are

[2:19:39] assigned to you by others who are trying

[2:19:42] to get you to prove your worthiness. And

[2:19:45] so you just keep finding yourself in

[2:19:47] alignment in alignment and then blessed

[2:19:49] with the manifestation of your desire

[2:19:51] and then alignment and then blessed with

[2:19:52] the manifestation of your desire until

[2:19:55] before you know it you don't ask the

[2:19:57] question how can I be there more of the

[2:19:59] time. You just acknowledge, hey, I'm

[2:20:01] there mostly and oh, every now and

[2:20:03] again, I get this fantastic piece of

[2:20:06] negative emotion that lets me know that

[2:20:09] I have some big expansion that I'm ready

[2:20:13] to come into vibrational alignment with.

[2:20:16] And then you begin managing your gap.

[2:20:18] That's really what this life experience

[2:20:20] is about. It's about how much endurance

[2:20:23] you've decided to assign to yourself.

[2:20:25] I'm going to endure my discord longer.

[2:20:29] And we say, "Why?" And you say, "Because

[2:20:32] it makes me popular among other humans.

[2:20:35] They seem to like my suffering."

[2:20:38] And we say, "If we were standing in your

[2:20:40] physical shoes, we'd suffer if we

[2:20:44] couldn't figure out how to do anything

[2:20:45] otherwise." But we'd be figuring out

[2:20:48] pretty quick how to relieve oursel of

[2:20:50] the suffering of our own negative

[2:20:52] attention toward things that are a

[2:20:54] vibrational mismatch to the whole that

[2:20:56] we have become.

[2:20:59] You are the creators of your reality.

[2:21:01] And you came forth into these

[2:21:02] magnificent bodies with clear intent.

[2:21:05] And you knew that you would be exploring

[2:21:06] the contrast. And you knew that the

[2:21:08] contrast would inspire you to new

[2:21:09] heights. And you knew that that vortex

[2:21:12] would fill to the brim with all kinds of

[2:21:13] magnificent things. And the law of

[2:21:15] attraction would bring a synergy to it.

[2:21:17] And that the cooperative components

[2:21:18] would all be gathered. And you intended

[2:21:20] full well to be very speedily along the

[2:21:22] way to be one of those cooperative

[2:21:23] components. And you knew that you would

[2:21:25] have guidance within you that would let

[2:21:27] you know how much cooperation you were

[2:21:28] giving to this cooperative vortex. You

[2:21:31] knew that your emotions would tell you

[2:21:33] where you are. And it was your full

[2:21:34] intention to follow the thoughts that

[2:21:36] felt the best, knowing that life would

[2:21:39] just keep causing and expanding you. And

[2:21:41] that the fun of life causing and

[2:21:44] expanding you is to consciously keep up

[2:21:47] with that expansion.

[2:21:49] To consciously keep up with your

[2:21:50] expansion. That's what life is all

[2:21:53] about. You see, not one of you said,

[2:21:55] "I'll pay the price. I'll go forth and

[2:21:57] suffer. I'll turn the world around. I'll

[2:22:00] help point out the heirs of their ways.

[2:22:02] I'll help them. I'll make the world a

[2:22:04] better place." Every one of you said,

[2:22:06] "I'll go forth and I'll carve out my

[2:22:08] individual and powerfully important

[2:22:11] impression of what would be an

[2:22:13] improvement. And then I will punctuate

[2:22:15] it by aligning with my idea and allowing

[2:22:18] the evidence of it to actualize in my

[2:22:20] experience."

[2:22:22] That's what this expanding universe is

[2:22:23] all about. We stand in non-physical

[2:22:26] energy, but there is nothing about your

[2:22:28] physical world that we are not fully

[2:22:30] involved in. And so your satisfaction is

[2:22:34] ours. And those positive emotions that

[2:22:37] you revel in, that's the party we're all

[2:22:39] throwing on your behalf. You see, it's

[2:22:42] time for everybody to come to the party.

[2:22:44] And your question was our favorite

[2:22:46] question so far. How can I be at the

[2:22:48] party more?

[2:22:50] How can I be there more? How can I allow

[2:22:52] myself more of the fun of this physical

[2:22:55] life experience? And we say step one,

[2:22:57] step two, step three. Put your attention

[2:22:59] upon step three because step one and two

[2:23:01] come naturally. Step three is your work.

[2:23:03] Step three is your work. The art of

[2:23:05] allowing. The art of allowing your

[2:23:08] alignment with all that you have become.

[2:23:11] Not because it's assigned to you, but

[2:23:13] because once you identify it, you can't

[2:23:15] go back from it. You can't expand to a

[2:23:18] new place and ever feel the satisfaction

[2:23:20] that is yours to feel unless you stay up

[2:23:23] to speed with the new space that you

[2:23:25] have carved out. You see, there is great

[2:23:28] love here for you. This has been an

[2:23:30] exhilarating gathering. You come with

[2:23:32] intensity. There's a lot that you want

[2:23:34] to know. You come with vibrational

[2:23:37] balance. There's a lot that you already

[2:23:39] do know. You come with a vortex full of

[2:23:41] magnificent things. and you came with a

[2:23:44] readiness to come into resonance with

[2:23:45] that which you are. We are exhilarated

[2:23:48] about what you're about to discover

[2:23:49] about who you are in the days that

[2:23:51] follow this gathering. There is great

[2:23:53] love here for you. And as always, we

[2:23:55] remain stubbornly

[2:23:58] and blissfully

[2:24:00] in your vortex.

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Does negative emotion mean I am doing something wrong spiritually?

In this channeled teaching, no. Negative emotion is described as the feeling that arises when a new desire has formed and collided with an older belief, so it signals where your focus currently is. The session asks listeners to make peace with that feeling rather than judging themselves for having it.

What does contrast mean in Abraham teachings?

Contrast is the presence of what you do not want, set against what you do want. The teaching says that without knowing what you don't want, you could not know what you do want, and it treats contrast as essential to expansion and the identification of new desires.

Why does the teaching say willingness should be called inevitability?

The teaching suggests that new desires arise constantly whether or not you feel willing, so the process does not depend on willingness. It says step one 'just happens' and requires only 'beingness,' which is why it prefers the softer word inevitability.

Can I control other people's behavior using these teachings?

The session stresses that you cannot control other people. The focus instead is on noticing when you are creating by default and shifting your attention toward relief, worthiness, and deliberate creation in your own experience.

What is Source energy according to this session?

The teaching presents Source as continually affirming who you are, even when you feel the wrongness of yourself. It argues that the ability to feel negative emotion implies a deeper, unbroken regard from Source, which it describes as the basis for alignment and allowing.

How long is the Hay House video and what topics does it cover?

The video runs about two hours and twenty-four minutes. Its description says it covers love, alignment, resistance, Source energy, family relationships, healing, fear, loneliness, and manifestation, with chapters on the purpose of negative emotion and the hidden guidance inside it.