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Inspiration

Yogananda's Way to Lasting Contentment: Learning to Float

Self-Realization Fellowship
Self-Realization Fellowship
Oct 16, 2026
9 min read

From Self-Realization Fellowship

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One of the stories Self-Realization Fellowship tells most often about Paramahansa Yogananda happens in the water. At the SRF Lake Shrine in Pacific Palisades, California, he liked to swim in the spring-fed freshwater lake, and on at least one occasion, his disciples said, he finished his swim, rolled onto his back, and simply floated for a very long time. When he came in, he told everyone he had seen the Divine Mother, who had blessed the Lake Shrine for years to come. In a talk given at that same lake in September 2024, SRF monk Brother Satyananda returned to that image and built a whole teaching around it: the idea that a person can learn to float through the dynamic tides and currents of daily life, and that the contentment we keep chasing in outer circumstances is already present within us. The talk, which closes with a guided meditation, draws on Yogananda's own words about inner spirituality, on a story about a gardenia blossom, and on the rhythm of the ocean. What follows walks through its central ideas so that the teaching can be taken up beyond a single afternoon at the lake.

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What does it mean to float instead of fight the current?

Brother Satyananda describes his own habit at the lake. On walks along the pathway, he stops at a railing, looks out over the water, and pictures his Guru floating there. Then, in his words, he feels like he is floating there with him, eyes closed. He is careful to say what floating means in this context. It is not passive drifting. It is a state of relaxed stillness that begins in the body and deepens into a quietness of heart and mind.

The image matters because most people experience life as something to be wrestled into shape. Plans fail, moods shift, people disappoint us, and the response is usually tension. Brother Satyananda's point is that tension is the thing that makes the water feel dangerous. A body that is braced against the surface sinks or thrashes. A body that has learned to rest on it stays up. That is the central analogy of the talk, and he returns to it throughout: contentment is less like a prize you win and more like a buoyancy you learn to trust.

How does a short meditation actually teach contentment?

The talk does not stay in metaphor for long. It moves into a guided practice, and the sequence is worth understanding because it is deliberate. The meditator sits straight and relaxed, eyes closed and lifted toward the point between the eyebrows, which Brother Satyananda names as the spiritual eye. Then comes a cycle of tension and release: draw a slow, gentle breath, tense the body all over, exhale, and let it go. The cycle repeats. Only after the body has been let down does the instruction turn to the mind: remain motionless, notice that thoughts are quiet and emotions are at rest, and keep the mind free of background chatter.

Then comes the image that carries the whole session. The practitioner is asked to feel "that you're a bubble of light floating on the ocean of consciousness," and to "deeply enjoy the relaxed stillness in body, heart and mind." The guidance is specific about what to notice next: vibrations of peace, peaceful contentment and well-being, flowing from the stillness within. The session returns to the bubble image several times, and it echoes the chant that opens the talk, "I Am the Bubble, Make Me the Sea," in which the small self asks to be dissolved into the larger ocean.

Brother Satyananda states the key claim plainly: "The quiet contentment you feel now is the native state of your soul. It is always with you. We dive into it in meditation, and we draw our happiness from deep inside ourselves." The phrase "native state" is the hinge of the talk. It means contentment is not something to be manufactured or earned. It is what remains when the surface agitation is allowed to settle, and meditation is the practice of letting it settle.

Can a garden teach you where happiness lives?

Yogananda, Brother Satyananda notes, loved the beauty of nature, but he saw something beyond it. He saw the presence of God behind the beauty. The talk quotes a presentation Yogananda gave in Encinitas, where he had a garden on the cliff above the Pacific. In Brother Satyananda's rendering, Yogananda told that morning audience:

"The flowers outside are so beautiful, but behind them is a garden still more lovely. Though it is very subtle and hard to discern in the beginning, if you can penetrate to the inner realm through the door of the spiritual eye, you will discover it. I live in that garden — a region of exquisite qualities, of tender thoughts more sweet and fragrant than any flower. There the bee of my mind is continuously drinking the honey of God's presence." (Yogananda, as quoted by Brother Satyananda in the September 2024 Lake Shrine talk, around 17:06)

The passage is useful because it describes contentment as a place rather than a feeling. The flowers are the surface, and the surface is lovely. But Yogananda is pointing to a subtler layer that becomes visible only when attention turns inward. Brother Satyananda suggests that the same discovery is available in the Lake Shrine gardens: as you walk, you can silently address the Divine Mother, Lord, or whatever form of God feels near, and recognize that the divine is "the light behind the color" and "the life behind the growth and the liveliness of the plants."

He then tells a story that gives this idea a human face. Sailasuta Mata, one of Yogananda's first-generation disciples, spent years as a monastic at the ashram. Brother Satyananda recalls walking the gardens at Mother Center in the evenings, passing her in silence, exchanging a pronam and a smile, until one evening she stopped to talk. When he asked whether she had a special memory of Guruji she carried in her heart, she told him it was Guruji in the garden. After a busy day, Yogananda would leave the building, go to a gardenia bush near the entrance, pluck a small blossom, and hold it up to breathe in its fragrance with his eyes closed. Then he would keep walking, pausing now and then to take another deep breath, smiling as he concentrated on the scent.

The gardenia is the talk's most vivid lesson in attention. Yogananda was not a man without responsibilities, and he was not hiding from his day. He was taking a few seconds to fully receive something small and beautiful. That is the practice Brother Satyananda is recommending, and it makes contentment something you can practice in the middle of a life.

Why does the rhythm of the tides matter for daily life?

The second half of the talk shifts from the lake's stillness to the ocean's movement. Brother Satyananda observes that even when the sea seems to be in motion, there is a lull between the tides, a moment when the water is very calm and almost, but not quite, like a lake. He says that ocean tides come in cycles, a couple of times a day, and that we can learn to recognize the rhythm and move with it instead of being surprised by every swell.

This is where the talk becomes most practical. Life also has tides: periods of intensity, periods of letdown, and transitional periods that feel like nothing in particular. The lull is the window in which the spiritual practitioner can drop the day's concerns and rest. Brother Satyananda asks listeners to notice how, in quiet moments, you forget the worries of the day, and how there is a refreshing strength that emerges from within. He draws on the image of the brimful ocean that remains unmoved even as its waves rise and fall, and he connects that stillness with a larger inner ocean of peace.

He is also honest about why this is hard. "We can't control life," he says, and much of the talk is about accepting that limit rather than fighting it. When the mind "goes south," as he puts it, the emotions tend to follow. The practice is to notice that sequence early, before it carries you away, and to return to the stillness. The more often you do this, the less you depend on outer conditions for your sense of well-being.

How do you cultivate inner spirituality at home?

Yogananda's own term for this practice, according to Brother Satyananda, is "cultivating inner spirituality," and he uses the phrase "inner spiritual culture" as well. The idea is that spiritual life is grown, the way a garden is grown, through steady and intentional attention. The talk's advice is simple enough to try this week. Find a few quiet moments each day, and a longer one each week. Use them to reflect on the presence of God in what you see. Practice the tension-and-release breath to bring the body into stillness. Then sit with the image of yourself as a bubble of light floating on infinite consciousness, and let contentment arise without forcing it.

Near the close of the talk, Brother Satyananda offers what he calls a little spiritual homework, and the logic is close to a field guide for the whole teaching. When you are calm, you can feel the whole universe of happiness in the quiet. When you start to feel fear, you can turn toward contentment. The movement is always the same: notice the agitation, release the body, return to the bubble of light, and let the water hold you.

The image of Yogananda floating on his back, or pausing in the garden with a gardenia in his hand, is useful precisely because it is so ordinary. The teaching asks nothing exotic. It asks for attention, relaxation, and the willingness to trust that the ocean of consciousness is already holding you up.

Where to go from here

If this talk resonated, the next step is to go deeper into the source. Brother Satyananda refers to the Self-Realization Fellowship Lessons, Yogananda's home-study course in the science of meditation and the art of balanced living, which can be explored at srflessons.org. He also points to Yogananda's translation and commentary on the Bhagavad Gita, "God Talks With Arjuna," available through the SRF bookstore at bookstore.yogananda-srf.org. For more talks from the same series, the SRF YouTube playlist gathers recordings given at the Lake Shrine and other SRF centers. Start with a single practice: sit, relax, let the breath go, and float for a few minutes. The lake is still there, and so is the garden.

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[0:17] Please stand for our service.

[0:23] Please close your eyes and feel God's loving presence

[0:27] within us and all around us.

[0:31] Please pray with me, Heavenly Father,

[0:34] Mother,

[0:36] Friend,

[0:37] Beloved God,

[0:39] Jesus Christ,

[0:41] Bhagavan Krishna,

[0:44] Mahavatar Babaji,

[0:47] Lahiri Mahasaya,

[0:50] Swami Sri Yukteswar,

[0:53] our guru,

[0:56] Paramahansa Yogananda,

[0:59] saints of all religions,

[1:02] we bow to you all.

[1:05] O Beloved God,

[1:08] I am a bubble of light

[1:12] floating in the ocean

[1:16] of your infinite consciousness.

[1:19] O Beloved God,

[1:22] I want to expand my heart

[1:26] that I may feel and know

[1:30] my true home is omnipresence.

[1:35] Aum.

[1:37] Peace.

[1:39] Amen.

[1:41] Please be seated.

[1:44] Good morning everyone.

[1:46] Thank you for joining us.

[1:48] I hope your summer is going well.

[1:52] One of the stories, our favorite stories

[1:54] from the life of Paramahansa Yogananda here at Lake Shrine

[1:58] is that he used to enjoy swimming in the lake.

[2:03] And so he enjoyed the spring-fed freshwater lake and he would go swimming.

[2:08] And the disciples said that on one occasion at least,

[2:12] he finished his swim and he rolled over onto his back and just floated.

[2:19] And he floated there for the longest time.

[2:22] And then when he came in, he told everybody he had a vision of Divine Mother,

[2:27] and Divine Mother blessed him.

[2:29] And he said, “Divine Mother blessed Lake Shrine for the years to come.”

[2:34] So that's a beautiful image, isn't it,

[2:37] of Paramahansa Yogananda just floating in the lake?

[2:41] And sometimes when I'm taking a walk around the lake on the pathway,

[2:46] I'll stop, and I'll stop at a nice view.

[2:49] I'll put my hands on the railing and I'll look out across the water

[2:53] and I'll just visualize my Guru floating in the lake;

[2:59] and then I'll feel like I'm floating there with him.

[3:03] And I close my eyes and I just float in the lake with the Guru.

[3:07] It's a beautiful feeling.

[3:11] I'm just floating.

[3:12] So our conversation today is about floating —

[3:18] learning to float in the, you know, dynamic tides and currents of daily life.

[3:25] There is value here.

[3:27] So let us have a meditation together and let's float.

[3:36] We can float in meditation; it's a beautiful sensation

[3:41] when we relax all of our muscles

[3:45] and we enter into a state of relaxed stillness, first within the body

[3:51] and then a deep, profound quietness within the heart and mind.

[3:57] So we will be guided into meditation after this chant,

[4:02] “I am the Bubble, Make Me the Sea.”

[4:06] Page sixteen in the little blue chant booklet.

[4:18] So do Thou, my Lord:

[4:24] So do Thou, my Lord:

[4:30] Thou and I, never apart.

[4:36] Thou and I, never apart.

[4:42] Wave of the sea, dissolve in the sea!

[4:48] Wave of the sea, dissolve in the sea!

[4:54] I am the bubble, make me the sea,

[5:00] I am the bubble, make me the sea,

[5:06] Make me the sea, oh, make me the sea!

[5:12] Make me the sea, oh, make me the sea!

[5:18] I am the bubble, make me the sea.

[5:23] Oh, I am the bubble, make me the sea.

[5:30] So do Thou, my Lord:

[5:36] So do Thou, my Lord:

[5:42] Thou and I, never apart.

[5:48] Thou and I, never apart.

[5:54] Wave of the sea, dissolve in the sea!

[6:00] Wave of the sea, dissolve in the sea!

[6:06] Oh, I am the bubble, make me the sea,

[6:12] I am the bubble, make me the sea,

[6:18] Make me the sea, oh, make me the sea!

[6:24] Make me the sea, oh, make me the sea!

[6:30] I am the bubble, make me the sea,

[6:36] I am the bubble, make me the sea,

[6:42] Make me the sea!, oh, make me the sea!

[6:49] Make me the sea, oh, make me the sea!

[8:01] Sitting straight and relaxed,

[8:07] your eyes closed and lifted toward the

[8:11] point between your eyebrows, the spiritual eye,

[8:21] and draw a slow, gentle inhaling breath.

[8:26] Tense your body gently all over.

[8:30] Exhale and relax.

[8:36] One more time, inhaling deeply, tense the body all over.

[8:44] Exhale.

[8:48] Feel the body deeply relax.

[8:51] Now with relaxation,

[8:55] deeply inhale the breath.

[9:02] Exhale; completely release.

[9:06] One more time;

[9:12] exhale.

[9:17] Now remain relaxed and motionless.

[9:23] Keep your body relaxed and don't move.

[9:29] The eyes are lifted toward heaven.

[9:35] Feel the body relaxing into stillness.

[10:00] Become aware the thoughts are quiet;

[10:04] your emotions are at rest.

[10:21] Keep the body relaxed and motionless,

[10:25] the mind free of all background thoughts.

[10:39] Draw a slow, gentle inhaling breath.

[10:46] Exhale and feel.

[10:56] Now feel that you're a bubble of light

[11:01] floating on the ocean of consciousness.

[11:09] Deeply enjoy the relaxed stillness

[11:15] in body, heart and mind.

[12:05] Now feel vibrations of peace —

[12:10] peaceful contentment and well-being

[12:16] flowing from the stillness within.

[12:48] Feel yourself as a bubble of light,

[12:53] free of all worries and concern,

[13:00] floating on a sea

[13:03] of infinite consciousness.

[13:28] Draw a slow, gentle, inhaling breath.

[13:35] Exhale and feel.

[13:56] The quiet contentment you feel now

[14:01] is the native state of your soul.

[14:06] It is always with you.

[14:13] We dive into it in meditation,

[14:19] and we draw our happiness

[14:23] from deep inside ourselves.

[14:47] Out of formless cosmic spirit there flows a great song,

[14:52] ‘Music of the Spheres,’ the Aum, the Amen, the Amin,

[14:57] known as the Word of God in all religions.

[15:02] We can feel this great Aum vibration

[15:05] flowing all around us and through us

[15:09] as we chant Aum together.

[15:18] Aum,

[15:24] Aum,

[15:30] Aum,

[15:36] Aum,

[15:41] Aum,

[15:47] Aum,

[15:53] Aum,

[15:59] Aum,

[16:05] Aum.

[16:37] Our guru, Paramahansa Yogananda, greatly

[16:40] loved and appreciated the beauty of nature.

[16:44] But he appreciated even more —

[16:46] He saw behind the beauty of nature and felt the presence of God there.

[16:52] And he encourages us all to do the same.

[16:54] He says there's more beauty than we can even imagine.

[16:59] He gave a presentation in Encinitas

[17:02] where he has a beautiful garden there on the cliff overlooking the Pacific.

[17:06] And he told everyone that morning,

[17:10] He said: “The flowers outside are so beautiful,

[17:13] but behind them is a garden still more lovely.

[17:17] Though it is very subtle and hard to discern in the beginning,

[17:22] if you can penetrate to the inner realm through the door of the spiritual eye,

[17:26] you will discover it.

[17:28] I live in that garden — a region of exquisite qualities,

[17:33] of tender thoughts more sweet and fragrant than any flower.

[17:37] There the bee of my mind is continuously drinking the honey of God's presence.”

[17:44] Isn't that beautiful?

[17:46] We can discover the same at the Lake Shrine.

[17:50] Gardens are beautiful right now.

[17:52] And as you walk around the gardens, you can think,

[17:56] ‘You know, Divine Mother, Lord, you are there.

[17:59] You are the light behind the color.

[18:01] You are the life behind the, you know, the growth and the liveliness of the plants.

[18:06] You are in the air; You are in my heart.’

[18:10] Throughout His teachings, our Guru encourages us to take quiet moments

[18:15] throughout our day, throughout our week, to reflect in this way.

[18:19] He calls it “cultivating inner spirituality.”

[18:23] Inner “spiritual culture” is the phrase that he uses.

[18:27] And this is something that if we are mindful,

[18:30] if we are intentional about the way we are living our life,

[18:34] we can deeply enrichen our experience.

[18:40] I once talked briefly with one of our Guru’s first-generation disciples,

[18:44] a very dynamic woman, Sailasuta Mata,

[18:49] and she spent years of her discipleship in the ashram as a monastic.

[18:55] And we used to walk.

[18:57] Sailasuta Mata used to walk in the gardens and at Mother Center.

[19:02] And I also used to walk in the evenings.

[19:04] And we would pass each other silently and quietly and give a ‘pronam’ and smile.

[19:11] And then one evening, we were walking, and our paths crossed, and she came over

[19:16] and started talking with me.

[19:19] We walked a little bit through the gardens together, talking, and then

[19:23] I asked her a question, I said,

[19:25] “Sailasuta Ma, do you have a special

[19:28] memory of Guruji that you hold in your heart?”

[19:32] And I'm always glad I asked that question because she stopped.

[19:35] And she said: “You know, I do.

[19:38] And it's Guruji in the garden.

[19:40] After a busy day, He would walk out of our headquarters building.

[19:45] We're at the Mother Center now in downtown.

[19:48] And he would walk out of the building and he would go over to a gardenia bush

[19:54] that grew near the entrance.

[19:56] And he would twist off and pluck a little blossom of gardenia.

[20:01] And then he would hold it in his hand, and I remember watching him from a distance.

[20:05] He, you know, would put it up to his nose and he would take a deep inhaling breath

[20:10] and close his eyes and just hold the gardenia flower and

[20:14] concentrate on the fragrance that was coming through.

[20:18] And then she said he would continue to walk around the gardens,

[20:22] kind of just enjoying the evening, and he would be holding this gardenia flower.

[20:26] And every now and then he would stop and close his eyes

[20:30] and he would take a deep inhaling breath,

[20:32] smile as he was concentrating on the scent,

[20:35] and then open his eyes and walk some more.”

[20:38] And I think the quote that we just read of him

[20:42] deeply appreciating God behind the beauty of nature;

[20:46] he was having that experience.

[20:48] Isn't that a sweet memory, something that, you know, disciple holds on to

[20:54] as the memory of her Guru?

[20:56] And of course, I hear this story and I think,

[20:59] “Boy, I wish I had more time for things like that.”

[21:03] And then I think, “Well, if I stopped mentally complaining,

[21:06] I would have more time to enjoy.”

[21:11] There we are, aren't we crazy creatures?

[21:15] We are, we complain we have so little time,

[21:18] but we're not using the little time we have very well.

[21:22] And that's what we want to talk about today a little bit.

[21:25] That is, the universe does give us time

[21:30] for inner development, inner growth, appreciation.

[21:34] How well do we use it?

[21:36] We get so involved in what's going on with the demands of outer life that we

[21:41] forget to even capture the moments that are given to us.

[21:48] Yogananda has this term ‘spiritual culture.’

[21:51] It's in the “Self-Realization Fellowship Lessons”

[21:53] and throughout some of his inspirational writings.

[21:56] And this means cultivating happiness,

[21:59] a true contentment within ourselves.

[22:02] If we are always dependent on outer conditions

[22:06] for happiness and sense of well-being, we are forever insecure.

[22:11] Outer conditions, as we well know, are always changing.

[22:16] They can be very happy and friendly, comforting

[22:21] for us one moment, and then the next moment things shift and change.

[22:25] And if we are dependent on those outer changing conditions for our inner happiness,

[22:31] it is very insecure.

[22:33] We don't know how long it will last.

[22:35] And so, the teaching here is, and the teachings of our Guru and

[22:39] way back into ancient times is,

[22:41] “Cultivate inner happiness

[22:43] that is independent and free from outer conditions.”

[22:48] This is called contentment; contentment of heart and mind.

[22:53] And yet we think we have no time, but life does give it.

[22:57] I remember talking with a man

[22:59] who said he was seeking some spiritual counsel.

[23:02] He said, “I had a little successful business.

[23:06] It was going very well.

[23:07] I decided it was over for me and I sold it to my partner.

[23:12] I made a nice little sum out of it

[23:13] and now I'm financially secure for a few years.

[23:17] I'd like to talk a little bit about what comes next.”

[23:21] I said, “What are you thinking about? — he said, “Well,

[23:23] I think I'd like to start up a new business and here's what I'd like to do.”

[23:27] I said, “Wait, wait, wait.

[23:28] Don't move so fast.

[23:31] You just got out of a business,

[23:33] you have some free time.

[23:35] It's given to you by the universe and your own earnings.

[23:39] Why don't you take time, perhaps several months,

[23:42] to start cultivating within you

[23:45] success and happiness?

[23:47] This is something that if you do it now and you have the time for it,

[23:51] you'll never regret.”

[23:52] And so the conversation shifted,

[23:55] how he could use this time now for inner culture.

[24:00] And he walked away with a big smile on his face.

[24:02] And I'd like to think that this was rewarding for him.

[24:06] I remember a conversation with a woman who told me, she said, “I'm, you know,

[24:11] just out of a relationship it’s a very painful breakup.

[24:16] I'm getting lonely,

[24:18] and I'm thinking of starting up a new relationship.”

[24:21] I said, “Wait, wait, wait.

[24:24] Not so fast.

[24:26] I would suggest taking time for yourself now.

[24:29] You can do it.

[24:31] Trying to fill that loneliness inside with some other partner —

[24:35] it's not going to be satisfying for you because you can't choose wisely yet.

[24:39] Take some time for yourself.

[24:42] Cultivate inner source of happiness

[24:46] and you will never regret it.

[24:48] You may never be lonely again.

[24:51] Wouldn't it be wonderful

[24:53] to have the intimacy with you all the time?

[24:56] This is what we want in God.”

[24:58] So you see, life provides open space for us

[25:02] if we can recognize it, if we can use it.

[25:05] And this is how we can cultivate

[25:08] an inner sense of well-being.

[25:11] So the discussion that we're having this morning is about

[25:15] the events of life, the demanding drama that is non-stop,

[25:19] how we become outwardly focused

[25:21] with solving problems, improving outer conditions,

[25:25] and yet we overlook opportunities to improve ourself within.

[25:30] And this inner self improvement is what is going to make all the difference.

[25:39] More than ever before, I see public guests coming in,

[25:43] visiting the meditation gardens during the week

[25:46] and we see them come for the first time.

[25:49] They've never been to Lake Shrine before

[25:51] and they have a sense of wonder.

[25:53] They are walking around and even comment on

[25:55] the vibrations of peace that they feel

[25:58] present in the middle of Los Angeles.

[26:00] That contrast is, you know, amazing to them.

[26:04] And then we see them come back again.

[26:06] And when they come back a 2nd and 3rd time, you know, they're prepared.

[26:10] They bring a little meditation cushion.

[26:12] They bring a notebook for their inspirational thoughts.

[26:15] They bring an inspirational book they want to read.

[26:18] You can see that they're thinking about how to spend their time here

[26:22] for nourishing themselves inwardly.

[26:25] This is the spirit of Lake Shrine — it's what Paramahansa Yogananda envisioned,

[26:30] and it's why he created a space like this

[26:34] in the middle of Los Angeles, so that people in the city —

[26:37] he said this himself — the people in the city would not have to travel far

[26:42] to find a place of peace.

[26:47] Guruji encourages what he calls the cultivation of heavenly qualities.

[26:54] In our Self-Realization Lesson Study course he says,

[26:58] “Don't say you are too busy with worry,

[27:00] and the care of just meeting the necessities of life,

[27:04] to find time for the culture of heavenly qualities

[27:07] through spiritual study and meditation.

[27:10] Meditate even a few minutes a day,

[27:13] but go deep and make those minutes count.”

[27:18] And so this is what I call contemplative activity,

[27:21] and we encourage it here among the guests of Lake Shrine and at the temple also

[27:26] Spiritual meditation, study of Scripture, truth,

[27:30] reflective thinking,

[27:32] reading inspirational poetry,

[27:34] this is inner culture

[27:36] that we can cultivate within ourselves.

[27:39] And it creates a dynamic resource

[27:43] that we can draw upon

[27:45] as life proceeds.

[27:47] You know, down at the beach there are the tides.

[27:50] You're all familiar and the tide comes rushing in,

[27:55] the strong current surging, and then the tide goes out

[27:58] and it's surging again.

[28:01] We're all aware of the incoming and outgoing tides,

[28:04] but you know, there's a lull between the tides.

[28:08] There's a lull between.

[28:10] It's called the slack tide.

[28:12] And it's not very long — it's about an hour

[28:15] between the incoming and outgoing and the outgoing and incoming

[28:19] where the ocean is at rest.

[28:23] And I've lived near the ocean, the Pacific, all my life.

[28:26] And so I've been tuned into the tides for a long time.

[28:29] And I like to, you know, check the tidal charts.

[28:32] And then I go down to the beach for a walk at slack tide.

[28:38] It's very calming.

[28:39] It's almost — not just like a lake — but it's very calm.

[28:44] And you can walk along the water line,

[28:47] right at the water's edge.

[28:49] And the water is very calm — it's kind of lapping in it.

[28:52] It's not yet changing.

[28:54] And you can feel the restless ocean at rest.

[28:59] And when you do this intentionally

[29:02] it is a wonderful experience.

[29:04] You tune in with the lull, the natural lull in nature.

[29:09] And so this is something that we can tune in

[29:12] in our own lives

[29:14] because we're aware of the tides and how they flow.

[29:17] We're aware of the surging incoming tide and the outgoing tide and all the changes

[29:21] that are created.

[29:23] And we are involved with it and complaining about it,

[29:27] but we don't often capture

[29:30] the natural lull that does occur.

[29:33] It's very short, it's quiet, it's silent,

[29:36] it's almost a secret.

[29:38] But when you tune into it and begin to feel it, you can capture and use it

[29:43] for your own self-improvement.

[29:46] I would say that there's a — just like

[29:48] the ocean tides — there's a couple of times a day,

[29:52] different in every life because it's personal — but

[29:54] you can take a deep breath and breathe.

[29:57] You can relax

[29:59] and you can float and tune in.

[30:03] So we want to discover and enjoy these natural interludes,

[30:07] we might call them.

[30:08] They're given to us by life and if we can learn to recognize them

[30:15] and to use them well,

[30:17] it enrichens our inner life

[30:20] and it produces a satisfying contentment of heart

[30:24] because we are not always concentrating

[30:27] on all the demands and all the worries and concerns.

[30:31] This is something we can train ourselves to just step back temporarily

[30:36] and with that sense of renewal we can re-engage.

[30:42] The ancient scriptures of India teach this concept of inner well-being

[30:48] and there's a Sanskrit word called santosh.

[30:52] Santosh is Sanskrit, it loosely translates in English as contentment.

[30:59] Now this is not idleness or laziness,

[31:01] santosh is inner happiness that is independent

[31:07] of outer conditions.

[31:10] That's kind of a cool concept isn't it? — that there can be a

[31:14] state of being within us.

[31:16] We might call santosh soul happiness.

[31:21] There is an ancient sage, Patanjali,

[31:24] he lived and taught 2000 plus years ago.

[31:28] And one of his spiritual qualities that he advises seekers to cultivate,

[31:35] niyama — quality of santosh or contentment.

[31:40] And he teaches us that this contentment

[31:44] has a power to transcend all of the changes of outer life.

[31:52] And santosh is so fulfilling.

[31:54] It has a strength and a power to it

[31:56] and it's so fulfilling that we don't require the world to give us happiness.

[32:01] We become less and less dependent upon outer conditions.

[32:05] It relieves us of self-doubt and anxiety

[32:09] because we have begun to shift our concentration.

[32:13] And as we shift our concentration, then this sense of well-being

[32:16] begins to replace the insecurities

[32:21] that are imposed by the world.

[32:24] So, santosh is a direct product of meditation.

[32:29] And if you're walking around the lake, let's say, and you find a little bench

[32:33] and you sit on the bench and you just relax,

[32:36] there's nice warm sunshine, and you look out over the lake,

[32:40] swans are kind of cruising around looking for handouts.

[32:45] you kind of forget at first, don't you, the worries of the day — concerns?

[32:52] You close your eyes, you're just sitting in the sunshine, closing your eyes,

[32:56] deep breathe, exhale.

[32:59] There's a quiet feeling within you

[33:02] and you realize this is really a wonderful moment.

[33:05] Let me enjoy it.

[33:07] And as you enjoy this quiet moment, there is a vibrational shift

[33:14] and it feels really, really good.

[33:17] Take another deep breath and that

[33:19] inner well-being begins to grow.

[33:21] And by the time you get up from your bench and you walk again,

[33:24] there is this kind of refreshing strength within yourself.

[33:28] This is santosh — this is santosh.

[33:32] And it has the power to increase.

[33:34] It has potential.

[33:36] The more we concentrate on it, the more we cultivate it,

[33:39] the more it grows,

[33:41] and it has a expanding influence

[33:45] on the rest of our consciousness.

[33:48] “The Bhagavad Gita” speaks of this enduring contentment of heart.

[33:55] Chapter 2, verse 70, Krishna says,

[33:58] “That one is full with contentment who absorbs all desires within,

[34:04] as the brimful ocean remains unmoved

[34:07] and unchanged by waters entering into it.”

[34:11] “That one is full with contentment who absorbs all desires within

[34:16] as the brimful ocean remains unmoved

[34:20] and unchanged by waters entering into it.”

[34:24] And our Guru comments inspirationally, and he says,

[34:27] “As rivers flowing into the sea keep it ever full

[34:31] but do not disturb its changeless vastness,

[34:34] so the streams of desires transmuted and absorbed

[34:38] within the changeless oceanic self

[34:41] have no ripple effect in the yogi,

[34:44] but keep him overflowing with energy,

[34:46] contentment, and a peace that never oscillates.”

[34:51] So we're kind of focusing on nature today, aren't we? — of flowers

[34:54] and the beauty behind them, the lake, the rivers, the oceans.

[34:57] But you know, that's a part of our life,

[35:01] and the currents that flow without also flow within.

[35:07] And a very important message here —

[35:10] take away — is that it's impossible

[35:14] to control the outer events of life,

[35:18] but it is possible to control our experience from within.

[35:24] So this is a good take away message.

[35:26] We can't control life,

[35:28] life has its own dynamics

[35:32] but we can control our experience of life from within.

[35:36] And this is the spiritual approach.

[35:42] Back to the stanza of contentment,

[35:45] Paramahansa Yogananda refers to memories

[35:49] from his guru, Swami Sri Yukteswar, on my my far right.

[35:54] He says, “This stanza of the "Bhagavad Gita”

[35:57] was a favorite with my great master, Swami Sri Yukteswarji,

[36:01] and was oft quoted by him.

[36:03] He would experience some new manifestation

[36:06] arising from his vast inner ocean of peace;

[36:10] then he would express in a sonorous voice

[36:13] the realizations he was feeling within.

[36:15] His face shone with a great inward light.

[36:20] At such times, those around him who were spiritually sensitive

[36:23] could feel my Master's overflowing perception of peace

[36:27] being transferred to them.

[36:29] I often inwardly hear him reciting this “Gita” verse in Sanskrit,

[36:34] just as I used to in years gone by.”

[36:39] So, Sri Yukteswar is looking over my shoulder now, and maybe he's smiling,

[36:45] and I think Guruji is explaining to us that,

[36:48] that seemingly stern look on his face is not judgement,

[36:52] it's not discipline.

[36:54] It is santosh,

[36:57] deep inner contentment of heart and mind in Cosmic Consciousness.

[37:05] So it's impossible to control outer events of life,

[37:08] but we can control our experience from within.

[37:13] This is carpe diem.

[37:15] This is where we seize the day,

[37:18] how we interpret, how we respond,

[37:20] how we experience fully the moments of our day.

[37:26] And I make a little journal entry and I say, “Stop complaining,

[37:31] you will have more time for praising.”

[37:35] And it really is our choice, isn't it?

[37:37] It's our choice.

[37:39] We can hear all the truths in the world and we can ponder them,

[37:42] but unless we make a choice as to what we will do,

[37:46] how we will think,

[37:49] what thoughts we will entertain, what thoughts we will release,

[37:54] this is where we can control our experience of life.

[37:57] So when my mind cannot make sense

[38:00] of the chaos around me, what's going on,

[38:03] we try to think it out, we try to explain it to ourselves.

[38:06] We think that by understanding it in some limited way

[38:08] we are going to resolve it.

[38:11] But it doesn't work, does it?

[38:13] And so I have learned, just let it go.

[38:17] Let it go.

[38:18] Concentrate on the feeling of inner santosh, contentment.

[38:23] And the feeling that comes then from the heart needs no explanation.

[38:28] Everything gets resolved in that feeling,

[38:30] and the more we concentrate on it, the more expansive it becomes.

[38:35] This is very satisfying

[38:37] to be able to solve the complicated problems of daily life

[38:41] without any mental explanation.

[38:44] This is the power of Yoga.

[38:47] I was having a spiritual conversation with a woman from the East Coast,

[38:51] and she said, “Brother, I'm having a late midlife crisis.

[38:56] I've lost the job that I love.

[38:57] I've lost the professional role that I love.

[39:00] And to make things even worse,

[39:02] my 50th birthday is next month.

[39:05] I'm getting old. I'm lost. I'm in crisis.”

[39:10] And so, I said, “Well, you know, this is challenging,

[39:13] but you're talking with a swami, so let me reinterpret for you.

[39:19] You have finished an important work.

[39:21] You're now a little older, but you're much, much wiser.

[39:25] Now you're ready for something that is even better than you did before.

[39:29] You have a new opportunity.

[39:31] Your wisdom can reinvent yourself in new and exciting ways.”

[39:36] And she said, “Why do you have to make everything so amazing?”

[39:42] “Well, okay, you can have your crisis if you want it.” “No, no, no.

[39:46] I want amazing, and I want it now.”

[39:49] So, she's Miss Amazing.

[39:51] She's making it happen even now.

[39:54] This is what we can recognize within ourselves.

[39:57] The mind goes south, the emotions follow,

[40:00] and all of a sudden, we have to resurrect our spirit.

[40:03] And we can do it from within

[40:05] by not depending on outer conditions

[40:08] to define who we are and to define our happiness.

[40:12] We look deeper within ourselves to that soul presence.

[40:17] With faith, we know it's there,

[40:19] and we use the methods our Guru gives us to float in spirit

[40:25] and then draw from the feeling of our heart.

[40:29] So, we're crazy creatures and we achieve great things kicking and screaming,

[40:33] but here we are,

[40:35] and we can learn to make the most out of it.

[40:38] I like a quote from the educator, inspirational author, L.R. Knost.

[40:44] Listen to what she says. You'll like it.

[40:47] She says: “Life is amazing.

[40:50] And then it's awful.

[40:52] And then it's amazing again.

[40:54] And in between the amazing and the awful,

[40:57] it's ordinary, mundane and routine.

[41:00] Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful,

[41:04] relax and exhale during the ordinary.

[41:07] You are just living heartbreaking, soul- healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life.

[41:13] And it's breathtakingly beautiful.”

[41:16] So that's quotable, isn't it?

[41:19] That's very quotable.

[41:20] And instead of complaining about the contrast,

[41:23] she's embracing them.

[41:25] And I think there's a magic here

[41:27] in embracing the oppositions of life

[41:32] without having to explain them or fix them.

[41:36] We can resolve the experience and lift ourselves up from within,

[41:40] and there's this magic. That's the solution.

[41:44] Paramahansa Yogananda on true happiness,

[41:47] one of my favorite quotes because it's so clear and actionable.

[41:52] He says: “Many people doubt that finding God is the purpose of life;

[41:58] but everyone can accept the idea

[42:00] that the purpose of life is to find happiness.

[42:04] I say that God is Happiness. He is Bliss.

[42:08] He is Love. He is Joy that will never go away from your soul.

[42:11] So why shouldn't you try to acquire that Happiness?

[42:15] No one else can give it to you.

[42:17] You must continuously cultivate it yourself.”

[42:21] So, this is the message, recognizing that that source is there

[42:28] and then beginning to seriously cultivate it

[42:31] in the moments that life gives.

[42:37] I think we can learn to be interactively responsive to life.

[42:42] When the tides are flowing, we have to engage;

[42:45] when the slack tide comes, we can relax and release.

[42:50] And if we can feel this rhythm and flow,

[42:53] we can find our way forward the way God intends.

[42:58] So, through difficult experiences, we are learning an important truth.

[43:02] We cannot control the outer events of life,

[43:06] but we can control our inner experience.

[43:11] Is this helpful?

[43:13] I think we have some things going here that we can take forward with us.

[43:19] So, we can discover an inner peace,

[43:21] and it can be a contentment that is so strong and powerful

[43:25] that it consumes fear and insecurity.

[43:28] And in the face of threats,

[43:32] we can be feeling that inner contentment and a strength that comes from it.

[43:37] I think this is a goal we're striving for.

[43:41] And we can make progress with this

[43:43] because we are in this battle every single day.

[43:46] Sometimes the day is good, sometimes it's not.

[43:50] But if we have a source within us that is not dependent on the changing conditions,

[43:56] victory is close.

[44:00] So, a little spiritual homework.

[44:02] I think you'll like the homework for this week; it's fun.

[44:05] But first I'd like to read you a quote from Paramahansa Yogananda

[44:09] where I think it's connected somehow with his experience at Lake Shrine,

[44:14] floating in the lake.

[44:16] Listen to it and you can tell me.

[44:18] Guruji says: "When you are struggling in the water,

[44:22] you are not so much conscious of the water as you are of your struggle.

[44:26] But when you let go and relax, you float;

[44:31] then you feel the whole lake lapping soothingly around your body.

[44:37] That is the way God is.

[44:39] When you are calm, you feel the whole universe of happiness

[44:43] rocking gently beneath your consciousness.

[44:46] That happiness is God."

[44:49] He's reaching out in a very poetic way and connecting with our hearts

[44:55] because this is something we know we want.

[44:58] So, the homework is do what I do.

[45:02] Try it anytime.

[45:04] Walk around the lake and pick your favorite view.

[45:07] And you can stand at the railing there and you can

[45:10] look out over the lake, or you could sit on your favorite bench.

[45:13] Everybody seems to have their favorite bench.

[45:16] And you just kind of take in the view and the peace.

[45:20] And then concentrate on the lake and visualize

[45:25] Paramahansa Yogananda floating in the middle of the lake,

[45:29] just floating there, and then float with him.

[45:33] Just kind of float.

[45:34] And when you feel yourself floating with him, close your eyes

[45:37] and just feel that lake lapping and the peace of relaxing into the floating.

[45:43] That's the homework; how's that?

[45:46] We need that, don't we?

[45:48] We need this in our life.

[45:50] We struggle so hard to get it, and then when we finally get it, it's gone.

[45:56] So, if we can learn to go with the rhythms of life,

[46:00] the ebb and the flow and the slack between,

[46:03] that we can capture the interlude.

[46:06] And then we can relax into it,

[46:08] feeling from within the peace and the energy that comes.

[46:12] We will gradually be cultivating, along with daily meditation, this experience.

[46:18] It's an experience of Santosh — contentment.

[46:23] And the more we practice it, the stronger it will become

[46:29] until it becomes a natural reflex.

[46:32] And this is what we want.

[46:34] We want contentment to become a natural reflex.

[46:37] You start to feel fear, you turn toward contentment.

[46:41] You start, you realize you're becoming anxious;

[46:44] you call up this feeling from your heart.

[46:47] We can do this, and it will increase and improve the quality of our daily life.

[46:53] This is what it means to live a spiritual life.

[46:58] Guruji says, finally, "Those who float on the still waters of inner peace

[47:02] never have to undergo the pain of unfulfillment."

[47:07] That's because we are no longer seeking ultimate happiness in the world.

[47:11] We are enjoying what life brings; we are loving with our family and friends;

[47:15] we are celebrating our anniversaries and birthdays.

[47:19] But we know that within us is the only place we're going to find lasting,

[47:24] sustainable, ever-increasing happiness.

[47:30] Let us all now please stand for our closing prayer.

[47:38] Folding your hands and feeling God's love within you and all around you.

[47:42] Please pray:

[47:43] Heavenly Father, Mother, Friend, Beloved God,

[47:50] Jesus Christ,

[47:52] Bhagavan Krishna,

[47:54] Mahavatar Babaji,

[47:57] Lahiri Mahasaya,

[48:00] Swami Sri Yukteswar,

[48:04] our guru, Paramahansa Yogananda,

[48:09] saints of all religions, we bow to you all.

[48:15] O Beloved God,

[48:18] I am a bubble of light

[48:21] floating in the ocean of your Infinite Consciousness.

[48:28] O Beloved God,

[48:30] I want to expand my heart

[48:34] that I may feel and know my true home is omnipresence.

[48:42] Aum.

[48:45] Peace.

[48:46] Amen.

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In the talk, Brother Satyananda says the quiet contentment one feels in meditation is the native state of the soul and is always present. The teaching is that happiness is drawn from deep inside rather than produced by outer conditions. Meditation is the practice of letting the surface agitation settle so that this state becomes visible.
It is a guided visualization used in the talk's meditation, in which the practitioner imagines being a bubble of light floating on a sea of infinite consciousness. It follows a relaxation sequence of tensing and releasing the body and quieting the mind. The image is tied to the chant 'I Am the Bubble, Make Me the Sea' that opens the session.
Brother Satyananda says this is Yogananda's phrase for deliberately using quiet moments in the day and week for meditation and reflection. He also calls it 'inner spiritual culture.' The idea is that spiritual life deepens through mindful, intentional living, not through occasional effort alone.
He observes that even ocean tides have a calm lull between their movements, and that life has similar rhythms of intensity and quiet. Learning to recognize those lulls lets a person rest in stillness and move with life's currents instead of being overwhelmed by them. The talk frames this as a way to depend less on changing outside conditions.
Brother Satyananda recounts a memory shared by Sailasuta Mata, one of Yogananda's first-generation disciples, who said that after a busy day Yogananda would pluck a gardenia blossom near the entrance of the Mother Center building. He would hold it to his nose, breathe in deeply with closed eyes, and then keep walking through the garden, pausing to concentrate on the fragrance. It illustrates attentive, present-moment devotion.
Brother Satyananda directs listeners to the Self-Realization Fellowship Lessons, a home-study course in the science of meditation and the art of balanced living, at srflessons.org. He also refers to Yogananda's commentary 'God Talks With Arjuna: The Bhagavad Gita,' available from the SRF bookstore. The talk itself was given at the SRF Lake Shrine in September 2024.

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