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Inspiration

Day of the Dead Dharma: Inheriting a Grandmother's Spirit

DP
Deer Park Monastery
Nov 3, 2026
9 min de lecture

Source : Deer Park Monastery

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On the first day of November, in the Ocean of Peace Mediation Hall at Deer Park Monastery in Escondido, California, a monastic community did something it had rarely done: it chanted the Heart Sutra in Spanish, in front of the whole sangha. Rain was falling outside after a week of changing weather, and the night before, children from the community had gone door to door in costume, hunting for sweets. Before the chant began, the speaker asked who in the room spoke Spanish, joked about needing a translator who would herself need a translator, and then leaned into the moment. This talk, given for the Day of the Dead, is about the people who came before us, and about a quieter kind of inheritance that never shows up in a family tree.

Lecture · 7 sections

What does it sound like when the Heart Sutra is chanted in Spanish?

The opening minutes are worth slowing down for. The chant moves through the core lines of the sutra: the call to practice "the profound vision that takes us to the other shore," the teaching that form is not separate from emptiness, and the list of what the teaching dissolves, from the five aggregates (the transcript renders them as "locks," a likely transcription slip) to the eighteen realms of sense and the twelve links of dependent arising. The sutra's gift, as the chanters render it, is that whoever sees clearly "has nothing left to reach," and so is freed of the obstacles that breed fear. The hall ends the chant with the mantra gate gate pāragate, sung in the old rhythm, and the speaker's translation carries it into a language many in the room had never heard it in.

For a Buddhist community, that choice is itself a teaching. A sutra is not only text; it is breath, rhythm, and a room full of bodies agreeing to sit inside the same sound. Translating the chant into Spanish did not change its content so much as bring the room closer to it. The speaker signals this openly: the talk that follows will be in Spanish, and anyone who needs English or Vietnamese is welcome to pick up a translation set at the back of the hall. The practice is not a performance of inclusion. It is the practice of making sure no one is left outside the sound.

Why celebrate the Day of the Dead in a Buddhist hall?

The speaker begins the talk with an admission. Growing up, they did not know the Day of the Dead. It was a holiday from another part of the country, not part of their own childhood. "Very, very few people celebrate that holiday," the speaker says, "but I think it's growing more and more, especially here in Southern California." That observation matters, because the Day of the Dead is not only a cultural calendar item for the speaker. It becomes the occasion for something the speaker says they never got training in as a young person: how to relate to grandparents and to ancestors.

That gap is the emotional core of the talk. Most of us inherit a name, a face, a set of stories, and very little instruction in what to do with the people who gave us those things. The speaker describes grandparents who were family in the abstract, people who visited from time to time and were known mostly by their illnesses and their absences. The question the talk raises is simple but unsettling: if we were never taught how to be with our ancestors while they were alive, what do we do with them now?

What did a grandfather's handwriting and a grandmother's lap teach?

The speaker's memories are specific, and that specificity is what gives the talk its weight. A grandfather who had been smoking all his life fell ill with anemia, and his later years left a mark: a hole in his trachea, and a voice the speaker could no longer hear. "I couldn't speak," the speaker recalls of that period, "I could only write notes to myself." And then there is the handwriting. The speaker remembers the grandfather's "very, very, very fine handwriting, very, very, very beautiful calligraphy" — the kind of detail a child carries long after the person is gone. One memory sits close to the grandfather's death: throwing a ball with him behind a house in Orlando, Florida, and then, not long after, his death.

The grandmother is a different kind of presence. She lived in an apartment below the speaker's family, and after school the speaker and their sister went to be with her every day, because the parents were working. She was, in the speaker's words, a refuge, especially as the speaker's mother and father began to divorce. The memory the speaker returns to is physical: sitting on the grandmother's lap while she watched soap operas in English, feeling the warmth of her body and the rhythm of her heartbeat.

"I think that was the transmission I received from my grandmother; it wasn't so much her words, but the transmission of her spirit, right?"

— the speaker, Day of the Dead talk, Deer Park Monastery, November 1, 2026

This is the talk's central claim, and it is worth stating plainly. What the grandmother gave was not a lesson. It was a state of being held. The speaker then widens the frame: a German grandmother, whom the speaker spoke with about two years earlier, described how common it is in Germany for small children to sit on a grandmother's lap, and how that closeness works as a way of passing on energy, love, and compassion. The speaker's own grandmother was born in the United States, but her parents came from Germany, and the lap-sitting custom becomes a thread that links the two households across generations.

What is the practice of bonim, and how does it connect to memory?

The talk then turns to the Zen tradition. The speaker offers a Zen term, rendered in the transcript as "bonim," and breaks it into its parts: one syllable means "without," and the other means full awareness, or in this context, thoughts and memories. Put together, the speaker glosses it as practice "without thinking, without thought." The speaker links this directly back to the grandmother's lap. The transmission received there was not verbal and did not pass through the discursive mind. It moved through presence.

That reframing is useful for anyone who has tried to honor a dead parent or grandparent and found themselves stuck in narrative. We tell the story of who they were. We list their faults and their gifts. The talk suggests a different entry point: the body, the warmth, the rhythm, the quiet feeling of being sat with. Thinking about an ancestor can keep us at a distance. Sitting in the felt memory of their presence, without needing to resolve it into a story, may be closer to what the speaker means by transmission.

How does the talk bring the ancestors back into the present?

The talk opens the door to a larger theme that the speaker develops later: the ways a family's suffering and its stories shape us without our awareness. The transcript touches on how we can suppress our own narratives, and on the things that aren't going well being passed down unseen. The speaker doesn't settle this into a neat conclusion, and that restraint is part of the teaching. Ancestors are not only sources of comfort. They are also carriers of wounds, and the practice is to notice both.

The talk also draws the monastic community into the picture. The speaker reflects on the monastic path and on what it means to be a monk or nun inside a lineage that is itself a family, one that holds its teachers as ancestors. A Day of the Dead ceremony is referenced near the end of the recorded material, and the closing part of the talk returns to the ceremony as a place where the living and the dead meet. The room, the bell, the chant, and the translation headsets all do the same work: they make a space where what has been transmitted can be felt.

Why does the talk matter for readers who have not watched it?

You do not have to be Buddhist, Spanish-speaking, or Mexican-American to recognize what the speaker is describing. Most people carry a grandparent's lap, or a grandparent's handwriting, or a grandparent's silence, inside them. The talk asks what we actually received from those people. The answer it offers is not a list of virtues or a set of rules. It is the felt sense of being loved by someone whose body was warm and whose attention was steady. Passed down that way, it becomes something we can offer our own children, friends, and communities, even without the words.

The bell at the start of the talk carries a line worth remembering. The speaker invites the listener to hear with "every cell of our body," and reminds the room, "We are alive, it's a miracle." On the Day of the Dead, that reminder reads differently. Ancestors are not only in the past. They live on in the ways we breathe, sit, and hold each other.

Where to go from here

If this talk stirred a memory of your own grandparent or ancestor, start small. Sit for a few minutes with the felt sense of that person's presence rather than the story of who they were, and notice what the body remembers. If you want to hear the Heart Sutra chant that opens the recording, look for the full Deer Park Monastery video from November 1, 2026, and listen to the Spanish verses with the same attention you would give a family recording. And if you are a parent or grandparent yourself, consider the talk's simplest instruction: let a child sit on your lap, and let the transmission happen without needing to explain it.

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[0:00] Spanish is spoken here.

[0:03] Ah, many. Very good. Okay. Well, I

[0:06] think this is the first time we're going to

[0:08] sing the heart sutra in

[0:14] Spanish. Well, in this way in front

[0:19] of the sanga. I think we've done it at a

[0:22] ceremony before.

[0:24] So it's something we've been

[0:29] practicing this

[0:31] spring. So

[0:34] people have translation, is that okay?

[0:36] Or not? There is no translator. Ah, okay. I

[0:40] will translate. Translator [laughs]

[0:45] getting translation.

[0:47] one I think the first time like this we

[0:50] chant the in front of in Spanish in

[0:53] front of the whole sanga so it's a great

[0:54] joy um so please

[1:30] by deeply practicing

[1:36] the profound vision

[1:41] that takes us

[1:43] to the other. The

[1:49] sudden realization

[1:52] that the five

[1:54] locks

[1:56] were

[1:58] equally strong,

[2:03] thanks

[2:05] to this

[2:07] understanding,

[2:11] overcame

[2:13] all suffering.

[2:16] Listen, my

[2:24] body

[2:26] itself is meant to be cared for

[2:30] and to be emptied

[2:34] .

[2:37] This body is nothing

[2:39] other than something that will take care of her and take

[2:45] care of her.

[2:46] [song] It is nothing

[2:48] other

[2:51] than this body. The

[2:55] same is true

[2:59] for sensations,

[3:03] perceptions,

[3:07] mental formations [song]

[3:11] and consciousness.

[3:16] Listen,

[3:18] Shariputra, to

[3:20] all phenomena. They

[3:25] bear

[3:26] the mark of the

[3:34] natures

[3:36] of non-birth

[3:38] [song]

[3:39] and non-death,

[3:42] neither being [song]

[3:44] nor non-being is neither impure

[3:48] nor immaculate

[3:51] nor increasing

[3:53] and decreasing

[3:58] in care,

[4:03] sanctions,

[4:05] perceptions,

[4:10] mental formations

[4:13] and consciousness

[4:16] are not

[4:21] separate entities.

[4:23] The 18

[4:25] realms of phenomena,

[4:29] that is,

[4:31] the [singing]

[4:34] sensory organs,

[4:36] the former

[4:38] sensory objects, and the consciousnesses

[4:43] are not

[4:48] separate entities either.

[4:50] The 12

[4:52] laones

[4:54] of dependent suffering

[5:01] and their extensive enco are

[5:07] separate entities.

[5:10] Suffering,

[5:12] the causes of suffering,

[5:15] the cessation of suffering,

[5:18] the path, [song]

[5:20] the profound blessing

[5:24] and the realization.

[5:29] Nor are they

[5:33] separate entities.

[5:36] Whoever can see this

[5:40] has nothing left to reach,

[5:44] slabs

[5:48] that practice

[5:51] the deep vision

[5:55] that leads us

[5:57] to the other

[5:59] death. They

[6:02] see no more obstacles

[6:06] in their minds,

[6:10] and without obstacles

[6:15] in their minds

[6:18] they can overcome

[6:21] all

[6:23] fear,

[6:25] destroy

[6:27] all perception.

[6:33] and perform the perfect

[6:38] [chant]

[6:40] all the Buddhas

[6:44] of the

[6:46] present

[6:48] and the future.

[6:51] Thanks to the practice

[6:54] of deep vision

[6:59] that leads us

[7:01] to the other

[7:03] world,

[7:06] they can achieve

[7:09] authentic

[7:11] and perfect

[7:14] enlightenment.

[7:16] [song]

[7:20] ripuccia

[7:22] anche saper que la vis

[7:26] profunda

[7:28] que nos lleva

[7:30] la

[7:32] oría

[7:35] es un gran mancha,

[7:39] el mancha más revelador, [song]

[7:43] el mancha

[7:45] su supremo.

[7:48] The unparalleled mantra, [chant]

[7:51] the true

[7:53] wisdom

[7:56] that has the power

[8:00] to end all suffering.

[8:07] Let us announce

[8:09] a mantra

[8:11] to praise the profound vision

[8:17] that leads us

[8:19] to the other

[8:21] day.

[8:24] Gate gate par

[8:27] gate

[8:30] paraangate gate gate

[8:38] para gate

[8:45] paraangate [singing]

[8:51] swag

[8:54] Graવા

[9:06] Ah

[9:08] [music]

[9:19] [bell]

[9:27] community, dear friends, this morning

[9:30] the talk will be in Spanish.

[9:33] So if you need English translation or

[9:35] Vietnamese translation, please come to

[9:38] the back of the hall to get translation

[9:41] unit for yourself.

[10:27] Testing one, two,

[10:30] everyone translation.

[10:33] That they all have a translation now.

[10:39] I think it's the only time we have a

[10:42] conversation in Spanish

[10:44] all year. So, if you who

[10:48] speak

[10:51] Spanish can move forward this way,

[10:55] please, so I can have people

[10:58] who understand what I'm saying [laughs]

[11:01] .

[11:04] Please, there's one here. If you're not in

[11:07] a chair, you can still move forward. Thank you.

[11:18] In Plan Village, our teacher

[11:21] often wonders,

[11:24] uh, how many people speak French? How many

[11:27] people speak English? And if there are more people

[11:29] who speak English, then speak in

[11:31] English.

[11:33] But today we are going to, although we are fewer and

[11:37] understand Spanish, we are going to

[11:46] hope that in the future there will be many more

[11:49] and more people who understand Spanish,

[11:52] like,

[11:54] well, in the past this was also part of

[11:56] Mexico, No,

[12:07] smile.

[12:09] Smile.

[13:16] Everything's fine now.

[13:21] All good. Okay. Very good.

[13:24] Thank you very much, brother Doctrí who translates.

[13:31] Well,

[13:32] we're dealing

[13:35] with the rain a bit outside with the

[13:39] change in weather

[13:42] and the Halloween party last

[13:47] night. How many people went outside for

[13:50] Halloween?

[13:52] Very good.

[13:54] And how many sweets did you have?

[13:58] One hundred.

[14:00] No, you don't remember.

[14:09] Well, last night the sisters came to the

[14:14] village, the village of the brothers, in

[14:19] disguise

[14:22] and looking for sweets.

[14:26] And I was somewhere else. So I

[14:29] could hear, but not see, and it was kind of

[14:35] raining, so they went back very quickly

[14:39] [sigh],

[14:43] but it's good to be together, sitting

[14:46] here in the room,

[14:49] knowing that the mountain is drinking

[14:52] deeply

[14:55] these past two weeks

[14:58] with the rain

[15:02] and the flowers are starting to come out.

[15:07] Then we can breathe a sigh of relief

[15:09] as we listen to three rings of the

[15:12] bell.

[15:16] Sister Chang Ma is at the bell

[15:21] today and while we listen to the bell we

[15:24] can

[15:28] not only listen with our ears, but with

[15:31] every cell of our body,

[15:35] inviting every cell to awaken.

[15:41] We are alive, it's a miracle. of being

[15:45] alive

[15:48] and also we are together like blood

[15:52] and blood is a jewel, a

[15:57] precious refuge. AC.

[16:08] [bell]

[16:11] [music]

[16:13] [bell]

[16:17] [bell] [bell

[16:22] ]

[16:28] [bell]

[16:31] [music] [

[16:37] bell] [bell] [bell] [bell] [bell] [bell] [bell

[17:08] ]

[17:18] [clearing throat]

[17:20] Good morning,

[17:21] dear Tae, dear Sanga.

[17:26] Today is November 1st, the first day of

[17:32] November 2026,

[17:35] and we are in the Pacific Ocean meditation room

[17:49] and we are celebrating the Day of the

[17:53] Dead today.

[17:56] The Day of the Dead is a celebration

[18:01] that

[18:02] I didn't know about as a child

[18:07] in my part of the country, right? Very,

[18:11] very few people celebrate that holiday,

[18:15] but I think it's growing more and more,

[18:18] especially here in Southern

[18:21] California.

[18:29] And

[18:31] also, as a young person, I didn't

[18:39] receive much training, I didn't

[18:41] receive training in how to

[18:45] relate to my grandparents, to my

[18:49] ancestors.

[18:52] My grandparents were these people who visit

[18:55] from time to time, they are

[19:00] old

[19:03] and I

[19:06] know that they are my mother's or

[19:10] father's parents.

[19:12] And

[19:14] by the grace of my grandmother, she was

[19:17] living in our house. Back then the

[19:19] relationship was a little different, but my

[19:22] grandparents on

[19:26] my mother's side only visited

[19:29] occasionally,

[19:31] from very far away.

[19:36] And soon after,

[19:41] my grandfather got

[19:44] sick with anemia

[19:48] and had been smoking all his life.

[19:55] So my memories of my grandfather are of him having

[19:58] a

[20:01] hole in his trachea here. And I couldn't

[20:06] speak, I could only write notes to myself.

[20:12] Then, I remember, my grandfather had a

[20:15] very, very, very fine handwriting,

[20:20] very, very, very beautiful calligraphy

[20:24] .

[20:27] And I remember one day around this time my

[20:32] grandparents were in Florida,

[20:35] in Orlando, and I was like, throwing

[20:40] the ball with my grandfather

[20:43] behind the house there.

[20:53] And the next time my grandfather died.

[20:59] Uh, but my grandmother who lived for

[21:02] many years and

[21:05] was a

[21:12] place, a refuge for my mother,

[21:15] especially when my mother and father

[21:18] began to divorce.

[21:26] And my grandmother lived on my

[21:31] father's side of the house, in an apartment

[21:35] below us.

[21:37] So, every day when we came back from

[21:40] school, my sister and I

[21:44] went to be with my grandmother.

[21:50] My grandmother took care of us while my

[21:53] parents were out working.

[21:59] So, I have the good fortune of being

[22:02] cared for by my grandmother and not by

[22:05] television,

[22:10] and I have many memories of being in

[22:15] the, what do you say? Uh, sitting here

[22:21] on

[22:24] my grandmother's lap, yes,

[22:30] while she was watching

[22:32] television, [laughs]

[22:35] [sigh] [suppressed scream]

[22:36] uh, soap operas,

[22:42] but soap operas in English.

[22:45] And

[22:48] then many love stories

[22:51] [laughs]

[22:53] and but above all I received that

[22:57] transmission from my grandmother sitting there so many

[23:01] years with her, with her heart

[23:05] beating, thumping with

[23:08] the warmth of her body,

[23:11] with her love.

[23:15] She,

[23:18] well, was born in the United States, but

[23:21] originally, her parents come from

[23:25] Germany,

[23:27] and lately, two years ago, I was

[23:30] talking to a German grandmother

[23:34] and she tells me that it's very common in

[23:38] Germany

[23:41] , how to say it? Eh eh the little ones,

[23:46] the children sit on

[23:50] eh the grandmother's lap and it is a way

[23:55] of transmitting her energy of love, of

[23:58] compassion, and

[24:12] in the

[24:13] Zen tradition we speak of

[24:18] the practice of bonim.

[24:40] This vo

[24:42] means without

[24:45] and this here is nim, eh, full

[24:49] awareness or in this case

[24:53] thoughts, memories

[24:57] and the practice of bonim. That is,

[24:59] without thinking, without thought.

[25:09] And I think that was the transmission I

[25:12] received from my grandmother; it wasn't so much her

[25:15] words,

[25:17] but the transmission of her

[25:21] spirit, right? It's about something beyond

[25:23] words, beyond concepts.

[25:27] My grandmother knew nothing about Buddhism or

[25:31] meditation,

[25:34] but at the same time I think she had

[25:37] some

[25:39] understanding of this transmission.

[25:45] I remember that just before her death, I was

[25:52] telling my grandmother that I wanted to be a

[25:55] Buddhist monk.

[25:56] And I was like,

[26:00] [laughs]

[26:01] "What are you going to do?

[26:04] [laughs]

[26:05] How are you going to make money?" Something like that. No,

[26:08] no, that's not what I said, but that's what I

[26:11] wanted. I had concerns for myself like

[26:15] ,

[26:16] well, so far I'm 50 years old and I'm

[26:19] still alive without having much money,

[26:24] just $ a month [laughs]

[26:28] and I think I eat well and I have a

[26:32] good community. So that was his

[26:35] concern, wasn't it? What are you going to do?

[26:39] [suppressed scream]

[26:42] But thanks to the transmission she

[26:44] received from my grandmother, I believe I

[26:48] could be a monk, I

[26:51] could continue in the practice.

[26:54] Many of my brothers and sisters

[26:57] [sigh]

[26:58] quit practicing, but they are not yet

[27:01] monks and nuns,

[27:06] but when I think of a person who

[27:09] passed on patience and strength to me, it

[27:13] was my grandmother.

[27:19] My grandmother only went to

[27:23] food school and then, uh, like

[27:26] middle school,

[27:28] a little bit of high school, right?

[27:31] But he went to, I think to the

[27:34] 8th grade to work,

[27:39] and

[27:41] at that time it was the depression

[27:45] in the United States and in other places.

[27:49] And then she went to cook, to make the

[27:54] clothes.

[27:58] And she was so good that at 19 she

[28:01] was the boss

[28:03] of the store,

[28:08] but unfortunately her

[28:13] younger sister got sick.

[28:17] So she had to quit her

[28:19] job to

[28:21] stay home and take care of her

[28:25] younger sister.

[28:27] And after two years

[28:32] she died.

[28:34] And this was it, this was the great sadness of

[28:36] my grandmother's life,

[28:41] the

[28:44] loss of someone so innocent, so

[28:48] like her younger sister,

[28:51] and

[28:57] then one day my grandfather

[29:02] [sigh]

[29:03] went to look for

[29:06] my grandmother's older sister

[29:10] for a date to go dancing, but

[29:14] my older sister was not at home.

[29:17] So, my grandfather left with

[29:21] my grandmother,

[29:22] and that's it.

[29:25] After a few months they went to get

[29:29] married in New York

[29:33] without a big ceremony.

[29:36] Uh, how do I say that in Spanish? The loop. The

[29:39] loop like and you got married but quickly.

[29:45] That? There are no words. It's

[29:50] like, you don't have the great ceremonies,

[29:54] but it was like, really fast.

[29:57] [sigh]

[29:58] And then my grandmother,

[30:04] after some years, had my

[30:06] father in 1942,

[30:11] and I also think that my grandmother gave

[30:14] strength and patience to my grandfather,

[30:18] who was a very social person, very uh,

[30:23] with many ideas, many projects, I don't

[30:26] know, where

[30:28] if my grandfather has passed this on

[30:31] [sigh]

[30:32] [gasp]

[30:33] and he wanted to leave the factory because

[30:36] many generations of my

[30:40] father's family worked in Bristol,

[30:43] Connecticut, in the tool factories

[30:48] with metal, right? of making metal

[30:52] for tools like Stanley.

[30:56] People know Stanley. Yes,

[31:00] but he wanted to get out of this

[31:04] story of generations and generations

[31:08] of German Catholics from Connecticut

[31:13] working in the factories.

[31:16] Then I started to learn,

[31:20] uh, how to care for, how to handle and repair the

[31:25] , uh,

[31:28] how to say it? Internal combustion

[31:31] engines, I don't know.

[31:33] [laughs]

[31:35] Uh, like those who have a car, right?

[31:39] No, electric.

[31:40] Combustion engines.

[31:41] Okay.

[31:42] Combustion engines.

[31:46] Engines,

[31:47] combustion engines, yes, internal. Yes,

[31:50] engines, internal combustion engines.

[31:52] Thank you. I

[31:54] wasn't prepared to use this

[31:57] word.

[32:01] And then, uh, at this time it was like,

[32:09] uh, a

[32:11] lot of people had a little bit of money after

[32:13] World War II, a lot of people

[32:16] had a little bit of money, loose change.

[32:19] I believe that at this time the

[32:21] United States was the most equal it had ever been

[32:25] [snort] in its history.

[32:28] And then people wanted to have time

[32:32] for recreation.

[32:35] Then he started selling boats with

[32:39] motors for

[32:43] fishing

[32:44] and also doing a new

[32:48] sport which is water squid. Does

[32:52] anyone know this? This was

[32:55] very popular.

[32:58] at this time. So he started his

[33:00] own company,

[33:04] but without my grandmother that company wouldn't exist

[33:07] , [suppressed scream] because it was my

[33:09] grandmother who was always behind the scenes

[33:12] doing everything,

[33:14] the notes for the bank, the notes of

[33:19] money that comes and goes, the accounts

[33:23] that she has, the accounts

[33:26] and does. Uh, when I was little, my

[33:31] grandmother always loved to do the

[33:34] accounts, she always had a piece of paper and

[33:37] wrote everything very, very finely, right?,

[33:42] on the paper and with each figure and she was

[33:46] with her math that she learned in

[33:49] school. Then at the store I was

[33:52] doing the accounts for

[33:55] my grandfather's company

[33:59] and my grandfather was the person who worked

[34:01] with the engines and also with the people.

[34:04] And so it was.

[34:06] This was the life of my father

[34:10] as a young man,

[34:14] and

[34:20] my father was starting out when

[34:24] my grandfather's company was very small. My

[34:27] father lived in a very small,

[34:31] very simple house next to a lake,

[34:40] and it was like paradise

[34:44] for him. But when I was about 7 or 8 years old,

[34:48] my grandfather's business was growing,

[34:51] and he bought a store on the

[34:59] main road with a big window

[35:04] so the boats could be parked

[35:05] behind it. People

[35:07] driving by could see the boats and

[35:11] say, "I want to buy a

[35:14] boat."

[35:17] But that was like a nightmare

[35:20] for my father,

[35:23] because after leaving the ideal life on the

[35:27] lake, he had to live in a

[35:30] store on the side of the main road with

[35:34] people

[35:36] coming morning and night to buy

[35:40] boats. My grandfather also sold

[35:44] televisions—the first people to have a

[35:47] television. He had a small television,

[35:50] and people would come to watch

[35:53] wrestling, like, fighting. At that

[35:57] time, it was very popular. So,

[35:59] men would come to watch

[36:04] people wrestling on television.

[36:08] Well, I want to share some of those stories

[36:10] with you now, on this

[36:15] day of remembering our ancestors,

[36:19] to talk a little about how I practice, how I

[36:23] meditate on my ancestors,

[36:27] because it's not something I

[36:31] trained in as a young man.

[36:36] And so, as a young man, I I felt

[36:40] like a

[36:46] dark hole, right? Inside me, an emptiness

[36:51] within me. I was

[36:54] n't training myself on how to relate

[36:57] to my ancestors, how to see that I am the

[37:01] continuation

[37:03] of my ancestors,

[37:05] that my grandmother continues in every cell of

[37:09] my body. It's

[37:16] only a little bit true to say that I

[37:19] am here speaking.

[37:23] It's more true to say my grandmother, my

[37:25] grandfather,

[37:27] all my ancestors are here speaking,

[37:31] and if I can let go of my own narrative,

[37:36] my own concepts

[37:39] of self, of who I am, then I can

[37:43] let all my ancestors be

[37:45] free to manifest here and now in the

[37:50] present moment.

[37:53] This is the practice of bonim, the

[37:56] meditation practice

[37:59] of

[38:07] starting

[38:11] anchored in the breath,

[38:16] of not continuing to pay attention to

[38:20] our thoughts, to our

[38:25] own narratives, to

[38:26] grasp them

[38:29] tightly, as we do every day when

[38:33] we get up in the morning. Instead

[38:35] of thinking about our story, our

[38:39] own narrative, the things that aren't going

[38:41] well in our lives,

[38:44] we can sit on the bed and breathe

[38:48] contentedly. We do

[38:52] n't have to think about anything. We have

[38:55] this moment of returning to the body,

[39:00] of being in contact with the body.

[39:04] The wonder of this body.

[39:08] This body is made of the sun, the

[39:12] earth, the rain,

[39:16] and also of our parents,

[39:19] our grandparents,

[39:22] all our ancestors. It is a

[39:25] precious transmission

[39:27] that we have received, but we treat it

[39:30] like a machine, we

[39:33] treat it like something, a tool.

[39:39] Then, we completely forget the

[39:42] wonder,

[39:45] the miracle of this body,

[39:48] and also,

[39:50] without knowing it, we can suppress

[39:55] the ancestors who are there, who want to

[39:59] come out, who want to have a voice, who

[40:01] want to be able to continue living.

[40:07] We hear a bell, and we can all

[40:09] practice

[40:11] this Bonim practice, letting go of

[40:15] thoughts. If we find ourselves

[40:18] caught up in a thought, we focus on the

[40:21] breath, on the present moment, and

[40:24] enjoy

[40:26] the wonder of being alive. Oh.

[40:37] [bell] We

[41:03] are at the monastery, at the

[41:06] Rain Retreat.

[41:08] And we are very happy that we

[41:12] have rain

[41:15] because a Rain Retreat without

[41:17] rain is a burden.

[41:24] So, at the moment the

[41:27] Rain Retreat began, it started to rain,

[41:33] and we are very

[41:36] happy to have received six

[41:40] new novices here, three monks and three

[41:44] nuns.

[41:46] And every time the community receives more

[41:50] monastics, Tae is very happy. We

[41:54] brothers and sisters are very happy

[41:57] because this is our

[42:00] future.

[42:03] If Dear Park wants to continue...

[42:07] Who here wants Dear Park to

[42:09] continue in the future? In the future.

[42:13] Okay. Some, not all.

[42:16] [laughs]

[42:17] No, all. Okay. I thought all,

[42:19] but

[42:23] [laughs]

[42:24] some, I don't mind.

[42:29] Ah,

[42:31] yes. If we want the monastery

[42:33] to continue, this is the transmission of

[42:37] Buddhism, of the monastic community. We don't

[42:40] have one person

[42:43] who directs everything, do we?

[42:46] Our teacher was a bit unique because

[42:50] in his

[42:54] deep aspiration to

[42:58] act, to stop the violence, the war

[43:02] in Vietnam, he

[43:06] had to make the very difficult decision

[43:09] to leave his country.

[43:14] He thought he was going to leave for 3 months in

[43:17] 1966

[43:20] and ultimately didn't return to Vietnam for

[43:24] 39 years.

[43:27] 39 years.

[43:31] So, in this rainy season retreat,

[43:34] we are

[43:37] giving talks about

[43:42] our teacher's poems.

[43:46] You know very well that our teacher

[43:50] loved poetry very much. He was a poet

[43:53] from

[43:55] the At 20 or 21 years old, or even earlier, he

[43:59] was already writing poetry.

[44:04] He went to the Bwak Buddhist Institute

[44:11] in central Vietnam. That's

[44:22] right.

[44:27] And from our temple, Raif, the

[44:31] temple where he was ordained as a novice, you

[44:36] can walk

[44:39] about 30 minutes to Bwak, to the

[44:44] Institute of Purist Studies.

[44:48] And at this institute, he taught the sutras,

[44:52] how to chant,

[44:54] that is, the chants of

[44:57] the sutras,

[44:59] and he also taught classical Chinese

[45:06] and poetry.

[45:10] So,

[45:12] he studied classical Chinese poetry

[45:18] at this institute

[45:24] and began to write poetry in

[45:26] Vietnamese. This poetry spoke of—there's

[45:31] a very early poem that speaks of

[45:35] life, the pain of Yashodra, the

[45:40] Buddha's wife, when the Buddha left to

[45:44] follow his spiritual path.

[45:50] He

[45:52] loved

[45:54] nature a lot. So,

[45:57] images of nature are very

[45:59] present in his poetry. Nowadays in the

[46:04] United States, we have a lot of poetry that does

[46:06] n't talk much about nature; it

[46:10] can be about different things, right? Like

[46:13] more about life. Urban. We are [snort]

[46:16] human beings a little more urban these

[46:19] days. So, uh, sometimes poetry

[46:23] is also a picture of

[46:26] urban life.

[46:35] So today I chose a poem

[46:38] to

[46:40] explain a little, but

[46:44] since I'm not very obedient, I

[46:49] 've chosen another poem.

[46:53] It's a poem that

[46:57] our master received

[47:00] from his master.

[47:05] There's a

[47:07] very precious ceremony,

[47:12] what we call the transmission of the

[47:15] lamp.

[47:17] And

[47:20] as I've already talked about the transmission from

[47:22] my grandmother, this ceremony is a

[47:29] somewhat formal ceremony to recognize the

[47:33] transmission

[47:36] that happens not just at a single moment, but

[47:40] the transmission

[47:42] that has passed through years from

[47:45] our [snort]

[47:46] master, our master, our uh,

[47:51] what we call in English grandpa

[47:52] teacher or su

[47:59] tanqui.

[48:09] In Vietnamese, su

[48:16] ybre,

[48:18] like monk, our great teacher,

[48:22] grandpa master. Grandpa master, you can say it,

[48:26] right? Okay.

[48:32] Our grandpa master,

[48:36] suko, is usually

[48:38] called su in the community,

[48:44] so

[48:45] his name is tanqui because in

[48:49] Vietnamese tradition, you don't usually say a

[48:53] name casually. Master.

[48:59] In the formal ceremony, the master is addressed

[49:02] with the first surname Tan and

[49:07] the second surname Qui. We

[49:10] say it this way so as not to

[49:14] use the name of someone respected

[49:19] too casually.

[49:20] This lends a certain respect and a sense of

[49:28] something sacred to this person.

[49:33] So,

[49:35] as we call our

[49:38] master Tae,

[49:41] which means monk or master, we

[49:44] call our master Grandfather

[49:48] Suc.

[49:53] In Vietnamese, it's

[49:56] a bit more like family to

[49:59] say "su." So, "

[50:05] su" loved our master very much.

[50:10] Our master was his student, I

[50:14] think his most intelligent student,

[50:18] and he had great aspirations,

[50:21] although he wasn't very obedient either.

[50:27] If you read the history of this time,

[50:31] when our master was in Baauco, he

[50:35] had a library

[50:38] in a tree

[50:41] because there you could only study the ancient

[50:44] Chinese, the classical poems of

[50:47] China, but he wanted to study

[50:50] Western philosophy, science, and

[50:55] also read

[50:57] novels. Romance novels, yes?

[51:03] So, but he had to hide these

[51:06] books in a tree

[51:11] , at the school. And then, sometimes

[51:14] he and his friends would climb the

[51:18] tree to secretly read

[51:22] these Western philosophy books

[51:29] because he had a very strong thirst

[51:33] for wisdom. He wanted to understand

[51:37] other cultures. He knew, I think he knew in

[51:40] his heart, that he was going to be someone who

[51:43] had to teach many people around the

[51:45] world, and he wanted to understand

[51:49] the cultures of people outside of

[51:51] Vietnam, outside of his own culture.

[51:57] And then, but when he

[52:03] and his other monks made a

[52:09] magazine

[52:11] at the school,

[52:13] writing their poems and

[52:15] aspirations, they did

[52:20] n't have much support from the teachers at the

[52:24] institute. They just wanted

[52:27] the students to follow the curriculum, how it

[52:29] is, study this and this and this, and that's it

[52:34] .

[52:36] So, as a

[52:40] manifestation

[52:44] of his

[52:46] [clears throat] disobedience

[52:48] to [suppressed scream]

[52:50] this

[52:54] somewhat dogmatic school.

[52:58] Then, one day, while the

[53:00] monks were chanting the sutra in the

[53:03] hall, he and some other monks were throwing

[53:11] small rocks,

[53:15] peasants,

[53:17] stones,

[53:19] stones, I mean, stones, sorry,

[53:21] stones, throwing stones at the roof of

[53:27] one of the buildings,

[53:32] but they did it because they wanted to

[53:35] be

[53:37] judged, right? Or penalized.

[53:43] And then, what he

[53:50] had to do was kneel down

[53:53] with a

[53:59] very long incense stick, and he had to

[54:04] stay on his knees the whole time

[54:06] the incense was burning.

[54:12] And the floor wasn't hard, it's a bit rough,

[54:15] but there, I think they have

[54:19] ceramic tiles on the floor, so if you

[54:23] do it for 10 minutes it's not easy.

[54:26] I've done it in several ceremonies in

[54:29] Vietnam, it's a bit difficult.

[54:32] You start to sweat and, oh, you want to

[54:35] sit down, but you can't. And he was

[54:39] there. Then the monk walked behind him and

[54:42] said,

[54:44] "Novice, are you happy?"

[54:49] He asked, and he said, "Yes, I'm

[54:52] happy." Very powerful. So this is how

[54:57] the story goes.

[55:04] But the fact is, he was a very,

[55:07] very good student, but he also had a

[55:10] bigger aspiration. And finally,

[55:14] after this This

[55:16] event, then he and two other

[55:19] monks decided to leave the

[55:24] school,

[55:26] and the three of them also took

[55:29] new names.

[55:31] So, T's name

[55:35] as a novice wasn't Tignan.

[55:40] At this time, his name was

[55:49] Funzun. Here,

[55:54] this is the name that our

[55:58] master, grandfather, gave to Funzun. We could have

[56:04] opened a

[56:08] school down here;

[56:10] we could have the Intercession School,

[56:16] as you might think, instead of

[56:20] Intercession School. We could have Function

[56:24] School. [Sigh]

[56:27] But at this time, he and the other

[56:31] novices decided to take new

[56:34] names. So, he gave each of them

[56:39] their own name, and

[56:42] he chose

[56:47] this one,

[56:59] which means

[57:02] an action.

[57:09] Here in the poem, we also have one.

[57:11] That means one, but this one is

[57:15] different. It's direction.

[57:18] Where is he, brother? A direction,

[57:21] brother. Is he

[57:23] here, or is he cooking today? Oh, what a

[57:26] shame. This is his name, which is in the

[57:29] poem. The poem that gave

[57:33] One Direction, already a direction,

[57:37] already

[57:41] a sense.

[57:46] Yahun here.

[57:51] How lucky to have the name that's in

[57:55] the poem. From Tai transmission.

[57:58] We hear the

[57:59] sound of a bell.

[58:02] We can return to breathing.

[58:16] [bell]

[58:38] So, let's go a little further.

[58:44] Uh, he

[58:46] went as a young Dharma teacher to

[58:51] live in the United States, to study at

[58:54] Princeton University,

[58:56] and there, the professors there were

[59:00] so impressed by this Vietnamese monk

[59:05] that they were looking for a place

[59:08] for him at Columbia University, the

[59:12] United

[59:17] Union Theological Seminary.

[59:22] He spent two years there, and at this time

[59:25] we all know the story of when he was

[59:35] effigying himself in the streets of Saan,

[59:39] Vietnam, in 1963.

[59:43] At this time he was in New York and

[59:49] was in contact with his

[59:52] teacher Sukotani. We have a picture of

[59:56] our teacher

[59:58] at a demonstration with other monks

[1:00:02] walking in Jué Street

[1:00:07] to protest the repression of

[1:00:11] Buddhists in Vietnam.

[1:00:14] And then the effigy of Twanduc, his

[1:00:21] great older brother.

[1:00:35] John is

[1:00:38] Yahoé.

[1:00:40] Yes. Thank you. He

[1:00:47] was very emotional, very touched

[1:00:52] by the events in Vietnam.

[1:00:55] So, the monks in

[1:01:02] Vietnam decided to invite Tai to return, and Tai

[1:01:05] came back with this knowledge from the

[1:01:09] West

[1:01:11] and started a social service school

[1:01:15] for young people there in Vietnam, working in

[1:01:19] villages without healing, without

[1:01:25] sanitation, without

[1:01:30] health care, without

[1:01:34] medicine,

[1:01:36] without schools.

[1:01:40] He knew he couldn't just be a monk who

[1:01:43] reads the sutras and talks about

[1:01:47] consciousness. He

[1:01:50] had to

[1:01:52] change how people live in

[1:01:55] community, how we care for each other.

[1:02:00] And he also created an institute of

[1:02:03] Buddhist studies in Saigan,

[1:02:10] called Vanan,

[1:02:20] and the image he had of it

[1:02:24] was an institute

[1:02:27] that responded to

[1:02:31] the things he couldn't do as a

[1:02:34] student in Vietnam.

[1:02:38] So he had a lot of energy, a lot of

[1:02:41] projects,

[1:02:45] but the violence of the war

[1:02:47] continued and continued to grow, and

[1:02:54] more and more American soldiers came in every year, '64, '65.

[1:02:59] Finally, in the spring of 1966,

[1:03:03] he made the decision to return to the

[1:03:06] United States and speak for peace.

[1:03:11] And he had an invitation from the

[1:03:15] Cornell University,

[1:03:16] an invitation to teach

[1:03:20] Vietnamese Buddhism at Cornell,

[1:03:24] but his true intention was to

[1:03:28] come to the United States to start

[1:03:31] talking about the situation of the people in

[1:03:34] the villages who didn't want this war

[1:03:39] because there was no one with their voice. There

[1:03:42] was only the voice of the North, the communists, and

[1:03:46] the voice of the South, the anti-communists.

[1:03:51] But he wanted to say that the people of

[1:03:52] Vietnam didn't want this war, they didn't want

[1:03:55] violence.

[1:03:59] And before leaving, he went back

[1:04:05] to visit

[1:04:07] our

[1:04:09] grandfather teacher.

[1:04:12] And on May 1,

[1:04:17] 1966,

[1:04:38] our grandfather teacher told our

[1:04:42] teacher T

[1:04:46] that he wanted to pass on the

[1:04:49] root temple to him so he could be the

[1:04:54] abbot

[1:04:56] of the temple.

[1:04:59] But T said that he had to

[1:05:04] go west, he couldn't stay and take care of a

[1:05:08] temple, he had to leave. His great

[1:05:12] desire was to be the voice of the people of

[1:05:15] Vietnam who wanted peace. So he

[1:05:18] said to our grandfather teacher, "

[1:05:21] Please, give the temple to my

[1:05:25] older brother, monk,

[1:05:28] older brother, chinim says the bad, I can't

[1:05:31] do it."

[1:05:33] But our grandfather teacher fell, He didn't

[1:05:37] say anything.

[1:05:40] And then,

[1:05:43] I think that later, on this day,

[1:05:47] he transmitted the lamp to Tai,

[1:05:51] meaning that Tai can now teach.

[1:05:56] The truth is, he was already

[1:05:59] teaching a lot, he

[1:06:02] had already done so many things, but this

[1:06:06] was the transmission from heart to heart,

[1:06:09] from teacher to student.

[1:06:13] This is a poem. The ceremony is something

[1:06:16] formal;

[1:06:19] it represents the transmission that

[1:06:21] happened

[1:06:24] many years ago

[1:06:26] because I think our

[1:06:29] grandfather teacher knew he wasn't going to see it again

[1:06:35] in his life.

[1:06:39] So, he dedicated

[1:06:43] this poem

[1:06:45] to our teacher,

[1:06:50] and

[1:06:51] this poem has

[1:06:56] become the

[1:07:01] root of the practice of

[1:07:07] Tai E

[1:07:09] for the rest of his life, as he

[1:07:13] told us.

[1:07:16] So, let's look at it a little. It took

[1:07:20] a little longer today because before

[1:07:23] we were going to do the walking meditation

[1:07:26] downstairs, but now we're going to do the

[1:07:28] ceremony here. So, yes, I can

[1:07:31] take a little time to learn

[1:07:35] this poem.

[1:07:38] So,

[1:07:41] the first line: Walk to meet

[1:07:45] the spring.

[1:07:47] Walk to meet the spring.

[1:07:52] Funz,

[1:07:54] the name of his... of his teacher.

[1:08:00] Funzun means

[1:08:02] meeting,

[1:08:04] fun of spring. Sun is

[1:08:07] spring.

[1:08:10] So he walks to meet or simply in

[1:08:14] the direction of spring,

[1:08:17] the reaction of life. That is to

[1:08:23] say, we go in the reaction of

[1:08:25] life, we don't go in the action of

[1:08:28] death.

[1:08:31] We go in the action of creating, of

[1:08:34] growing. It's not that death is part of

[1:08:37] life, is it? If we look deeply, they

[1:08:40] are not distinct. If we look

[1:08:42] deeply into spring, we can

[1:08:44] see winter.

[1:08:47] If we don't have winter, we don't have

[1:08:49] spring.

[1:08:52] Uh, everything is part of the cycle of life.

[1:08:57] But the tradition is also to put the

[1:09:01] monk's name in the

[1:09:05] transition poem. So, in a way,

[1:09:08] Suc wanted to put function in the poem.

[1:09:14] So it is like this.

[1:09:18] We go in a direction towards

[1:09:22] spring.

[1:09:24] He takes the vigorous step.

[1:09:27] Who? Who? Han is to walk.

[1:09:32] Who? That's right. I think it's

[1:09:38] strong, bigorous, like with strength, right?

[1:09:42] Yes. He

[1:09:45] takes the vigorous step,

[1:09:50] that is to say, we walk without fear.

[1:10:01] With each step we arrive home. That is to

[1:10:04] say, We don't feel like foreigners.

[1:10:08] Even when you go to the

[1:10:11] United States, it's very difficult.

[1:10:14] Because people have never seen a

[1:10:18] Vietnamese man, nor a

[1:10:24] Vietnamese monk. And now you have to go

[1:10:28] and speak

[1:10:31] and give talks for the people's voice.

[1:10:34] So it's about having the courage to take the

[1:10:38] bold step. That is, not with fear, but

[1:10:44] with certainty.

[1:10:49] Walk in non-thought.

[1:10:53] Walk without thinking. That's why

[1:10:57] we practice arriving with

[1:11:00] each step,

[1:11:02] breathing contentedly. It's because

[1:11:05] we want to be free human beings, a

[1:11:10] free human being

[1:11:14] walking on the earth.

[1:11:18] And if we are caught up in

[1:11:21] thoughts, we are not free.

[1:11:25] We are caught up in anxieties,

[1:11:29] worries.

[1:11:32] Walk in non-thought with

[1:11:36] non-contention,

[1:11:41] without contention.

[1:11:45] This is very important.

[1:11:50] The

[1:11:53] Spanish translation "with non-contention" is good.

[1:11:58] And I believe that was one of

[1:12:01] our teacher's most difficult practices

[1:12:03] .

[1:12:07] How can you walk without contention

[1:12:11] when you see so much that needs to change

[1:12:14] in the world?

[1:12:16] It seems like a contradiction,

[1:12:22] but if you look, if you look deeply into

[1:12:26] Ti's life,

[1:12:28] he practiced very much every This day, this

[1:12:32] line.

[1:12:35] Ta didn't complain

[1:12:47] , Ta didn't respond when people said horrible things about him. He didn't

[1:12:50] engage in arguments or

[1:12:54] debates,

[1:12:56] but walked with full awareness, without

[1:12:59] fear, without thoughts, like a

[1:13:03] free human being, walking on the earth

[1:13:07] like the Buddha.

[1:13:12] When people harm us, we

[1:13:15] usually want to

[1:13:17] say, "No, that's not how it is." And I'm going to say, "

[1:13:21] Why?"

[1:13:23] Or when someone does something we don't

[1:13:25] like, we usually want to criticize, "You

[1:13:29] have to do it this way."

[1:13:32] But the transmission from our

[1:13:34] grandfather teacher was to walk without contention,

[1:13:38] without contention.

[1:13:42] In this way, we can be the path, the

[1:13:49] future we want in the world.

[1:13:55] We walk,

[1:13:56] we can be the model of what we

[1:13:59] want in the world. Even when people

[1:14:02] criticize us or say bad words,

[1:14:08] we continue to walk with compassion. We don't

[1:14:12] let our hearts harden.

[1:14:18] It is possible with full awareness to

[1:14:21] walk this way.

[1:14:23] That is the practice of monks and

[1:14:26] nuns every day: to walk with this,

[1:14:30] with the breath, with

[1:14:33] freedom

[1:14:35] and without contention, without having these

[1:14:39] thoughts that keep coming back.

[1:14:43] Coming in the head.

[1:14:49] The third line, the lamp of the mind

[1:14:52] illuminates the original substance.

[1:14:59] Tam dan tamang dan is

[1:15:03] the mind.

[1:15:12] It is the original substance.

[1:15:19] That is win, it is the source.

[1:15:22] T is nature,

[1:15:26] our true nature.

[1:15:31] If we can shine the light of

[1:15:34] mindfulness in our body, in our

[1:15:38] mind, then we can touch

[1:15:43] the

[1:15:45] original nature, that is,

[1:15:48] we can naturally understand

[1:15:52] in our way, our way of

[1:15:54] living,

[1:15:57] what is the essence of a human being?

[1:16:00] [snort]

[1:16:01] What does it mean to

[1:16:03] be a human being?

[1:16:07] Many times with all our desires,

[1:16:11] with all our work

[1:16:14] that we have to do, we forget what it is

[1:16:16] to be a human being.

[1:16:22] So, my sister says, "Ofens

[1:16:25] says,

[1:16:27] uh, we don't have to have

[1:16:31] artificial intelligence, we have to

[1:16:33] have

[1:16:39] deep, authenticity." No, well, it doesn't

[1:16:42] translate very well in Spanish,

[1:16:45] in English it's the same. Artificial

[1:16:48] intelligence, uh,

[1:16:51] authentic.

[1:16:54] This is authenticity, the deep vision

[1:16:59] of our original substance.

[1:17:04] And we shine this light with the practice

[1:17:07] of mindfulness,

[1:17:09] of shining the light of mindfulness in

[1:17:12] everything we do.

[1:17:16] And if we We do,

[1:17:19] if we only shine the light, walking without

[1:17:23] thought,

[1:17:25] without restraint, with vigorous steps,

[1:17:29] walk towards the arrival of spring.

[1:17:32] This, spring is a future but that it is

[1:17:36] possible. We all

[1:17:37] want a future,

[1:17:41] but we are living in a world in a

[1:17:43] way that does

[1:17:45] n't make it a very easy future

[1:17:48] for our children, for your children.

[1:17:53] So, if we want to walk towards

[1:17:55] spring, we have to

[1:17:58] shine the lamp of the mind to

[1:18:01] illuminate the original substance. What is

[1:18:04] that? What is it? What does it mean to be a

[1:18:08] human being?

[1:18:12] And if we do this, the wonderful dharma

[1:18:15] of East and West will undoubtedly be

[1:18:19] fulfilled by itself. It

[1:18:23] fulfills itself. We do

[1:18:28] n't have to make a great effort,

[1:18:31] [sigh]

[1:18:33] enter into a great debate,

[1:18:39] work so hard

[1:18:41] against

[1:18:43] everything, just shine the light, stand up and

[1:18:48] shine this light.

[1:18:52] Why do we fight if we don't understand who we

[1:18:54] are?

[1:18:57] We fight because we think we have the

[1:19:00] answer, right? And they don't have the

[1:19:03] answer. So, we have to fight.

[1:19:07] But it's true that you have the answer.

[1:19:13] It's true.

[1:19:16] Well, this phrase says, "Undoubtedly,

[1:19:19] if you shine with light without thought, we don't

[1:19:22] base

[1:19:24] our lives on thought, on a

[1:19:27] concept

[1:19:30] of being a true human being.

[1:19:35] We have to be free of thoughts,

[1:19:41] and thus

[1:19:43] spring forth, the wonderful dharma of

[1:19:47] East and West, because our

[1:19:50] grandfather master could already see that the

[1:19:54] path of our master is not to

[1:19:56] distinguish

[1:19:58] between being a master,

[1:20:01] a role model for both, not only for the

[1:20:04] East,

[1:20:05] but also for the West.

[1:20:08] As a young man, our master wanted to

[1:20:10] learn from the West, but he eventually

[1:20:15] became a master for the

[1:20:18] West, [snort]

[1:20:20] teaching the West,

[1:20:23] and not only the West, but also

[1:20:26] returning to Vietnam and transmitting his

[1:20:30] profound vision.

[1:20:33] As we have listened to

[1:20:37] the sutra from the heart, the profound vision

[1:20:39] that takes us to the other shore.

[1:20:43] He also took his profound vision

[1:20:47] back to Vietnam.

[1:20:50] And now in Vietnam we have [snort]

[1:20:53] many centers, in the North, in the

[1:20:55] Center, and in the South. Also in Thailand

[1:20:59] and others.

[1:21:01] Brother Dai is here, and they are

[1:21:03] creating a center

[1:21:07] in Indonesia."

[1:21:10] So, I think [sighs] that what's

[1:21:13] interesting about studying this poem is

[1:21:18] seeing how T

[1:21:20] has fulfilled

[1:21:23] the task

[1:21:26] that our grandfather teacher

[1:21:30] gave him. Do

[1:21:32] you think so?

[1:21:35] I think he

[1:21:38] has fulfilled the task. So it

[1:21:41] 's also an invitation for us

[1:21:44] because the task

[1:21:48] given to our grandfather teacher also

[1:21:51] becomes our task,

[1:21:57] and it's a task that can be done with

[1:21:59] joy

[1:22:01] and freedom.

[1:22:04] If we take a moment, let's all go

[1:22:06] outside to everyone in this

[1:22:10] room. I think East and West

[1:22:14] are here. We

[1:22:17] just practice,

[1:22:20] and it will undoubtedly be fulfilled by itself.

[1:22:27] We are fulfilling

[1:22:29] the task of the grandfather teacher.

[1:22:33] And now, in a

[1:22:37] few minutes, we're going to have a

[1:22:39] Day of the Dead ceremony where

[1:22:42] we can invite all our ancestors

[1:22:46] to be with us in a present moment. We

[1:22:51] can practice looking

[1:22:55] deeply into every cell of our

[1:22:57] body,

[1:22:59] saying hello to your grandfather and hello

[1:23:02] to your grandmother.

[1:23:05] It's a moment of recognition.

[1:23:09] They are there every day, every moment,

[1:23:12] but we don't recognize them.

[1:23:16] This is the moment to recognize the

[1:23:18] presence of our ancestors, and

[1:23:24] also I invite you to have a feast.

[1:23:28] So, I hope

[1:23:32] you have brought several objects that

[1:23:35] represent your ancestors.

[1:23:39] So, we're going to invite you to place

[1:23:42] the objects here on the altar

[1:23:47] so that we can

[1:23:50] invite you to the table to eat with

[1:23:53] us the spiritual food

[1:23:58] of mindfulness.

[1:24:00] Thank you very much for your attention and your

[1:24:04] practice.

[1:24:08] We end with three rings of the

[1:24:11] bell.

[1:25:06] [bell]

[1:25:10] [music]

[1:25:21] M.

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In this talk, the speaker treats the Day of the Dead as an occasion to relate to grandparents and ancestors in a mindful way, something the speaker says they were never taught growing up. The focus is less on rituals of remembrance and more on how family members transmit love, presence, and spirit across generations.
The speaker says the community had been practicing the chant this spring and that this was likely the first time it was sung in Spanish in front of the whole sangha. Translation headsets were offered for English and Vietnamese speakers, so the Spanish-language talk and chant were made accessible to everyone in the hall.
The speaker says the most important thing received from their grandmother was not her words but the transmission of her spirit, felt through sitting on her lap and feeling her warmth and heartbeat. The talk presents this as a non-verbal form of love and compassion that passes down through close physical presence.
The speaker introduces bonim, a Zen term rendered in the transcript this way, and glosses it as practice without thinking or without thought. The speaker links it to the way a grandmother's lap taught something beyond conceptual memory, through presence rather than narrative.
Drawing on the talk, you could sit quietly and focus on the felt sense of the person's presence rather than retelling their story. Notice what the body remembers, such as warmth, rhythm, or the feeling of being held, and let that sense guide the remembrance.
The speaker notes that very few people celebrated the holiday when they were young, but says it is growing more and more, especially in Southern California. The talk was given at Deer Park Monastery in Escondido, California, on the Day of the Dead.

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