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[0:05] hello and welcome to the mark groves
[0:07] podcast
[0:09] today is one of those days where a dream
[0:12] i had about being able to sit down with
[0:14] this man got realized and
[0:18] uh man
[0:19] i can't say enough that you don't
[0:21] realize where life's gonna take you when
[0:23] you follow what lights you up when you
[0:25] follow that calling
[0:27] and i never would have imagined honestly
[0:30] this moment i
[0:32] just feel so honored i
[0:34] i feel like that like little sliver of
[0:37] hope that we have when we're going
[0:38] through the cracking but we're like
[0:40] there's a calling that's so much deeper
[0:42] like your cells are saying
[0:44] no keep going like this is the way this
[0:46] is the way and i don't always listen to
[0:49] that and i didn't always listen to that
[0:50] and yet i know that that is always the
[0:52] way
[0:54] sometimes it just takes a little more
[0:57] pain to to wake us up to redirect us a
[0:59] little more rejection to redirect us
[1:02] and here we are so we're all in the
[1:04] perfect place and
[1:06] you know when i began questioning how
[1:10] my mind worked and what i believed and
[1:12] why i believed what i believed and how
[1:14] that impacted my life inevitably you are
[1:16] brought to the work of dr bruce lipton
[1:19] dr bruce lipton
[1:21] he wrote the biology of belief he also
[1:24] wrote the honeymoon effect he's an
[1:26] author of more than just those two books
[1:28] he's
[1:29] such an incredible man and he really
[1:31] inspired so much of
[1:34] taking
[1:35] science
[1:37] which is where i came from
[1:39] originally and merging it with the
[1:41] spirit
[1:42] and
[1:44] it's just so beautiful to be able to
[1:46] have someone who translates and unifies
[1:49] those things
[1:50] and so
[1:51] there's not really much else to say
[1:53] other than this is such a dream come
[1:55] true and i'm so excited if this is the
[1:57] first time you're discovering bruce
[1:59] lipton's work
[2:01] get ready
[2:02] because god damn
[2:04] and
[2:05] if you're being welcomed back to it like
[2:06] i was in this interview
[2:09] god damn
[2:10] either way
[2:11] uh we're all about to be expanded and to
[2:14] have the way we see the world shifted
[2:17] and
[2:18] shifted in such a beautiful way that
[2:20] provides us
[2:22] with possibility
[2:24] so before we dive in to this episode
[2:27] wherever you listen to it if you can
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[2:35] this
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[2:41] and much love and appreciation to you
[2:43] i'm eternally grateful
[2:45] that i get to call this
[2:46] work
[2:47] and
[2:48] it just means so much i i'm honestly so
[2:51] honored
[2:52] that
[2:53] we get to have these conversations
[2:55] together and learn together and
[2:58] yeah i don't know that there's enough
[3:00] words i can put in to how much gratitude
[3:02] i have
[3:03] for you being on this journey with me
[3:06] so without further ado here's dr bruce
[3:09] lipton
[3:10] [Music]
[3:12] hello welcome dr bruce lipton i'm so
[3:16] excited to have you here
[3:18] mark i am excited because uh you know my
[3:21] interests and the interests of your
[3:23] audience co you know they co-aligned
[3:25] together on this because it's all about
[3:27] how to enjoy this planet how to have
[3:30] wonderful relationships how to make
[3:31] heaven on earth a way of life
[3:33] rather than just something we step into
[3:35] occasionally
[3:37] yeah isn't that it rather than being an
[3:39] escape or a temporary space it'd
[3:42] actually be our sort of uh
[3:44] ethos or or regular everyday experience
[3:48] well uh you know i never believed in
[3:50] yeah i have to say you know for over 40
[3:52] or more years i never believed in love
[3:55] because my experience with it was always
[3:57] failing and i thought oh okay i'm
[3:59] practicing and i'm losing out here it's
[4:01] not really working and oh it works in a
[4:04] book and it works in a movie but i'm not
[4:06] really sure it works in real life
[4:08] uh
[4:09] and then through
[4:11] the understanding of my research i
[4:13] realized oh my god my behavior of how to
[4:16] make a relationship was programmed by
[4:18] observing my mother and father and
[4:20] downloading their their behavior which
[4:22] became my program and i didn't realize
[4:25] because first of all that was a
[4:27] dysfunctional relationship i grew up in
[4:29] and then i downloaded dysfunction
[4:32] and didn't realize as we now know that
[4:35] 95 of our life is coming from those
[4:37] downloaded programs
[4:40] and we don't see them it's called
[4:41] subconscious for a reason it's below
[4:44] conscious so when we are creating our
[4:46] experiences
[4:48] 95 of the time we don't even see what
[4:51] we're saying and doing is coming
[4:53] straight out of the program
[4:55] but that's a lot to unpack right now
[4:57] mark so let's try to
[4:59] you know narrow it down
[5:01] you ask i'll talk
[5:03] i love this well
[5:04] where does the basis of like where did
[5:07] the base of your ideas or this
[5:09] understanding the the idea that even 95
[5:12] of what we do is unconscious because you
[5:14] know in all of my education which went
[5:17] through you know to university and
[5:20] management and business and then
[5:22] psychology
[5:23] that was never uncovered so i'm curious
[5:26] you know not until maybe more modern
[5:28] times maybe in more recent last five
[5:29] years since your work has been
[5:31] popularized so yeah curious what gave
[5:33] birth to them and and what did you learn
[5:35] that that sort of shattered your own
[5:37] constructs well you have to recognize at
[5:40] this time which is 50 50 years ago yeah
[5:43] it was a while
[5:45] i was cloning stem cells and back 50
[5:47] years ago there were only a handful of
[5:48] us in the entire world that even knew
[5:50] what a stem cell was so i was in a
[5:52] unique position and a unique place to
[5:55] discover something new and uh
[5:57] stem cells are just embryonic cells and
[6:00] i say well they're not just embryonic
[6:01] cells they're embryonic cells that are
[6:03] in your body right now and i say why
[6:05] should i have embryonic cells well
[6:07] simple point a body is made out of 50
[6:10] trillion cells easy to say trillion is
[6:12] like
[6:13] mind-boggling of trying to calculate it
[6:16] a little a little inside story because i
[6:18] checked it out i said if you wanted to
[6:20] count 50 trillion cells one at a time
[6:22] one two three four five you're you know
[6:25] how long it would take counting day and
[6:26] night you ready
[6:28] 1 million 650
[6:31] 000 years to count to 50 trillion
[6:34] so it's like okay that's a big number
[6:38] yeah and every day in our 50 million
[6:40] cells a large number of them are dying
[6:42] off that's normal attrition the skin
[6:44] cells fluffing off hair cells coming out
[6:47] the digestive tract the whole lining
[6:50] millions and millions of cells are
[6:52] replaced every three days so
[6:54] the most important question if i'm
[6:55] losing hundreds of billions of cells a
[6:57] day
[6:59] how long can i live i say well if you
[7:01] don't have stem cells a very short
[7:02] lifespan but if you have stem cells in
[7:05] your body embryonic cells their job is
[7:07] as you lose so many every day you make
[7:09] so many new ones every day so we're
[7:11] still here so anybody out there that's
[7:13] listening to us you've got stem cells
[7:15] embryonic cells in your body so what was
[7:16] the difference here in my life was i was
[7:18] teaching medical students the
[7:20] conventional story how genes control
[7:22] life
[7:23] stop for a second i said what does that
[7:25] story actually mean to us as humans and
[7:28] i go this as far as you know you didn't
[7:30] pick the genes you came with you don't
[7:32] like the characteristics that you have
[7:34] you can't change the genes and then on
[7:36] top of that of course we add the genes
[7:38] turn on and off by themselves and i said
[7:40] you put all those facts together and
[7:42] what you come down to is we are victims
[7:45] of our heredity oh my god there's cancer
[7:47] running my family i'm going to get a
[7:48] cancer gene oh my i can't do anything
[7:50] about it does it by itself
[7:53] and so i was programming uh doctors for
[7:56] the conventional belief that we were
[7:57] victims and doctors are here to take
[7:59] care of us because we're victims
[8:01] meanwhile i'm growing stem cells these
[8:04] embryonic cells in in my lab cloning
[8:06] them which means i put one stem cell in
[8:08] the dish by itself it divides every 10
[8:10] or 12 hours so first is one then two
[8:12] then four eight sixteen doubling after a
[8:16] week thirty thousand cells and here's
[8:18] the experiment that changed my life
[8:19] these are thirty thousand genetically
[8:22] identical cells because they came from
[8:23] one parent cell that's cloning and i go
[8:26] i split those cells into three petri
[8:28] dishes 10 000 cells in each dish they're
[8:31] all genetically identical
[8:33] and we grow cells in something called
[8:34] culture medium that secret is going to
[8:36] come out here in a minute after i
[8:38] explain it
[8:39] culture medium is environment that sells
[8:41] growing and and we synthesize in the lab
[8:44] and since i'm doing that i made three
[8:46] chemically different versions of culture
[8:49] medium so each set of dishes each set
[8:52] have you know one once that got culture
[8:55] medium a
[8:56] the second dish got culture medium b of
[8:59] version and third dish had culture
[9:01] medium c another version
[9:04] and what was the most blow away thing
[9:06] was that in one dish the cells form
[9:08] muscle in the second dish the cells form
[9:10] bone and a third dish the cells form fat
[9:13] cells and the first thing is wait a
[9:14] minute
[9:16] all the cells were genetically identical
[9:19] why did one become muscle why did one
[9:21] become bone the other become fat what
[9:23] controlled the fate and it was like well
[9:25] the only thing that was different was
[9:27] the composition of the culture medium
[9:29] and i go oh
[9:30] so the most like here's the blow weight
[9:33] wait a minute
[9:34] genetic control wasn't controlled by the
[9:37] genes inside the cell it was controlled
[9:38] by the environment outside the cell it
[9:41] was but this is not what we're teaching
[9:43] you know
[9:46] and my whole life was wait a minute
[9:48] the conventional world genes turned on
[9:50] out of control and this world said no
[9:52] way genes didn't control that
[9:55] and the environment controlled it and i
[9:58] was like the radical crazy man because
[10:00] everyone in the world dreams control
[10:02] life and lipton's going nah they don't
[10:03] you know
[10:05] and it took 23 years after my original
[10:09] studies before science then became
[10:12] officially recognizing a new insight
[10:14] called epigenetics
[10:16] and i go what does that be genetics i
[10:18] say well old story
[10:20] genes control this character genetics
[10:23] controls this character and i go nope
[10:26] false statement new statement
[10:28] epigenetics controls this character i
[10:30] said well it sounds the same i go no
[10:33] epi means above a matter of fact what we
[10:36] call skin is called epidermis and the
[10:39] reason simple below the layer of the
[10:41] skin is another layer called the dermis
[10:43] so above the dermis epidermis means
[10:46] above and i go well what is epigenetic
[10:48] control and i say control epi above
[10:52] genetics control above genes
[10:56] wait the control wasn't in the genesis
[10:59] we always told everybody and now uh you
[11:01] know i saw it you know 19 50 years ago i
[11:05] said wait a minute the genes aren't
[11:07] making decisions they're responding to
[11:09] the environment that they live in okay
[11:11] so now we take that step jump to the
[11:13] next step and that is this but wait
[11:16] what is culture medium that we make and
[11:19] i go the laboratory version of blood
[11:22] so if i grow human cells what is the
[11:24] human blood made out of and then i put
[11:26] that into the mixture culture medium for
[11:28] human cells mouse oh look at mouse blood
[11:31] mix that up and grow mouth cells and i
[11:34] go so what's the point and the point is
[11:36] this the culture medium is equivalent to
[11:39] blood
[11:40] okay go i say so what and i go well
[11:42] we're putting cells in a plastic petri
[11:44] dish and then comes as i mentioned wait
[11:47] a human is a skin covered petri dish and
[11:51] they're 50 trillion 50 trillion inside
[11:54] cells and i go and i go
[11:57] does it make a difference if the cell is
[11:58] in a plastic dish or a skin dish it
[12:00] doesn't make any difference why it's
[12:02] controlled by the environment i go in
[12:04] the plastic dish
[12:05] it was controlled by the culture medium
[12:07] and i go in the human skin covered dish
[12:10] the culture medium is the blood
[12:13] and i said oh wait a minute then the
[12:15] blood chemistry
[12:17] is controlling our genetics not our
[12:18] genes controlling themselves
[12:20] and they go well that takes us to
[12:22] another place and i said well if the
[12:23] chemistry of the blood is controlling my
[12:26] genetics and my behavior
[12:28] who controls the chemistry of the blood
[12:31] and then is coming down to a good answer
[12:33] here mark hold on i say
[12:35] who makes the blood and i go the brain
[12:38] is the chemist
[12:40] and so i'm going yeah yeah yeah and then
[12:41] comes the next and the biggest question
[12:44] so what chemistry should the brain be
[12:46] putting into the blood
[12:48] and the answer is you're ready
[12:51] whatever picture
[12:52] you hold in your mind
[12:55] the brain translates that into
[12:57] complementary chemistry for that picture
[13:00] and then sends that chemistry to the
[13:01] body so your body repre is now being
[13:05] expressing what the picture was in your
[13:07] mind oh is it a picture of love or a
[13:09] picture of fear i go well that's
[13:12] different chemistry love releases great
[13:15] chemistry dopamine for pleasure mark i
[13:17] shouldn't have to tell you about your
[13:18] audience you already know you but this
[13:20] is great yeah pleasure and love all
[13:22] that's beautiful oxytocin comes out when
[13:24] you're in love that bonds you to the
[13:25] love uh growth hormone
[13:28] and i go what's growth hormone i said
[13:30] well it does exactly what it says when
[13:31] you're in love you release growth
[13:33] hormone i go what's that vitality health
[13:37] that's what it's about i say so when
[13:38] you're in love you're healthy i go yeah
[13:40] people in love oh they glow look at them
[13:42] they're in love see how they glow
[13:44] the glow
[13:45] is healthy vibration
[13:48] i say so when you're in a picture of
[13:50] love picture of love brain translates a
[13:53] dopamine oxytocin growth hormone these
[13:56] enhance your vitality i say but wait
[13:59] wait what if the picture is fear what if
[14:01] i'm afraid of something i go oh
[14:03] well you don't release okay love
[14:05] chemistry and fear you release stress
[14:07] hormones and factors that affect the
[14:09] immune system
[14:11] a matter of fact it shuts down growth
[14:13] and actually put you in a state of fight
[14:16] or flight and i go so what was the point
[14:18] i said the body was responding to what
[14:22] the picture in your mind
[14:24] and all of a sudden you start to say
[14:26] well then what about your thoughts and
[14:27] then i go well there's where the problem
[14:29] comes from because uh conventional
[14:32] people the average thoughts are or
[14:36] negative thoughts and repeated over and
[14:38] over again okay
[14:40] uh and so for example i grew up with hey
[14:43] how come i can't have a relationship and
[14:44] i go because my picture of relationship
[14:47] that i downloaded from my parents which
[14:49] was generating my behavior
[14:52] canceled my opportunity to have
[14:54] relationships because nobody wanted that
[14:56] dysfunction and i was playing the role
[14:59] of dysfunction okay so we jump to the
[15:01] next level and this is the big part mark
[15:03] then it goes like this
[15:05] so the brain is controlling the
[15:07] chemistry the chemistry controls
[15:09] behavior and genetics and then i say but
[15:12] the mind is doing this and here comes
[15:14] the big
[15:15] ha and i go what is it and i go
[15:18] the mind like one mind i go that's the
[15:21] problem there are two minds
[15:24] and they are interdependent they work
[15:26] together interdependent but they're not
[15:28] the same
[15:29] and guess what they have two different
[15:31] functions and as you emphasized a little
[15:34] earlier if you repeat a lot uh that not
[15:38] only they have different functions but
[15:40] they learn in different ways
[15:42] so if you want to change your mind
[15:44] depends on which of the minds i said
[15:46] well there's two minds conscious mind
[15:48] that's connected to our personal
[15:50] identity our spirituality who am i
[15:53] mark you and i have different conscious
[15:55] mind contents why you have mark coming
[15:58] in i have bruce coming into my conscious
[16:00] mind and i go the conscious mind just
[16:02] right behind your forehead
[16:04] lobe of brain called prefrontal cortex
[16:06] the rest of the brain back here
[16:08] is subconscious mind and the name
[16:11] subconscious means it operates without
[16:14] you even paying attention subconscious
[16:16] so thankfully yeah my heartbeat my body
[16:19] temperature you know the functions of my
[16:22] organs my breathing i don't have to pay
[16:24] attention subconscious controls all that
[16:26] okay
[16:27] but
[16:29] and here's the issue
[16:30] anything we learn
[16:32] can be a program in the subconscious so
[16:35] quick point the the the mind is like a
[16:39] computer it is a computer in fact it is
[16:42] and i go significance is uh
[16:45] the character of our silicon computers
[16:48] overlays exactly the character of our
[16:50] mind computer and i go in what way i say
[16:52] well in the old days you would buy a
[16:54] computer it didn't come with programs
[16:56] the old days you get a brand new
[16:57] computer you bring it home you push uh
[17:00] start and it boots up and the screen's
[17:02] on and i go great do something and say
[17:05] oh no the next step before i can use a
[17:08] computer is i got to put programs in the
[17:10] computer and then once i have the
[17:12] programs then i can type onto the
[17:14] computer and add my information so here
[17:17] comes the mind computer and the basis is
[17:20] this the subconscious is the hard drive
[17:22] with programs in it
[17:24] okay the conscious is the one typing on
[17:27] the keyboard so the conscious mind can
[17:30] type any story it wants into the
[17:32] keyboard and play the game okay the
[17:34] subconscious mind just got programs and
[17:36] i say
[17:37] where do we get our programs and here's
[17:39] how it works in the first seven years of
[17:41] a child's life the brain
[17:43] is in record it's in theta a vibration
[17:47] that's below consciousness but it is a
[17:49] state of
[17:50] what you see you download that's how we
[17:53] learned how do you be a member of a
[17:54] family i said well observe your family
[17:57] and then you know what how they behave
[17:59] and how do you become a member of the
[18:00] community well observe them and when
[18:03] you're in this state of theta which is
[18:05] the first seven years what you observe
[18:08] is downloaded so where did your
[18:10] behaviors come from first from programs
[18:13] yeah but where did those programs come
[18:15] from and here's where the problem is not
[18:17] from you
[18:18] it came from other people i say
[18:21] significance as you hold life is around
[18:24] here bargain all significance is that is
[18:27] those people i downloaded the program
[18:28] from have the same wishes and desires as
[18:31] i have and i go
[18:32] no
[18:33] then if i play their program will i
[18:36] manifest my wishes and desires no
[18:39] you're going to just emulate what you
[18:40] downloaded it's playback record playback
[18:43] so okay so i say
[18:46] last trimester of pregnancy
[18:48] the screen boots up mine's ready to go
[18:51] then we're in theta vibration that
[18:54] downloads experiences okay so even the
[18:57] fetus is getting experiences i go
[19:00] where's the experiences from a fetus
[19:02] inside the mother i go remember the
[19:04] fetus is nourished by blood and i go
[19:06] yeah but the blood that nourishes the
[19:09] fetus says the mother's blood i go yeah
[19:11] but blood has nutrition i go yeah it
[19:13] sure does but it also has information
[19:16] growth hormones neuropeptides emotional
[19:18] chemicals and all that that regulate our
[19:20] body so when the mother is nourishing
[19:23] the fetus not only she providing
[19:24] nutrition she's providing information
[19:28] and if there's repetitive action in that
[19:31] behavior
[19:32] then that is learned by the fetus even
[19:34] before it's born
[19:36] and so then it says well well the mother
[19:39] is programming the the fetus i go yeah
[19:41] and through epigenetics
[19:44] that's how you control genes
[19:46] her blood content controls the genetic
[19:50] behavior of the fetus as it's developing
[19:52] she's a genetic engineer how she sees
[19:55] the world the just the genetics of the
[19:57] fetus is not born
[19:58] because simple rule when the fetus is
[20:01] born it's going to live in the same
[20:03] world that the mother lives in so the
[20:05] mother is head start hey this is a great
[20:08] loving world welcome to the world that
[20:09] fetus comes out it's like yeah i'm in a
[20:11] great place but if the mother is not
[20:13] sure about her world she's upset she
[20:15] feels in fear can the stress levels the
[20:18] anger you know and all that kind of
[20:20] stuff well that sends different
[20:21] chemistry into into the fetus
[20:24] a stressed mother
[20:27] because of her chemistry of stress
[20:29] hormones
[20:30] can reduce the intelligence of her child
[20:33] by 50 percent
[20:36] because in a stress mode it doesn't
[20:38] enhance the development of the nervous
[20:40] system gets you ready for fight or
[20:42] flight not for consciousness so
[20:45] um
[20:46] we begin program before we're born
[20:49] uh and program you can identify that's
[20:51] easy like if there's music played to you
[20:54] know for the fetus the vibration of that
[20:57] music while it's developing and
[21:00] you play the same music when that baby
[21:03] is born and you play the music the baby
[21:05] will have a memory of exactly that
[21:07] memory of i remember that music because
[21:10] it was played over and over again okay
[21:12] so
[21:13] first seven years starts off with
[21:15] programming before we're born then when
[21:17] we're born we spend seven years in a
[21:20] state of hypnosis which is theta but
[21:23] characterized as imagination and
[21:24] behavior that's how kids below seven mix
[21:27] the real world and the imaginary world
[21:29] because they're in theta
[21:32] which is expressing hypnosis but it's
[21:34] also expressing imagination
[21:36] the uh the child on the broom writing it
[21:40] because in its mind it's not a broom
[21:42] they've transformed that you know
[21:44] imagination that's a horse the mother
[21:47] says give me the broom the child's like
[21:49] he doesn't even know what you're
[21:51] talking about right it's not bro it's a
[21:53] horse you know but that's theta so we
[21:55] download programs and age seven uh then
[21:59] our conscious mind kicks in and guess
[22:00] what that's the beautiful one
[22:02] that's the one that says i can type on
[22:04] the keyboard i want to change my world i
[22:06] want to change what i'm doing oh i said
[22:08] well then conscious mind can do that
[22:11] now mark your whole career here in
[22:13] helping people comes from this fact
[22:17] that the two minds work together
[22:20] if the conscious mind is paying
[22:22] attention
[22:23] then the conscious mind is typing on the
[22:25] keyboard and creating life
[22:28] but the conscious mind and here it is
[22:30] the conscious mind can think i go
[22:33] what the hell does that mean i go
[22:36] thinking is not looking out at the world
[22:38] thinking is looking in for a thought
[22:41] thoughts are on the inside and so if you
[22:44] want to think about something you have
[22:46] to go into your head it's a thought
[22:47] process you can essentially close your
[22:49] eyes yeah i'm thinking i don't need to
[22:51] see what's going on i'm in my head i go
[22:54] yeah but if your conscious mind which is
[22:56] controlling the system is thinking
[22:59] then it's not paying attention to what's
[23:02] going on in the world a very simple
[23:04] point
[23:04] most of us have been in a car
[23:06] we've been dr if we're driving for a
[23:08] while
[23:08] uh and you have a passenger in the car
[23:10] we get into a wonderful conversation and
[23:13] then you look out the window and you
[23:15] realize i haven't paid attention to the
[23:17] road for the last five minutes you know
[23:20] and i always joke i say oh yeah tell
[23:22] your passenger hey guess what while we
[23:23] were talking i didn't pay attention to
[23:25] the road
[23:26] you know like that makes them feel good
[23:27] you know don't say it really but
[23:29] uh the point about it comes down to this
[23:32] it says
[23:33] you were on the road five minutes you
[23:35] were in conversation here comes the
[23:37] whole problem right there in the story
[23:39] ready i say what was your conversation
[23:41] about you go oh
[23:43] we talked about this and this and this
[23:44] and this thing okay
[23:46] next question
[23:47] what was on the road during the five
[23:49] minutes when you were driving you'd go
[23:52] i have no idea what the hell was on the
[23:54] road yeah no cleo no because you know
[23:56] why my consciousness was not looking out
[23:58] the window i was involved with a
[24:01] conversation i said yeah but apparently
[24:03] you didn't kill anybody and you're still
[24:05] driving and the police haven't stopped
[24:07] you and you know i go then who the hell
[24:10] was driving the car
[24:12] well the answer is simple
[24:14] driving is a habit you learned and
[24:16] habits are in the subconscious mind so
[24:18] the moment you started focusing on the
[24:21] conversation
[24:22] the conscious mind was not paying
[24:23] attention
[24:25] the subconscious mind was running the
[24:27] driving and doing is probably better
[24:30] than when you're driving with your
[24:31] conscious mind okay
[24:33] but here comes this is the issue and
[24:35] this is why your work is so valuable
[24:39] and as i just said
[24:41] when the conscious mind is not paying
[24:42] attention the behavior is coming from
[24:44] the subconscious program but you do not
[24:47] see the behavior because you're not
[24:50] paying attention it's running
[24:52] automatically so i say well what does
[24:54] that mean i say
[24:56] you don't see your own behavior
[24:58] and i go where did that behavior come
[25:00] from i said well remember when you stop
[25:02] paying attention
[25:04] the subconscious is autopilot
[25:07] the moment you're not paying attention
[25:09] something subconscious knows how to do
[25:10] it walk talk the job you do you don't
[25:13] have to think about that it's a program
[25:15] okay
[25:16] so 95 of the day is the amount of time a
[25:19] person is thinking
[25:21] which means and this is the fact i'm not
[25:24] here
[25:25] you're not there 95 of the day but
[25:27] you're you're participating and i go how
[25:30] am i participating well the subconscious
[25:32] is autopilot it's just gonna run the
[25:33] program you know how to talk to people
[25:36] live you learn how to do that you know
[25:38] how to drive the car ride the bike play
[25:40] a music instrument you don't have to
[25:42] work on the details
[25:43] it's already a program so here comes the
[25:46] biggest issue
[25:47] and that is
[25:49] 95 of our life is not coming from our
[25:52] wishes and desires 95 is coming from the
[25:55] program if you've got a good program
[25:57] then fabulous why you don't even have to
[25:59] think about you could just be hanging
[26:00] out all day and the program will
[26:01] automatically get you where you want to
[26:03] go
[26:04] but if you don't have a good program
[26:07] you will be sabotaging yourself all day
[26:09] with behavior you don't see
[26:11] mark the same story you've probably even
[26:14] read in the book but it talks about the
[26:16] fact that you have a friend and you know
[26:18] your friend's behavior very well and you
[26:20] know your friend's parent and one day
[26:22] you see your friend has the exact same
[26:24] behavior as the parent and i go and what
[26:28] do you want to do you want to tell them
[26:29] you got you got you just got
[26:32] hey bill you're just like your dad
[26:36] back away from bill i know exactly what
[26:38] the hell bill's gonna say when you say
[26:40] that and i know it and he's gonna say
[26:42] how can you compare me to my dad i'm
[26:44] nothing like my dad
[26:46] and the audience laughs and the and the
[26:48] reason why is we've all had that
[26:51] experience i said well
[26:53] why is this the most profound story that
[26:55] i can finish and then let mark take over
[26:57] because why is this the most profound
[26:59] story simply this
[27:01] everyone else can see bill's behavior
[27:04] the only one who doesn't see it is bill
[27:07] i see because bill says how can you
[27:09] compare me with my dad everyone says i
[27:11] can't i could see you and he says how
[27:13] can you do that and the reason why he
[27:15] can't
[27:16] see that like you see it is
[27:18] when he's doing that program that he
[27:21] downloaded from his dad why is he
[27:23] playing it and the answer is he's not
[27:25] paying attention with his conscious mind
[27:27] so whatever's coming out it's like
[27:29] driving the car i didn't see what was on
[27:31] the road i didn't see what i just said
[27:34] why it was automatic subconscious below
[27:37] level of conscious my consciousness had
[27:40] nothing to do with it it was a program
[27:42] so
[27:44] the issue that you're dealing with mark
[27:46] is
[27:46] one of the most important issues on the
[27:48] planet because
[27:50] first of all relationships are required
[27:53] in biology i i have a quote here i want
[27:55] to read it it's from
[27:57] a biologist lewis thomas and
[28:00] years ago he wrote a book called the
[28:01] lives of the cell
[28:03] i loved it was a whole bunch of essays
[28:05] okay but here's an excerpt from it and
[28:08] it's quote it is beyond our imagination
[28:11] to conceive of a single form of life
[28:14] that exists alone and independent
[28:17] unattached to others why every form of
[28:21] life is connected to other forms of life
[28:23] there's no form of life that's not it's
[28:25] disconnected and i go this is from
[28:28] bacteria up to humans and i go
[28:31] significance is this
[28:33] our
[28:34] are coming together
[28:35] in relationships
[28:38] is built from the very first organisms
[28:40] that were here as part of our biological
[28:43] imperative to do this
[28:45] and so
[28:46] no matter how many times you may have
[28:47] failed at finding love guess what you'll
[28:49] still go out and do it again because
[28:52] it's a drive to do it okay so that's the
[28:56] first thing you
[28:57] you i'm not looking for a relationship i
[28:59] go well yes you are
[29:02] yeah exactly without these relationships
[29:05] okay and when it comes to love
[29:06] relationships
[29:07] there's programs how how do i create a
[29:11] love relationship well now it depends on
[29:13] my teacher in my case
[29:16] my father was my teacher and i go well
[29:17] he sucked at relationships guess what i
[29:21] downloaded suck relationship program and
[29:24] that's why for over 40 years i couldn't
[29:26] get a damn relationship off the ground
[29:28] why i didn't see
[29:30] 95 of the day
[29:33] my subconscious programs that were
[29:35] playing
[29:37] everyone else saw them a future partner
[29:39] saw them
[29:40] i didn't see them when i did them and if
[29:43] they were not very positive programs
[29:45] then what do you expect the result to be
[29:47] like me
[29:48] 40-plus years no relationship at all
[29:53] then when the understanding of
[29:55] subconscious and conscious as two
[29:57] different parts of the same mind
[30:00] recognizing that 95 was coming from the
[30:02] program is like oh crap am i playing my
[30:05] dad no wonder i can't get a damn
[30:07] relationship off the ground
[30:09] and then here comes the big one because
[30:11] you've mentioned it in your work and to
[30:13] me
[30:14] this is the big one you ready and the
[30:16] basic thing is this
[30:19] can you say in truthfulness i love
[30:23] myself
[30:24] and the answer i can tell you right now
[30:27] eighty ninety percent eight nine out of
[30:29] ten people
[30:31] will not be able to
[30:34] truthfully own
[30:36] i love myself
[30:37] i go
[30:38] you don't love yourself
[30:40] i go
[30:41] well how does that relate to loving
[30:42] somebody else i said if we can't love
[30:44] yourself nobody else can love you
[30:47] because if they say i love you you go
[30:49] well you don't have any good quality
[30:50] control i know i'm not lovable some
[30:53] what's wrong with you
[30:55] and then we push them away and then
[30:56] they're not there and then you say see
[30:59] i'm not lovable nobody's here i go
[31:02] unconsciously you push them away with
[31:04] behavior
[31:06] that did not encourage it
[31:08] and i want you to talk but i gotta then
[31:10] follow through on this and
[31:12] i'm getting there mark keep going keep
[31:14] going man then you're you're ripping i
[31:16] love it
[31:17] well the problem comes down to simply
[31:20] this the story of bill is that uh we're
[31:23] not we're not running our lives uh with
[31:26] our conscious wishes and desires we're
[31:27] running with our programs
[31:29] and our programs are sabotaging us and
[31:32] that's because we play the programs 95
[31:34] percent of the time and we don't see
[31:36] that we're even engaged so we perceive
[31:38] ourselves as victims but i said to why
[31:41] do 80 90 percent of people cannot say i
[31:44] love myself and here's the story
[31:48] consider a a person on a team
[31:51] sports team
[31:52] and the coach comes up because the per
[31:54] the player isn't performing up to its
[31:56] ability you know so the coach comes up
[31:58] to talk to the player the coach doesn't
[32:00] go oh please do better not the coach is
[32:04] not going to say that coach is going to
[32:05] say hey come on man you don't you don't
[32:08] deserve to be here you know yeah you
[32:11] know the the coach is uh saying that you
[32:15] you got to work harder you don't deserve
[32:16] it you're you know you're not good
[32:18] enough to be on the team and criticize
[32:20] the player
[32:22] and then i say so what's the relevance
[32:24] of that okay
[32:25] and the relevance is simply this
[32:28] that
[32:29] the person the coach was criticizing the
[32:32] player saying you're not good enough
[32:34] okay
[32:35] now i said well that works on the team
[32:37] the player is going to say yeah i
[32:38] understand coach i'm going to work
[32:40] harder okay great
[32:41] but a child under age seven and this is
[32:44] the okay the big issue in the whole
[32:46] world's here
[32:47] a child under seven
[32:50] is not conscious to think out things
[32:53] they're recording
[32:55] so if the parent
[32:58] says that's not good enough you don't
[33:00] deserve this you're not lovable who do
[33:02] you think you are
[33:04] the child is not consciously
[33:06] understanding like an older child with
[33:09] understanding the coach the younger
[33:10] child is just recording i'm not good
[33:12] enough i'm not smart enough i'm not
[33:15] lovable that's just the words the
[33:17] parents said boom no consciousness
[33:19] remember age through age seven record
[33:22] record so a child records not good
[33:25] enough not lovable not this not that not
[33:28] this that whatever
[33:29] and i go
[33:31] all of us
[33:32] have been in that situation
[33:35] and i go
[33:36] the relevance of that is a child
[33:38] downloads the words but does not have
[33:41] the consciousness to understand the
[33:42] meaning other than the words and i say
[33:45] then most all of us have grown up with
[33:48] criticisms
[33:50] about us i'm not good enough i'm not
[33:52] lovable i'm not deserving i said where'd
[33:55] you get that i said
[33:56] your parents said that when you were kid
[33:58] and you recorded it because you were in
[34:00] record
[34:01] and i go oh my god
[34:03] the the then the issue about all this
[34:05] really comes down the fact that
[34:07] we don't love ourselves
[34:10] because of the self-criticism in our own
[34:13] program i'm not worthy i'm not deserving
[34:17] i'm not lovable i said those are your
[34:20] programs and you played that 95 of the
[34:22] day then the life that you have
[34:24] it's not anything that you wanted
[34:27] in regard to let's say relationships why
[34:30] i'm not lovable i'm self-critical and
[34:32] that's 80 to 90 percent of people
[34:35] are self-critical so that it's very hard
[34:38] for them to take in outside
[34:41] outside information because they already
[34:42] have a program boom that's it no matter
[34:45] what you say i'm not lovable that's the
[34:47] program okay
[34:49] and so the issue about it is
[34:51] all of us
[34:53] have been in that situation all of us
[34:55] have been programmed with beliefs that
[34:57] are not supporting us in their
[34:59] subconscious we don't see them playing
[35:01] but they played 95 percent of the day so
[35:03] our lives are not what we wanted to make
[35:06] out of them it goes back to exactly what
[35:08] the jesuit said
[35:10] whatever the program was in the first
[35:12] seven years that's our life
[35:15] and then i say
[35:17] what was the program
[35:19] i go well here's the problem
[35:21] you started getting programmed before
[35:23] you were born so you obviously have no
[35:25] conscious recognition i have no idea how
[35:27] the program went i said well hey you
[35:29] were programmed a whole year from zero
[35:31] to one you were being programmed every
[35:33] minute of being awake you were being
[35:35] programmed what was that ago
[35:36] i don't know what the program was okay
[35:38] you were programmed a whole year from
[35:40] one to two what was those programming
[35:42] i don't remember those programs about
[35:45] three to f so you start to remember some
[35:47] of these things because consciousness is
[35:48] starting to kick in a little bit and i
[35:50] can remember some of it but i say
[35:53] issue
[35:54] your life is coming from your programs
[35:56] and right now you won't be able to tell
[35:58] me what your programs are and then come
[36:01] the solution and here it is and finally
[36:04] if i say this i would like to then turn
[36:06] it over to you mark because here's a
[36:07] solution and here's the issue i say
[36:10] what were my programs i wasn't there and
[36:12] i have no awareness of it and then i go
[36:15] 95
[36:17] of your life is the program
[36:20] your life is a printout of your program
[36:24] i go why is that so important i say look
[36:26] at your life right now and the point is
[36:28] just the things that you like that come
[36:30] into your life how come they come in i
[36:32] say because i have a program to
[36:33] acknowledge those things
[36:34] but this is the one that you're working
[36:37] so hard mark to help people with
[36:39] the idea is this
[36:41] is that
[36:43] what about the things you want and you
[36:44] have a hard time getting him and i said
[36:46] work i'm working hard i'm struggling i'm
[36:49] putting a lot of effort i'm gonna make a
[36:50] lot of i'm gonna make this happen i'm
[36:52] working i'm working hard i'm sweating
[36:54] and i go
[36:55] why are you working so hard and the
[36:57] answer is simple
[36:59] you don't have a program to support that
[37:01] conclusion and your life is a struggle
[37:04] because your program will not get you to
[37:07] that destination 95 of the day playing
[37:09] that program
[37:11] it's not going to get you there and
[37:12] you're going to try to override the
[37:14] program i'm working hard i'm going to
[37:16] make it happen i go
[37:19] you're only controlling 5 of the day
[37:22] with that that conscious control
[37:25] mathematically it's not going to really
[37:26] work out very well and we struggle and
[37:29] you are there mark to help people let's
[37:31] get beyond the struggle
[37:33] let's get into creating what you wanted
[37:37] let's understand what love is all about
[37:40] love
[37:41] a lot of people just put it together oh
[37:42] it's like male female sex and all that i
[37:44] go no no love is being in harmony with
[37:47] your world
[37:48] does it have to uh do
[37:50] does it be like uh male and female i say
[37:53] no it could be male and male could be
[37:54] female and female it doesn't make any
[37:56] difference why biology
[37:58] it says that it's inconceivable that we
[38:02] are unattached to others and
[38:04] and in the world
[38:06] what's going on in the world is we're
[38:08] all seeking attachment does it have to
[38:10] be with the opposite sex i say no it
[38:12] doesn't have even have to be with a
[38:13] human i don't know
[38:16] you you could have a pet
[38:17] and be in love with your pet and talk to
[38:20] your pet all day that you can do that
[38:22] or it doesn't even have to be with a
[38:24] living thing
[38:25] if you love something that you do
[38:30] that puts you into the reference frame
[38:32] of being conscious of what you do when
[38:35] you're in love you're not playing the
[38:37] program
[38:38] when you're in love with something you
[38:40] were uh not not going to the past you're
[38:43] you're saying your conscious mind is
[38:45] staying right there
[38:47] when you're in love
[38:48] you stop thinking and you are then being
[38:52] you're active
[38:54] and this is the issues now that i opened
[38:56] up so many uh cans of worms here yeah
[38:59] you've got i've got a lot of algorithms
[39:01] to produce
[39:04] guide me now
[39:06] i mean gosh you dropped so many gems so
[39:10] first off 95 of what we do is
[39:13] unconscious you know it's like you said
[39:15] about the driving the car analogy i
[39:17] think of that often of like
[39:19] the moment i woke up to questioning why
[39:23] i did what i did or the outcomes i had
[39:25] was because i hit a relational low but i
[39:28] think that
[39:28] low can be any event in life that makes
[39:31] us sort of stop still and as you said be
[39:34] present stop thinking
[39:35] and start maybe being curious so i have
[39:38] a few questions one
[39:40] let's just start with one because i know
[39:42] you'll you'll probably riff and answer
[39:43] my other one which is
[39:47] what is
[39:48] what is often or how do we begin to tap
[39:51] into the unconscious
[39:53] and
[39:54] discover what these programs are
[39:57] and then
[39:58] [Music]
[39:59] i'm i'm curious two things one the the
[40:03] biological influence of fear-based or
[40:06] negative programs like biologically i
[40:08] understand that you can't receive what
[40:10] you don't believe is possible to exist
[40:13] so yeah maybe just riff on that and then
[40:15] we'll see where we go okay well let's
[40:17] start off with the most basic principle
[40:19] that people have no real knowledge of
[40:22] and it's the fundamental science of
[40:24] quantum physics i go what the hell does
[40:26] physics have to do with all this well
[40:28] physics is the fundamental signs of how
[40:30] the universe works so it becomes
[40:32] important for us to know the rules and
[40:34] most of us all have the rules of what is
[40:36] called newtonian or classical physics i
[40:38] go what's unique about that physics it
[40:41] divided the universe into a physical and
[40:43] an energetic realm and basically says
[40:45] whatever is physical affects the
[40:47] physical whatever's energy affects the
[40:49] energy and i go well then consciousness
[40:51] is energy and the body is physical so
[40:53] science has said well
[40:55] consciousness has nothing to do with all
[40:56] this
[40:57] well that's com you know completely
[40:59] wrong because quantum physics says
[41:01] everything is energy
[41:03] it's an illusion of matter very strange
[41:06] illusion of energy but what's relevant
[41:07] about is energy always influences energy
[41:10] so if your body is not physical but it's
[41:12] energy and your consciousness is energy
[41:14] then guess what your consciousness does
[41:16] affect your your body because then
[41:18] that's the quantum physics part so we're
[41:20] not separating mind and body uh
[41:23] newtonian separate mind and body physics
[41:26] body
[41:27] metaphysics mind and i go yeah but in
[41:31] quantum physics
[41:32] it's all one it's all energy so your
[41:35] mind
[41:36] and here's the principle
[41:37] from 1927 max planck
[41:41] the the one of the founding fathers of
[41:43] quantum physics 1927 states that the
[41:46] mind is the matrix of all matter i go
[41:51] well interesting matrix that's where the
[41:52] movie comes from the matrix the mind is
[41:55] the matrix of all matter what he meant
[41:58] is the mind is the creator of all matter
[42:02] okay
[42:03] and i go that's the fundamental
[42:04] principle in fact i i show my lectures
[42:07] from the the journal nature which
[42:09] happens to be the most prestigious
[42:11] scientific journal on this planet there
[42:13] was an article from a physicist from
[42:15] johns hopkins richard cohn henry
[42:18] and i say to the people you know you
[42:19] don't have to read the article why don't
[42:21] you just read the last sentence in this
[42:23] article i go what's the last sentence
[42:25] and
[42:26] remember
[42:27] quantum physics talks about the there's
[42:30] not a material existence okay it's
[42:32] energy so here's the last sentence ready
[42:35] the universe is
[42:37] immaterial
[42:39] it's mental and spiritual
[42:42] live and enjoy my god the found the most
[42:46] prestigious scientific journal
[42:49] has a conclusion in an article that it's
[42:51] all based on mind and spirituality which
[42:54] are energies okay
[42:56] uh
[42:57] and i said this
[42:59] this is profound i mean from 1927 to now
[43:02] physics still says your mind is creating
[43:05] this and then i go well if our mind's
[43:08] creating this and look at your world uh
[43:10] what are you creating and go goes not
[43:12] the world i want to create you know it's
[43:14] like
[43:15] if i want to create a world i want to
[43:16] create heaven on earth i go well look at
[43:18] this place how we're doing i say well
[43:20] between covid war
[43:22] pollution you know loss of species
[43:25] everything going wrong on this planet go
[43:27] this is not a great creation but if
[43:29] we're creating it why why are we
[43:32] creating this and then it goes back to
[43:34] what we talked about
[43:35] you are not creating your world except
[43:37] for five percent of the time when the
[43:40] conscience is working it otherwise 95 of
[43:43] your life is coming straight from the
[43:44] program downloaded from other people
[43:46] we're not creating what we want we're
[43:49] creating what the program said
[43:52] and this is the wake up call because it
[43:54] says well you know i said well how do
[43:56] you know your you know your what's your
[43:58] programs i said well look are you
[43:59] creating heaven do you wake up every day
[44:02] going oh my god i'm still here this is
[44:04] the most beautiful experience in the
[44:06] lifetime which i have been waking up for
[44:09] 25 years with my partner margaret from a
[44:12] guy who couldn't get a relationship off
[44:14] the ground why
[44:16] previous
[44:17] my relationships were unconscious
[44:19] because my subconscious playing my
[44:20] father's behavior failure okay
[44:24] consciousness stepped in and said well
[44:26] wait what are my programs i say well
[44:27] trying to find a relationship doesn't
[44:28] work so i surely got a bad program and i
[44:32] i said well then we need to change the
[44:33] program and all of a sudden mark this is
[44:36] you know your whole effort to help
[44:38] people over you know change it
[44:41] and this is why i emphasized before the
[44:43] two minds learn in different ways
[44:46] the conscious mind is creative
[44:48] listen to this podcast go uh have a
[44:51] lecture go read a self-help book i go
[44:54] you know how many people read self-help
[44:55] books and i say how many of you all read
[44:57] self-help books and everybody hand goes
[44:58] up and i say and how many of you after
[45:01] reading that book your life changed and
[45:02] all the hands come back down again
[45:05] i go well you read the book i said yeah
[45:07] and guess what if i gave you a quiz on
[45:09] what the contents of that book are you
[45:11] would get a hundred
[45:13] but i say then how come you're smart
[45:15] enough to know what the book is but your
[45:17] life didn't change and the answer was
[45:19] reading a book
[45:21] enhances the conscious mind
[45:24] that's it's creative i could read the
[45:25] book and just learn okay
[45:27] but the subconscious mind doesn't learn
[45:29] that way i go oh
[45:31] so reading the book was very helpful to
[45:32] educate me but it had no effect on
[45:35] changing my program i got no because it
[45:36] doesn't change subconscious
[45:38] subconscious is the habit mine i go so
[45:42] what's the significance
[45:43] if you have a habit you don't want it to
[45:45] change because if it's a good habit i
[45:48] say give you an example because a lot of
[45:49] people think oh the subconscious
[45:51] programs that's where the evil comes
[45:53] from and i go
[45:55] the subconscious is a hard drive
[45:57] it's not evil it's a hard drive the
[46:00] programs you downloaded well they could
[46:03] be evil or they could be good and i go
[46:05] well i give you the good one i say when
[46:06] did you learn how to walk before you
[46:08] were two i said how long can you use
[46:10] that program because once you learned
[46:12] you don't have to think about walking
[46:14] you never even put that into context and
[46:16] something's over there you just i'm
[46:18] walking over there you don't say i'm
[46:19] walking i'm there i say the mind will do
[46:22] all the walking it's a program you don't
[46:24] have to think about it subconscious i go
[46:27] cool the subconscious mind is the
[46:30] program mind but then comes the point if
[46:33] you have a program you don't want to
[46:34] wake up one day and go i forgot how to
[46:37] walk
[46:38] well you're in problem why because now
[46:40] guess what you have to start learning
[46:41] how to walk again
[46:43] so habits do not want to change when did
[46:45] we get these habits
[46:47] these fundamental habits were down the
[46:49] fundamental ones were downloaded before
[46:51] age seven i said but they don't want to
[46:52] change i go well
[46:55] guess what you put the habit in there
[46:58] so there must be a way of putting a
[47:00] habit in there and if you know how to
[47:02] put a habit in there then you can
[47:04] rewrite the habit
[47:06] i say
[47:07] okay the habit mind doesn't learn just
[47:10] changing your habit just because you
[47:11] heard something because that would not
[47:13] be a habit it would be just changing all
[47:15] the time
[47:16] it resists change i say well then how
[47:18] did you put a damn habit in there in the
[47:20] first place
[47:21] i go well in the first seven years of
[47:24] your life you weren't at the level of
[47:26] consciousness alpha and beta vibration
[47:29] in the brain you were at a lower
[47:30] vibration theta theta is just when you
[47:33] fall asleep when the conscious mind just
[47:35] closed the eyes it's gone the brain is
[47:38] in theta for a short period of time well
[47:41] you were in theta for seven years but
[47:43] after age seven
[47:45] you don't maintain that status really
[47:47] anymore but every night
[47:49] when you come home and you start to
[47:51] relax the vibrations from work beta slow
[47:54] down to alpha that's calm consciousness
[47:57] and just as you're going to sleep alpha
[48:00] shuts off and now you're in theta for a
[48:03] short period of time before you go into
[48:04] deep sleep delta so i say every night
[48:08] when you go to bed there's a short
[48:10] period of time
[48:12] when your consciousness disconnects and
[48:13] you're asleep that theta is working so
[48:17] if you put earphones on
[48:20] and play a program through there of
[48:22] something you want to be true in your
[48:23] life a self-help program
[48:26] then at night uh
[48:29] after your your conscious mind starts to
[48:31] shut off whatever's playing through
[48:32] those earphones it's not going into the
[48:35] conscious minds going into the
[48:36] subconscious mind and by repetition and
[48:39] the reason why you need some repetition
[48:40] there because it's only a short theta
[48:42] period before you go in a delta sleep
[48:45] this is called self-hypnosis
[48:47] maybe you remember old days no maybe you
[48:49] don't you guys are young i remember old
[48:51] days when a hypnotherapist and they'd
[48:53] have a watch pendulum you know on a
[48:56] picture i remember from like movies and
[48:57] stuff and they said they swing to watch
[48:59] what were they telling people you're
[49:01] getting tired you're getting sleepy and
[49:04] i go what's the relevance of that and
[49:06] the answer is profoundly simple it says
[49:08] if i'm tired and sleepy i'm lowering the
[49:10] vibration down to theta once i'm in
[49:12] theta the hypnotherapist can say what
[49:15] they want it's not going into the
[49:17] conscious mind it's now going straight
[49:19] into the subconscious program so the
[49:21] issue of that is that this is what we
[49:23] have to work on is recognizing
[49:26] how do i put the programs in i say you
[49:28] have to be in theta and that's every
[49:30] night
[49:30] you are in theta for a short period of
[49:32] time so you put the earphones on go to
[49:34] sleep while you're awake and still
[49:36] conscious you'll hear what's coming
[49:37] through the the program
[49:39] but the moment you fall asleep the
[49:41] program is not picked up by the
[49:43] conscious minds going into the
[49:44] subconscious mind so you can reprogram
[49:47] the subconscious mind with what you want
[49:50] with self-hypnosis every night put the
[49:52] earphones on okay
[49:54] i go well that's how the subconscious
[49:56] mind learned habits for the first seven
[49:58] years but you learn things after you
[50:00] were age seven you learn how to drive a
[50:02] car you learn how to play an instrument
[50:04] you learn different things i said well
[50:06] how did you learn a new program after
[50:08] age seven and the second way of learning
[50:10] the first wave is hypnosis
[50:13] the second way of learning is practice
[50:16] repetition
[50:18] in other words habituation
[50:20] practice something repeat it repeat it
[50:23] repeat it and guess what now it's
[50:25] downloaded that's how you learned how to
[50:27] you you got in a car uh you know if you
[50:30] didn't practice i don't want to drive
[50:32] with you i need you to practice so you
[50:34] know how to drive then i'll get in the
[50:36] car with you uh
[50:38] the the basic part is it's the practice
[50:40] that puts in the new program
[50:42] okay
[50:43] and so this this is very really what we
[50:46] what we have to understand is i can add
[50:48] a program by habituation uh there's a
[50:52] new age phraseology which everyone
[50:54] laughs at but it's actually
[50:55] fundamentally true
[50:57] fake it till you make it i go what does
[51:01] that mean i say well
[51:02] if you're an unhappy person and every
[51:04] day you wake up in three of the days
[51:05] like i'm not happy i'm not happy i say
[51:08] you want to be happy then all day long
[51:10] whenever you can remember you go i am
[51:12] happy
[51:13] i am happy right in the middle of
[51:14] unhappy i don't care what's going on
[51:17] it's the repetition i am happy
[51:20] repeated and repeat it and repeat it
[51:23] that's how you make a habit one day you
[51:25] wake up and guess what you're happy
[51:27] without even having to repeat it because
[51:28] now the program is in
[51:30] so that's the second way first way
[51:32] self-hypnosis earphones nighttime
[51:34] program
[51:35] uh the that's first second way was
[51:38] habituation repetition practice okay
[51:42] a little insight about how you can
[51:44] change your life how
[51:46] profoundly
[51:47] powerful you are in changing your life
[51:49] actors
[51:51] let's say uh renee zellwagger
[51:54] she she played bridget jones in the
[51:56] diary thing there
[51:58] bridget jones character is 40 pounds
[52:00] heavier than she is what did she do she
[52:02] got into character and became
[52:05] consciously
[52:07] playing that role in her head
[52:09] guess what she gained 40 pounds
[52:12] played the role
[52:14] after the movie
[52:15] character gone
[52:17] and her weight returned back to the
[52:19] normal rate again
[52:23] one of the fine
[52:24] black actors was playing
[52:27] a boxer hurricane boxer
[52:30] and we know this character and uh it's
[52:33] interesting because he's not he has a
[52:35] slight frame and everything but he takes
[52:37] on this uh boxer
[52:40] in his consciousness you see him in the
[52:42] movie the man's buffed man he's got the
[52:44] muscles and where the hell did that come
[52:46] from
[52:47] he put in the picture i am the boxer and
[52:51] then his consciousness translated that
[52:53] into his biology
[52:55] okay
[52:56] sometimes doesn't work out so good uh
[52:57] for example uh
[52:59] dustin hoffman played willie lohman a
[53:01] very uh a neurologically upset
[53:04] depressive character in the iceman
[53:06] cometh he played it on broadway and he
[53:08] dustin hoffman's a brilliant actor
[53:10] yeah point is he took on willie lowman's
[53:14] neurological issue became so depressed
[53:16] that while the show was running he ended
[53:18] up having to go to a neurological
[53:20] hospital because the depression overtook
[53:23] his life by playing it
[53:25] there's a little a little simple story
[53:27] right here
[53:28] who do you want to be
[53:30] play the become the actor play that
[53:33] actor put that here's who i am i guess
[53:36] what when there's a good actor their
[53:38] physiology corresponds exactly to the
[53:41] consciousness
[53:43] of the role they are playing
[53:45] you don't like your life change your
[53:46] role play a different i'm a different
[53:48] person i don't play here i am bruce the
[53:50] actor
[53:52] i'm a great actor okay i'm gonna act and
[53:54] then that's it so um that that's you
[53:57] know the way of changing it changing the
[53:59] consciousness of who we are
[54:02] and the last way of changing because
[54:04] it's most important for me because it's
[54:06] the fastest those two other ones take
[54:08] time repetition you know put the program
[54:11] on every night takes time but there's
[54:13] something called energy psychology a new
[54:16] version of new modality of psychology
[54:18] it's not the conventional psychology
[54:21] it enhances or engages something called
[54:24] super learning
[54:25] and with super learning the mind is open
[54:27] to rapid downloads of stuff in a super
[54:30] learning moment so you can change a
[54:33] belief that you've had your whole life
[54:36] 15 minutes
[54:37] 20 minutes give it some of that that
[54:40] sounds perfect well it works and there's
[54:42] about 25 different modalities that are
[54:44] on my website under my website under
[54:46] resources there's 25 different versions
[54:49] i use the one called psi k but there's
[54:51] so many other ones and so i give a
[54:53] listing a short paragraph and a website
[54:56] so you can say oh that's a good one i'd
[54:57] like to try this one go ahead why
[55:01] necessity is the mother of invention
[55:03] human behavior is causing our own
[55:05] extinction at this moment the world is
[55:08] in chaos not because of all the little
[55:09] details going on in chaos because we're
[55:11] not sustainable as a civilization
[55:14] and we have to as human behavior oh well
[55:17] then what do we have to change human
[55:18] behavior i go is it going to take weeks
[55:20] and weeks to find a new behavior
[55:22] no
[55:23] mother of invention energy psychology
[55:25] says i can rewrite those programs in in
[55:27] minutes and i said well
[55:30] uh i wouldn't be here talking to you if
[55:33] that uh understanding in my application
[55:36] of that i i brought it into my life and
[55:39] my life is i wrote a book called the
[55:40] honeymoon effect here's a guy who
[55:42] couldn't get a relationship off the
[55:43] ground for 40 plus years and then he
[55:45] writes a book called the honeymoon
[55:46] effect
[55:47] yeah guess what i'm still on it and it's
[55:50] 25 years and i'm still waking up every
[55:53] day and i'm still having a honeymoon
[55:55] every day after 25 years
[55:58] and so uh does it work
[56:01] well
[56:02] at least for 25 years has worked but i
[56:04] don't think it's ending today so i think
[56:06] it's a lifetime change and your efforts
[56:09] are to bring people into this and so
[56:11] thank you for letting me
[56:13] uh talk to your community so i hope that
[56:15] they can engage with you to let's do
[56:17] something active now instead of hey
[56:20] bruce just enhanced my conscious mind i
[56:22] go that's nice but until you change that
[56:24] subconscious program you're still the
[56:26] same person that you are
[56:28] and mark's job as i see it is to
[56:31] facilitate your change so i said visit
[56:35] that guy mark he's on the screen next to
[56:36] me
[56:38] i like that well it makes me consider i
[56:41] mean so many things one the
[56:44] reliving of the honeymoon over and over
[56:46] and over again is obviously
[56:48] you know i think we often long for that
[56:50] state rather than living it much like
[56:53] what we were saying at the beginning of
[56:54] the podcast about living in heaven on
[56:56] earth rather than
[56:58] waking up every day with this sort of
[57:00] doom and gloom which you know i
[57:03] have a couple questions one
[57:06] based on the stuff we're consuming
[57:08] passively news all that kind of stuff i
[57:10] would imagine that that is constant
[57:12] because there's so much habitual stuff
[57:14] right like we might even be falling
[57:16] asleep to the news and you're like oh
[57:18] wait that's in that moment you're
[57:20] talking about and then
[57:21] the second part of that is
[57:24] why is it so hard
[57:27] then knowing like what you're saying
[57:28] like oh ultimately i want to create a
[57:30] belief that i love myself or i want to
[57:32] create the honeymoon experience i want
[57:34] to change what i learned from my dad or
[57:35] my mom or society about relationship and
[57:38] i want to actually cultivate a loving
[57:39] relationship
[57:41] uh
[57:42] why is it so hard to let go of the
[57:45] belief even though i know i'm stepping
[57:47] into the potentiality of heaven on earth
[57:50] or the honeymoon effect so
[57:52] one like how is what we're consuming
[57:55] influencing that and then two
[57:58] uh why is it so terrifying to know that
[58:00] you're gonna actually create
[58:02] like that to me is such a
[58:04] mind-blowing
[58:06] thing that doesn't make sense is like
[58:09] we'd rather be certain and in pain
[58:11] sometimes
[58:14] we're playing programs we're we're
[58:16] playing programs but we are unaware of
[58:19] the program if you're unaware of the
[58:21] program then here's how it works
[58:23] i wake up in the morning and say today's
[58:24] the day i'm going to get healthy today
[58:26] i'm going to find love out there too and
[58:28] you get all excited and you go to the
[58:30] day and you come home at night and go
[58:32] well it didn't work today and i said why
[58:34] didn't it work and i said well
[58:36] i wanted to be successful so it's not me
[58:39] must be them
[58:41] and then
[58:42] we have switched
[58:44] what we have become as victims
[58:46] because we didn't see any participation
[58:49] from our end because our participation
[58:52] was invisible
[58:53] so it wasn't me that caused the problem
[58:56] it was that person and that thing and
[58:58] that entity and all that and then all of
[59:00] a sudden i'm a victim of those things
[59:01] that are controlling me and i go you
[59:04] didn't see 95 of the day you were
[59:06] creating it and that was the response
[59:08] and so if you can't see it which the
[59:10] average person cannot see anything we
[59:12] just talked about
[59:14] then everyone wakes up today as i'm a
[59:16] victim of the world because not exactly
[59:18] what i want
[59:19] and therefore
[59:21] geez poor me i can't get this you know
[59:24] and those people are interfering and
[59:25] everybody it's not me
[59:28] i go
[59:29] as quantum physics rule number one
[59:32] consciousness is creating your life
[59:34] experience you have to own this
[59:37] because if you owned it then you could
[59:38] say well then if i'm doing it then i'm
[59:40] the one
[59:42] that can fix it
[59:43] but if they're doing it i can't fix them
[59:46] so most people have no idea that they're
[59:48] involved they're just looking at the
[59:50] world these people are not helping me
[59:52] i go no no they were following what your
[59:55] program was going and you didn't see it
[59:58] and that is the hardest part for the
[1:00:00] whole game
[1:00:01] you do the average person outside what
[1:00:03] we just talked about has no idea
[1:00:07] that they're not controlling their life
[1:00:09] with their wishes and desires and that
[1:00:11] the failure to obtain them is not them
[1:00:14] but it's the other people that's the
[1:00:16] conventional belief and if that happens
[1:00:18] then the the issue is i'm not going to
[1:00:21] be empowered because i'm giving the
[1:00:23] power still to the other people and it's
[1:00:25] like no you are powerful and this is why
[1:00:29] your program is an important part of the
[1:00:31] evolution of civilization
[1:00:33] and i go why we have to get out of the
[1:00:36] program that's been put upon us that
[1:00:40] made us victims
[1:00:41] powerless
[1:00:43] in a world you go but look at all those
[1:00:45] powerful people out there how did they
[1:00:47] get so powerful and i go
[1:00:49] they didn't get so powerful they took
[1:00:52] away your power
[1:00:53] now they have the power
[1:00:55] and that that's it it's control the game
[1:00:58] is controlled
[1:01:00] and it's time to uh
[1:01:02] recognize how the game works so you can
[1:01:04] get back into your control i did this
[1:01:07] with my life and it all started with
[1:01:10] those cells 50 years ago that showed me
[1:01:12] jesus my consciousness is creating this
[1:01:15] if i'm going to change something i don't
[1:01:17] have to change the genetics
[1:01:19] i have to just change the consciousness
[1:01:21] and that led me on this path to
[1:01:24] ultimately uh you know reprogramming my
[1:01:27] subconscious mind to do what get rid of
[1:01:30] or replace
[1:01:32] the disempowering programs with
[1:01:34] empowering ones and i go here's the
[1:01:36] benefit here's the benefit of it once
[1:01:39] the new program is in
[1:01:41] you don't have to even make any effort
[1:01:43] why you haven't made any effort to get
[1:01:45] where you are right now
[1:01:47] it's your subconscious been doing it all
[1:01:49] the time so i said well what if you put
[1:01:50] only good stuff in your subconscious i
[1:01:51] go well then without any effort you will
[1:01:53] have all the good things that you were
[1:01:55] looking for health and happiness and
[1:01:57] relationships and stuff like that
[1:01:59] and that's the destination
[1:02:02] because you've got to get out of i'm a
[1:02:04] victim everyone thinks they're a victim
[1:02:06] i go well what does victim mean
[1:02:08] powerless and so if i'm i'm telling you
[1:02:10] i'm powerless and what do you think is
[1:02:12] going to happen and as you went like
[1:02:13] that before nan's resist i'll sell you
[1:02:16] some power
[1:02:17] i'll be the pharmaceutical you want some
[1:02:19] power i'll sell you this drug
[1:02:20] okay i'm this guy i'll sell you that
[1:02:23] you'll get more power more power what
[1:02:25] did they do they made us into consumers
[1:02:27] why well i can't do it i'm the victim
[1:02:30] but they can get it for me how much do i
[1:02:32] pay them i say well
[1:02:34] hey religion was based on all this stuff
[1:02:36] yeah how much does it cost me not to go
[1:02:39] to hell well
[1:02:41] ten percent of your salary was tithing
[1:02:44] i go for what they're going to protect
[1:02:46] me from going to hell uh you know the
[1:02:48] the
[1:02:50] people they go
[1:02:51] why am i paying them ten percent
[1:02:54] i can i could create my own heaven
[1:02:57] which i did and all of a sudden it says
[1:02:59] stop disempowering me that is the
[1:03:02] message who's the go-to it goes to the
[1:03:06] medical community that you disempower me
[1:03:08] by telling me
[1:03:10] what my future is going to be and i buy
[1:03:12] into the belief in that first seven
[1:03:13] years that you control my health i don't
[1:03:16] control my health i'd go to the doctor
[1:03:18] and my program is doctor knows about my
[1:03:21] health i don't the doctor says you're
[1:03:24] going to die in three months then guess
[1:03:26] what
[1:03:27] you just put in your brain a program
[1:03:31] of in three months i will be dead and
[1:03:34] you will i say will you die of the
[1:03:36] cancer they said you had and i go nope
[1:03:39] you can you die from the belief of the
[1:03:40] three months because when i started
[1:03:42] doing autopsies on people that we know
[1:03:44] they were going to die in three months
[1:03:46] of this cancer and they started finding
[1:03:48] they didn't die from the cancer
[1:03:50] would they die from
[1:03:51] the belief belief controls your life if
[1:03:55] you believe you're gonna die you can die
[1:03:56] just from the belief
[1:03:59] tells you like how much
[1:04:01] what just tells you how much like
[1:04:02] constantly being in terror constantly
[1:04:04] being in fear constantly being like if
[1:04:07] you're afraid you're always gonna catch
[1:04:09] right
[1:04:10] they put the button into your system in
[1:04:11] the first seven years and the rest of
[1:04:13] your life they wanted you to jump they
[1:04:14] just push the button push the button
[1:04:15] you'll jump you'll jump you'll jump and
[1:04:18] that's how they control us
[1:04:20] and the fact is well if we're all
[1:04:21] creators then how come i have to jump to
[1:04:24] your button and the answers because the
[1:04:26] program that got me off the ground
[1:04:29] was
[1:04:30] you're the powerful one and i'm not
[1:04:32] and all of a sudden and then i'm not
[1:04:34] powerful you know there's a famous book
[1:04:36] rich dad poor dad basically yeah
[1:04:39] establishing everything i just said
[1:04:41] if you come from a family where the
[1:04:43] first seven years is you're in the rich
[1:04:45] family
[1:04:46] then you're gonna be rich because
[1:04:47] unconsciously you will be doing those
[1:04:49] things that brought that richness into
[1:04:52] your family in contrast you grow up in a
[1:04:54] poor family and the effort of trying to
[1:04:57] get out of poverty you can't do it you
[1:04:59] can't do it well that's a program so
[1:05:01] guess what kids from rich families grow
[1:05:04] up rich even if they're stupid you know
[1:05:07] i won't say any
[1:05:08] past president about that or not but um
[1:05:13] a person doesn't have to be intelligent
[1:05:14] they're running on a program to stay
[1:05:16] rich okay not in consciousness okay but
[1:05:19] more importantly most of us have been
[1:05:21] programmed to be poor people poor in
[1:05:23] money poor in status poor and
[1:05:26] life functions why
[1:05:29] because this is a program to disempower
[1:05:31] us to make us consumers
[1:05:33] to buy
[1:05:34] whatever the pharmaceutical company
[1:05:36] wants to sell me whatever the drug
[1:05:38] people whatever the religion wants to
[1:05:40] sell me out it's like oh okay
[1:05:42] i'll do what you said it's like
[1:05:44] you don't need any of that you just
[1:05:47] you needed that because they knew about
[1:05:50] the program
[1:05:51] okay
[1:05:52] but if you know about the program then
[1:05:54] the first thing is this you don't have
[1:05:56] to be involved anymore doing that
[1:05:58] it's interesting to write my own
[1:06:01] well you almost have to when you start
[1:06:03] to do what you're saying which is
[1:06:05] recognize your participation in the
[1:06:07] system that you've just always been part
[1:06:09] of and if you observe your parents and
[1:06:11] your religion and your culture
[1:06:13] we're all participating like that's the
[1:06:16] normal and so if your normal
[1:06:18] relationships are not
[1:06:19] loving empathic kind respectful thriving
[1:06:23] then it is abnormal to begin to take a
[1:06:27] pause before you respond it's abnormal
[1:06:30] to be kind and respectful and to believe
[1:06:32] that
[1:06:32] the honeymoon is possible like
[1:06:35] it's amazing because what you're saying
[1:06:36] is as soon as you unplug from one
[1:06:39] then now you're like well
[1:06:41] i don't need this addiction anymore
[1:06:43] because that addiction was treating my
[1:06:45] disconnection from heaven on earth from
[1:06:47] the from the participation that's the
[1:06:50] pain that's created when you participate
[1:06:51] in a program that is inherently painful
[1:06:54] yeah yeah you know the the a big
[1:06:57] conclusion of everything we're talking
[1:06:58] about here is the movie of the matrix
[1:07:01] remember that came from max planck the
[1:07:03] mind is the matrix of all matter uh
[1:07:06] guess what the point of the movie was
[1:07:07] we're all programmed that was the point
[1:07:09] i said yeah but that's true we are all
[1:07:11] programmed it's not science fiction
[1:07:12] documentary and i uh and then when they
[1:07:16] took the red pill
[1:07:18] they got out of the program and their
[1:07:20] all of a sudden they had a whole
[1:07:21] different thing going on
[1:07:23] so let me tell people that that movie is
[1:07:26] a documentary that most of you out there
[1:07:29] have taken that red pill i say what is
[1:07:31] the red pill
[1:07:33] you fall in love i go yeah but why is
[1:07:35] that the red pill you ready
[1:07:36] because when people fall in love they
[1:07:38] stop thinking
[1:07:40] they stay mindful meaning i've been
[1:07:42] looking for this partner for 40 years
[1:07:44] and she or he shows up
[1:07:47] and and the idea is this
[1:07:49] i've waited for them to be here why
[1:07:50] would i spend my time thinking which
[1:07:52] means i'm not here
[1:07:54] i don't want to think i want to be here
[1:07:56] because of this excitement and i go when
[1:07:59] people fall in love the honeymoon
[1:08:01] their life is blah blah blah blah blah
[1:08:03] they fall in love 24 hours later it's
[1:08:05] like oh man life's beautiful
[1:08:08] the food's great the muse is great man i
[1:08:11] got so much energy
[1:08:14] for days we didn't even sleep we were so
[1:08:16] energized and everything i go
[1:08:18] that's called the honeymoon the
[1:08:19] honeymoon is an experience of heaven on
[1:08:22] earth i go
[1:08:23] how did that happen after a life of blah
[1:08:25] blah blah and the answer was because
[1:08:27] blah blah blah
[1:08:28] you you were thinking
[1:08:31] and as a result the subconscious was
[1:08:33] controlling you fall in love you stop
[1:08:36] thinking you stay mindful so i'm not
[1:08:38] defaulting to the subconscious well if i
[1:08:41] stay mindful then which which mind is
[1:08:43] controlling me not the subconscious
[1:08:45] that's the program one
[1:08:47] the creative one i go yeah that's
[1:08:49] exactly what the honeymoon was about you
[1:08:51] stopped playing a damn program started
[1:08:53] creating what you want and then okay
[1:08:57] for most people that honeymoon doesn't
[1:08:58] last for a long time i go why not and
[1:09:00] the answer is
[1:09:01] because during the honeymoon you didn't
[1:09:03] play any of the negative programs that
[1:09:05] you downloaded from your growing up
[1:09:07] period your partner never saw a negative
[1:09:09] side of you because you never played
[1:09:10] anything negative you played wishes and
[1:09:13] desires you played heaven on earth and
[1:09:15] we're experiencing heaven on earth but
[1:09:18] the moment you start thinking
[1:09:21] you will automatically bring to the
[1:09:23] forefront the bad programs that never
[1:09:25] were part of the relationship during the
[1:09:27] honeymoon
[1:09:28] there's two minds the conscious mind
[1:09:30] creative creative two people come
[1:09:32] together that's creative that's heaven
[1:09:34] on earth
[1:09:35] but when you start thinking all of a
[1:09:37] sudden the subconscious comes in with
[1:09:38] its program
[1:09:40] it's not a program that brought you to
[1:09:42] there as a matter of fact a program that
[1:09:44] could have limited you from being there
[1:09:46] and you start playing behaviors that
[1:09:48] your partner goes off who are who are
[1:09:51] you where where did that come from and
[1:09:53] that's the story of bill
[1:09:55] like you didn't hear what you just said
[1:09:57] upset the situation why you said it
[1:09:59] because it came from the subconscious
[1:10:02] again you didn't see or hear what you
[1:10:04] said but the other person responds your
[1:10:06] partner goes oh my god what what's you
[1:10:08] know this is not a great thing and then
[1:10:10] relationships go from honeymoon to sort
[1:10:12] of back to everyday life for a lot of
[1:10:14] people but the juiciness of the
[1:10:16] honeymoon
[1:10:18] is what total creation
[1:10:20] you were creating that
[1:10:23] and if you understood that it was the
[1:10:25] subconscious programs that take you back
[1:10:27] out then you're left with a simple thing
[1:10:29] rewrite the damn subconscious program
[1:10:31] because if you do
[1:10:32] then heaven on earth is 24 7 365.
[1:10:36] thinking not thinking you're still going
[1:10:38] in the same place and you could then be
[1:10:41] thinking 95 percent of the day and yet
[1:10:42] your automatic behavior when you got the
[1:10:44] program right will encourage that love
[1:10:47] to be there without you even thinking
[1:10:49] about it
[1:10:50] that's the coolest part it's not work
[1:10:52] every day i have to work on this
[1:10:53] relationship you put the program in
[1:10:55] there the work is over it's automatic at
[1:10:57] that point so interesting because you
[1:10:59] said before you didn't have to put any
[1:11:01] work into creating the life you
[1:11:03] currently have so if you just do the
[1:11:05] transformational part of changing your
[1:11:07] belief the same ease will come because
[1:11:09] you'll naturally from you said from the
[1:11:11] quantum physics perspective too it's
[1:11:13] like described on all these layers
[1:11:15] you'll naturally
[1:11:16] just start to participate in those
[1:11:18] things because you believe you're worthy
[1:11:19] of that you believe like you said rich
[1:11:21] dad poor dad
[1:11:23] um
[1:11:23] how do you participate in the world
[1:11:27] like what are your habits like when news
[1:11:30] is presented or things like that so that
[1:11:32] you can maintain this honeymoon
[1:11:35] experience not with just your partner
[1:11:37] and i'd love to hear that part but also
[1:11:39] with the world in general
[1:11:41] well the first thing is this and this is
[1:11:44] the issue out eta eight to nine people
[1:11:46] out of ten
[1:11:48] do not love themselves that means they
[1:11:50] won't honor their own selves if i don't
[1:11:52] love myself why should i honor myself i
[1:11:54] know you don't deserve it but oh me i
[1:11:56] don't deserve it that's what my mind
[1:11:58] said and i will not honor myself so the
[1:12:01] first thing is this if you just change
[1:12:03] the main fact is if i love myself then
[1:12:06] immediately how you're going to respond
[1:12:07] to other people it's going to be a whole
[1:12:09] different
[1:12:09] game of response at that point that's
[1:12:12] number one you got to do that like i
[1:12:14] suggest that's the first thing if i want
[1:12:16] to change something first thing i want
[1:12:17] to change is
[1:12:18] i want to be able to honestly look in
[1:12:20] the mirror and say i love myself because
[1:12:22] if i can say that then i'm open
[1:12:25] for love it doesn't have to be with just
[1:12:27] my partner i go no ever love is harmony
[1:12:31] okay i go so love isn't just between two
[1:12:34] people love hey i love my job hey why i
[1:12:36] have harmony in my job oh i love the
[1:12:38] community i live in why because i feel
[1:12:40] happy in this so love
[1:12:42] is not just between these two love is i
[1:12:45] wake up in love why
[1:12:47] because the fear programs that were put
[1:12:50] into me i've had the opportunity to look
[1:12:53] at those programs in my life and say i
[1:12:54] don't want this
[1:12:55] and if i don't want i want to change it
[1:12:57] and
[1:12:58] for me i started with self-hypnosis as
[1:13:01] the first way of doing it it works okay
[1:13:03] no problem but it's a time period
[1:13:06] and i go but once i got to energy
[1:13:08] psychology it's like oh
[1:13:09] i could change that belief in 15 minutes
[1:13:11] and walk away go whoa
[1:13:13] i like this yeah it works so uh yeah the
[1:13:17] so the idea is from here where do we go
[1:13:20] and the answer is this
[1:13:22] look at your life and recognize where
[1:13:24] the limitations are that the limitations
[1:13:26] did not come from the outside the
[1:13:28] limitations came from programs on the
[1:13:29] inside and if there's a limitation on
[1:13:32] the inside then i could do self-hypnosis
[1:13:36] i could do habituation i could do energy
[1:13:38] psychology and rewrite them and the
[1:13:40] beautiful part about it it doesn't even
[1:13:42] take a lot of effort i mean especially
[1:13:44] hey self-hypnosis go to sleep
[1:13:47] it'll happen when you're sleeping that's
[1:13:48] how much work goes into it you know
[1:13:51] energy psychology is like well how long
[1:13:52] do i have to work on that about five ten
[1:13:54] minutes and then
[1:13:55] okay i can do that one you know uh but
[1:13:58] but the issue is this
[1:14:01] we are the ones that have to own
[1:14:04] that our life is not an accident that we
[1:14:07] are creators
[1:14:09] quantum physics has been saying that
[1:14:10] since 1927. the new science i saw with
[1:14:14] the stem cells and the culture also said
[1:14:16] that because it said my mind is creating
[1:14:19] my genetics and behavior my
[1:14:21] consciousness i go that's what quantum
[1:14:23] physics was saying too i go yeah in
[1:14:25] biology it controls my genetics and my
[1:14:28] behavior epigenetics so it's like okay
[1:14:30] biology and physics now agree on this
[1:14:33] particular point
[1:14:35] and yet the public has no idea that
[1:14:38] they're even playing the damn programs
[1:14:41] they they they have in their belief says
[1:14:43] yeah i'm creating this but if it's not
[1:14:45] working
[1:14:47] that didn't come from me it must came
[1:14:48] from those other people and then that's
[1:14:51] like
[1:14:52] the first step of disempowerment why
[1:14:55] well if you're going to blame it on the
[1:14:56] other people then you're never going to
[1:14:57] take responsibility and do it for
[1:14:58] yourself
[1:15:00] and the point is you have to be
[1:15:03] responsible for yourself the word
[1:15:06] responsible is met not with cheers but
[1:15:08] with groans oh no responsible i go yeah
[1:15:12] well unfortunately um you you want to
[1:15:14] take charge of your life then you have
[1:15:16] to own your life
[1:15:17] that's the game
[1:15:19] that's beautiful that's the invitation
[1:15:21] to liberation you know
[1:15:22] like you said it's met with groans but
[1:15:24] it actually your soul meets it with
[1:15:27] finally finally finally instead of
[1:15:30] running we're running from it we're
[1:15:31] running towards something absolutely
[1:15:34] that's the greatest part of it because
[1:15:35] once a program is in there's no effort
[1:15:37] on your part the program runs by itself
[1:15:40] 95 percent of the day it's been doing it
[1:15:42] your whole life well except the first
[1:15:44] seven uh you've been running it
[1:15:46] completely on the program and i say how
[1:15:48] much effort did you put into that and
[1:15:49] it's like well truthfully none there you
[1:15:52] go well guess what if you put a good
[1:15:55] program in there then truthfully you
[1:15:56] don't have to do anything either the
[1:15:57] good program will automatically get you
[1:15:59] what you want because
[1:16:01] your program is getting you what you
[1:16:03] want if it's not the heaven on earth
[1:16:05] then we don't change the earth we change
[1:16:07] the program that's what has to happen
[1:16:11] when you weren't born yet we had hippies
[1:16:13] around here mark and
[1:16:14] uh
[1:16:15] and those hippies there was a phrase
[1:16:17] that's so important at this moment and
[1:16:18] that phrase says
[1:16:20] before you go out and save the world
[1:16:22] take care of your own backyard
[1:16:25] and that's the point before we go out
[1:16:27] and try to change the world and fix it
[1:16:28] the way we want it first fix yourself
[1:16:30] and then the world will change
[1:16:31] automatically to become that
[1:16:35] become the change you wish to see in the
[1:16:36] world oh gandhi guy there you go there
[1:16:39] we go um okay this has been
[1:16:42] beautiful mind-blowing all the things
[1:16:45] uh i feel like uh since the first moment
[1:16:48] of reading your work i just feel like i
[1:16:50] need to pinch myself and happy i had a
[1:16:53] program in here like one day dr bruce
[1:16:55] lipton and i are gonna jam and here it
[1:16:58] is and i wish well i i
[1:17:00] have to tell you how much i deeply
[1:17:02] appreciate the invitation mark because
[1:17:04] it's not i'm not just talking to you
[1:17:05] there's an audience out there and any
[1:17:08] one of those people that decides oh wait
[1:17:10] maybe i can do this
[1:17:12] becomes another person that's going to
[1:17:14] take their power back and the more
[1:17:15] people that take their power back the
[1:17:17] more other people want that power uh i i
[1:17:20] close with this because i always i laugh
[1:17:22] so much about it it was the movie when
[1:17:24] harry met sally and they're in a diner
[1:17:27] and
[1:17:28] sally was uh you know demonstrating an
[1:17:31] orgasm and loud and everybody in the
[1:17:34] restaurant is looking at her and the
[1:17:36] waiter is over at a table and says well
[1:17:38] what do you want and the woman says i
[1:17:40] want what she has
[1:17:43] and i go yes
[1:17:45] i want what those people have that are
[1:17:48] so happy
[1:17:50] that every day
[1:17:51] that happiness brings health you know
[1:17:53] it's unhappiness that where the disease
[1:17:55] is coming from not from genes
[1:17:58] and happiness is our destination
[1:18:00] but if you are invisibly playing a
[1:18:03] program that means you are the victim of
[1:18:05] your program that you don't even see the
[1:18:07] damn program
[1:18:08] but you do see the outcome of the
[1:18:10] program and that's when you start you
[1:18:12] should be then alerted to the wake-up
[1:18:15] call is
[1:18:16] my life is my program and if i don't
[1:18:19] like this
[1:18:21] i'm not going to go out and change the
[1:18:22] life
[1:18:23] i first have to go in and change the
[1:18:25] program the life will change
[1:18:26] automatically after that
[1:18:28] so simple well
[1:18:30] dr bruce lipton
[1:18:32] i am so grateful for your time your
[1:18:34] heart your work and i'm curious for
[1:18:36] the people listening
[1:18:38] uh where do they find more of you uh and
[1:18:41] we'll put all the details in the show
[1:18:42] now well then basically it is it's just
[1:18:44] my website brucelipton.com everything we
[1:18:46] talked about are freely downloadable
[1:18:48] videos podcasts written articles free
[1:18:51] download them why i want you out there
[1:18:55] to do this because if you make heaven
[1:18:58] for yourself
[1:18:59] i'm in the field i'll i'll be sharing
[1:19:01] that with you
[1:19:03] so beautiful thank you sir
[1:19:06] thank you mark thank you for letting me
[1:19:08] be on your program
[1:19:09] of course
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