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[0:18] Namaste. Well, friends,
[0:23] there's a story uh this is from when my
[0:25] son was in grade school where the
[0:28] children were in their art class and
[0:30] they were at tables, four at a table
[0:33] working on their pictures and the
[0:35] teacher stood behind one little girl who
[0:37] was very industrious, completely
[0:39] immersed in what she was doing. And she
[0:42] asked her, "What are you drawing?" And
[0:44] the little girl said, "I'm drawing God."
[0:47] And the teacher said, "But hun, no one
[0:50] knows what God looks like." And without
[0:54] pausing or missing a beat, she said,
[0:56] "They will in a moment."
[1:00] I've always loved that uh that story
[1:03] because in some way there's that that
[1:07] deep inquiry, you know, what happens to
[1:09] our imagination? what happens to our
[1:13] capacity to envision uh what is subtle,
[1:17] deep and profound and beautiful. So this
[1:21] is part two on uh our talk on
[1:24] imagination and in current times as we
[1:28] know uh our views of the future are
[1:32] really dominated by fear which is like a
[1:35] cage and I mentioned last week that
[1:39] stress and anxiety block us from that
[1:43] kind of healthy spiritual imagination
[1:46] which is really a map of what's possible
[1:48] what reflects our our true potential and
[1:51] draws us to it. I want to remind you of
[1:54] a quote I find really powerful which is
[1:58] Rebecca Snit. She says, "We live inside
[2:02] imagined worlds. The task is to imagine
[2:06] better ones."
[2:08] So this week we'll take a deeper dive.
[2:11] There are several experiential
[2:12] reflections and we'll explore what lets
[2:16] imagination become a superpower.
[2:19] What enables us to imagine and create a
[2:22] better world.
[2:25] Okay. Thank you for listening.
[2:30] Begin with a story I love that came to
[2:33] me recently. is reminded of it of a
[2:35] woman who was uh traveling and she had
[2:40] uh to stop at an airport and then get a
[2:42] second flight and she was exhausted
[2:44] between the flights and she was hungry
[2:47] and she bought a package of cookies and
[2:49] sat down at a table to have her snack.
[2:51] So, she's reading the newspaper on her
[2:54] iPad and she uh becomes aware of some
[2:57] someone rustling at her table and she's
[3:00] shocked to see this nicely dressed young
[3:03] man uh
[3:05] helping himself to her cookies. And she
[3:07] didn't want to make a scene, so she just
[3:09] leaned across and took a cookie for
[3:11] herself. And a moment later, there was
[3:14] more rustling and uh he's helping
[3:16] himself to another cookie. And by the
[3:19] time they're down to the last cookie in
[3:21] the package, she's outraged, but she
[3:22] doesn't say anything. So before leaving
[3:25] the table, the man broke the last cookie
[3:28] in two.
[3:30] And uh left half for her, and so later
[3:35] she leaves, goes to her gate, and she
[3:38] reaches into her bag for her iPhone for
[3:41] her e ticket. And you can imagine her
[3:43] surprise and her embarrassment when she
[3:46] found her package of the cookies that
[3:49] she had been uh eating his.
[3:53] So
[3:55] it's humbling the stories that we tell
[3:57] ourselves, what we imagine, what we
[4:00] expect, what we think is going on. And
[4:03] it's interesting to consider what
[4:06] happens when we're regularly imagining
[4:09] that people are going to take advantage
[4:10] of us, you know, that we can't trust
[4:13] people and what does that put out into
[4:15] the world and how does it affect our own
[4:18] bodies, our own hearts, our
[4:20] relationships, you know, how we live.
[4:24] And just to contrast, what happens when
[4:27] instead we move through our life
[4:30] imagining others to be essentially
[4:33] good-hearted?
[4:35] Now, some may think, well, that kind of
[4:38] trust is a setup to being manipulated or
[4:42] abused, taken advantage of. And it's
[4:45] true that some may try to exploit
[4:49] but mostly
[4:52] perceiving others in a generous way.
[4:54] Imagining who they can be brings out
[4:58] their best.
[5:01] In 1951 in India there was a close
[5:04] disciple of Gandhi. name was Venoba Bave
[5:07] and he led a land reform movement and
[5:12] his mission was to persuade wealthy land
[5:15] owners to voluntarily give away portions
[5:18] of their land to the poor. So he he went
[5:21] on this this uh kind of long peace
[5:24] pilgrimage visiting villages and
[5:26] appealing to wealthy land owners, you
[5:30] know, and he had a clear strategy. And
[5:32] his strategy was to let them know that
[5:37] he realized they were good and generous
[5:39] beings, you know, and he trusted that
[5:42] they they'd feel called to participate,
[5:45] and they did. Over 4 million acres were
[5:49] redistributed to poor families.
[5:54] You know, I often think of the words of
[5:56] Nelson Mandela who said, "It it never
[5:59] hurts to think too highly of a person.
[6:02] Often they become enobbled and act
[6:04] better because of it."
[6:08] So, uh this is kind of a welcome to week
[6:11] two. Uh we're doing a two-part series on
[6:14] the power of imagination.
[6:17] And last week we explored how
[6:20] imagination
[6:22] when our expectations are driven by
[6:25] fear. When it's fear-based imagination,
[6:28] it brings forward our aggression and our
[6:31] defensiveness.
[6:32] But when imagination
[6:34] is rooted in presence in an open heart,
[6:38] it becomes a potent force of
[6:41] transformation.
[6:43] So last week we looked at how
[6:45] intentionally activating imagination can
[6:49] be healing for our own hearts, the
[6:51] wounds of our own hearts and an integral
[6:54] part of our spiritual awakening. And
[6:57] we'll extend upon this uh today looking
[7:01] at how when we activate our imagination
[7:04] it brings more intimacy to our
[7:06] relationships and even more broadly
[7:10] fostering uh positive social change our
[7:13] relationship with our larger community
[7:15] of all beings.
[7:18] So starting with the more personal
[7:21] circles of relationship,
[7:25] we're going to look at how if we're
[7:26] present, we can actually very naturally
[7:30] access our imagination. Being present
[7:33] makes it possible to attune to deeper
[7:36] truths about each other, unmet needs,
[7:40] and really where the good is. And and
[7:43] there's a a physiological correlation
[7:46] that mirror neurons are part of the
[7:50] brain's apparatus for imagination. In
[7:53] other words, they they allow us to
[7:55] internally stimulate and feel what
[7:57] others experience.
[8:00] Okay, this is I think Gary Larson. I was
[8:04] He has this cartoon where two women are
[8:07] behind a locked door and they're peeping
[8:09] through this window and there's a
[8:11] monster on the doorstep and one saying
[8:14] to the other, "Calm down, Edna. Yes, it
[8:18] is a giant hideous insect, but maybe
[8:21] it's a giant hideous insect in need of
[8:23] help."
[8:26] Did you feel Edna's friends are very was
[8:29] very present? Her mirror neurons and
[8:31] imagination was active.
[8:34] So, okay. Well, grounded in a uh a real
[8:39] story. This is something I experienced
[8:41] working with a woman uh some years back.
[8:44] She was in her late 50s and she had
[8:49] always through her life been triggered
[8:50] by her younger sister. you know, at
[8:53] family gatherings, whenever they were
[8:55] together in different groups of people,
[8:57] she just felt really impatient and
[9:00] critical of what she saw as her younger
[9:02] sister's self-centeredness, her
[9:04] neediness. She was always talking,
[9:06] always trying to get attention to her.
[9:09] And the story in her mind was she's
[9:13] never grown up, you know, she always
[9:15] makes everything about her.
[9:18] So over the decades this story had
[9:23] hardened really into a a kind of quiet
[9:26] but persistent wall real distance.
[9:30] So she came to a retreat uh that I was
[9:32] leading and during the retreat I invited
[9:36] those that were there to bring someone
[9:38] to mind with whom they felt judgment or
[9:41] separation. And so she pictured her
[9:44] sister and as she became mindful of it,
[9:47] she noticed that tightening in the
[9:50] chest, that familiar swirl of judgment,
[9:52] of distaste really.
[9:55] And because she was being guided in a
[9:57] meditation, she stayed present with it.
[10:00] And I invited her and all every everyone
[10:03] there to to step past their judgment,
[10:06] you know, instead of believing judgment
[10:09] to really look more deeply. And so she
[10:11] started wondering about her sister. You
[10:14] know, what happened to you to make you
[10:17] like this? You know, she imagined her
[10:19] sister as a young child who was scared
[10:22] and who was longing to be seen.
[10:26] And then naturally felt more tender. And
[10:29] it was from that tenderness she could
[10:32] visualize her sister
[10:35] as happy as feeling when she felt safe
[10:38] or valued or belonging. when her needs
[10:41] were met, um, she could see her sister
[10:44] happy. She could see her sister's light,
[10:47] the the brightness and the creativity
[10:49] and the humor and the aliveness which
[10:50] were there but often kind of blocked by
[10:53] her old habits. So, what she was able to
[10:56] do is see her sister as who she's
[10:59] becoming as an evolving adult. And she
[11:02] let both images be there. The vulnerable
[11:04] young unseen child and the more luminous
[11:08] adult with spirit shining through. She
[11:11] let both live in her heart. So after a
[11:15] retreat, she told me that their next
[11:18] conversation felt different.
[11:20] She wasn't trying to avoid her sister or
[11:25] fix her sister or she wasn't reacting.
[11:28] She was perceiving with new eyes because
[11:30] some something had shifted that her
[11:33] presence and her imagination had allowed
[11:37] her to see through the layers of
[11:40] personality to something more whole and
[11:42] more true. And what most struck her was
[11:45] her sister must have perceived that
[11:48] shift in her because her sister was more
[11:51] relaxed and more full of questions about
[11:55] the retreat.
[11:57] They they joked even her sister was
[11:59] joking about how if she was at a silent
[12:00] retreat, she'd probably be talking to
[12:02] doorork knobs. You know, there was a
[12:05] there was a flow.
[12:07] So, and there's more to this story. Uh
[12:10] this woman soon after that retreat was
[12:12] diagnosed with breast cancer and her
[12:16] younger sister
[12:18] became a main support uh through the
[12:20] months of chemo. um they actually grew
[12:23] quite close.
[12:25] And she shared with me that a year later
[12:28] and she's in remission. She shared with
[12:31] me, you know, I'm grateful and sad. She
[12:34] said, why did I wait so long?
[12:41] It removed me because judgment
[12:45] separates. You know, it's sad to sense
[12:48] the months and the decades of distance
[12:50] that can happen
[12:52] when our brain is drawing on old
[12:55] information to evaluate and filter our
[12:58] experience and we just tense against
[13:01] others.
[13:03] So mindfulness
[13:05] helps us recognize and quiet judgment
[13:09] enough so that we can activate that
[13:12] imagination that lets us see fresh, see
[13:15] in new ways.
[13:17] Because really
[13:19] to love someone is to imagine them fully
[13:23] both just as they are now with their
[13:26] natural human vulnerability
[13:28] and as they are becoming.
[13:31] Because people change, people evolve,
[13:34] and we can sense this. We can sense
[13:37] people evolving their potential to
[13:40] manifest spirit. And we can support it.
[13:45] Because judging is such a persistent
[13:48] force in our psyches
[13:50] and because it confines our minds, it
[13:53] requires being purposeful
[13:55] on purpose, seeing and waking up from
[13:57] the judging mind so we can imagine
[14:00] something larger and more true.
[14:03] I have a friend who told me that growing
[14:06] up she and her siblings would often, you
[14:08] know, make fun of people and judge
[14:10] people. And each time their mother would
[14:13] stop them and request that they come up
[14:15] with three possible reasons that the
[14:18] person might be acting as they do. She
[14:21] was calling forth their imagination. You
[14:24] know, they were they'd be putting down a
[14:26] middle school boy who was always
[14:28] bragging and putting others down. Bit of
[14:30] a bully. And then they'd have to come up
[14:33] with three reasons.
[14:35] Well, his parents are are divorced or
[14:38] he's doing badly in school or he's
[14:40] embarrassed about being heavy,
[14:43] whatever. People they knew that they
[14:45] judge or people that they didn't. They'd
[14:47] have to invent stuff. You know, they
[14:49] have a stomach ache. Somebody just
[14:51] robbed them. They don't have friends.
[14:53] They can't afford nice things.
[14:57] But the truth is, and we know this, when
[15:00] people act in ways to cause suffering,
[15:03] they're suffering.
[15:04] But it's often not so visible, like that
[15:07] story I tell about that a dog that was
[15:11] aggressive and then finding out that
[15:13] that dog had a paw caught in a trap.
[15:17] We need to call on our imagination.
[15:20] We need to inquire, ask, "Well, what's
[15:23] happening? Where does it hurt? What's it
[15:25] like being you? To see the pause in a
[15:29] trap.
[15:30] Oprah talks about in her life this
[15:34] profound shift where she went from that
[15:38] kind of judgment saying, you know,
[15:40] what's wrong with you to what happened
[15:43] to you early on?
[15:46] Because that kind of inquiry and
[15:49] imagining it allows us to attune to the
[15:51] unseen vulnerability.
[15:54] It says that black spiritual that says
[15:57] see beyond the fault to the need.
[16:03] So if from presence and imagination we
[16:06] can train ourselves to see vulnerability
[16:08] to see our shared humanity we also then
[16:12] can imagine basic goodness. It's like
[16:15] that woman with her sister. One, she
[16:17] could see her as a child. She could also
[16:21] see the light living through her, the
[16:22] ways it did express.
[16:24] And there's a helpful way to understand
[16:26] this, which is that when we're relating
[16:28] to others judgmentally based on past
[16:31] experience, we're relating to them as an
[16:34] object,
[16:35] a static thing that we're predicting
[16:37] about. And uh the philosopher Martin
[16:41] Ruber called this I it. We're relating
[16:44] to an it. We've lost touch with the
[16:47] person's subjective intrinsic value and
[16:50] ongoing evolving. They're an object to
[16:54] fix or manage or please or resist.
[16:58] In contrast, when we relate from
[17:00] presence, we come into I thou. We
[17:04] recognize our shared humanity and
[17:07] essential goodness. message like
[17:10] namaste you know I see the spirit the
[17:14] sacred in you
[17:16] so when imagination arises from presence
[17:19] it doesn't invent something unreal it
[17:22] reveals what's already true but often
[17:25] unseen
[17:27] the the vulnerability
[17:30] the dignity the intrinsic value the
[17:32] basic goodness in all of us
[17:35] there is uh one young man who really
[17:37] inspired ired me. His practice was, you
[17:41] know, to breathe and come into presence
[17:43] and he he'd ride on the subways going to
[17:45] work in Manhattan and New York. And he
[17:48] would just
[17:49] see somebody and he'd mentally
[17:53] uh reflect a thou thou just the word
[17:57] those he doesn't know. And he'd do it
[17:59] with people he knew also. And the the
[18:02] word helped him sense the sacred. So I
[18:05] tried it out. It's very powerful.
[18:08] Now maybe your word isn't thou. Maybe
[18:10] it's namaste or maybe it's the beloved
[18:13] or whatever. But to have some way to on
[18:17] purpose imagine and see that light in
[18:21] each other is an amazing gift that we
[18:25] offer our own spirit and others.
[18:29] Now saying thou or namaste doesn't mean
[18:32] we're blind to the threat that another
[18:35] person might pose. And I want to name
[18:37] that because we're in a world that's
[18:39] pretty wild and crazy and full of
[18:41] threat.
[18:43] I'll share a short story. There's this
[18:45] is Sherlock Holmes and Dr. Watson. They
[18:48] go on a camping trip and they set up
[18:50] their tent. They fall asleep. Some hours
[18:52] later, Holmes wakes up his faithful
[18:55] friend, "Watson, look up. Tell me, what
[18:57] do you see?" And Watson replies, "I see
[19:00] millions of stars. What does that tell
[19:02] you?" So Watson ponders for a moment.
[19:05] says, "Well, astronomically speaking, it
[19:08] tells me that there are millions of
[19:09] galaxies and potentially billions of
[19:11] planets. Time-wise, it appears to be
[19:13] approximately quarter 3. Theologically,
[19:16] it's evident that the Lord is all
[19:18] powerful and we are small and
[19:19] insignificant.
[19:21] Meteorologically, it seems we'll have a
[19:23] clear, beautiful day tomorrow. What does
[19:26] it tell you?" Holmes is silent for a
[19:28] moment, then he speaks. Watson, you
[19:30] idiot. Someone has stolen our tent.
[19:37] So we can imagine and imagine and
[19:40] remember spirit and there's no question
[19:44] that given certain circumstances
[19:47] all of us imperfect humans have the
[19:49] capacity to deceive to steal to hurt. So
[19:54] here's what's possible on this path on
[19:57] this path of awakening the bodhic sappa
[20:00] path. It's possible to let our fears and
[20:04] mistrusts be messengers
[20:06] to listen to create appropriate
[20:08] boundaries to protect in ways we need to
[20:11] protect and still enlarge our relating
[20:15] to seeing beyond the fault
[20:19] to the vulnerability
[20:21] and to the essence.
[20:23] This opens us to reality. People can
[20:26] evolve. It invites forward their best
[20:29] and our own.
[20:31] And I think we underestimate the power
[20:35] of imagining
[20:37] each other's potential,
[20:40] of reminding each other of goodness.
[20:43] You know, not talking about flattering,
[20:44] truly mirroring. It's like Arin Garborg
[20:48] saying to love a person is to learn the
[20:51] song that is in their heart and to sing
[20:55] it to them when they have forgotten.
[20:58] and to know people forget a lot.
[21:02] So, we're going to practice. We'll do
[21:03] our first practice. We're going to do a
[21:05] few um during this uh time together. And
[21:08] in this first one, take a moment
[21:11] wherever you are just to pause and sense
[21:14] yourself. Pause them.
[21:23] This is a practice on presence and
[21:26] imagination
[21:27] when we've been constricted by judgment.
[21:33] So feeling that pause, feeling your
[21:36] breath,
[21:37] feeling your body,
[21:46] and choose someone in your personal
[21:48] circle, people you know, someone you
[21:51] care about,
[21:53] but whose way of behaving triggers
[21:56] judgment, reactivity,
[22:01] or you can feel a distance.
[22:07] So, you're choosing someone that's not a
[22:09] um major threat where there's not big
[22:12] trauma involved, but someone where you
[22:13] just get reactive, annoyed, angry,
[22:17] resentful, and there's just been a kind
[22:19] of judgment and distance.
[22:29] and let yourself honestly connect with
[22:31] the reaction. Like you might have a time
[22:34] in mind where they triggered you
[22:40] and what you're believing about them,
[22:42] their flaws,
[22:44] how they're wrong in some way, how they
[22:47] should be different.
[22:52] And to let yourself actually feel what
[22:55] happens inside you
[22:59] when they are being the way they are.
[23:03] Just what comes up honestly.
[23:06] Anger, dislike, distaste,
[23:09] fear.
[23:10] And with whatever comes up, hold it with
[23:14] compassion.
[23:19] Give a total green light to whatever
[23:21] comes up inside you.
[23:26] Forgive the reaction. Accept it. Be kind
[23:30] towards it.
[23:37] And then deepen that kindness. So,
[23:39] you're really
[23:41] holding your own human heart with a very
[23:46] compassionate presence.
[23:49] It's okay.
[23:51] It's natural to react.
[24:00] And then from that presence then breathe
[24:03] and feel a little more space inside you
[24:06] and around you. From that presence see
[24:09] if you can look at the other with eyes
[24:11] of curiosity
[24:14] interest.
[24:17] Where does it hurt? Just imagine that
[24:20] inside them. What's it like being you?
[24:26] What are you afraid of?
[24:30] What are you wanting and not getting?
[24:40] You might imagine them not as their
[24:41] behavior but as a younger version of
[24:44] themselves and vulnerable.
[24:46] You know what's the longing? What's the
[24:48] need? Are they is the need to be seen or
[24:52] valued,
[24:55] understood, loved, safe,
[25:02] and extend your imagination. What if
[25:04] they got what they needed? Just imagine
[25:06] them getting that feeling safe, feeling
[25:09] loved, feeling seen,
[25:13] so that the layers of their reactivity
[25:16] can drop away. And just see the more
[25:18] true, free version of them when they're
[25:21] happy, peaceful,
[25:23] feeling loving and loved.
[25:26] See who they are becoming.
[25:31] You might even mentally whisper thou or
[25:35] namaste
[25:37] in some way honoring their spirit.
[25:53] And then sensing who are you when you're
[25:58] imagining this larger reality
[26:05] and what's possible in your relationship
[26:07] with this other being?
[26:09] What becomes possible.
[26:21] Just simply resting in the possibility
[26:24] of seeing
[26:25] more and more with the eyes of love.
[26:36] And as you're ready, take a few full
[26:37] breaths. And if your eyes are closed,
[26:39] open your eyes.
[26:43] So in this reflection, we were looking
[26:46] at someone in our closed circle, someone
[26:49] we already cared about. And as you can
[26:53] imagine, the more we're reactive,
[26:56] the more deep the wounding, the more the
[26:59] anger or the fear or if there's trauma,
[27:02] the more challenging it is to do this
[27:04] kind of practice to come into presence,
[27:06] to engage our imagination.
[27:09] Um, [clears throat] and that is
[27:11] collectively what's happening right now.
[27:14] Our world is unraveling and we're in a
[27:18] kind of re reactivity that it's very
[27:22] hard to see others that we consider as
[27:26] bad others where we're judging. It's
[27:29] very difficult to see past the trance to
[27:32] come into presence
[27:35] to see more deeply and fully.
[27:38] And there's good reason. We are
[27:41] definitely feeling an existential threat
[27:46] and climate disasters are multiplying.
[27:50] You know, as violence and war crimes
[27:53] continuing unchecked, humanitarian
[27:55] crisises deepening
[27:58] right before our eyes. Compassion based
[28:00] programs dismantled.
[28:02] A lot of good in the world is being
[28:04] undone.
[28:06] The US slashed foreign aid and there's
[28:08] prediction it'll be about 14 million
[28:10] deaths
[28:12] and in the United States we're
[28:14] anticipating about 16 million losing
[28:17] health insurance
[28:19] and those in power increasingly
[28:22] uh severed from the reality of human
[28:25] suffering. So there's an unraveling.
[28:29] How do we respond?
[28:32] So I'd like to share a myth that I heard
[28:36] and this I heard this through Michael me
[28:40] and it's an old native story and it
[28:42] doesn't begin with once upon a time. It
[28:44] begins with this time. That's important.
[28:46] And it says that every human is
[28:50] searching for true wisdom, love,
[28:53] awakening. And it lies right here nearby
[28:56] in a cave, but always nearby. But we
[29:00] don't find it as we're distracted by the
[29:02] rush of modern life, the trance, the
[29:05] anxiety, the reactivity, the speed of
[29:07] these times. And inside the cave, an old
[29:12] woman is weaving the most beautiful
[29:14] garment ever imagined.
[29:17] But now and then she has to pause to
[29:19] stir a pot over the fire that's at the
[29:21] back of the cave. And that pot holds all
[29:24] the seeds of the earth. And if it's left
[29:27] unirred, the seeds will burn and life
[29:29] itself will vanish. As she has to go to
[29:30] the back of the cave and stir the pot.
[29:34] But while she's away, a black dog slips
[29:37] in and unravels her weaving
[29:40] thread by thread until only chaos
[29:43] remains. So when she returns, she
[29:46] pauses, not in anger, but in stillness,
[29:50] in presence, in deep inner listening.
[29:54] Then she picks up a thread, and in that
[29:58] thread she envisions an even more
[30:01] beautiful garment. one that didn't exist
[30:05] before the unraveling.
[30:09] The elders say, "Don't curse the dog. If
[30:12] nothing fell apart, nothing new could be
[30:14] imagined."
[30:15] That the woman is the world dreaming
[30:18] force. The woman is the world's dreaming
[30:22] force itself. That in us which dreams
[30:25] new worlds into existence. The
[30:27] imagination that arises in each of us
[30:30] when we're living in presence.
[30:35] So dear friends, when things fall apart
[30:38] as they are now, it's a real dark night
[30:41] of the soul.
[30:43] It's an invitation for all of us to
[30:45] pause,
[30:47] you know, to be still, to come into
[30:49] silence and then to see what thread is
[30:53] yours to lift and to help reweave the
[30:57] world more beautiful than before.
[31:00] like the woman in the cave. If we don't
[31:02] pause, we'll be ruled by limbic
[31:05] reactivity,
[31:06] the trauma of the unraveling, the fear.
[31:09] And you know what that does? It just
[31:10] fuels more unraveling.
[31:15] Um about a week ago, I led a gathering.
[31:17] I do this once every few months for a
[31:20] group of Palestinians.
[31:22] Uh many of whom live in Israel, some are
[31:24] in other Arab countries. And there's
[31:27] much trauma. I mean many of them have
[31:30] family and friends either some who are
[31:32] in you know Gaza the devastated land
[31:35] where they're struggling for food for
[31:37] basics
[31:39] also in the West Bank where as we speak
[31:42] and you know facing military and
[31:44] settlers taking their lands and lives.
[31:47] So more than most groups I've engaged
[31:49] with who are suffering, um the
[31:51] unraveling is so huge, such a grim
[31:55] future, it's hard to imagine otherwise.
[31:58] So last week I shared the story I just
[32:02] shared with you about the woman in the
[32:04] cave. The group was totally quiet
[32:08] and then one woman spoke softly and she
[32:10] said, "That's what we're doing here."
[32:14] And she meant in this meditation
[32:15] community, you know, trying to find that
[32:18] presence
[32:20] spacious enough to hold both the grief
[32:23] and grace, you know, the imagining of a
[32:25] more loving, caring world.
[32:30] When I lose perspective,
[32:33] which can happen any time I'm reading
[32:35] the news or listening to the news, it
[32:38] helped me to look to the past to some of
[32:43] humanity's most harrowing times and just
[32:46] see that when healing and transformation
[32:48] arose, they came from present and
[32:51] imagination.
[32:53] Um I I think of when a part tide fell in
[32:57] South Africa, how the country avoided
[32:59] this horrific rash of retribute of
[33:03] violence because people dared
[33:06] to imagine the process of truth and
[33:09] reconciliation, forgiveness and healing
[33:12] to imagine that.
[33:14] And then in the American South, civil
[33:16] rights leaders like Martin Luther King
[33:18] and John Lewis and the freedom writers
[33:21] imagine love as a weapon more powerful
[33:24] than hatred that they could disrupt
[33:26] injustice through nonviolent resistance.
[33:29] A world where love alone can heal.
[33:32] And I think of Sri Lanka they had 26
[33:35] years of this devastating civil war and
[33:38] a great leader emerged at Yat and he had
[33:42] a a trust in what's called Sarvodia
[33:45] which means everyone waking up together
[33:48] that it was possible and this is a
[33:50] vision he had after 26 years of of civil
[33:53] war that the different sides could get
[33:57] together to serve the well-being of all.
[33:59] And he had a 500year
[34:01] peace plan. This is a visionary plan. It
[34:05] went beyond a lifetime
[34:07] that included rebuilding, helping each
[34:10] other rebuild their sides. He he just
[34:12] died last year. I had uh the blessing of
[34:16] meeting him online uh before his death.
[34:18] What a presence and what vision that he
[34:21] continued to hold over these decades. He
[34:24] died in his early 90s.
[34:27] And then this June after the ICE raids
[34:30] in Los Angeles, many of you have heard
[34:32] of Valerie Carr. She is uh established
[34:35] the revolutionary love movement and
[34:37] she's a a dear friend. She she placed
[34:40] flowers at the feet of military that the
[34:44] military that were guarding the
[34:45] detention center.
[34:47] And just listen to her words cuz you can
[34:49] feel the weaving of a new world. She
[34:52] says, this is what she spoke to the
[34:55] those that were there, the military. She
[34:57] says to all of you soldiers, officers,
[35:00] and agents, who do you want to be in
[35:03] this moment of history?
[35:06] How do you want the child in your life
[35:08] to remember you? Did you really take
[35:11] this job to go to war with your own
[35:13] people? What does it look like for you
[35:16] to choose courage right now? It may
[35:19] require you to make a sacrifice.
[35:22] We come here with flowers. We come here
[35:24] with flowers. And we will keep coming
[35:26] here with flowers. As long as you hold
[35:29] our people in those cages in the
[35:31] detention centers, we'll come here with
[35:33] flowers. With our ancestors at our
[35:36] backs, we'll come here with flowers,
[35:38] with love as our guide, and with the
[35:40] eyes of a sage and the heart of a word.
[35:43] We will come here with flowers. As long
[35:46] as we breathe, we will come here with
[35:48] flowers until we're all free.
[35:52] As long as you are here and they are
[35:55] there, our loved ones in this building,
[35:57] we will come here with flowers.
[36:05] So, our world is unraveling.
[36:08] That dog that's pulling the threads is
[36:11] the dog of fear. And we need to meet
[36:16] with flowers and love and action. We
[36:19] need to envision a more beautiful world.
[36:22] And um I have been guided
[36:24] [clears throat] a lot by one uh peace
[36:28] activist John Paul Letter. He's also a
[36:30] professor and author and he's known for
[36:32] his work on conflict transformation. He
[36:35] calls it moral imagination
[36:38] that together we imagine a world rooted
[36:40] in empathy, respect and
[36:42] interconnectedness
[36:44] but not just imagine that has to be
[36:46] grounded immediately in our lives. So he
[36:49] says imagine yourselves in a
[36:52] relationship with your enemy
[36:55] that this that for peace building for
[36:57] weaving a more beautiful world it
[36:59] depends on creating equality of
[37:01] relationship amongst people who don't
[37:04] think alike which was what Ariat was
[37:07] doing the Daly Lama when he refers to
[37:10] the Chinese as my friend the enemy
[37:14] and when I use the word enemy by the way
[37:17] I don't being a bad person. I mean those
[37:20] who feel like they're threatening to
[37:22] what matters to us.
[37:26] So as we know being in relationship with
[37:28] those we oppose is happening less and
[37:31] less in this world.
[37:34] You know, there's one presidential
[37:36] election where the data about
[37:38] communication between liberal and
[37:40] conservative blogs was tracked and, you
[37:43] know, for the impact of the online
[37:45] discourse. And it looked like this
[37:48] colorful omeoeba splitting. And there
[37:50] was this large chunk of blue splitting
[37:52] from an equally large chunk of red and a
[37:55] very small portion of yellow appeared to
[37:58] be the stressed connective tissue that
[38:00] had not yet lost contact with either
[38:02] color. But 91% of communication stayed
[38:06] in the community where it originated.
[38:08] People just talking with people who say
[38:11] and hear then hear and say the same
[38:13] thing. Everyone just stayed in their
[38:15] preferred hearsay.
[38:18] I mean, how can we weave a more
[38:20] beautiful world
[38:22] if we sustain these split off positions?
[38:26] I mean, you might ask yourself
[38:29] this week, how much communication stayed
[38:32] in your preferred echo chamber? And I'll
[38:35] just say for me, a lot.
[38:39] Let's let's pause here. Let's just take
[38:41] a moment for reflecting.
[38:45] And in this pause again, take a few full
[38:48] breaths,
[38:56] inviting yourself into presence.
[39:02] And you might sense what happens when
[39:05] you imagine yourself in relationship
[39:08] with your enemy. And by that I mean
[39:11] someone that's part of a group that
[39:12] feels threatening politically or
[39:15] culturally.
[39:16] So imagine someone that you know
[39:18] personally or not
[39:21] being in relationship with that person.
[39:24] Meaning talking and then talking again
[39:27] and then again
[39:30] listening listening seeking to
[39:33] understand.
[39:38] So you're in relationship not to agree,
[39:41] not to excuse but to understand, to find
[39:44] out what connection is possible. Just
[39:46] imagine that.
[39:53] See if you can imagine that relationship
[39:55] means stepping beyond judgment, beyond
[39:59] fearfueled charactures and risking
[40:02] curiosity.
[40:04] So what has shaped this person?
[40:07] Just sense what a shape this person.
[40:12] What do they long for?
[40:18] What matters to them deeply? Is it
[40:21] family, safety?
[40:25] What do they love?
[40:28] Can you imagine learning something,
[40:31] feeling some connection?
[40:42] You might sense how even this, even the
[40:46] smallest act of imaginative seeing
[40:51] becomes an act of resistance to the
[40:53] forces that divide us. An act of
[40:57] resistance to the forces that divide us.
[41:04] So we're going to explore for the
[41:05] remainder that if this imagining leads
[41:08] us to engage talking to our enemy
[41:11] working together towards collective
[41:13] well-being
[41:15] in some way serving the greater good if
[41:18] we engage it become we become part of
[41:20] what Martin Luther King called soul
[41:22] force. we begin to reweave belonging
[41:26] and I want to name that for so many in
[41:31] these times it's become really clear
[41:34] it's not easy to engage to try to be of
[41:38] help so many people have shared with me
[41:41] that the world's going to hell and I
[41:43] feel guilty and I'm not doing anything
[41:46] or I'm not doing enough and when we
[41:49] investigate together we find out it's
[41:51] not apathy it's not apathy It's
[41:54] overwhelm.
[41:55] There's just so many crisises and
[41:58] there's a sense of powerlessness. How
[41:59] can I make a difference? We're in fight,
[42:02] flight, freeze. We're in freeze in the
[42:04] face of the enormity. So then what
[42:06] happens? There's a retreat into
[42:09] distraction or cynicism or numbness.
[42:14] And when that happens, we feel separate
[42:16] and our imagination's being run by fear.
[42:19] You know what else can go wrong and will
[42:21] go wrong? And it's a trance. The dog is
[42:24] unraveled and we're reacting in a limbic
[42:27] trance.
[42:30] So for most of us
[42:33] facing this great unraveling,
[42:35] a primary part of trance and this feels
[42:38] really important I know in my life to
[42:41] keep recognizing
[42:44] a primary part of the trance is the
[42:46] story that this ego self is supposed to
[42:49] make a difference, should do more and is
[42:53] not doing enough.
[42:55] And when activists
[42:58] operate off of this notion that I'm
[43:01] supposed to make a difference, they burn
[43:03] out.
[43:05] If we right now approach this collective
[43:09] unraveling and think of it as a solo
[43:11] activity and if we're judging our
[43:12] contributions,
[43:14] they'll either be paralysis or burnout.
[43:17] And the reason
[43:19] the eye, the sense of self is too small
[43:22] to change the world.
[43:25] that there's a larger truth.
[43:28] So, here I come to one of my more
[43:30] favorite stories um about this guy who's
[43:32] lost and he drives his car into a ditch.
[43:35] Bad weather, couldn't see much. So, he
[43:38] walks to a nearby farm for help. And
[43:40] when the farmer when he asks for help,
[43:42] the farmer points to this old nearly
[43:44] blind mule named Warwick.
[43:47] Farmer says, "Warwick can get you out of
[43:48] that ditch." The man's skeptical, but
[43:51] the farmer insists. So the farmer
[43:53] hitches Warwick to the car and shouts,
[43:55] "Pull Fred, pull Jack, pull Ted, pull
[43:58] Warwick." And the mule just pulls the
[44:01] car right out of the ditch. So amazed.
[44:03] The guy says, "Why'd you call out all
[44:05] those other names before you called
[44:07] Warwick?" Farmer grins. He says, "Well,
[44:09] Warwick, he's just about blind. As long
[44:11] as he believes he's part of a team, he
[44:14] doesn't mind pulling."
[44:18] So friends, we need to know we're part
[44:21] of a team. that we're part of something
[44:23] larger,
[44:24] that we're holding hands, or else we're
[44:26] going to feel overwhelmed.
[44:29] You know, in the bodhic sappa tradition,
[44:31] um it's not the self or the ego that's
[44:34] helping. It's we're all awakening and
[44:37] working together. Everyone awakening
[44:40] together.
[44:42] And the truth is, we belong to a shared
[44:44] stream of evolving consciousness.
[44:48] You probably know that well-known quote
[44:51] from Fred Rogers. When I was a boy, I
[44:53] would see scary things in the news and
[44:55] my mother would say, "Look for the
[44:56] helpers. You'll always find people who
[44:58] are helping." We're part of that.
[45:02] It takes imagining because there's such
[45:05] a strong fix on bad players and feeling
[45:09] separate.
[45:10] So for me um I regularly reflect on and
[45:14] imagine beings from the past who care
[45:17] deeply
[45:18] helping in small and large ways. Um
[45:23] beings now all over who are caring about
[45:27] those who are most vulnerable
[45:29] or trying to help and those in the
[45:30] future our descendants our great great
[45:33] grandchildren who will be trying to
[45:35] serve our world.
[45:38] I think of that and I sense all those
[45:40] times merged. There is caring. There is
[45:42] helping. We are part of that. And when I
[45:46] can feel being part of that stream,
[45:50] it's empowering and it guides me.
[45:54] You know, many might not know that
[45:56] before Rosa Parks, there was a
[45:58] 15-year-old named Claudet Culvin and she
[46:01] refused to give up her seat on a
[46:03] segregated bus in Montgomery. And when
[46:06] she was asked why, she said she was
[46:08] thinking of the injustice done to her
[46:10] ancestors.
[46:12] She said, "I felt like Sjourer Truth was
[46:14] on one side pushing me down and Harriet
[46:17] Tubman was on the other side pushing me
[46:19] down. I couldn't get up."
[46:24] When life unravels, personal life,
[46:27] collective life, we are called to pause,
[46:30] to listen, and to imagine a larger
[46:33] belonging.
[46:35] Then we do what we can. And I I say that
[46:38] on purpose, not that we do our best,
[46:40] because that's a kind of setup for
[46:42] judgment. We just do what we can today,
[46:46] tomorrow.
[46:49] John Rodell says, "Whenever I feel
[46:52] helpless in this overwhelming world, I
[46:56] become a helper."
[46:58] Whenever I feel helpless in this
[47:01] overwhelming world, I become a helper.
[47:05] Oh, oh my love. On the days when it
[47:08] feels like I have no power, I serve
[47:11] others. You see, whenever I wash the
[47:15] world's feet, my hands immediately stop
[47:19] shaking.
[47:21] You see, whenever I wash the world's
[47:23] feet,
[47:25] my hands immediately stop shaking.
[47:32] Let's take a moment uh again to practice
[47:36] to sense what this means. You know,
[47:38] washing the world's feet,
[47:42] how we might sense a larger belonging
[47:45] that guides us.
[47:50] So you might let your eyes soften or
[47:52] close.
[47:56] Feel your breath
[48:00] and feel the ground beneath you.
[48:05] Feel this body, this moment
[48:08] held in something larger.
[48:16] You might think of all those through
[48:18] history who have cared, people well
[48:20] known, people not known at all, tried to
[48:23] help each other.
[48:28] And you might bring to mind someone in
[48:31] particular that stands out.
[48:35] a spiritual leader, an ancestor,
[48:38] a lineage bearer, someone who stands for
[48:42] love, justice, truth.
[48:45] It could be someone you know by name, or
[48:47] you might be invoking a felt sense of
[48:49] someone who's come before you,
[48:54] letting them inspire you
[48:57] that this evolving world produces such
[49:01] goodness.
[49:04] that lives through these human bodies
[49:06] and minds.
[49:09] Imagine this being standing behind you,
[49:12] quiet, steady, watching with love.
[49:17] What do they want you to remember?
[49:26] What strength or vision are they
[49:28] offering you now?
[49:37] Now imagine another presence on your
[49:40] other side. Someone from the future. A
[49:42] child not yet born. A descendant.
[49:46] A being who will one day inherit the
[49:48] world we're shaping.
[49:53] Could be a great great great grandchild
[49:56] who cares,
[49:58] who wants to help. What do they long
[50:01] for?
[50:11] What guidance are they whistling back to
[50:13] you from the time ahead?
[50:25] What is their prayer for how you might
[50:38] let yourself rest for a moment between
[50:40] these two presences, the wisdom of the
[50:42] past, the call of the future.
[50:45] Feel all those caring now. All of us
[50:49] sense yourself as a part of a sacred
[50:52] stream of awakening.
[51:01] Countless threads being woven for a more
[51:05] beautiful future.
[51:07] And from this place, ask yourself, how
[51:09] can I wash the world's feet in my own
[51:12] way?
[51:14] How can I help?
[51:20] What is love asking?
[51:23] What wants to happen through me?
[51:36] No need to solve.
[51:39] Just listen and perhaps keep listening.
[51:43] It's an ongoing unfolding inquiry.
[51:50] How can I wash the world's feet
[52:00] in these next moments, days, years,
[52:11] breathing gently. When you're ready, if
[52:13] your eyes are closed, opening your eyes
[52:16] and carrying the thread of whatever you
[52:18] have felt, envisioned, thought.
[52:30] So these two weeks friends that we've
[52:33] been exploring the power of imagination,
[52:35] we've really been looking at how
[52:38] imagination evolves us, helps us weave a
[52:41] a more beautiful world. How if we have
[52:44] vision, it calls us forward. It actually
[52:47] energizes us. I I sometimes think of a
[52:51] particular vision uh Ruby Sales offered.
[52:54] She's a a living spiritual leader who's
[52:57] been deeply inspiring to me. She's an
[52:59] African-American social activist,
[53:02] scholar, theologian. And Ruby has this
[53:05] wonderful way of describing true
[53:07] democracy, which is not inviting
[53:10] excluded people to the white table, the
[53:13] table of who's dominant now, but
[53:16] together creating a new table, one that
[53:19] honors the contributions
[53:21] and values all people, all beings
[53:25] equally.
[53:27] And oh my gosh, what a beautiful image,
[53:30] you know, holding hands with each other,
[53:32] creating that new table, a shared space
[53:34] of of true belonging, you know, beloved
[53:38] community. It's very compelling.
[53:42] We need to imagine. I'd be remiss not to
[53:45] call forth John Lennon's spirit, his
[53:48] song Imagine,
[53:50] that brings tears to so many of us
[53:53] decades later, because it gives a voice
[53:56] to something tender and true.
[53:59] We all long for a more beautiful world.
[54:02] We do. A world without borders, without
[54:05] war, without greed, a world of
[54:07] belonging.
[54:10] So just listen for a moment to these
[54:13] words. Imagine there's no heaven. It's
[54:16] easy if you try. No hell below us, above
[54:19] us, only sky.
[54:21] Imagine all the people living for today.
[54:25] Ah, imagine there's no countries. It
[54:28] isn't hard to do. Nothing to kill or die
[54:30] for. No religion to. Imagine all the
[54:34] people living life in peace. You may say
[54:38] I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one.
[54:41] I hope someday you'll join us and the
[54:43] world will be as one. Imagine no
[54:47] possessions. I wonder if you can. No
[54:50] need for greed or hunger or brotherhood
[54:52] of man. Imagine all the people sharing
[54:55] all the world. You may say, "I'm a
[54:58] dreamer, but I'm not the only one. I
[55:01] hope someday you'll join us and the
[55:04] world will live as one.
[55:11] So, as we close together, you might take
[55:13] a moment to feel into that place in you
[55:16] that longs for a more peaceful, loving
[55:19] world
[55:22] that can imagine a more beautiful world.
[55:26] As Harry Tubman put it, she says, "Every
[55:28] great dream begins with a dreamer, and
[55:32] we can dream collectively."
[55:37] So what is the vision your heart holds
[55:40] however quiet for how life could be?
[55:47] It takes a certain courage to go ahead
[55:50] and imagine.
[55:52] Imagine people safe, respected,
[55:56] imagining societies rooted in love,
[56:00] justice,
[56:02] creating that new table. All of us
[56:04] together where all belong
[56:09] dancing, singing, creating, serving
[56:12] together.
[56:15] So don't worry about how. It's the
[56:18] feeling that matters. Let that vision
[56:20] fill your body. Let it be a prayer.
[56:28] May we do what we can.
[56:31] May we find ways to wash the world's
[56:34] feet.
[56:36] May we create that more beautiful world
[56:39] together.
[56:42] Namaste friends. Blessings to each.